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first time...
for all the girls that got fingered for the first time- did it hurt? or was it just uncomfortable? thanks.
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first time it does hurt quite a bit and you will feel uncomfortable for about 10 minutes the pain will ease of soon
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hey,suprisingly enough for me it didnt hurt at all the first time!!i had been panicking about it for ages thinking it would be sooo awkward but once you're in the situation it just sort of goes with the flow!If it really hurts though tell your boyf cause rather spare the pain than just lie there and pretend things are ok!Dont be scared though cause this will make things work!Just be relaxed!!
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haha! no, seriously, the first time my boyfriend fingered me it wasn't painful. but it was a little akward i guess i can say, first time nerves and just i don't know.. haha! More than anything though, its pleasurable., specially after the first few seconds =) that is of course keeping in mind that its something that you both realy really want to do... because otherwise, it is gonna hurt, ..like hell!
hope i was of some help =)
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My first time being fingered hurt but was not incredibly painful. It was more of a discomfort. My boyfriend was caring and took it slow and gentally. Now it feels amazing. =]
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In general, no it doesn't hurt. If you are not turned on (ie lubricated enough), it may become a bit sore after a while, but if your guy is a nice one, he'll be understanding and take it slower or stop for a while.
Also, there is a small chance of your hymen breaking if he puts more than a couple of fingers up you. This may hurt, I don't know personally. But if you use tampons then hymen-wise things should be a little more flexible.
But really, the best way of ensuring things are completely painless and comletely enjoyable is to make sure you are 110% ready, with a guy who you trust, and taking things slowly. Also communicate! Tell him what feels good, what doesn't and if it hurts you. Make out a lot beforehand. If you are worried or tense it may hurt. So relax, and have fun!
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Well, it can be a bit awkward. But it shouldn't hurt it should just feel good. If it doesn't, just have him stop. Its your vagina, he should respect it.
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I can, but that doesn't mean it will. If you aren't wet [horny] then it will most liklely hurt like a mother. Hah. If you are wet, then it should feel pretty good. Unless he has long fingernails. OUCH.
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Neither. And even if it does hurt the first time or so, it won't soon there after. It really shouldn't hurt at all, though. If it does, ask him to take things a bit more slowly and carefully. There might be a little bit of a sting, but nothing should be unbearable.
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It kind of hurt for the first time. It was probably because the person had no clue what he was doing, and was absoloutly terrible at it. It was also uncomfortable too, because I didn't really want it too happen. Now when my boyfriend does it, it feels amazing, cause he's excellent at it. It feels just right.
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