Hi everyone, My name is Jamie and I am really glad that I have my own advice column now. I love to help people or at least try to. I haven't had much of a bad life myself but I have bad experiences with Guyz! N other things but Not so much with a bad life. I can still help you..
Thank You,
Jamielynn
E-mail: NewYorkCheerGrL1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: High-School student
Age: 14
AIM: x3sweetxbabyx3
Yahoo: Cherry_grl_200869
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: November 13, 2004
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What does a guy do when they finger you ? does it hurt? could you explain what it feels like help please
i'll rate good!!! (link)
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No it doesn't hurt unless the guy isn't gental. Because if its your first time and he uses more then probably 2 fingers it will probably hurt a little. And yes it can be pleasurable.
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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD? (link)
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No you cannot get an STD when using a condum unless it breakz
x0x JamieLynn
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ok well my bf was at school for most of summer and i missed him a lot but after spending a lot of time with him before he left, i kind of don't like him as much as i used to. i mean i don't not like him enough to break up with him but yeah.i still love him. i like never see him too, i see him like maybe every 2 weeks and it's been like this for awhile and i don't really think there's anything we can do about that. i also feel really bad because when i was at a camp for a week, i cheated on him really bad and i'm just really confused. should i tell him i cheated on him? (link)
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Well as you say you are in love with him. If I were you I would have already told him. THat is me anywayz, One time I broke a promise that I know I shouldnt have and I wasn't going to tell him but I just had to because it was okward not to.. Honesty and Trust is one of the 2 best things in a realationship!!!
x0x JamieLynn
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my boyfriend's parents don't know we're going out and they're starting to find out and acting really suspicious ever since i went over his house today. we both dont know what to do... if he tells themhe the truth we'll probly have to break up... if he lies then his conscience will get the best of him. please help me. im in tears already. (link)
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is he not aloud to have a girlfriend?
x0x JamieLynn
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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
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Wait...thats the key..It seems that your not ready
x0x Jamie Lynn
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my bf jus broke up w/ me,i still like him. wen my friend asked him, he said he might go out w/ me again. he's 2years oldr than me and we were gonna have sex but hiz parents were at his house. we are going to see eachother again soon.
he still tells all his friends about how hott i am. wen i see him,how do i turn him on? plz help me!!!thanx niki (link)
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Well just act like you. Don't let the fact that you guys aren't together bother you, eventhough you know it does. And if you get the chance to be alone with him...Talk to him about what people have been telling you and maybe if he doesn't ask you out again if you have enough courage just ask him if he thinks you guys could try it again!
x0x JamieLynn
I hope everything works out!
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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am??? (link)
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Not to be rude but try not to act or be so slutty..and find a guy whose right!
x0x JamieLynn
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i have a ? for anyone who is willing to help me out! i was with this kid eric for a month n i really likeed him alot but he thoguth i cheatedd on him but i didnt n i broek up wit him to sort out my family n guy problems n then i went out wit this kid ian n now me n ian arent goin out n now i like eric again actually i never stopped liken him n i want him back but i dont think he trust me b/c wen we broek up people siad i cheated on him but i didnt and now he doesnt trust me n this girl aktie likes him n he likes her n i told her that if they hooked up id be happy bc i cant do nething bout it n i said goodluck but she better not hurt him . im reaslly upset tho and i want him abck but i dunno if he likes me! plz help tell me wat i should do ill rate you! ill give u a 5 n comment plz help! (link)
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Try and become friends with him..like call him and then eventually he will call u and then like chyll alot more and all that good stuff come on ur a girl...think how would u get ur way if u really wanted it...suck up!! but not in the way u would ur parents or a relative!
x0x JamieLynn
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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him (link)
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Just ask him if he wants to hang out and just chyll sometime and take it from there
x0x JamieLynn
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guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one.. (link)
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Well I know you may be afraid of the truth, but you need to know it. Because you need to be ready for anything that might and/or will be coming your way.You should be strong and sit down with him and talk to him about it. Let him now how you are feeling!
x0x JamieLynn
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do gurls care bout the size of a boys penis? (link)
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Some gurls do and some gurls don't but I don't think it should matter.. I mean if it is madd small i think they might pick on a guy a little though
x0x Jamielynn
P.S may I ask why?
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what is the best age for making out? and any one have tips on what do wit da touge? (link)
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I don't believe that there is any certain age for making out. And when your making out ((french kissing)) your tounge! just go with the movement you'll be fine. Noone really knows how to french kiss until one day it happens.
x0x JamieLynn
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I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it? (link)
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If you want to do it again then do it. Just go with the motion up and down...
x0x JamieLynn
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Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex. I am only 14 and it was my first time. I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment. What should I do?
He didn't pressure me into it. I just let him do it. He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.
Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again? (link)
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Talk to him so that he knows that you really aren't ready
x0x JamieLyNN
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My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:( (link)
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Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and that your afraid of you guys breaking up again because of them!!
X0X Jamielynn
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if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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Well then when a guy that you don't like and you don't really know then tell him, that you can't go out because you don't know eachother. And just kinda ignore him and he will go away!
x0x JamieLynn
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my boyfriend hasnt called me n like over 1 month n he has done it b4 n i dont kno 2 do
should i break up with him or stay!!
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Hunnie if he hasn't called you there is something seriously going on!!! dump him! you dnt need to be worrying about that!!
x0xJamielynn
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it use to be me my friend jamie 'nd my friend kaleigh 'nd cera.. all 4 of us.. now we split up and kaleigh 'nd jamie are best friends and me and cera are best friends. they found someone else (who i am also friends wit) an me an cera have someone new too (amber- but we been tight wit her for a while!) But see kaleigh - jamie - dont like amber cause they aint all friends.. so i guess that could b part of the problem . but here goes the main problem to the situation. I miss kaleigh an jamie.. i dont know if i might b jealous that i was always there for them and it seems like they pushed me away for each other.. but i get sad sometimes cause they always are together granted im always wit cera and amber an they get mad (they tell me!) but i miss them i guess.. and heres the other probelm - kaeigh ad jamie have always talked shit about each other behind teach othrs back and i was always the girl to never tell and b there for both but yet they end up leavin me? wut the hell is that shit?.. god i dunno. (link)
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Why don't you try to sit them down and talk to them! and tell them that just because they aren't friends with amber doesn't mean that you can't be!
x0x Jamielynn
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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all? (link)
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Start off asking them how they are doing. Talk about something you both are interested in like a sport or something..
x0x JamieLynn
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I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::. (link)
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I know how you feel. My grandfather passed away about a year an a half ago. We were exstremly close! I feel that he is with me at times and at times I don't and yes i feel alone! The thing is you need to realize he is there guarding over you!
He may not be visable but he is there. I have these little things were I just sit and cry. Not to get like kinda off but One time I was with my friend his sister and my boyfriend. We were in the car going back home and this song came on, and I just started crying. and NO one knew why until after we got out of the car and I had settled down. I've been told its ok to cry its ok to talk to yourself when really your not talkng to yourself your talkng to whom ever may be there ( trey for example) if you have a picture of him.. hold it close and talk and tell him how you are doing. You may not get a response but he's in heaven now he is in good hands. i bet he is having a great time.. I hope i could help you! if you ever just want to talk IM on AIM at x3sweetxbabyx3
x0x Jamielynn
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