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hey.. for starters i think your soo gorgeous... but anyway, my boyfriend dumped me, and im not over him yet. hes being kind of mean, and i know he wants to see me still want him, which i do. we dont go to the same school, but theres a bar mitzfah next weekend... how can i make it seem like im totally over him?

Thanks for the compliment. & i've bene through something the same liek that well, Just whenever he looks at you just completly ignore him & just like hang around a lot of different guys then he will still want you. that way he'll think your compelity over him & going for other guys..
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i am 14/f i got limewire now it doenst work it allways says go to java or something everytime i do it i have t pay if i wount to get a song on limewire.. is there anyother site i can get so i can download music free

theres.. ares & DC ++ & Winemix

im not sure what the websites are but if you google the names then i am sure that u will get results..
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i think i have a big nose..this is the only thing about my face that bothers me is there ANYTHING i can do to make it look smaller or anything beside plastic surgery =(

No, sorry, your going to have to learn how to deal with it, i mean not being mean but people have bigger problems then that & plus everyone is built differentaly.. Sorry.
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ok well i just got a mp3 for christmas. i only have $100 dollars to download songs so where can i down load songs cheap/free?
O yeah do you also have any suggestions on songs i like country and pop music

Thanks
b.t.w your really pretty : )

LIMEWIRE.. dowload it at www.limewire.com the songs & everything is free =D
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I need help with zanga!!!!!!!! I know you are really good and I have your screen name so can I IM you and you can help????

thanx

Go right ahead..
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SO..
im 15/f

me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told him..but of course he doesnt know me since we go to different schools.. and the kid is like dont know her..never seen her..never heard of her. well this made me feel GREAT. even tho i knew he didnt know who i was. but then anyways this kid is like well next time that she sees me tell her to come up to me and tell her who she is. SO next time i see him what am i suppose to say? hi im the girl that thinks your hott. it will be soo embarassing! and im pretty shy.so that doesnt help. and then later that night my 13 year old cousin was still talking to him and was like yeah my sister (his sister my cousin)thinks your really hott and he is like man whats up with your family..first your cousin and now your sister? whats next your grandpa??! so then i felT SOOOO unblievebly stupid!! now i for sure dont wanna go up to him next time i see him..i will feel so stupid! but then again maybe he will think im cute or something? I DONT KNOW!! i mean i wanna hang out with him or something..or at least try and talk to him..let him know i exist!! but then i only see him at their schools hockey games..and there isnt any going on over break! and my cousin that goes to school with him is really shy too and wont ask to hang out with him..because she doesnt really talk to him either..and i dont wanna talk to him on AIM because im not good with talking on the computer..so please dont suggest that..but yeah so i cant throw a party or anything! ugh this is soo horrible and confusing :( you dont even know..this kid is the funniest..the cutest! and he doesnt even know i exist..all the girls are over him and i guess he is goin to this party that a girl is throwin from his schoool. what do you think i should do!?

SORRY SO LONG!! i really am!
but thanks for answering sweetie
i really appreciate it!

WOW, very long, but OH WELL, dont be embarassed that both of you thinks that his cute i mean its better for him to know & to have a chance then to NEVER tell him .. & whenever you see him if you dont feel comfortable going up to him tell one of your friends to & then he will be like OH THATS HER WOAHH HOTTAY !! & then he'll walk up to you & you guys wil start hanging out i mean you have to have comfidence, my freinds go up to guys im suppose to meet ALL THE TIME !! i know how you feel & if hes going to the party,, find a way to go & be around him all night ! lol GOOD LUCK !!
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hey babe !
your advice is the best && its adorable ! PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS:
okay im going out tommarrow and this kid is going to be there, and my face just broke out. right now its 2:38 in LI, Ny lol. im going tommarrow at 130. from here to then, what do think ican do to help these pimples,red spots, and blemishes to go away ?PLEASE HELP IM DESPERATE.
thanks.♥

Alright, lets see ` here are some ideas

Cleanse the skin with a benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid cleanser, apply an alphy hydroxy, and then use a toner. Then use an acne fighting medication to the skin along with a moisturizer.

To dry out a pimple overnight, try using toothpaste (not gel) directly on the zit. This should help dry it out overnight.

The egg white is also a great overnight remedy, but just use a Q-tip to dab on the egg-white directly to the pimple.

Also to get rid of redness, try hydrocortisone cream or pop two Advil.


Definitely use a benzoyl peroxide or salicyic acid cleanser to fight pimples. A good product for washing your face is Proactive Solution.

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Ok. Well, at my school I have this certain group of girls that I hang out with.[My best friends] I don't try to make other people feel left out but they say that we are snobby, popular, and rich. I can't help it though. Its not like I try to be that wayy. Me and my friends just grew together. And some people just get jelouse. What could I do to proove im not rich, popular, and snobby?

