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I like a person named Travis now and he is younger than me....we get along fair...but not as well as i want you know i mean not to fast but i don't want to be friends all my life either. Anyway the other day trav was over at my house and we were jumping on the trampoline and he gets a rope and whips me on the legs with it...could he be flirting with me? anyway so were talking and i kick him and he jumps on top of me and starts like squising my face cheeks and stuff like he's hurting and tonight...he said you really hurt me and so i kissed my hand and put on his cheek and he just looked at me and smiled....then i took his hand put it on his mouth and put it on my cheek and he just smiled and looked at me for like 2 minutes and i said what are you looking at.....and he took a minute and said the window.."from what i told you do you think he likes me?" "do you think he's gonna be a wife beater." please tell me your advice.
To tell you the truth it depends on how old you are if you are through ages 1-5 don’t worry 6-9 he should no not to be so rough 10-15 complicated he could be flirting or playing or he could be violent but to me he sounds like he likes you. Go for it girl tell me what he said k
I need to pick a few wedding songs to sing at my sister's wedding. I am a lyric soprano and a trained opera singer so I can "hit the high notes" and would love to find something dramatic, emotional and moving for her. Any suggestions? Thanks!
There was a song from a show called a wedding story its on TLC try watching it and tell me how that woks out for you
I am 14 years old and have attended religious classes most o fmy life. I am a very religious person inside, if u knew me you may not guess that unless you were truly my friend. I am always the kind of person that gets caught when a big group of people get into trouble; i have just come to the conclusion that is my luck. 2 weeks ago my class was passing around a note as a joke. the note used some voulgar language, and i will admit i wrote the "F" word as a joke to my good friend Cailey because we joke around like that. The note got left in the class and now the DRE religous director Mrs toto found the note. She is super mean! and never gives anyone a chance to explain their case. My family has been going through a lot of stress and the last thing my mom needs is this. I never lie and am always honest with my mother. The first i did when i found out i was introuble for the note was tell my mother exatly what i did. She is not so upset with me (to an extent) but its more of the fact she is overwhelmed with stuff going on in our personal lives, as is myself. What should to get mother in a good mood, and ask forgiveness of mrs toto?
Do what I no you think is right because I am religious also and I am the same age as you so its kind of like giving advise to my self because the same things happen to me all the time well just go up to Mrs. Toto and tell her you are sorry for disrespecting her class and tell your mom you are sorry give her a hug and tell her you will never do it again. Tell me how that worked out for you :)
okay lets say im dating a boy right.
and..... stuff and we are only in 7th grade.
and..... is it possible for people to date in 7th grade to stay together forever like.. get married i mean i know we are young but can it happen?
Yes it is very possible but don’t rush in to things to quickly like sex you are way to young save some stuff for your husband. I hope everything works out for you.
alright so me and some friends are going to the movies tonight. and the guy i really like is going. the problem is that when im around a guy i like im really shy and dont know what to say. he knows i like him cause my friend told him and he says he thinks im cute. so how do i make conversation with him to let him know that i am definantly interested in him.
ILL RATE 5'S!!!
BUT I NEED ADVICE BEFORE I LEAVE!!!!
ok hun what i would do is wear somthing cute and talk to him about how you think he is cute to. i hope you have a good night get back to me tell me how it went
Okey, I've tried working out, eating healthy and even counting every single calorie, and it STILL hasnt wokred! So please, don't give me the doctor-answer. Spare me the "healthy-talk".
If I skip dinner, and eat as much lunch as I do now, no more, no less..will I lose weight?
Just a simple yes or now, not "eating helthy, skip the sweets, try the gym" because I've foine that already. I've even tried making myself throw up, but my mother caught me.
So please answer truthfully, will it..or will it not? And please know what you are talking about.
no it will not i no you said a quick answer butif you stick to exersize and diet it will help get back to me sweety
i'm pregnate and i'm balimic what will that do to my baby i can't stop cause every time i keep food in my body i feel guilty about it so don't tell me to stop unless you have a good reason why
thanx
Yes sweet heart it can hurt your baby. I got some info off line as soon as I saw this please get help eating is normal the reason why you are doing this is because afterword you feel happy because of the Endorphins they make you happy but the way you are doing this is all wrong. Eating disorders seriously affect your hormonal system and therefore make it extremely difficult to both conceive and carry a child to term. If you suffer from an eating disorder, it is strongly recommended that you seek and successfully complete treatment before the baby dies. If you don’t start feeding your baby it can die and so can you, you need to get some professional help very soon.
Okey this is the deal, in short my father is really mad at me, lik not teenage-mad but mad as in hasn't-spoken-to-me-in-3-months mad. Won't even look at me. Talk to me or even about me. And don't tell me to communicate with him because in my culture things don't work that way,trust me..you have no idea. Now the thing is, his birthay is coming up..and what do I do? I don't even know if he'll accept a gift from me, and if he does - what do I even give him? And when I give it to him, what do I say? "Happy birthday dad, love you, *hug*, hope you dont feel like killing me anymore" (?) Any advice - PLEASE??
so basically:
question #1) What do I get him?
question #2) How do I act?
