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Q: I'm 13, and I've been told for around two years from time to time that I'm kinda stiff. "I need to be more fluid and less jerky." Yeah, I suppose that is true. Only, I don't know how. I'm not very sporty.. but.. can anyone recommend some simple techniques I can do.. at home.. to start becoming more flexbile/fluid? I haven't got horrible posture or anything but I really could improve and would really like to be more fluid. I want to do something about it, and any help would really be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Try yoga ... this is the best site http://www.yogajournal.com

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Q: what color looks best on toenails this time of year? or are french pedicures still in? help. i dont know the right color of nailpolosh to use on my toes.

Try a nice peachy cooler. French manicures are so out on toenails.

Q: alright i know everyone will be like ohh hollister and stuff but does anyone know any CHEAP stores you can get legginss for not that much..cause im like a shopping addict and want them so bad but my mom refuses to give me more money cause i spent to much last time so i have to buy them but i only have a little..so does anyone know anystore you can get them for under like 15 dollars? ill rate 5 for help!

At Hollister and Abercrombie they are like $30 but my freind saw them at Limited Too for a lot cheaper so you could look there.

Q: does anyone have any good ideas on how to lose weight but wont cost anything. like sites or books maybe
thanks felicia

try this website:
http://www.coolnurse.com/dieting_ff.htm
and
http://www.coolnurse.com/exercise.htm

hope I helped, Good Luck!!!

Q: What is a good easy way to tighten up saggy skin? (Please do NOT recommend plastic surgery)

Try that new Firming lotion from Dove or cream that has collagen in it.

Q: ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high

That is like the perfect weight for someone as tall as you. Your so lucky! lol ♥

Q: On friday there will be an all day party at my school *kind of like a pep rally day where all we do is relax n have fun* well at this party theres a dj n dancing, everyone gets verry into it with like freak dancing and stuff like that. also after school im going to another party at a friends house where the same thing will be taking place. my problem is im scared to dance with guys like i dunno if i can dance the right way or any of that and im scared to just for the fact of getting laughed or something. Any suggestions on how i culd go about dancing and havin fun? any other tips? THANKS A BUNCH!!

I'm a bad dancer too but when i go to parties and dances I just relax and get into the music. Just move your body to the rythm and have fun. Thug girl has awesome ideas, you should definitly watch some hip hop or R&B music videos. I would recommend the Black Eyed Peas "My Humps" I

Q: What specifically is yoga? What are a few of the positions? Also, how often should i do these 5 or 6 (even more than that would be great) positions? Any weight loss in these exercises?

go to this website : http://www.yogajournal.com/ it has everything aobut about yoga.

Q: i need to make $200 by the end of march bc i owe my friend money....do u hav ne ideas of how i can make the money? nething wud be really helpful

Here is everytihng I can think of.......

Baby/Pet Sitting
Job at McDoanlds
Chores Around house
---->Garage Sale Ebay!

Q: I fit pefectly into a 00 at aeropostale. I was wondering if anyone who fit in a 00 there, fit into a 00 at other stores. I've tried Pac Sun, but the waist is just huge! Share some seceret sopts please!

(especially in Morris County, NJ!!)

Try....
Abercrombie
Hollister
and AMerican Eagle at the freehold or Quakerbridge mall
they have really small sizes

Also try the Jersey gardens on exit 13A
They have a bizillion stores like Forever 21 so your bound to find something

Q: Any advice as to how I can win freshman class Winterfest Queen? There aren't very many cliques in my school and a lot of people are nice...but I'm not one of the "Popular" girls (however, not one of the "Nerdy" girls as well). I just really want to win, but I'm horrible socially.

Just wondering if you guys have any tips.

Talk to everyone in your grade. NOt just the populars, but the nerds too. If everyone starts resoecting you, than you have a better chance of winning. Also, be nice to everyone, you don't want people spreading rumors about you. Good luck!

Q: When a guy says "will you go out with me?"

What are you supposed to say? Just yes?

Were confused!

Thanks in advance!

Say , Yes I'd love to!!!!!!!!

Q: There a puppies being given away and I really want one. There is a limited amount and my mom said "no" but I still really wnt one. Our past history with pets has not been so great however that does not mean that this dog would be like that. I really love animals and it would be wonderful to have a sweet little friend. What should I do?

You should talk to her or borrow a friends dog for a couple of days or watch over the dog when they are on vaction. If you do a good job she might change her mind knowing that you are more responsible. My friend did that and it worked for her.

Q: This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥

Youi should break up with him!! You are to good for him! He might eventually turn abusive. Get yourslef out before it is to late! I bet there are a lot of great guys out there that would treat you right.

Q: PLease help me fast. Today is my mommy's brithday and we don't know where to take her for dinner please could someone give me suggestion
I rate 5's
Love me

She will really appreciate it If you cook her a homecooked meal. That would be soooo cute!!!! Make her favorite meal and put on nice music and stuff.I bet she would love that. But If you don't like to cook, I would recommend Olive Garden, they always have awesome food.

Q: my friend is having a problem she is in 7th grade and so am i she got asked out by a 8th grader and she likes him a lot but she doesn't know if she should go out wit him or not some people say he is really weird and everything so can u please help my freind out

She should get to know him better and see what he is like. You shouldnt listen to hwat other people say. He might be really nice.Good luck!

Q: Well, there's this guy at my camp, and all my friends used to say how much he liked me, but nothing happened. Then the next year, (this summer), he told me he liked me, and i liked him, but we haven't talked since summer, cuz he didn't have a sn or an email. Well, now i sorta like this other guy, and all my friends think he likes me, but if he does, i don't know what to do because i still like the guy from camp, but i only see him for like a month out of the year, and i haven't talked to him for months, so by the time i go back to camp, he might not like me anymore, or he might have a girlfriend.

~ So confused!

I tihnk you should go out with the new guy right now, and find out if you really like him. If you don't break up with. If you are still oging out with him durign teh summer when you are at camp and the old guy still likes you then you could go out with both of them, but If you get caought then that woul.d suck a lot. lol

Q: how do you get on myspace on a school computer ?

Your school probably has it blocked, but there are some fake websites out there that can get you past the school. However, I would recommend not doing that becuase in my school, the teacher incharge of the computer lab can moniter everybody's website history, so if they catch you, you will be in a lot of trouble.

Q: I have a terrible friend who thinks shes cool and hates me and my friends. She always hangs out with us and then talks about us behind our backs to US! I got into a fight with her(because Im the only one who will stand up for myself) and I hate having people hate me so i appologized and she just forgave me like that! (She said "I forgive you, HUG!") It bothers me and now were back to her using me and my friends and she thinks shes popular. What should I do?

You should definitly not hang out with her anymore. She sounds like a whore and she doesn't deserve any friends. Just stop being freinds with her, but don't be mean or she is gonna spread nasty rumors aobut you.

Q: ok i am going out with this kid, i really like him alot. He likes me to but i also think he like my best friend. The first week we were going out my best friend kissed him but i forgave him because that is how much i like him. But do you think that i should ask him to stop flirting with her or dump me?

please help me :'(

confussed luv

You should talk to him and your friend. If your friend is your real frined than she shouldn't go around kissing your bf. And if your bf really likes you than he should stop flirting with her. I think both of them are not good enough for you.