Well there are always going to be girls that will be jealous of you ALL THE TiME !! there is no way to prove that your not who they think you are, i have ppl at my school who are like that & take me compeletly differeantly then i am.. there is no way to change their mind or outlook or yourself toward them.. your just going to have to tell them , or just ignore them & dont lose any sleep over them =D
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whats a good sad love movie? not the notebook

titanic
must love dogs
love & basketball
a lot like love
the wedding date


those are all i could think of.. hope i helped

[♥] AL

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i am 14/f i just need a little advice ok i got in trouble at school.. and now there is a guy that loves me n i love him a lot he is going to ask me out but like umm my mom siad i better not have a boyfriend n i got pissed n i wount to go out with him so bad and i cant use the fone n the only way i can see him at school in the halways and bus and we can write note to but i dont wount that because i wount to talk to him!

yeah, i see .. just dont tell your mom that you have a boyfriend or that your going out with anyone, just try to hide it & like if she dosent let you on the phone with him just call him when shes not home or if she comes home tell her your talking to your freind & doing hmk ?.. & i see how you dont wanna just see him at achool & stuff.. just try too see if it will work out, i mean if you too REALLY DO love eachother then your mom or anyone or anything shouldnt stop you from being together !!
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Where is the best place on the internet to download songs free to copy to ur ipod shuffle? thnx!!

www.limewire.com its a very good site its free & dosent casue viruses..
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Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me?

there is nothing wrong with you, i mean im very girly but i LOVE rock & wouldnt listen to liek anything else but sometimes i feel different it depends all on your mood..
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AL! i need serious help..im not even kidding..:( F**K! i went tanning today and OH MY GOSH. i really burnt my face bad i mean like its SUPER bad. my face kinda swelled a bit but its suuuper red! it hurts really bad..my face is on fire! my mom and dad know about it and they put neosporen (spelling) on my face to help it. before i was putting an ice pack on my head cuz it hurt and a cold wash cloth on my face. is there anything else i could do that you know of rather than like going to the doctor? because its not that serious..ive had worse so dont worry. but i just want this to go away! or at least get better. i was spose to have plans tonight but i had to cancel because of this. what a great way to start off christmas break right? well yeah anyways to maybe make the swelling go down or the reddness? thanks ALOT

uhmm.. try to use cold water & put in on a wash cloth & leave it on your face for a bit , or go to like walmart or walgreens or any drug store & they have loations & creams for stuff like that.. AWW I HOPE YOU GET BETTER !!
[♥] AL

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what is the font called that you use on aim?

tahoma
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your face is like FLAWLESS! :) man i wish i could be that gorgeous!? your only 13, 14?! HOLY CRAP im fricken 15 goin on 16 and you look wayy older than me haha woah im jealous! you look suuper pretty in your picture..like tan and like i said no flaws! what do you do to take care of your face..do you eat alot of junkfood? drink alot of water? tell me YOUR SECRET

haha thanks hun.

THANKS SO MUCH HUN!! my face isnt that clear thoo, i break out sometimes as well.. i use all the skin care products from clinique & i use the dream matte mouse from maybalene new york.. well thanks again!!
[♥] AL

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HEY! whats goin on!? well i have this tanning lamp thing..and its kinda like going tanning except you have to like do each section of your body seperately. i mostly only do my face. but usually when i go tanning in a bed my face looks like a nice smooth tan. but when i use this tanning lamp (because im outta tans) my face looks really blotchy and kind of reddish. and it like dont go away..or fade into a tan. i even put bronzer like on to try and make it look smoother. but is there anyway i could make it look smooth and just like a nice tan without buying anything..since my mom wont let me?

well that happends a lot.. try to use cover up or conceller or fandation to cover it up & make your skin even.. the best product & the one i use is "dream matter mousse" from maybelline new york
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hey there beautiful!

this kid in my class talks to me sometimes..or well here is the story.. lets say my names kristen

this hottie in my class like wont actually have a full conversation with me..but like one day outta nowhere i will be talkin to my friend and he'll be like KRISTEN SIT DOWN! and i'll be like no and i dont know if he is ever kidding or not..then the next day he might do something like You little BITCH or Cunt or something like taht..he always says stupid shit like that..i mean i dont know if this is because he doesnt like me or what? but then somedays i feel like he is looking at me..or it could be another PRETTIER girl like next to me..i just dont know!? and its hard to flirt with him because everytime he says somethin like swearing or something and i never know what to say back. AHH what do you think!?

well i think he MIGHT be flirting because eveyry guy flirts in a different way & for this guy its more of a swearing kind of flirt.. or he could just be joking around with you , i hate when your trying to have a conversation with someone & then they either star swearing or just being stupid thats was i call be IMMATURE.. well i think that you should just talk to him like freinds & then see where everything goes from there..
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i was wondering if you could tell me how you did your hair like that like with your bangs or whatever because i really love it and i want mine like it

well you could go to a salon & get your hair cut & just tell your stylist that you would like "sway bangs" & thanks
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lets say my name is shelly and my friends name is sarah

okay well i am gonna try and talk to this guy on aim..well im gonna have my friend talk to him and then if she leaves for a sec i'll get on and be like oh hi this isnt sarah anymore..this is shelly..sarahs friend..but then the guys will be like okay..then what do i say because it would be kinda awkward and i would feel like he wouldnt wanna talk to me since he dont know me and all..you know? and i wouldnt know what to say so itd be a boring convo and i dont want him to get that impression of me!! but i want him to know that i exist! hope ya know where im comming from

well all you gotta say really is "hey" & then hell be like hey then you say "whatsup" & the convo will carry on from there.. & im a little naturally tan ; it was just the light.. but i got tannign sometimes.. && thanks so much !!
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ummm yeah this is a little embarrasing but I dont know who to ask...my boyfriend was fingering me the other day like crazy and i got pretty wet. Then after awhile i started to make some noises and he stopped. Do you think he was grossed out because I was so wet, or he just thought he needed to stop?

well most guys like when girls moan well when a guy fingers you he usally stopd when you have an orgasm..so dont worry about it
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