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ok me and my boy friend have been dating foe like 3 months if u add it..we dated 2 times.....he fingers me alot and i like realy like it..duh hahahaha....but if you can use three fingers withough it not hurting then will it when i have sex? should i have sex or will he leave me? he says to me he wants me to be happy and he wants to spend the rest of my life with him and stuff and hese even waiting until im ready till we have sex but if i did have sex with him would he leave me? i need help if you have any advice please help thanxz(p.s.) he has already had sex
~trisha~
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Your vagina is a brilliant piece of nature in that it can stretch to allow a babys head to pass through it, so in order to answer your first question, no it will not hurt if you are relaxed and ready.
However, I really think that you should wait until you are more settled in your relationship and have learnt a lot more about his character before having sex.
As for whether or not he will leave you after having sex, no one can really tell you the answer.
If he is a love 'em and leave 'em kind of guy, then yes once he has had his way with you then he will go on to another conquest.
If he is genuine about being with you then he will consider your feelings and not rush you into anything you don't want to do.
If you trust him, and you are ready for it, go ahead and enjoy your first sexual intercourse. However, just a cautionary note, please use a condom at all times.
All the very best.
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Welp. It all depends on how big his penis is. IF you do it make sure you RELAX! do not tense up at all. Use a lot of lube too.
And 3 months? Thats not really a long time. I wouldnt do it if i was you because there is a HUGE chance that he will leave you.Does it run in his history? Have you talked to the girls he has dated? They might be able to give you some info.
But, if you are ready then do it. DO NOT LET ANYONE ELSE DECIDED BUY YOURSELF!
and good luck
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