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hey my name is danielle...danni for short...i live in boston massachusetts and am a 15 year old female...my screen name is xxdancinbabi15xx so if you need to im thats where im at
im here to give advise to people no matter what the question is...so ask me anything and i will try my best to help you!

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Okay, I'm really sorry if this gets kinda long, but you need to know the whole story, but I'll try and keep it short.
Okay, so last year, my boyfriend (we'll call him charlie )of a year and 4 months broke up with me. At the time, I was upset, as anyone would be, but I somehow got over it very quickly. This is part of my predicament. Ok, well he broke up with a month before prom, and I, being to young to go to prom, wasn't going. I had a dress, a hair appointment, everything, and dumped. So, I turned to a guy friend (we'll call him David)that I had just found out liked me. We ended up going out, and went to prom (all after 2 weeks after the split-up). Well, at the time, i was fighting the idea that iw as on a rebound and using him, but now i see that that is exactly what i was doing. I broke up with him after 2 months, because he started asking questings about *Charlie and things got complicated....Ever since that, every guy i go out with, somehow doesn't compare to *david, and i'm starting to miss him. Now, almost a year later just out of the blue, out of nowhere, i realize i want him back, and its all i can think about. I keep thinking that, yeah, i was using him to make Charlie jealous, and i never really gave him a chance. I know that he still likes me, we ALWAYS flirt, and my best friend has talked to him. I guess the advice i'm looking for is, should i talk to him? I'm really afraid of trying it, and hurting him again, because that would hurt me more, knowing that i did it all over again.
I really appreciate you guys reading all this, and answering my questions.
Thanks again!

i have one simple answer...tell him everything you just said in that paragraph if he knows whats good for him he will understand...hope i helped

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Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!!

if this guy has a girlfriend and is cheating on his girlfriend with you...what if you become his girlfriend how do you know he wont cheat on you with other girls? what if he is telling you what he feels about you and is saying all the same stuff to his girlfriend...guys usually just cant be trusted but you need to make sure he is for real and isnt just playing you...i dont know if you would want to do this but you should talk to his current girlfriend about it...hope i helped

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I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am.

im sorry if this sounds harsh in any way but at the age of 14 its just not right to do stuff like that i mean wait until at least 16 you hopefully have a hole life ahead of you save it for then otherwise you will have nuthing to look forward to...hope i helped

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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.

i babysit very often for 2 girls and i make about 7-8 dollars and hour for both of the kids...i think that is around the price that most people get paid...hope i helped

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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

i disagree with many others that have written to you about how you should give him a second chance...if a guy called me fat and told me that he hated me then i sure wouldnt give him a second chance he dont deserve a second chance...girls have rights not to be called fat and stuff by guys...but if you really like him i know it would be hard not to talk to him becuase i have been in situations where my friends told me that i needed to get over somone and that i deserve better but i just coodnt because i liked him so much...so you can forgive him if thats what you feel is right but make certain that hes not just saying that hes sorry make sure that he means it

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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high)

well take it from me...i am one of the most unorganized people i know and i have alost my agenda many times and when i did, i would take sticky notes and place them on things that i know that i would look at and write things that i need to remember on them like homework...or i would tell a bunch of friends to remind me what we had for homework...or i would have my bestfriend call me everynight and list for me what we had for homework...people may have already suggested these things but they do work...hope i helped

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is it better to do crunches all at the same time, but like do 20 crunches then do 20 crunches and so on.. or do it throughout the day? i do my crunches at the same time and do about 60 crunches, but i rest in between about a minute

yes it is better to do crunches at the same time because it builds up your stomache muscles better...when you do many crunches in a row you get a burning feeling in your stomache, that is the muscles building, but when you only do like 10 crunches and then wait an hour and do 10 crunches and so on you dont get that burning so doing them throughout the day does not help too much...the way you do them, 60 at a time and rest every minute, is a very good way because you need to pace yourself...i am a dancer so we do them in class all the time and we do them in large amounts then rest...hope i helped

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Ok so this is whats going on: I'm 16 (so is he) and a sophmore. Lately Ive been hanging out a lot with this guy from another school. He's great! Really funny, good looking, into soccer, can drive (lol thats always a PLUS), lots of the same friends.. you get it right? Ok well there are some problems that i need some advice on!! 1)He goes to another school. Its really close to mine but its a catholic school. 2) I cant tell if he likes me as much as I like him. And I cant tell if he's like this with every other girl. I was talking to my friend about him and she was like "yeah well who wouldnt like him?!" ...i want a relationship but i dont want to speed into it. I dont want to be liking a guy who 452456875242578 other girls like. 3)He's into some bad stuff.. but he knows I dont like it very much. Other than that he's great!!! He even let me drive his car through the parking lot :) it was so cute since i dont even have my permit yet and he didnt let anyone else drive at all. And he has the most adorable smile ever! whoa i really have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP! I'll rate since its so long

my best friend was having the same type problem with a guy from another school...she likes him a lot and thinks that he is the perfect guy for her but he goes to a different school and she didnt know if he liked her the way that she likes him...so she ended up calling him and telling him how she felt about him and he ended up saying that he felt the same way about her but he didnt know if she felt the same way...so maby this guy that you like feels the same way about you but he dosent want to tell you...by the way you describe your relationship with him the worst thing he could say if you tell him is he maby only likes you as a friend...and friends can always turn into more then friends...so my advise to you would be to give him a call and tell him how you feel when you are ready...hope i helped

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I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.

i have looked up some websites and i found that this one comsumerReportsHealth.org has very helpful information but in case you dont want to look at it here is some other information i found

-anorexic people see themselves as being overly heavy
-they avoid foods or meals
-pick out a few foods and eat them in small quantities

as you say you dont see yourself as being overly heavy you see yourself as a perfect weight so that is a good thing. Seeing yourself as overweight when you are actually deadly skinny is the main sign that you are anorexic so i by what you say i do not think that you are anorexic...maby you are just thin and like to watch your food intake...hope i helped

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I have a simple question that I can't find the answer to. In the middle school I go to they have a P.E. class. In P.E. class we do jumping-jacks. What do jumping-jacks help you build? Your arms, legs, stomach, or something?

well i am a dancer so we have to do jumping jacks for warm ups all of the time and my instructor tells us that it helps build your calf muscles...if you do them for a while you can feel a burning in your calfs...also i think that they may help build your stamina too...they make us do jumping jack too in P.E. class as a warm up...i hope i helped

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HELP!!
I am totally in love wif this guy in ma class which i fine the only problem ma best m8 hoo i have known since i was 3 fancies him 2 and i dont want to give up my best m8 but this guy keeps talkin 2 me and she keeps givin me these dirty looks and i havent told her that i like him. Plz Help Me !!

well there is always that saying "chicks before dicks" but sometimes that dosent help if you really like the guy...so if he likes you and you like him to (which it seems like you do) and if she is your best friend she should understand that you really love him and she should back away from him and let you have him...and if she gets mad at you and continues to give you dirty looks you should talk to her and if she keeps on being mad then shes not a very good friend at all...i have been in this same situation before to and i talked it over with my friend and she backed off and let me go out with him because she is my best friend and understood...it didnt pay off though because i am no longer going out with him...i hope i helped

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