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Hello! My name is Paige. I have been through plenty of experiences, so i think i give good advice. You can ask me anything from family stuff to sex. If i dont know the answer to something, i will try my hardest to find the information. I will NEVER reject questions people leave in my inbox, in fact i LOVE getting them! IF YOU SEND ME AN INBOX MESSAGE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR EMAIL IF YOU ARE AN UNREGISTERED USER! I wont sugar coat anything, i will be straight forward and truthful with you.

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whats the difference between phone sex oral sex and normal? please help i am soo confused

Phone sex: is over the phone where people day dirty things to each other and are touching themselves.

Oral sex:Is where you give head to a guy [sucking his penis]

ALSO: can be when youre eating a girl out.

Normal sex: is when a penis enters the vagina and the penis goes in and out. Usually done when couples are in love. Hense makinglove.

If yu have any questions drop it in my inbox

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i need a way to cope with stress i have no one to talk to know one gets me im emo and im 14 female and all alone i'm a cutter and i hate myself and it seems like im the only one thats like this because everyones so preppy help also i get depressed alot

I would be happy to talk to you.

AIM-myexquisitesn

OR you can drop something in my inbox.

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My girlfriend's birthday is comming up. I'd like to get her a book that she would like, she reads a lot. She likes to read novels, the mushy love story kind. Does anyone recommend any that they have actually read? I'm not too great when it comes to this. Or should I just ask her which one she would like? I did want it to be a surprise, but if that's the best way to go about it, I'll try it.

The notebook

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What do I do if my friend's boyfriend is starting to get physically abusive towards her? Like he always "play" hits her but he goes out of control and keeps "playing" even though she's saying stop. The other day she told me he hit her for real. She barely did anything and he hit her on her face and arm. I personally want to kill him. But what can I tell her? Because she really loves him. That's why she has stayed with him that long. Everytime she calls me she always has something to say about something that he did and tonight when she called me it really made me sad/mad for her. So someone please give me some tips on what to say to her or do for her... Thanks =/

All you can do is tell her how you feel about the situation and tell her how youre worried about her. But, thats ALL. Once you tell her and if she doesnt agree with it, just forget about it and be ready to listen to her the next time it happens.

Whatever you do, make sure youre their for her.

I was in the same exact position

Good luck

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I just met a guy through his mom who is actually a pretty good friend of mine, we've hung out twice and both times we seemed to get along great. But He says he is going to stop by or call me when he gets home and never does. my mom says it's because he's shy and really wants to hang out but cant get the nerve to do it, I just think he is trying to avoid me PLEASE someone give me their opinion.

It could be anything. Why dont you call him or stop by. It would clear things up a bit.


If i knew what he was like it would be easier.


Good luck

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hey i know this is a really weird question but i just got over a small yeast infection and i have these little red bumps on my vagina and its still kind of red down there...idk what to do is it part of the infection or what?!! help! i try to wash really well down there!!!

It could be. Or maybe youre irratated. If it doesnt go away soon i would ask a doctor or youre mom. Also, try monestat


Good luck

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I know that this question might of been asked before but I was wondering where I could download a free trial of Photoshop. I've been on download.com and google but somehow I always ended up with one I had to pay. Any help?

& before I asked this question, I searched to see if there were similar questions that could help, but I didn't find anything helpful really.

Thank you.

On download.com it says you have to pay but you can get a free trail for like 30 days. And i did that and my 30 days were up and it asked me if i wanted more days. and i just keep doing that

Good luck


http://www.download.com/Paint-Shop-Pro/3000-2192_4-10434071.html?tag=lst-0-5

I have that one

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ok me and my boy friend have been dating foe like 3 months if u add it..we dated 2 times.....he fingers me alot and i like realy like it..duh hahahaha....but if you can use three fingers withough it not hurting then will it when i have sex? should i have sex or will he leave me? he says to me he wants me to be happy and he wants to spend the rest of my life with him and stuff and hese even waiting until im ready till we have sex but if i did have sex with him would he leave me? i need help if you have any advice please help thanxz(p.s.) he has already had sex

~trisha~

Welp. It all depends on how big his penis is. IF you do it make sure you RELAX! do not tense up at all. Use a lot of lube too.

And 3 months? Thats not really a long time. I wouldnt do it if i was you because there is a HUGE chance that he will leave you.Does it run in his history? Have you talked to the girls he has dated? They might be able to give you some info.

