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see my friend she always flirts w/ this boy i like and it gets me sooooo mad am i just jealous and should i tell my friend to stop i know she does it on accident but she does it everyday! so help plz (link)
yes i think u shoudl tell her to stop becaus then she wont do it any more and ull feel better and she'll feel better knowing that shes not hurting u n e more :)


ugh ok..well theres this guy that i have liked forver, and we had or thing at one point or another and now he hates me, like...we dont even talk, and i didnt even do ne thing 2 him..ii guess he just d0sent wanna have anythiiing t0 d0 with me...but iidk...iim jsut siick 0f lo0kin in every's inf0'z and seeing.."bob..ilusm togegether 4evA" idk jsut like seeing all these copples 2 gether...knowing i dont have that, i men i havent jad a bf in fereever n idk it jsut hurts..alot..n ik every1 syas that its worth tha wait but yah it kiils...

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aww i know wat ur sayin. But being single is good too..! You can flirt and have random hookups and not have toworry about being loyal to ur boyfriend..im not bashin the idea of a bf cuz theyre great too but just try to make the most of it and get out there and have a good time wit a group of ur friends includin some guys ;) I'm sure ur ex is doin the same wit gals. hehe..hope i helped


Well i just found out my friend (D) likes me and i guess i like him to but i like his friend (F) more than i like (D). i really dont no wut to do!!!! Please HELP!! (link)
ooh thats a toughy. You should let your friened "d" know that you also like his friend so hes not completely in teh dark. And you should figure out which one u like more because u cant lead them both on...good luck :)


hey. my name's ren. well, to start off. i just started back to school, everythings going great. i'm so happy. i'm doing good, getting every accomplished. i know it's my junior year & i have to buckle down.

but theres still a part of me thats lonley and sad. all i feel like doing is sitting in my room, cry, listen to my music, cut, and read.

i'm a recovering cutter. i still every-so often cut, but.. i don't know what wrong with me.

please help. (link)
hmm, im sorry to hear you feel this way. Maybe you feel stressed because of school and other things and you feel the need to cut. Whenever you feel like you want to cut you should just do something else to let your anger out. Getting some excersise, writting down how u feel, or talkin to a friend or somene about it. Maybe a therapist could help u. Another thing is that i think that everyon feels very stressed and depressed once in awhile, ur not the only one its just that everyone chooses to handle it diferently. Everyone has their happy moments and sometimes half you is very sad, maybe talking to a therapist could help..best wishes..im here if u wanna talk.


okayy theres this guy that i like and i think he likes me cuz hes always like lets be partners and we do this card swap thing and hes like hey find the card that matches mine and switch with them so we can be together...ha i think he does but how do i know for sure..haha (link)
aW it definately soounds like he might. I don't know how hold you are..so i cant fully help you, but he could just be being flity and thinks you both are friends and wants to partners cuz of that or that might be his way of flirting with you. To find out, maybe u can drop hints to him or talk to a good friend of his to maybe find out who he likes..goood luck


me and my friend are on a diet and it doesnt seem ti be working! we have tried the fruits and veggies diet but i doesnt help at all! (link)
it's good you both are eating healthily..but you just get a good amount of excersice everday too! good luck :-)


Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
Well if you like him enough to see how things go with him you can do that or if you still have feelings for your old boyfriend you could tell him that you just came out of a relationship and you need sometime off, or to think about if you still like ur ex.


i was thinking of babysitting for people..(most likely people i dont know) with a friend of mine..this way the job is easier. Is this a good idea? Do you think i`ll be successful? How should i get perfect strangers to trust me to babysit their kids...any tips? thank you :) (link)
that;s a great idea! I think you will be very succesful because maybe parents will be more apt to trusting two mature kids becuz in case something goes wrontg there are 2 people to help. You could try putting up signs around your town/neighborhood or pamphlets in mailboxes saying a little bit of information about you and if you've taking a redcross class or a babysitting course. good luck!


