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My name is Becca. I wish that I could live in a eutopic world where nothing ever went wrong and smiles could brighten up everyone's day. But life isn't always rainbows and sunshine. All good comes with bad. What makes or breaks a person is their strength through those tough times. I am a simple person with simple ambitions, simple pleasures, and a simple life.



I usually try to find the best in people, ergo, I can be a very forgiving person. Show me respect and treat me nicely, and I can be one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I am worth $2,886,158 on humanforsale. I change my mind more than I change my underwear, so don't set what I say in stone. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. I have horrible spelling and typing skills. The person who has changed my life the most would have to be my two year old cousin, Chelsea. She is the most amazing person ever, and I've been blessed to be a part of her life since March 23, 2005. I want to be a positive influence in her life, and guide her to grow up and make a difference in the world. This little girl means the world to me. She is my best friend.



I love to feel loved. Ian makes me feel loved. He is one amazing person. We have been dating since June 28, 2006, and we will stay together for the rest of our lives. We were made for eachother. He calls me his Bibbles and his lady bug and makes me smile my biggest smiles ever. He tickles me until I almost cry. I love every second I am with him.



I am done things in my life that I regret. I wish I was a better person. I am currently trying to find myself and what I want from life. I am currently trying to become who I want to be. Let's just see where that takes me.
The end..

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Do Not Hesitate In Asking Me Anything. I Am Here To Help. You Can Always IM Me On AIM At xAskkMechaBeccax For Privet And Convenient Help.

advice

i usually have sex with my bf to like ballads and stuff..but our 1 month aniversery is comming up and i wanna give him a special treat...so got any faster angry but still sexy music?

honestly, find some music he really likes and play that to set a special mood. it'll be sexy because of the music and special to him because you remember what he likes.

my boyfriend likes really fasted pased stuff sometimes like fear factory, disturbed, children of bodom, and rammstein.

but for a good break from slamming (lol =]), he likes sonata arctica, danzig, or some misfits.

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Is a 13-14 year olds sperm as effective as a 18+ sperm?
Or is one weaker than the other?

Yes it is the same, but 18 is their sexual high where they produce more and you can most likely get pregnant.

Wear a condom.

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How can you use an icon saved on your computer on aim 6.1?

Thanks in advance!

Go to "Edit" at the top, between 'AIM' and 'View'
Go to Expressions, at the bottom of the list.
It brings up a new webpage
and then you can chnge it from there.

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ok do any guys like chubby/fat (whatever you wanna call it) girls???i mean lets just theres a girl and she has pretty big boobs but she's kinda chubby would you ever kiss her or go out with her or anything????

I know I'm not a guy, but I used to be pretty chubby myself. My boyfriend loved me like that, but I never had big boobs. I just had a HUGE ass.

It's all a preferance thing. Some guys do, other don't. The ones that dont generally are shallow and just want a hook-up anyway.

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my bf had sex with me and he didnt wear a condom and it was so good

could i be pregnant?

There is a possibility but you still might not be. If he finished in you, there is a very good chance of you getting pregnant, but you could also be from pre-cum that he can't control.

It's best to wear a condom everytime. I won't preach because I used to always have unprotected sex with my boyfriend, but pregnancy scares are never fun and that's what got us to start using them.

Wait for your period, or time of month that your period usually comes, and get a pregnancy test done.

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Ok, I'm 14/f...yeah, say I'm to young, I don't care...but when I give my bf a blowjob, like afterwards...my jaw locks up. and it hurts on the joints of my jaw...and i can't open my mouth very much because it hurts so bad. and he's....pretty...big...and i think that's the problem, and since i can't shrink his dick, is there anything i can do to loosen up my jaw?



Oh, and please don't go off telling me i'm a slut and so on, i'm not a virgin and i haven't been for a while, and if that bothers you...click the x at the top.

Size can be a problem. My boyfriend is big too and it took me awhile to figure out how to make it feel good for him and confortable for me. I am 15, 14 when I became sexually active and was inexperienced. I've gotten alot of practice now though. Here are a few things that work:

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. If you start to feel like your jaw is starting to lock up, lick him while you beat him off until the feeling goes away.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you. Another is him fingering you while you do it. Anything that can make you sexually aroused can change the experience completely.

