hey! i'm a texas girl who's here to help people out. i love to dance (but i'm not very good) and i know a lot about nutrition and health. (mostly from watching oprah and my mom, but everything i've learned i've tried, and it all works!) if i answer a question mean or sarcasticly, it's because the person is either an idiot, or someone who deserves to be treated that way. i'm really not a mean person.
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ok ive never made out before and my friend just got on the phone with me and shes like yeah the kid chris you like is gonna come to the party and hes like i wanna make out with some one n shes like make out with raven(who is me) and hes like ok and i dont no how or like what to do but im NOT turing down this oppertunity (link)
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that just seems like a really bad idea to me. making out pointlessly will never lead to anything good. why not wait until you find someone that you really like...then they won't care how bad you are.
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hey i was wondering if stridex pads really work...are they cheap?? answer soon! i rate! (link)
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ya they work, but they hurt like crap. oxy pads work really well though, and they don't hurt. they're also really inexpensive. at first it doesn't seem like they're working, but give them about a week and they're awsome!
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http://www.flashplayer.com/animation/imissyoudaddy_movie.php
Watch that,
It makes me cry hastaicalyy (sp), and i think its because my dad is never home and he doesnt appericate me, he pays attention to my sister. Today i asked him if i can have money to go to the carnival, he said ok, and he did but he left me for the yankee game, abd he only game me 20 *thats how much it is to get in* and i didnt get fed *i am a really bad cook last time i did i almost set the house on fire* so people have to cook for me, but he was out on his motorcycle and got himself food, and not me.
can you tell me why i always cry hastarically?
http://www.flashplayer.com/animation/imissyoudaddy_movie.php
^ link again
the sad one.... :*C
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because you're retarded. your dad didn't leave you for the yankee game...he gave you money first. he gave you enough to get in. he probably expected you to be old enough to be able to pay for some food! if you don't have money, then why are you going to the carnival to begin with? you don't need advice...you need someone to listen to you and feel sorry for you. get a shrink!
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How do you get rid of blackheads? The strips don't really work for me..does anyone actually know what will work? Please don't just give me a product you saw on a commercial or something..Thanks..I rate high!! (link)
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oxy pads work REALLY WELL. there are maximum, normal skin, sensative skin, and black head. i use the maximum and black head ones, and i haven't had pimples in a while. and when you do get a pimple or a black head, they get rid of them really fast. at first you may get more because your skin is getting used to them, but after about a week they start working.
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I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this? (link)
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it's probably ok to kiss him, but i would wait to make out. you're braces could cut his tounge and his gums. it might be safer not to kiss
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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sex doesn't mean the same to girls as it does to guys. you think you're in love, and you're willing to drop out of high school and get married at your age (which is wrong in itself, though still legal) but to him, it's just a guy who wants some. it won't be kept just between you! and the majority of the time, it does break up the relationship. what's so wrong about waiting for marrige? you're almost old enough to get married, so if you think that you love him enough to have sex now, then shouldn't that be love enough to want to get married? true love does wait. and if you have sex now, then when you do get married (IF you get married) then by the wedding you'll be bored with sex, and the marital relationship will suffer. just wait a while. it is worth it.
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Hey all, i have a few quesions... So, me and my boyfriend want to have sex. Hes 15, and i am 14, and please, dont say we are too young. I am a gymnast and have gymnastics every wednesday. We are going to use a condom and even doing gymnastics, could I still get pregnant? I do every event plus conditioning. Is it possible? I am getting the condom. I dont want a box, just one or two. Where can i buy them and do you have to be a certain age? Where could I hide them so my mom would not fine them? Any help is GREATLY appreciated... (link)
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YES YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT! condoms break! and being a gymnist has NOTHING to do with whether or not you get pregnant! if you have sex now, then what will make is special when you get married? having sex now will only make your marital relationship suffer. eventually you will hate sex because you had it so many times before you were married. i know it's hard, but just wait! and if you are young enough to think that you won't get pregnant just because you're a gymnast, then you're too young for something like sex. and just so you know...sex changes the relationship. and it makes it that much harder to break up.
and anyone who gives you advice on how to have sex without your mom knowing or how to do it correctly is only making matters worse and telling younger people that it's ok! people are loosing their virginity at a younger and younger age...soon 5 year olds will the ones asking how to hide it from their parents! and even if you don't get pregnant, you are still at a VERY high risk to get an STD!
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I have a few hair questions:
1. When going to the stylist do you usually cut your hair first THEN dye it or vice versa?
2. If the total is around $70, how much should I tip?
3. I've had highlights before, but about how long does it take to DYE your hair?
4. Do you think ANY girl could pull of side swept bangs?
5. If im dying my hair a medium/dark brown (when i have blonde/goldish hair), is it still possible my gold tones can still show through? If so, how do I make sure they dont?
Thanks!
