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i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.
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Im 5'2 1/2 and I weigh 102 pounds! THATS NOT FAT RIGHT!?I relay dont know who to talk to.
I migt be anorexic or something because people tell me thats little, but I still feel big for some reason...
Your not anorexic. Your also definitly not fatt. Anorexic is when you don't eat or eat little as possible. You just probably have a fast motabalism, that's fine. Don't worry about it, your not fatt either.
how do you kiss like really good? any instructions please?
WOW.
Agreed with the person below. There is no good way to kiss, it comes natural! If you have no clue how to do it, don't do it.
Never a question like this again.
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^So basically, I love that.
And I was wondering how I could wear it to school without making it look too fancy?
Maybe like a thing white zipper jacket? or something...
itd look weird with jeans right? I'm not sure how long it is...
That's adorable!
I wouldn't wear jeans with that though. It's not to fancy. I'm not sure how your school is, but at mine we can't wear halter things like that so maybe a cute half sweater or something, and flip flops? That sounds cute.
ok this is kind of embarrasing, but is there any way to make your breasts larger? like anything you can do at home without buying any products specifically for that? i dont know if this is needed but im 15/f
No. I'm sorry but there isn't anyway that they can get bigger. If your fatt, (Sorry.) then they look bigger, because your heavy. Other then that there isn't a way. If you want to make them LOOK bigger then wear push up bras or something. Take it by day, who knows can grow a full cup size within the year!
I've been with my boyfriend for over a year.. but when i call another guy i talk to, my heart absolutely pounds out of my chest! and i get really nervous! why is this?
There are a few reasons why this could be happening.
You like him.
You don't want your boyfriend to know your calling him, and your nervous.
Your just shy.
There's not really a complete answer for this, because it could be either of the three. Think about it.
well last night i spent the night at my boyfriends house because his parents were out of town . we had sex like 5 times all night . but everytime he cummed , he pulled away &nd we stopped for a few minutes . one time there was a little bit of cum next to my vagina &nd i think may just A LITTLE tiny bit might of actually touched my vagina , but if any did at all , it wasnt alot . could i possibly get pregnant for just a little bit touching ? &nd i woke up this mornign &nd my stomach has been hurting ever since &nd i even felt like i was gonna throw up a couple times today . does that mean anything ? its jsut the next day , that doesnt mean anything about what happened last night right ?
I agree with the people below. Everytime you have a sex is a risk, even closer because you think it went in a little bit. One drop of semen is enough to do the job. Although, a pregnancy test wouldn't have results the NEXT day. I suggest Plan B also. You can go to your local hospital. I did that before. It costs a range from $10-$20, if your 18 or have someone else who is 18 they can go to a local pharmacy and buy it for you, but it's like $50 there! Your parents wouldn't have to know, but you have to bring your insurance card, so it might show up on the bill.
Any more questions, send them to my inbox. I know a decent amount about that kind of stuff. :]
i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy?
I pretty much agree with everyone else. In my boyfriends eye's it probably would be cheating. Hell, I think getting/giving a phone number from someone else is cheating. But exactly what a lot of people said - Do you have feelings for the guy you'd be holding hands with, or is just like a little boy? A little boy, and he'd definitly be going out of hands with being angry, but someone your age/older kind of makes sence. Odds are, I wouldn't do it. If you did already think about if it meant something, because if it did, dump your boyfriend. That's cheating if you like someone else, and wrong.
Good luck. :]
Hi, I asked about the abortion procedure. Any information you have about it would be so greatly appreciated. Thanks again.
SO SO SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG!
I was on vacation. -- Anyways, Yeah. I've had one. It sorta sucks to be honest with you. Well you go in for a first visit, and you get a check up thing done. They MAKE SURE your pregnant and then they discus everything with you. If your parents aren't going to know, and if your not 18 in the state of Pennsylvania you have to go to court to get permission. (It's free.) I don't really know about where you live. But they take you there, or atleast they did here, and you explain to the judge why you need one, (Say you can't raise it or stuff..) That's pretty alright, I guess. Anyways - You do that the 2nd visit. -you might not have to do that. The 2nd visit is the abortion. They talk to you again, and by the way it's like $400 if insurance doesn't cover it. Buttt, anywho they make sure you want it and stuff and then you go in the room and they take it out of you. I must admit it really hurts. :/ It's pretty bad cramps, but it eventually gets okay. You go into a healing room thing and they give you midol to reduce the cramps, and then your done. Your supposed to go back 2 weeks after to make sure all is well.
I really didn't explain it that well, and I apologize. It's hard to do it over the computer. :/ There's some websites though on google, you can search there. :]
GOOD LUCK!
Has anyone gone through having an abortion procedure? Personal experiences would be greatly appreciated, and maybe if you have close friends/relatives that you know of that had one. I would really like honest answers instead of opinions, please. Any information about the actual procedure & afterwards would be great.
Please ask me in my inbox too. :) I don't really want to answer this is front of everyone, but I would be GLAD to help you! I'm sorry.