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I went to a slumber party the other night and one of my friends there "G" started talking about sex. It made me really uncomferable since I don't know anything about sex. I'm kinda creeped about sex. I mean, i'm only 13, but my friends think it's weird that i don't even no what masterbating is. The next day my other friend there came up to me and told me my otehr friends were making fun of me cuz I didn't know what masterbading or anything about sex was. I feel really emmbarressed and creeped out. My parents never really have time to talk about... sex and stuff. and my paretns say i'm too immature to talk about stuff like that. Sure, when someone says don't kick those balls at the wall, i start laughing. I mean it sounds funny, but i'm confused. I need advice fast!

Honey, you are ine just the way you are. You have to be in middle school and for the most part, are too young to know about that stuff. You shouldn't have to worry about sex for awhile. I didnt learn about it until I was 14 but I wanted to know about it. It was creepy for me too at your age. Dont worry about those other girls and stay the way you want to be. Honestly, those are the kind of girls that high schoolers and even adults call whores. Sex is meant for people in love. 13 year olds dont need sex.

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for all the girls that got fingered for the first time- did it hurt? or was it just uncomfortable? thanks.

My first time being fingered hurt but was not incredibly painful. It was more of a discomfort. My boyfriend was caring and took it slow and gentally. Now it feels amazing. =]

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

I lost my virginity the summer before I turned 15. His name was Ian, he was 18, and we had been dating for about 2 weeks at the time. I do not regret a thing. We were in love. It hurt alot, but he cared for me and went soft and easy.
That was July 13,2006.

The next month, my family found out that I had a boyfriend and flipped out. Threatened to kick me out of my house, and they DEFINATELY did not know that I was no longer a virgin. They just didnt like me having a boyfriend. But through this struggle, we kept seeing eachother in secret and continued dating. In November, my mom finally allowed me to see him not in secret.

We both agree that sex was a factor that kept us together. It bonded us, and that if that had never happened, we most likely would have not been still together.

We are still going out now and will be celebrating our 1 year together on June 28,2007. We are still very much in love and plan to be with eachother for a very, very long time. I'm getting emancipated at 16, in November, and we plan on getting married.

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i wanna lose my belly

but how?

add protein and fiber to your diet. reading the book "boxy rx" by a. scoot connolly is also an amazing thing to do that actually works. i am proof. i used to be 30 pounds overweight and i now have a 4 pack and working on a 6 pack. =]

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im 14 years old and this guy i really like is 18....wut to do??? is it bad?

hi hun. My name is Becca and my boyfriend's name is Ian. We have been dating since June 28,2006. I was 15 and he had just turned 18 six days earlier.

There are many risks involved, but they can be worth it in the end. You just need to make sure it is with the right person and you have parental consent to the relationship.

Some 18 year olds, not all, use younger girls to try to get some so watch out. Make sure you trust this guy with your life and you have known him for awhile. If not, he make sleep with you and leave.

Parental consent is also important in this kind of relationship. Because of his age, your parents can press charges against him for stagatory rape and he gets marked as a child molestor or the rest of his life, which can prevent him from getting into certain schools or getting certain jobs.

This relationship required dedication but in the end is worth more than anything else.

Hope I helped and feel free to contact me anytime. My AIM screenname is xAskkMechaBeccax

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I was just wondering if there are two versions of the movie Mean Girls? because i was looking up some quotes from the movie and i was reading a lot of quotes that i don't remember in the movie.
thanks!

there are deleted scenes that people sometimes take quotes from too.

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what does it mean when a guy says to you, "give it to me"?

basically,
"have sex with me"

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how can you tell a coach purse from a nock off one?

real coach haa small gold plate thing on the front center that says coach on it, as well as on the zipperpull.

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I have been on diets before but nothin really worked. I was 169 pounds when I started the last one I was on and I lost 5 pounds. Thne my mom didn't but or help me with anything else after that so I ate what she ate/or made me. I am now 195 pounds and im only 14!!! I amm very much overweight and I wanna loose but when I try now it seems that i only gain. I want to try the Special K cereal but my mom wont buy it. she says its a waist of money. I do have a boyfriend and he doesnt think im fat but I am and every girl knows that if they ask their boyfriends they are gonna tell you what you wanna hear not what you need to hear. I need some tips on how to loose weight and things I can do to boost my metabolism. I wanna loose weight as fast as I can!!! even if it means puking after meals I will do it!! If you have ever been overweight and/or fat then you know how it feels to want to be skinny.

hi. my name is becca and i know how you feel. i was about the same weight as you not too long ago, and i wanted to loose weight so much that i became anorexic. i ended up loosing the wieght but i was also in the hospital for a week and a half from malnutrition. i could've died. my boyfriend was devistated i would do such a thing to myself.

