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hey! im a 15 year old girl and everytime I laugh real hard I pee in my pants..does anyone knoe some way to treat this so I can stop being embarrassed? DO you think I have an overactive bladder or something?! (link)
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Hmm
maybe you are holding your bladder in for too long? try going to the bathroom more frequently and if it still happens, ask a doctor about it.
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I am really sorry this ? is odd and what not, really i am...What does it mean for a guy to "pop a girls cherry" and how can this happen? (link)
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A girls cherry is usually popped when she has sex for the first time. Guys "pop" virgins "cherrys" is what it means. if you're a virgin and you have never had sex you still have a "cherry" so when you have sex for the first time you will bleed a little so they call it "popping your cherry".
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ok so i just started using tampons and like when i put on in it feels like it falling out does that mean its not in all the way or is that just how it feels??
plz help ill rate high to anything thats not ignorant (link)
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it isnt in all the way!
put it in as far as it goes until the only thing showing is the string.
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Okay- so my boyfriend is going to Florida for 14 days and he's flying. He's really scared and I wanted to write him a letter for the airplane ride up there. I don't know what to put in it! Please give me just a few ideas. Thanks --- I rate HIGH! And give feedback if you want it! (link)
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tell him how much you love him ( if you do) and tell him you hope he has a wonderful time, and that you'll be thinking of him..and I can't really tell you exactly what to put because I don't know how you feel about him. But it should all come from your heart so just tell him what you want him to hear! =D
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When i was younger my dad used to beat me with anything and yes sometimes i deserved and sometimes i never anyway. Now if anyone talks about there dad or people hiting people i get all red and i panic and i just want to be out of that conversation but i dont want people knowing or wondering why i get like this so how could i change. anyone help please (link)
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Well if your father has STOPPED beating you than you should forget about it and not let it bother you since it isnt currently occurring, and get on with your life. but if it is continuously happening, you need to tell someone about it (such as a friends parent or the police) and get help immediately.
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ok so heres the thing: im WAY too quiet, shy, and boring and its stopping me from meeting new people!! like whenever someone talks to me, they say something like hey and im like hi, then... *awkward silence* so then there like whats up an im like um,, nothing. *awkward silence*. like just today i met this really nice girl at the town pool ( not like i LIKED her as in crush, cause im a girl too) and she talked to me then there was awkward silence!! what can i do to have fun and comfortbale with people!! (link)
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You need to open up a little more and ask questions when meeting new people such as "So what do you like to do for fun?" "do you have any brothers or sisters?" "how long have you lived here for?" questions like that, that will help you get to know eachother more. theres nothing to be afraid of! just be a little more outgoing and open =D
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i was goin out with a guy that i liked but when i met his friend i got atrackted and he was to but my ex-boy friend would always beat up his friend if he hit on me and my ex was to cudly for me. so i broke up with him but now i like his friend. should i go for his friend becouse im afraid he'll get beat up
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That one is really tough.
But I say you should do whatever your heart desires and so should the friend. It isnt your fault you're attracted to him but maybe you should keep it on the low for a little while until your ex gets over you..just to be safe =D
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well i want to go to the movies with a friend of mine, but its a girl. how do i ask a girl to go somewhere (without having a group)without it sounding like a date? (link)
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Well you can tell her "Would you like to go to the movies with me just as friends?" its simple as that =D
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my father has alway been picking on me ever since i was small.. he denys he hits me. but aftr he does he says ssorry. i mean.. if he`s really that sorry why`d he do it. My friend is coming down from the states into canada for 2 weeks. She knows about him and stuff. just hopefully he doesnt do anyhting stupid. i ant her to have a good time here. any advise on how i can just calm down and think positive. i took walks. but im still paranoid. maybe this is just a fear right? o well thanks anywayz (link)
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If he is seriously abusing you in anyway contact the police immediately. Hitting your child is a serious crime and if he does it so often as to scare you like this that isnt right. Tell him if he doesn't stop hitting you, you WILL tell someone about it.
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I am 16 years old and have this wanting of sex...My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 3 months now...We have talked about it and both really want to do it. ... But were scared of gettin pregnant...and scared that our parents will find out and we want be able to date each other any more..what do we do?
Signed, Wanting (link)
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Use protection/get on the pill.
as far as the you're scared your parents will find out..only do it when you know they arent home or where no one else is around =D
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Im sorry its quite long but i really really do need help! I know its kinda bribing but I will give you 5 if its any reasonable answer! lol!
I have a friend, lets call her Hobbit because she is very short. Now she is, not that im being mean, rather unatractive but quite a nice person. She met this guy on the internet, we will call him Ent because he is very very tall.
Ent and Hobbit got together when he asked her out about a week or 2 after they started talking. He is 21 and she is 17. Quite a lot of her friends didnt like the idea of this so she told them she had dumped him but was actually still going out with him. I didnt really like the sound of it but i knew someone would have to stay on her good books to help her if things went pair shaped. Anyway, she met up with him for the first time last saturday and I came too because i wouldnt let her go on her own because he had been sounding more and more freaky by the day. When i met him though i thought yeh maybe he is alright, but i have discovered recently just how tempremental, slightly peverted and freaky he really is, oh and he also likes to mess with peoples minds for fun.