Its been almost 3 years since my father died. And its just not getting any easier. I still grieve and have resentment to god for taking him. I sometimes take my anger out on my friends because i have no where to direct it, after wards i feel horrible. If anyone else has lost a parent and knows htings that helps the pain lessen that'd be helpful if you coudl share it. I know the pain won't go away but i just wish i wasn't constantly sad, crying or taking my anger out on my friends.
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hi, i lost my father too.I'm very sorry to hear about yours, and I know how u feel. It helps to write in a journal. Or maybe you could see a therapist and talk about how u feel. Or there are groups for kids/teens who have lost a loved one, maybe you could join one of those, so then you could share your feelings with people who have the same situation. Sometimes excersizing helps because you get your anger and energy help. I'm here for you any time you wanna talk.


how do u make pie
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hah, wat kind? go to a recipe site..


im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl.... (link)
Sure! If you guys get along and have a great time together age shouldnt matter unless its a huge span of years..even then..but anway definately go for it..don't worry about what people say and even if they do talk about it..it shouldnt last for long and they will move on quickly. Hope i helped :)


okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends?? (link)
it could mean he had a great time hanging out with you and wants to stay friends or he likes you and wants to maybe persue a relationship..either way its a good thing! hehe


I have almost clear skin, but I get really large zits ever so often, and i try so hard i use everything to get rid of them, i even have proactiv but sometimes it doesnt work too well. Is there anything, (ive tried the clean and clear stuff in the silver bottle) that works good for getting rid of somthing that big before it takes over my facee!!!=(


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Ive acutally heard that johnson and johnson baby shampoo works lol..maybe u can try that? or go on some sites researching good cream or wash. I worship stridex, and mudmasks once in awhile are great!


What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples. (link)
hmm...Maybe you can tell her you have to get to some homeork or a chore..Or if your on your cell phone that you only have a certain number of minutes..good luck!


I really like this guy,

but he likes my friend... i told him like 100 times i liked him but he dont care.. he just keeps on focusing on my friend you see..

he wont even spend time with me like hang out and get 2 know each other more.. than how he started liking my friend in the first place.. what do i do! i like him so much! i cant stop liking him or thinking about him (link)
well, i think he should be more open to hanging out with you just to get to know you. It is tough wen the guy you really like, likes your friend but...maybe you should try and focus on another guy in the meanwhile beacuse it seems like this guy is really into yor friend and you wouldnt want to ruin a relatioship just over a guy. He knows you like him, but try and give him some space and focus on some other guys..hope i helped!


ok, well i just told this guy that i don't want to date him for a while cuz i want to be alone, and he kinda took it the wrong way and i don't know what to do about it, cuz he acts like he doesn't even want to be my friend anymore, and then the guy who i really want to be with, well i dunno if he likes me or not, it really sucks how i feel!! what should i do? please help me! (link)
hmm. this happened to me one time too...I think that he is just upset beause he probably really liked you a lot and is sad because you don't want to go out with him. Leeave him alone for a few days and if he is still acting like he doesn't want to be your friend any more, confront him and tell him you hope that still wants to continue the friendship even though you wouldn't want to go out with him right now and that mabe you guys could take it to another level if your feelings change (if u do feel that way) and as for the guy you do like..you'll just have to see how things go with him and see the vibes hes giving you. If you're really daring and you feel like you want to you can ask him wat his feelings are about u. hope i helped!


what do i do when my mom says i trust you i just dont trust the world im almost 16 and cant ride around with friends or go anywere. i m not the kind of kid that gets into truble so i dont see the prob what can i say to her to get her to understand?

please help (link)
Tell her that she should let u be independent because she has to let you go out alone sometime, why not start now? Tell her that you can make desicions for yourself and that sometime she will have to let you into the world to defend for yourself.


my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him? (link)
no that wouldnt be a good idea i don't think. You should call him and leave message saying that you want to talk about him something. If he doesn't return your message try to catch him online or something..and tell him that you need to talk and to stop avoiding you.


yo biotch. waT eXaCtly iz a sit up? i neva undast00d wat a sit up iz..homie..

much l0ve
~i Dont wear ANY of my Clothes (link)
well, no. because i cant find. i dont know i canr wear i dont see ANY of my clothes. So in conclusion i concur and a situp is dictionary:Sitting up.so there.


Im not very sure if barney is real. i think he awwsome n i just cant imagine waking up n not being able tow atch him on tv. SO is a real purple dinosour or is he fake. please don say he si fake beacseu i believe in him n i lvoe n i wouldnt trade him in for ne thing in the world
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well, i do believe i knowo who u are. And i am sorry to burst your bubble-or rather "bamboozle" over it, but sorry your purple buddy is a man in a costume or rather a dionsaur from a land before time. If you wish to contact this man you should get some juice juice, hold a sign up and awatch the olympics. But if you still believe in this creature, then i'm sorry you can't any longer..good luck!




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