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Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers. (link)
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hahaha :) hmm gurly i think thats his way of flirting...like guys, play round and say "oh go ahead fine, dont talk dont say anything" lol i do that sometimes 2 just playin round...flirting and stuff...so he defenetly likes u...and he's prolly trying to break the ice...so u both could feel more confortable to talk face to face...just flirt wit him bak and stuff i dunno but i bet he likes u...xoxo effy
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17/f what r some ways 2 keep ur face from turning red? (link)
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hahahahah lol i've the same problem...lol i dont think there's a way to stop that, that just comes naturally, hmm just b more confident i guess...hmm make up works 2...i dunno any other ways...i just dont think bout shit 2 much no more..so i dont get so shy now! lmao xoxo effy
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i like someone and i do everything i know to get his attention. i flirt and wear cute outfits and try to stand out in the classes i have with him. what am i doing wrong? what else can i do? (link)
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quit trying so hard...just go tell him how you feel! and see what happens...if he likes u congrats...if not then move on...find another guy u could mess wit :) xoxo effy
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how does a man get a full sex thing but not u ? and how do men and women masterbate? please answer back asap (link)
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hi, how do women and men masterbate? hmmm well, there are lots of ways a women can masterbate...some, play with their clit till they get full pleasure, some finger themselves, some use a dildo...some use pillows...and lots n lots of weird ways...guys...i dont really know..i know only one way and i guess thats the only way...lmao they beat it off...they start slow...and they increase the speed depending on how horney they are...usually they increase the speed when they're about to cum. hmmm i cant answer the first question sorry! hope i helped xoxo effy
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out? (link)
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hmmmm, listen i've had that experience already with one guy. if you want more then makin out with him then you should let him know. because if he doesnt want the same thing...then why bother and get hurt in the end?!?! there are guys that just wanna hook up here and there and take nothing seriously, or they just not ready for relationship, so i think you should have a lil chit-chat wit him, and tell him how you feel see what he thinks and then do what your heart tells you too...hope i helped...xoxo effy
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Hey
It's me Kemo D. I miss you... how u doin? what happend? I hope u are fine...
much love
kemo d.
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hi, sorry i just got my internet back something was messed up in it...so i just fixed it..i'll write u an e-mail soon...xoxo
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I want my boyfriend to kiss me first. But I think he wants me to kiss him first. And I dunno what to do. His best friend keeps telling me to give him a kiss, but I kinda wanna wait til he kisses me! I am really confused about it tho lol. I might just give him a kiss tomorrow and see what happens. What do you guys think I should do? If it helps I'm 13 (link)
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its better if he kisses you first or at least meet you half way...but either way...you kno whatever happens even if you kiss him first is not such a big deal...there are some guys that prefear the girls to be takin over this stuff...or prefear the girls to make the first move...lol they might be either shy or that's how they are...so i guess since he's your b/f do what you got to do :) xoxo effy
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I have this friend. he is really nice and all but he really is a big show off only, I don't think he knows that he is. Every time he starts to show off I try to tell him what he is doing, but he never listens. He can be really rude sometimes and I don't know how to tell him he is being a show off and have him listen. Help me out if you can! (link)
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hahahahha i've a friend that's exactly like that...he loves to show off...and he thinks he is the hottest...just let him kno what you think...thats what i did with my freind...i told him that this and that...and he understood me pretty good...the problem is that he didnt really listen lol...but at least now he knows how he acts...i dont think they can change that from one day to another...i guess it takes time...so let your friend know what you think...and what other people would think if he does those stuff..and i guess wit time hopefully he'll change! xoxox effy
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All of my freinds and even people that arent my freinds are convinced that I'm rich and spoiled. I am defeintly not rich but my family has money. Every time I go shopping, or get somthing new they call me spoiled or rich. Its really annoying and they say it in a mean way and they wont stop. How can i get them to stop saying that? (link)
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dont worry about that...in my opinion they defenetly hating...on what they cant reach, ur propably very pretty and you propably have style...so when you buy something nice, it fits you right so they hate on what thay cant get,or w/e...so they start talkin shit...dont really pay attention to that...whenever they say that...just be like "u got that right" because when you get upset or pissed or annoyed...they do it more and more...to get to you...but when you act like you dont give a fuck then they'll stop! xoxo effy
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what is a hicky exactly? I mean all I know is it's like, well I dunno! lol I mea n, I know it like leaves a bruise, but I don't know what it is...
