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Q: Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.
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What is wrong with you, of course its too young. Why do you want to have sex at that age. If you get pregnant your life is gonna be a hellhole. Trust me, that happened to one of my neighbors and she was 14. She kept the baby because she couldn't throw away her very own flesh and blood. But don't do it. I know you think there is no problem and all that but you can have so many infections and STD's that can stop you from having a baby with your own husband when you are ready. So don't do it. And you mentioned you have no idea what to do. Another reason you shouldn't have sex.
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Q: Recommend me good books to help me build knowledge, please? I am not very smart so no hard novels like Shakespeare. Thank you!
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If you wanna be smart you have to read classic or educational novels you wouldn't normally pick out.
~Nomblest Triumph
~On Bended Knees
~The Prince
~Of Mice and Men
~The Pearl
~Dracula
~Moby Dick
~Uncle Tom's Cabin
~The Great Gatsby
~A Child Called "It"
~Grapes of Wrath
~A Tale of Two Cities
~The Adventures of Tom Sawyer
~The Adeventures of Huckleberry Finn
~Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry
~To Kill a Mockingbird
~The Odyssey
~Iliad
~Tristan and Isolde
~Oliver Twiste
~Gulliver's Travel
~The Last of the Mohicans
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Q: ok lemme get down to my question. well my last year in school i wasnt doing soo great.. i got by with Cs..what are some better habbits to get me back into getting better grades..i think my grades starting doing that because all i cared was how to get noticed better..i mean im semi-popular like i know everyone and all but i mean im not top-notch ya know? so any advice with better study habits while not going crazy over knowledge lol thank you soo much!!
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Go to the public library and get all the books you can on How to Get Good Grades etc. etc. It helps.
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Q: HI, im just wondering if anyone could help me find any of those cute japanese online diary things that people have? Ive searched everywhere and i cant find any.....
Thank you very much!! xx
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Xanga or just type in livejournals.com
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Q: God, I have a real problem. When I first came to Jr. High last year I was myself 100%. I didn't give a care what people thought about me, or who my friends were. Then in the middle I started changing my looks and the way I talked, and I found myself ditching my old friends (who were kind of geeky) to be friends with newer and more popular ones. And it worked! Some of the popular people hang out with me now. But I feel really bad now. Now that im friends w/ the popular kids, I feel like I dont even need my old friends. I even LIKE my new friends more than my old ones. So tell me... am I a total selfesh jerk for ditching my friends? And am I weird for changing myself?
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Can you watch Love Don't Cost A Thing. I think their similar situations. You can tell me how it's going to end.
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Q: any good books you would like to suggest on about dealing with drugs and like teenage life and what a teenager goes through? like go ask alice, a million little pieces and stuff like that
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I highly recommend Less Than Zero and The Theories of Relativity. Don't worry their not as boring as their title's.
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Q: why do people consider Catcher in the Rye or The Bell Jar good?
what makes people like books at all!?
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It really depends on the kind of person you are. Sompe people can't live without books (like me) and other people can't even look at books because they hate it so much. People consider those two books very good because their classics people can relate to. And most classic books aren't like that.
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Q: next year i'm going into high school. I was totally psyched when i finally relized that this was my last year of boring old middle school and in high school I can pick my own classes. But earlier today a friend said her big sister was in highschool and she said it was terrible. They stuff the samller kids in trash cans and put books on the lids to make sure they don't get out. And they prank all the new kids by throwing eggs and water ballons at them. Is/was your hs that bad??????? thanks in advance.
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That's probably only her school. I didn't go to highschool yet either but I went to summer school for 2 months and 4 hours a day. They didn't do any of that. They just spent time with their cliques that's all. By the way I go to a public school.
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Q: i tend to fall back on grades because of my organization skills. how can i be more organized?
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You can get a date planner. This is really really helpful. You just give yourself a schedule and you absolutely HAVE to stick to it.
I hope this helps.
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Q: Hey i am going to be a freshman this year and i am starting in a week i know there are a bunch of other questions like this but... i am really scared, when we had orientation i made like only 1 friend not even really... i have no friends going to the school i am going to! i do not know how to open my locker! and i have no clue where or when my classes are.... junior high was SO much easier!!! I came from a catholic school before this so it is WAYYYY different from classes to no uniforms and more!!! i am soo afraid of getting on the bus and sitting with no one and also very very very afraid of going to lunch and sitting by myself eating!!! i am terrified and i know i will get trampled in the hall ways... are there that many people in the hall way? like seriously is it full?? Ahhhh i am sooooo nervous not to mention i had a bad memory wif the boy across tha street and we will be getiing on the same bus! and he will be seeing me for like the first time up close in like 3 years!!! PLZ HELP and plz tell it like it is don't lie to make it feel better i need the TRUTH!
sorry it was long
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OMG that's totally me! I came from a Catholic school to and now I'm going to a public school with no uniforms, no nice people, and no lockers!!!!!!!!!! I know it sucks. But you can keep most of your books home. Anyway just stay calm and when you go into highschool hold your head high and think of this. "These people are no better than me" or "I will succeed" Something with confidence in it. Repeat it to yourself a few times until your comfortable with your surroundings. Then go to your class sit in the front if possible and don't think about anything or anybody just your class. You'll meet a friend trust me. You can also join a few clubs that your interested in. Remember good friends have something in common. Whether its style, music, or sensitivity. Good Luck!!
