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fingering?
i just turned 16 and the last time i was with a guy was about 6 months ago and i jacked him off but he didn't finger me. then we split, so he never ended up fingering me. now i'm with someone different who i know is very experienced and i know pretty soon he is going to end up fingering me. i've tried fingering myself to see what it feels like but i cant seem to do it. i always think i'm doing it right but don't feel it at all. i just want to be prepared for when he does it to me. please help! i'll rate 5s. thanks everyone!
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Hi, don't think about it too hard. If you do it ahead of time then you won't feel that passion. You need to stop and wait till he does it to you. You won't feel anythiing because youare thinking to hard. Don't pressure yourself. Hope you can follow this advice and hopefully it works for you.
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fingering isn't just about him sticking his fingers in your vagina. He can feel around and stuff.. Guide him. Tell him what feels good to you and tell him what hurts. he'll understand, and he'll probably appreciate your help.
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One thing to keep in mind is that its going to feel much different when you're doing it as to when someone else does it. I know exactly what you mean... trust me, and matter of fact is, you actually might be doing it right! But it just doesn't have the same amount of stimulant as when somone else does it.
Don't worry about preparing yourself by fingering for when bf does it. For the most part, you're most likely just be in pleasure heaven!
Specially considering the fact that you say that he is more expiirienced, then he'll know just how to touch you, and what to do and to what point.
If you still want to try to be doing something for when the time comes,you can still try to continue fingering yourself, that way when your bf's fingers are the ones doing the fingering, its not painful, and just pleasureable =)
Hope this helped some =)
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Like others have said, they both feel completely different. The fact that your boyfriend's hand is going to be at a different angle adds to this, and the fact that someone you really fancy (and love) is doing this to you makes it even better!
However, make sure you are completely ready for this, and if you aren't, just say no when your boyfriend goes to go near your pants! If he'sa nice guy, he'll understand.
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they both feel totally different(to me anyway) but as long as your ready for it just relax...it just comes naturally
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Fingering yourself & having someone else finger you feels totally different (in my point-of-view.) I did this as well, & had your same problem. But, when my boyfriend did it, it was great. Don't sweat it, everything will come natural.
Hope I helped.
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The best way you can prepare yourself is by knowing that you are ready for this. If you are uncomfortable with it, you most likely won't have a very good time. Try talking to him about it before you go too far because a good relationship is based on open communication. You might now get anything out of it the first few times, and not many girls can orgasm through vaginal penetration, it happens more when he stimulates your clitoris. But just try and relax and make sure you are ready, you can always say no if you are still nervous.
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