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when someone sucks on u...and the blood gets all in one place..so it becomes reddish...dark reddish color...the time when it goes off it depends on how big the hicky is...to help takin it off...put a lil ice and the bak of the spoon helps...to get if off sooner!...xoxo effy!
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hi just wanted to let you know you are beautiful (im not a lesbo) just a girl that can admit when another girl is pretty. Anyway..i noticed you have a very fit and sculpted body.What do you do to maintain your stomach? Basicaly..i want a stomach like you..and i wanna know what you do to get like that? like crunches..or what? please tell me EXACTLY how u do it..thanks
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hi, thanks!you just made my day hahahah :) anyways i'm sure your not a lesbo or anything like that ;) so anyways...hmmm well, i use to be chubby back when i started going to highschool so...what happend is i had personal fitness and i had to run 1 mile 3 dayz a week...that helped me a lot...because running moves all ur mucles and helps you loose a lot of weight...then when i lost enough weight...hmm sometimes i would just do crunches and whatever came up my mind.for like 10 min everyday..sometimes i would make up weird stuff that i cant really explain here...kick boxing will help...get a video tape and just fallow the steps they do..i stoped working out after i got to the point where i wanted to be..but thats not healthy..so i started working out again to keep my self fit...i go at the gym now 3 dayz a week and do everything thats in there...hope i helped! xoxo effy
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To the most amazing, beautiful, important person in my life I caused such pain because of my insecurities. Fact is that I Love her with all my heart. I want to know what it takes, what sacrifice i have to make, what i have to do to heal. at the moment i was so blinded by my own feelings that i thought of nothing bout me without knowing what i was doing and what pain i would cause. help me please... (link)
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hi, i'm sorry i will put no comments to this! we'll talk later! xoxo effy
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Hey
Thanx for clearing things up. I feel much better (^_^) I have another question.: How many past romantic partners is too many for a guy you'd want to date?
A.) more than one
B.) more than 5
C.) more than 10
love,
kemo d.
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i dunno it doesnt really matter...it does but it doesnt...i really cant think of anything right now...in this period of my life i'm very down and depressed...i'm not having the best time in my life so....i'm sorry i cant answer that rite now...but when i'll b bak in the normal me...i'll answer! peace
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Sup...
It's me Kemo. Now, let me get this str8. When you answerd the question below, You said: "guys dont think with their brains they think with their d**k, its the way they are..." Well.. I think that's not true.. What made you think that way?? yeah, i know most guys are lying and b/s-ing.. but I'm not one of them. I am a very honest and nice person. I care about a lot of things. I just want to let you know that I'm not one of these guys. However.. if you think i'm wrong, then ask anything u want.. so we can talk about this subject.
kemo d.