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Q: Im about to start school soon and im going to a new school.How do i deal with bullies?please answer this question.
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How to stay away from Bullies by Me.
1. Never show-off
2. Always be kind
3. Always stay positive
4. Stay away from bullies
5. If bullies are still bothering just go to your couselor. I know this may be a sissy kind of thing to do but it's not. It's better to get help than be bullied around. Trust me it's not fun.
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Q: I don't know if this goes here.....but...oh well.
I have been getting occasional cramps (not stomach area cramps, lower abdomen cramps) and discharge. My breasts are slightly tender, but nothing major, and im starting to grow more, i think. Im almost to 100 pounds, and i will confess i have been a little moody...are these signs that my period will start soon?
Please help me!!!!
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There might be chance but you can't be too sure with these things. Take it from me, if you feel pressure on your stomach and you feel you can't breathe very well because of the pain that means you don't have a very healthy diet. But if it hurts around your private part area you might want to use a pad when you go to sleep or when you go to school. It's better to be preparted. And also when people scare you saying that period is hell just take it as an opinion. I've had my period for almost a year and I have had no cramps or pain. Only I feel like I'm peeing in my pants. The only pain I have is changing my pads a bagillion times. I hope everything goes well.
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Q: If your on birth control and use a condom, how likely is it that you'll get pregnant. I know there's still a chance, but I'm just wondering.
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You probably have a 2 to 3% chance that you can get pregnant. If your on BC and you use a condom everytime I don't you'll have to worry about it.
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Q: Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to
Thanks!!!
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I definitely recommend Sexyback by Justin Timberlake.
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Q: I'm reading "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn" by Betty Smith and I stumbled across a strange paragraph:
"It so happened that Professor Alegretto had a slight peculiarity concerning his girl pupils. He made them take off their shoes and stockings and stand in their bare feet while they sawed away. Instead of beating time or correcting their fingering, he spent the hour in a revery staring at their feet.
This made Evy jump. She knew nothing of Freud, and her scanty knowledge of sex did not include any of its deviations."
Back in the Victorian Age, were men like, sexually attracted to feet?
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Yes, they actually were. Also in the 1800's, females were very attracted to male calves. (see costume of Romeo and Juliet)
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Q: is masturbating a sin? just a question---cuz i think its completely gross!!
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If you think it's gross why are your asking this question. Second of all people have different opinions so ask God.
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Q: ok i have a question. i was suppose to start on the 17th or 18th. well on the 16th i had sex with my boyfriend and he cumed in me. i haven't started my period yet. could the reason why i haven't started be bC of the fact i might be pregnant or is there another reason that i haven't started yet?
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Your period might come later so just a few more days. If it doesn't come tell your mom and get a pregnancy test to make sure.
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Q: i am 13/f adn i want to kno how to insert a tampon..please help me!
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Ask your mom or go online. I'm sure they can help you with your problem.
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Q: hi. I am a 13/f and i started my period about 6 months ago. I play soccer alot and do track in school. I have never used a tampon, only pads. My mom wont bring the subject up and i'm too nervous to ask her how to use it or if I can use them. PLEASE HELP!!!! my soccer tournament is in a few weeks and thats when my next period is supposed to come! any advice on how my mom can bring up the subject? or how i can get the nerve to talk to her about this?? should i just not tell her and just use one?? but i've never used one before and i'm nervous and dont know how to use one. PLEASE HELP!! thank you sooooo much
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Excuse me, but what's wrong with pads. If your on the swimming team than that's a different story. But if your mom's not bringing up the subject, maybe she doesn't think your ready. But I could be wrong. Ask her, if she thinks you desperately need it than why not.
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Q: ok, this is weird...and i've never told neone before, and your the first to know. i...kinda have sex w/ myself. i know, ew. but, the problem is, i don't know how to stop! i just get these feelings like i want to do it, but then like i don't want to but i feel like it. and whenever i think about sex, i'm like gross. but i don't think that when i'm doing it to myself. an also i've never had a b/f. i'm really scared, but it feels good to do it. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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how do you have sex with yourself you mean masturbate???
its normal!
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Member Since: June 29, 2005 Answers: 389 Last Update: October 21, 2006 Visitors: 25253
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