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i know how to have sex ok
what i'm not sure about is the erect penis bit
do i have to give him that
it's weird i don't mind having sex with a guy
but i don't like the fact of giving him a b.j
i don't mind so much with a h.j but was just wondering if you HAVE to have that step before you have sex
i would rather the sex than a blow job
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no you dont have to
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Most of the time you are the cause of the erection, and you usually don't really have to do anything to get a guy hard. If you turn him on, it'll just happen.
It's not weird that you don't want to give a blow job. A lot of girls 1) dislike it or 2) won't even consider doing it. If you aren't comfortable doing something, don't do it. Simple as that. Don't make any guy force you to do anything you don't want to do.
A blow job isn't a necessity in sex. It can be included during foreplay...or not, it isn't a must. The only thing I ask is that you don't become one of those girls that say "Um, I don't DO that" but you expect the guy to give you oral sex. That's just plain selfish. Chances are he won't mind giving you oral sex and maybe one day you'll find a guy that you like enough to give a blow job simply because you want to please him. That's why I did it.
Just, if you aren't willing to give him oral sex, you shouldn't expect him to do it to you. Plain and simple.
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Many people go in order with handjobs, blowjobs, then sex, because they get more physical as they become more comfortable with their partner, but you don't have to. If you're uncomfortable with the idea of giving a blowjob, you NEVER have to do anything that you don't want to do. If you want to skip that step and just have sex, that's perfectly fine. If your partner tries to push you, then he's not worth it.
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You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
If you don't want to give him a hj or a bj, then don't. He'll just get hard by himself or from the mood or the fact that he's gonna have sex
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You don't always have to get the penis hard. Sometimes, just being in the mood or whatever they get hard themselves. If anything touch it a little, I'm sure It'll work.
Good luck. [:
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You don't have to do anything you don't want to.
There is really no right or wrong way to have sex.
There are no "steps" you have to take to do it.
You can do anything you want.
You can go right into sex, without giving a handjob or blowjob.
Personally, I think blow jobs are gross.
So if you don't want to do it, tell your boyfriend/guy!
He has to respect the fact that its YOUR body,
and you decide what you do with it! Not him.
So if he asks for one, say, "No, I don't do that. Sorry."
That's what I say. And he'll probably understand.
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