column: forever23young
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lol...i said most of the guys....its a high persentage that they dont think with their brains...there's a lot of cases...and there are some guys that are nice and caring and all that stuff...i didnt say that YOU are one of those guys ;) so relax...i kno theres guys who are nice caring, honest and all that but they are hard to find! its a low persentage of that kind! if you know what i mean :) xoxo effy
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hey it's me again, but like the thing is, his friends know's how he feels. they alwayz talk bout girls like who they like, and what's goin on. It seems like when he goies out with me, he show the real him, he act's normal, he doesn't change his personality or act differ. what i meant by i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy, is like doin things. He's my first real love and wutnot and vise-versa. But thanx for trying and i do know what u mean. it's just really complicating, andi can't stand to look at him without having that image of him and that girl. or look him in the eyes without having tears..u know? i just wnat to do sutitn to get my mind off of him. thanx a bunch for replying tho. (link)
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hi, i relly understand you and if you cant see him the same way...you should try to forget about him...go out with friends...meet new people...always have something to do...keep your self bussy so you wont think of him as much...when you meet new people and meet new guys...you wont think of him as much..(hopefullY) just try to live ur life to the fullest dont think 2 much cuz life is 2 short ;) xoxo effy
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well my ex boyfriend and me were off and on, and, we recently broke up(prolly 3-4 weeks ago) He says i'm the only girl he can trust and i'm easy to talk to, and i'm his closest friend other then his bis bff*D*, and his cuzint *J*! He says i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy. That'll never change. I honestly believed it. But yesterday, i went to my friends house, which is his friends too. Well i went over there, and i didn't know if he knew i was comming over but, Zach((our friend,the person house we went to)) was like yea *B* and *DC* and*JAY* are upstairs with these two other chix, so i went up there thinking nuttins wrong, but when i walked in, *DC* was under the blankets with some chik, and muh ex*B* was in bed, under the blankets with another girl. Zach said it was like a make-out party up there. my question is, why is he doing this to me? after he said all those "crap" to me. Oh also, he said he couldn't get over me,dat's why he broke up with this junior he dated(they went out for like 2 weeks) he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. Also a bunch of ppl at our school thought we were going to be High School Sweethearts. but after this i'm really confused. What is he trying to prove? Does he hate me now? why did he kiss her in front of me? Thanx so much in advance, and i'm SOOO sorry this is so long.
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hi, wow, i'm really sorry about what is happining to you right now...i totally understand the feelings...but let me get this streight, you guys were eachothers first boyfriend and girlfriend...and you guys been going on and off...and then you guys broke up 3-4 weeks before the party, right? and you said he told you he loves you and he cant get over you and so on,right? and then you go to the party and you see him with another girl....under blankets....well, my opinion is,that he might love you and cant get over you and since you guys broken up he is tryin to get over you by tryin to find another girl...or guys say alot of bullshit to get what they want....so...he might b b/s-ing u!just think of it this way, guys dont think with their brains they think with their d**k, its the way they are...or, he might just do this cuz he doesnt want to look soft in his friends eyes...you kno how guys are...if they say they love a girl and w/e...their friends will b like "dude, you sound so gay" you kno what i mean...i'm sure ur confused right now and its a horrible feeling and i totally understand...but try to think things through...and talk to him about it...:) things will b ok no worrys...i'm sure...best luck xoxo effy!
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I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do? (link)
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no trust,no relationship...if you cant trust him it will get worst and worst...the best think you can do (i think) is talk to him and tell him what you feel...and how you feel about the whole situation...if you doubt him then...i'm sorry but if i was you i would dumbp him! xoxo effy
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Sup effy
What have you been up to lately?
My question is: Do you have an Idol in your life?
P.S.: I signed ur guestbook on the picturetrail.com site.
love,
kemo d.
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hey,
i'vent been doing much...just chilling, and hanging out...school started its my last yr so i'll be a lil bussy...but thats bout it!
hmmm if i have an idol in my life? hmmm i dunno i guess pretty much everyone has an idol in their life...i'm sure i've one but i cant think of any :-P...
P.S. thanks for signing my guestbook :)...
xoxo effy
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I don't mind when guys grab my butt or touch me like that. I also made out with a guy I didn't know very well. Does this make me a slut?
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not minding guys grabing u in parts of body that they shouldnt...hmmm i'm sorry but....that kinda makes you sluty...hookin up wit a guy that you dont kno that well its ight...you can always get to kno him better and that can lead in to a serious relationship...or in to a good friendship...xoxo effy
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Sup
Yeah! Me too, I think it's a beautiful picture! How old were u in that pic.?
love,
kemo d.
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this pic is the oldest one i've so far ;) this was on august or something ;)...17 yrs old xoxo effy
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