Does anyone know how I can make my pictures grey on myspace? and how to make them really bright? some people i see have that. thanks =]
lunapic.com
try that, and you can do cool things with your photos. :] and then add them to your myspace!
okay like ive never had sex before, but i think about it alot. and this guy that i met ((were friends so i tell him everything)) is very pervish. sometimes i think he likes me other times its just bleh. sometimes he implies that he wants to have sex with me, and i dont know if i wanna, and like i kinda like him back. when i talk to him about sex hes always like "your not gonna do it anywayyy" and it gets me mad. sometimes i think that he does't believe me((thinking about and wanting to have sex)). i told him that i was waitng for the right person, but he still thinks that im stupid. i have a problem...=[
i dont know if you understood that but your help would be awsome!
Waiting for the right person is definitly the answer. If your not sure your ready, DON'T do it. Thinking about it is completly normal, you don't have to do it, but you can still think about it. If you choose to do it, make sure your ready. Tell your friend to piss off and you don't wanna fuck him. :] Haha, UNLESS you wanna. Haha. Be like, I can think about it, it doesn't mean I have to.
Hope this helped in somee way?
your Hot
i wish. :]
haha, but thanks.
im 15 and im not circumsized does that matter to girls and also my penis is quite small should i worry?
Well me personally I would rather it be circumsized, but my friend her boyfriend isn't and she loves it. She said it feels a lot better. I've never had experience with one before so I can't say I don't like it, but no to some girls it may matter, but some no.
For penis size, I'm sure it's not small. Your still growing! I'm sure most girls your age don't know the definition of a big penis yet. You should be fine.
Good luck. :)
i know how to have sex ok
what i'm not sure about is the erect penis bit
do i have to give him that
it's weird i don't mind having sex with a guy
but i don't like the fact of giving him a b.j
i don't mind so much with a h.j but was just wondering if you HAVE to have that step before you have sex
i would rather the sex than a blow job
You don't always have to get the penis hard. Sometimes, just being in the mood or whatever they get hard themselves. If anything touch it a little, I'm sure It'll work.
Good luck. [:
14/f and my boyfriend is 16/f
we'll be together for 2 months on the 5 or july
lately he doesnt seem to care too much. like sometimes hell be the sweetst guy in the world, but other times hell be a complete asshole.
i really just want him to show that he cares about me more.
ive talked to him about it and he says he'll try, and he'll do really good for like a week, then he starts being a dick again, but randomly is really sweet like once a week.
what should i do?
Same thing is going on with me, although we're almost at 1 year on July 2nd. He can sometimes be the nicest person in the world, but then completly changes. I hate it!
He'll just randomly just start acting like he doesn't care, and says rude things, and we fight alot.
To be honest, I don't know exactly what to do, because I've tried talking to him and such, and your right it works for a week or something and then everything starts again. I guess we should just try talking to them again, let them know how badly it is hurting us, and we can put up with it much longer. That's the best thing I can think of right now. Or, me and my boyfriend sometimes break-up, get back together within 1 day kinda thing. Maybe you can dump him, not talk to him for like 4 hours, and be like "things need to change." after he's like begging for you back. It's worth a try. Good luck.
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Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
Thanks, this is urgent!
In my opinion I wouldn't get to attached, considering he's moving and all. If you want have a good summer with him and fool around or whatever, just don't let love get caught up in it. I hope things work out well.
I have recently fallen in love with my best friends fiance. He has told me that he is in love with me too, and we want to be together. The horrible thing is, i have a fiance myself and a 2 year old baby. My relationship isn't full of love and life anymore and i haven't been happy in a long time. Should i leave? How can i do it without hurting anyone too much?
Stay away from him. I wouldn't ruin a friendship with your best friend. Try and work things out with your own fiance. Hopefully things will become better, just don't get involved with the other man because things can really screw up everything.
Today I tried to put a tampon in for the first time, so needless to say I was doing a lot of looking at my vagina.
While attempting to do this, I looked at my vagina in a mirror and thought that it just didn't look normal. The two flaps are wrinkly and they seem to be really big, and brown at the bottom (and i'm not sure it should be). Also, near the hole where the tampon goes, there's this little piece of skin that doesn't seem to have a purpose. What is that?
Is what i'm describing normal?
14/virgin
I've masturbated, if that makes a difference
Well since your a virgin nothing seems to be wrong. You are fine, don't worry.
16/f
i have no clue at all what i am fealing lately. i have always noticed another girl to be cute or attractive and i have thought about girls in sexual ways but i always thought it was a phase. i started becoming attracted to guys but there was always part of me saying this is how it has to be boy/girl. i have recently made a friend and she is gay and i have been he;lping her with many issues in her life including issues about being gay and i now am fealng attracted to her on a higher level as well as many other girls. i feel like i shoud tell ehr this but i am afraid that she will think i was usuing her in a way to just get close to her, because all along i have been her straight, understanding friend
i dont know what i should do i feel like i am gay but i am jsut not sure
That gay phase or whatever can last long or short it all depends on the person.
If you want to fool around with her? See if you like it, and if you don't then I guess your not a lesbian. It's very early to tell though. Maybe you can talk to her about it, and ask her what exactly it felt like in the beginning.
Good luck.