anorexia and bulimia are not the answer to your weight loss problems. anorexia is basically slowly killing yourself and bulimia is doing the same while ruining your espohogus.

after the hospital, i looked up ways to loose wieght the healty way. this is what worked for me:

eat some form of fruit for breakfast, or even a small fruit salad. it tastes yummy and is helthy for you.

lunch can either be a salad or even a sub. just make sure to look out for certain things. the best subs have lettuce, tomatoes, a little but of cheese, a form of meat for protein, and wheat bread.

dinner can be just abut anything in small portions. the less you eat, the more likely your body become accustomed to intakng more food, which means a gradual weight loss.

snack or dessert can be a fruit smoothie or yogurt, but not like trix yogurt which is mainly sugar. i once repaced 2 meals with 2 cups of yogurt each meal, and lost 2 pounds a week. and that stuff tastes DELICIOUS! yoes a pina colada flavor that is to die for.

do not do anything that you might regret later. your boyfriend loves you just the way your are. if he didnt, why would he be with you? exercise and eat healthily and you WILL loose the wieght. i promise.

if you need someone to talk to, dont hesitate to IM me on AIM at xAskkMechaBeccax

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okay so this guy that i really really really liked moved away (he liked me too) a couple months ago and we still talked since he had family up here he came around nov.the weekend of my birthday and promised wed hang out and we never did he said he "lost his phone on a train" and i kept calling his phone being worried and then on myspace hes like happy birthday never even said im sorry and it hurt.Then after that he never said sorry for like how he just treated me and for like some reason if we dont talk for like a month he gets a new gf even though i try to talk to him and while he was with this other girl he texted me and stuff saying that he missed me and that he coudlnt wait to see me again.(now the gf he has now he says that he "loves" her and that she means the world to him he said the exact same things to me)and then for xmas since we werent talking for about a month because i was just so angry he never said sorry for seeing me on my birthday i just coudlnt get over that because before he moved he was the sweetest guy (when we went out) and then so i tried talking to him all in jan like 3 times and he never answered me back,so i gave up trying to be friends with him so i deleted his numbers,his texts,and him for my myspace and everything to try to get over him and i kinda was until about a week ago.Its the first time i heard from him since about the end of dec.And he asked to be my friend on myspace so i accept him and said "so you want to talk to me again huh" and
he does haha ya..i never wanted to like not talk to you and hes like i saw you deleted me on myspace and i was like woah?" (and he starting talking to me the day of his one month with his gf)and so i said i tried talking to you like 3 times and you never answered me back and how it seems like you only talk to me when you feel like it and how i was done trying to talk to him so i deleted him and i thought he forgot about me,i thought MAYBE i would get a "im sorry" or an explaintion but he never answered me back.Im just really hurt that he keeps playing with my emotions like that,like if you said you never not wanted to talk to me then why are you not answering me you know or at least try to patch things up with me? should i just try to talk to him again or just talk to him pretend that everything is fine? or just not talk to him at all ? the thing is why would he not answer me if he wanted to talk to me again? does anyone get it? what should i do? Sorry its long lol but thank you i need advice on what to do im confused!

sorry to tell you this but my avice is to get over him. he doesnt seem to be worth this pain. he's with someone else and doesnt seem like an honest person. you deserve better than that hun.

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Okay Well Im having my birthday party soon and i want it to be a dance party.. my parents said that we might not be able to get the dance hall that i want.. so what are other ideas for a good party?? btw im 13/f.. thanks in advance!

in the past few years ive:

went bowling- fun, people liked it.

went ice skating- super cool. we got to rent out the ice and play broomball after open skate.

got my mom to rent like 5 of those big inflatibles- surprisingly all of my friends love it. it remined them of being little again. we also did karyoke.

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what are your opinions on tankinis.

are they more for older women (25 and up), or can teenagers where them too and still look cool. like would you wear them?

thanks

i wore them when i was around 13 because i was insecure about my looks and they were ok.

now im comfortable in bikinis but i choose to wear both, either a tankini or bikini.

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you know tyra's panty party?

well i missed the part on how to not make your thong show. can someone fill me in??

thanks.

ps. it doesnt have to be from the tyra show

well this isnt from the show but to make your thong show, wear pants lower on you hips and pull your thong up higher.

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what do ladies think semen taste like and if you are experenced in the field do you spit or swallow?

it has a salty taste but isnt "nasty." it isn't the greatest taste ever either. i personally choose to swallow, but that is just my preferance.

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