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Bj and soar jaw.
Ok, I'm 14/f...yeah, say I'm to young, I don't care...but when I give my bf a blowjob, like afterwards...my jaw locks up. and it hurts on the joints of my jaw...and i can't open my mouth very much because it hurts so bad. and he's....pretty...big...and i think that's the problem, and since i can't shrink his dick, is there anything i can do to loosen up my jaw?
Oh, and please don't go off telling me i'm a slut and so on, i'm not a virgin and i haven't been for a while, and if that bothers you...click the x at the top.
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Im not going to tell you the cliche thing that all the other adults tell you. But im going to tell you the cliche thing that you have heard before. "Practice Makes Perfect." So how do you practice a blowob? The same way you would give a blowjob. Find an object the same size as your mans penis. And practice. Just like any other muscle in your body, with exercise and stretching it will adapt. But for the most part your mouth shouldnt get soar anyways. Visit
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For many different ways to avoid cramping, and soarness.
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i get the same thing. my man is ... well endowed to say the least. mix it up when giving him a blow job. give your mouth a break and use your hands for a few minutes. then use your hands and lick the tip. then go back to your mouth. my man loves that. just do more licking than sucking when your jaw is starting to hurt.
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Size can be a problem. My boyfriend is big too and it took me awhile to figure out how to make it feel good for him and confortable for me. I am 15, 14 when I became sexually active and was inexperienced. I've gotten alot of practice now though. Here are a few things that work:
1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.
2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.
3. If you start to feel like your jaw is starting to lock up, lick him while you beat him off until the feeling goes away.
4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you. Another is him fingering you while you do it. Anything that can make you sexually aroused can change the experience completely.
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Extra info: the glans is the proper medical term for the head/tip of the penis or top part not the shaft.
You mentioned his size and that it's the problem. It's no wonder you are having lock jaw or even gagging by hitting the gag reflex or feeling sore and unable to open your mouth. You're taking far too much of his penis inside of your mouth at once.
Focus only on the glans (top part) and you should be okay provided you don't try to take his entire penis into your mouth which it sounds like you are doing here.
As far as loosining your jaw I don't have any advice there but once you stop taking all of his penis into your mouth and only focusing on the top part of his penis you'll be okay.
Beyond that, I cannot offer more advice as it would border on how-to which for obvious reasons is against the rules and causes banishment both for the person who wanted the advice and for the advice giver. This should give you a general idea of why things hurt and what you're doing wrong.
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