How can I convince someone who thinks the world of him, who falls for anyone who comes her way, that he is bad news and that i am scared for her, i have tried explaing to her but it just wont get through and im really really worried for her. (link)
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Whoah thats pretty scary =\
I would def. point out main reasons you don't like him to her and ask her "you're really okay with him ____ (doing whatever he does)?" if she still says yes, you tried to warn her and do everything you can. You could contact an adult and let them know such as her parent or your parent but she might get mad. But if you are concerned and you think she is in danger def. tell someone!!
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Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
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She sounds like a real bitch.
you befriended her when she didn't have anyone and now shes backstabbing you? Tell her shes a bitch and to fuck off. And if your other friends are TRUE friends they will realize that she was the bitch and come back to you. If they don't I'm sure you will make new friends when school comes around, just give it time =D
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There is this boy I really like..He is 2 years older than me...this guy has been known for doing things with other girls .....but I don't think some of it is true....Lately he has talked to me and acted like he liked me so i guess you can say he has flirted with me........but there are 2 people standin in the way ....1)his girlfriend Chrystal 2) His ex-gf and my best friend Bethany......i don't think his relationship with Crystal will last long so ......If they break up should I try to go with him or should I wait on him to ask me??
Signed,,, TrueHope10 (link)
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Well if he's flirting with you while he has a girlfriend what makes you think he won't flirt with other girls when you're together? He doesn't sound like boyfriend material to me..you should listen to your best friend to, she is probably looking out for you, and from what I can tell she sounds right! ♥
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hey therr. ok heres my problem . in july im going to universal studios for 5 days and i invited my friend to go with me. i bought her a ticket n evrything and her ticket was like$120 . well i just called her and she tells me she cant go anymore because her little sister found out and got mad because she wanted her to go to keywest with her. so she completly bailed on me and its most likely i'll never see her again either because shes trying to move back in with her mom and shes not going to the same school i was at anymore. can anyone give me advice on what I should do now. Ive tried inviting other friends but my mom hates most of my friends andthe ones she does like are busy doing something else or im not that good of friends with them to take with me for 5 days. i need help...fast.
thanx
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Maybe you could ask a family member you're close with like a cousin you like? Or ask your mom if its okay you bring a friend she doesn't like very much just so you will have someone to have fun with! hmm this one is tricky =\ hope i helped ya
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MY ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he said he wanted to be alone and needed to "grow up" some. I understand but he wants to be friends, he left me with this and said that he wasnt in any attempt to get my hopes up that he meant this " you are my first love and i want you to be my last" How would you interpret it? (link)
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It sounds like he either wants a little break apart from you for a little while and plans on going back to you in the future to stay together! or that he doesn't want to fall in love anymore he just wants to date around with you being his first and last love? hopefully its that you two will end up together. best of luck to you! ♥
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Alright so there is this guy. And I went out with him once already but it ended after a short time. It was probably the best few days of my life, though. He was so sweet and funny and we had everything in common. I couldn't have asked for anything else. When we broke up i was super sad. And this was like a while ago! I still can't stop thinking about him. It makes me crazy.
I still talk to him, but barely. I knew, even when I went out with him, that he's the kinna guy why goes from girl to girl to girl after only weeks. And even though he's like that, I feel like we're perfect for eachother but he doesn't know it. I don't think I would feel this way if I didn't think we should be together.
The thing is, right now he likes my friend, and i don't even know if he thinks of me at all. It really hurts. I know I shouldn't be so crazy about a guy like this... but I guess i'm "stuck" over him. It's like he's the only thing that would make me truly happy. And I feel like if i try to tell him i'll look like a complete idiot. We already broke up once, I mean, he'd think I was crazy. I just... need him. Man...
I'm sooo stuck on this one. Please help.
Thank you. (link)
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He sounds like a man whore.
you don't need guys like this in your life.
I know it hurts but I don't think you should go back to him. Maybe flirt with his friend a little to make him jealous..or tell him you really like another guy and tell him all about it! those kind of things will probably drive him crazy! But what could happen if you go back with him is, he could pressure you into sex, and you could do it, and then he could break up with you again. then you'll feel 10 x more crushed! especially if you were a virgin. Well hope i helped out! you'll find a boy who appreciates you =D
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do yall know who sings the song that goes
where is your boy tonight i hope he is a gentalman
maybe he wont find out what i know
you were that last good thing about this part of town
thanks!
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artist = fall out boy =D
song title = grand theft autumn.
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I have liked this gut since i was 10 years old and now i'm 14. He liked me too at some point..I'm not sure about now. We are on two totally different popularity levels at school. And i really like and if we go out, how would we without there being an issue and without both of us looking really bad.
~Confused (link)
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Ask him if he is still interested in you!
That popularity thing is stupid! Because if you two really fall in love and end up staying together throughout highschool, collage will be different and when you're married its about just you two, and you forget about everyone from highschool! don't worry about what you look like to other people =D
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Can you fall in love with someone even though you hardly know them?? I've liked this kid for like 4 years..and i hardly know him.
~I'm not sure (link)
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aww yes =D
that would be love at first site!
you should get to know him though to find out who he really is, then see if you still love him! ♥
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Online I was talking to a close friend of mine about guys. He said theres alot of guys who would like to date me except they see me more of a friend than someone to go out with. I drop hints to the guys I like but they just dont get it it since their clueless lol. What could I do to make myself seem datable but not act like a slut at the same time? thanks , I'll rate. (link)
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Maybe you're acting too much like "one of the guys" or maybe you dress a little tom-boyish? which there is nothing wrong with but if you want to catch their attention, dress a little more girly, maybe do your hair and some makeup.. and flirt =D if that doesn't give them a hint i dont know what will! ♥
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