But, if you are ready then do it. DO NOT LET ANYONE ELSE DECIDED BUY YOURSELF!

and good luck

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Lately, I have been having really bad food cravings. Im not fat, 110 pounds, but I think that if I keep eating, I will be fat. I was wondering if there is a good way to kick the cravings. Thanks!

Chew gum. It always works for me

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My college has quarters, and they're about 2 and a half months long each. There are 4 per year. Is that the same thing as a semester?

a semester is 2 quarters =]

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Ok I tried to do what ya'll said!!! but when i tried it hurt really badly!!!becuase we were ready but then finally when we started to do it!!! I just had to stop!!!OMG do ya'll think that his "penis" is just to big for me? because that is what I am starting to think!!! I've tried everything!!! plz help me!!!

Have him finger you for a while. And also LUBE LUBE LUBE! you have/should use plenty of lube.

If that still doesnt work, try going on top and you can put it in by yourself and if you need to stop you can stop it as well.


Good luck

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whos gay?

You

you need to eat healthy to lose weight. der.


Thats stupid people for ya

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well, theres this girl. she is in my piano class, i think that by having small talk every class i could get closer and closer to the point where we're friends

am i doing the right thing? if not tell up please =D

yep thats right.

Uhm,you have to get her to trust you. So, tell her secrets or something. Make her feel special


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Well my dad is always blaming everything on me my mom is ignoring me all da tyme my brother is always putting me down and my lil sisters r always in my way and yeah i always ask myself if its worth living because i cry myself 2 sleep and i dont know wut i should do! pllzz help and dont say 2 talk 2 dem because it dosent work!so wut should i do??

Uhm. well i would say keep trying to talk to them. But, in the meantime maybe you can just hang out with youre friends for a while so youre not in the house? Or you can just stay at youre friends for awhile and its summer so its not like you dont have school.

This will show everyone that youre getting sick of what they are all doing.

Hope i helped.

Good luck

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i was reading your page and you said you liked answering questions so i thought id ask one for you =]

i asked about shaving below and you said to do the landing strip but i was wondering if that was the best thing to do.. like is that what most boys prefer? or do they rather have no hair? from your experience what would you say is most " liked "

thanks !

Well honestly. The landing strip is what they do prefer. The reason is this: When you mess around with a guy they dont want no hair because its like youre a little kid, but then again they dont want it natural it will be all wild and hairy and crazy and its just not a turn on.

A landing strip is perfect, its not like a little kid with no hair and its not wild and crazy.

I honestly believe [from experiences and just my guy friends] that the landing strip is more prefered =]


Good luck

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Hey. I was looking at someone else's question about shaving "down there" and I was wondering about shaving. A few questions like do guys expect hair or no hair? If you are a guy what do you think/ would want?
Thanks.

Its really up to you. But since youre comfy with anything. I would say do the landing strip.

Its perfect cuz you wont look like a little kid and you wont be all wild. lol

Guys like landing strip the best, believe me.

and as for the guys they should be glad theyre even messing around with you ;]


Good luck

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14/f
all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice !

I have tried it. I mean it can cause A LOT of problems. Its basciallyy not even worth it. But, dont do anything youre not ready for

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im not sure weather or not to shave below .. i know ill be doing something soon becuase im kidna getting close to this boy and everytime we see each other we make out but it never got any further. but i think hes going to be going down or something and i wanna be ready .. and i dont know if i should shave all of it off.. help please ... rating

Its really up to you. But since youre comfy with anything. I would say do the landing strip.

Its perfect cuz you wont look like a little kid and you wont be all wild. lol

and as for the guys they should be glad theyre even messing around with you ;]



EDIT:yes its what a highschooler would do

Good luck

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I'm 13, and I'm a Full 36B.
[My left boob is actually like a C, while my right is still a B]

People tell me my boobs are big, but, they don't seem that big on me. I'm an average weight girl, there are girls at our school that are bigger, but I feel like people always stare at my chest. What is the size most girls my age are at? Thanks!

It is all different. But i would say about a B.

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im going into highschool and i need help weather or not to shave all my hair down below.. please help !

Its really up to you. But since youre comfy with anything. I would say do the landing strip.

Its perfect cuz you wont look like a little kid and you wont be all wild. lol


Good luck

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