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1. i've always had my hair cut first...but every stylist is different
2. probably about 7-10 dollars
3. about 1-2 hours
4. no...only some girls can. you should ask your stylist if he/she thinks you would be able to pull it off
5. i doubt it because the dye is darker than your hair
i hope your hair turns out good! :D
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i put lemon juice in my hair
its all dry
may i brush it and put it up? (link)
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umm...why would you put lemon juice in your hair?
and i think you should wash it before you do anything else to it
EDIT: ALRIGHT BITCH! YOU'RE THE ONE WHO FREAKIN PUT LEMON JUICE INTO YOUR HAIR! SO DON'T BE YELLING AT ME! I'M NOT THE STUPID IDIOT WHO YELLS AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP! and ya, i actually wanted to know why ANYONE WOULD BE STUPID ENOUGH TO SQUEEZE A LEMON ON THEIR HEAD. freakin bitch
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ok so im matured (and beyond ;)) but i still havent had my period. my friend has and shes like "oh you shave your armpits? i dont have to yet" nd all this other stuff like so shes not matured as much as me but yet i KNOW she has it! hmmmmm. . .?
13/f (link)
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just wait! you start about 1 to 2 years after you begin to get breasts...and about 6 months to a year after you need to start shaving your armpits. i don't know if you actually need to shave your armpits...but if you do, then you should start soon
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Ok so i'm 5 feet six inches, and about 114lbs, am i heading on the right track? I'm not sure.....Oh yeah i'm also 13 years old. I'm gonna exercise and stuff to get a little more toned. Would it be healthy to lose about 10 lbs? I already know what to do to lose weight.
Thnx for the help!
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you don't need to lose weight! you're a little underweight for someone your height! you're doing fine...
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14/f me and my boyfriend have been going out a little over a year now, and we both want to have sex. we're both virgins, and we are very eager to do this. problem is, since were "so young" our parents never will leave us alone. we never have any time to ourselves, which sucks. i would like to know if anybody has a way of doing this without our parents finding out. thanks (: i rate high. (link)
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how about not doing it at all? you're 14 years old! sex is something you do with your husband or your wife. if you do it before you're married, then what's the point of it when you are married? it just takes the love out of marrige. if you have sex now, you're deffinitely going to regret it later.
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Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS (link)
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ok. . .did you type with your elbows? and yes they can still work with shorter nails, though it might look kinda bad.
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Why is it that a lot of the people on this one site called advicenators.com not know how to spell or correctly punctuate their sentences? (link)
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because a lot of people on this site called advicenators.com are idiots who failed out of kindergarten.
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Okay well i want a horse really bad my whole family has horses except me!! my sister has 2 and shes 3 years younger den me! i really sorry i know this sounds ver selfish...but i just really want a horse and i ve been riding my whole life so i think its time. im almost 14.my families not rich or any thing but were not poor either...can any one recomened a website where i could look at reasonable price middle age horses. How can ui convince my muther!! (link)
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parents always seem to think that the older kid is less responsible than the younger ones. i should know. the same thing is going on with me. my sister is 3 years younger than me, and she gets to do everything too! like, things i can't do! sorry to talk about myself, but i'm just telling ya that there's probably not a way to convince your parents other than proving you're responsible. or kill your sister's horses and say she did it.
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I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!
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stay out of it! this person obviously has nothing to do with you, and as long as your brother doesn't start smoking, then there's nothing that you can do!
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If my hair is cut to my sholders,[[little longer]] and i got layers ABOVE my ear,how fast do you think it will grow?[[per month..or week even better]] [[avraged]] Its very thin since the lady cut the layers shorter than my ears.
But how maybe inches will it grow per month/week? (link)
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i don't think it grows every 3 days, but vitamin E does make your hair grow. idk how much though, but mine grew like, really fast when i started getting a lot of vitamin E in my system
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There is this boy I really like..He is 2 years older than me...this guy has been known for doing things with other girls .....but I don't think some of it is true....Lately he has talked to me and acted like he liked me so i guess you can say he has flirted with me........but there are 2 people standin in the way ....1)his girlfriend Chrystal 2) His ex-gf and my best friend Bethany......i don't think his relationship with Crystal will last long so ......If they break up should I try to go with him or should I wait on him to ask me??
Signed,,, TrueHope10 (link)
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what the hell is wrong with you? you don't date your best friends ex! it's like the #1 rule of having friends! what kind of psyco bitch are you?
and neither of them are "standing in the way"! a girlfriend cannot be standing in the way of you stealing a guy from her, and a girlfriend cannot be standing in the way of you stabbing your best friend in the back!
EDIT: even if she says that she's over him, she probably isn't! and it still doesn't make it ok for you to date him! and how do you know that he doesn't like her? are you him?
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hey i was wondering if it was nomal for me to wt=rite songs at my age we'll just say(11-13) lemme know (link)
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how the hell do you wt=rite a song? and by 11-13 i'm going to assume you're 12, which means that you should not even be on this site, and have probably already been suspended for a year.
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hey well I'm going to go on a diet and I dont really know what type of foods to get for when I go to the grocery store. Any ideas? (link)
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thank you for being so specific as to which diet you're going on. i'm going to assume that you mean the chocolate diet, so i suggest anything covered entirely in chocolate. or anything that has a chocolate filling, or anything composed entirely of chocolate. hope i helped!
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