By the way, I'm 15 and female. And I have no other family member that I can talk to or that can help me (again, its my culture!) so thank you for advice on how to deal - because I REALLY can not "communicate" so don't suggest that one. And I can't appolgize either. So just "what do I buy?" and "what do I do when I give it to him?"
Thaank you ♥
what i think you should do is go to your dad and give him the biggest hug you have ever given him in your life and tell him how much you love him and how you miss him and need him that is my advise and when you do this you should meen it k get back to me and tell me how it went you could do ths for his b-day but i would do it before than make him a cake lol get back to me please P.s if you dont mind me asking what is your culture
14/f
ok well i started to cut my self and then i stopped a few days a go i started to cut again and i had nothing to cut my self with so i found broken glass and got a sharp peace and cut my self what should i do how do i stop with out my dad finding out?
if he found out he would kill me
you need to tell your dad that you are doing this and that you need help or tell some one close to you because cutting is an illnes that can kill you. you need to get help before it is to late.
if i start to tan outside will the acne be gone? and also when i tan i usually get freckles on my face so will these freckles go away eventually? and when
sun will take away the acne but it will make more freckles.
I'm 5'4 and about 145-160 lbs. Verrry fat in my opinion but i don't really look THAT bad other than that. I was wondering if it's possible to lose about 25 lbs by August 19th or around there? If so, how. Please be specific on good && bad foods && excersizes (how many, how long, etc.) Also, does anybody know any REALLY good acne creams? Thank you soo much
For starters, STOP EATING FAST FOOD! That is a source of most of the fat in America. Avoid starchy food, like poptarts, pasta, rice, potato products that have been really dressed up (meaning grease, sour cream, that sort of thing). Drink A LOT of water; when your body does not get enough water, it stores up the water that you do drink, making you look fat. When you drink enough water, it releases the water and makes you skinnier. do lots of crunchys and sit ups and walk or run. Now stay away from pop, grease, and chocolate, but mostly pop for your acne and try useing clearasal altra, and pro active. If you want to go the natural rout, you can try tea tree oil which you can find at any health food store. Thanks get back to me.
I'm 13, 5"1.5 and 90 lbs. I know I'm fairly thin, but the muscles around my stomach are rather soft and flabby. Does anyone know of any exercises that might tighten up my stomach muscles a bit? I'm not talking 6-pack abs or anything....
do sit ups and crunches every nite do about 10 to start off with as you get stronger do more get back to me
Okay, theres this kid. Lets call him JAR, now jar really likes me; a lot. And well, I don't really like him. But the thing is that he would pay someone $10 for my phone number or beat up anyone that said something mean to me. He offered to buy me a new phone .. and got my chocolates, and a bear and calls me ALL the time.
Okay, now my boyfriend. Lets call him AREO(don't ask) now, areo never says things like that. I've gotten chocolates before, and cute little love notes from him like "From the first time I saw you .." kind of notes. He just doesn't give me a lot of stuff. But does that mean he doesn't care? I mean, he loves to skate he's out skating most of the time and he doesn't have a cell. So sometimes its hard for him to call.
Thats the thing. Who likes me more? Theres a 99% chance that I'm not going to go out with JAR, but I feel bad for him. For all I know his room could have my face all over it. He really likes me. But so does AREO. Nobody really likes JAR. So it would be kind of embarrassing to go out with him, and I don't want to. I like AREO, but sometimes I have my doubts of him.
ugghhh, help?
well you need to tell "JAR" that you dont like him like him it will be hard for him for a wile but he will get over it and tell "AREO" that he needs to be more sweeter. get back to me :)
Well you see, I have (naturally) VERY curly hair. It is wild.. and not in a good way. It is very hard to handle. I do own a very good flat iron, and I do straighten my hair at least 3 times a week. But now that the weather is getting warmer, and more HUMID, my straight hair goes frizzy and starts to curl. Do you know of any good products or ways to keep my hair PIN straight, even when the humidity is 100%? Thank you very much!
omg i have the exact same problem as you i use moose for that but you need to be carefull because you can totaly fri your hair without useing thermal silk heat tamer you can get it at your local target. get back to me i hope i helped.
i have a best friend that is in a relationship with a girl that i truly love and he know it before they got together but he didnt tell me that and i waiting for him tol tell me... how could he do that to me.. its okay if he tells me because im am not her boyfriend to tell him not to stay away from her... now i just so freaking piss
well first you should tell him how you feel but you have to understand that it is not up to you or him who SHE LIKES so after you talk to him get back to me and tell me how it went.
i having a really hard time. right now my hair is brownish blondish and i want it a darker brown. my mom is saying i should get lowlights, i think i should get it dyed. arent lowlights really streaky? which one is better? thanks i rate high.
well if you want darker hair mabey you should dye your hair brown and get blond streaks but the thing with lowlights is they are steaky some times but that can be prvented with the right hair salon place just dont do it your self and be carefull because blond is a very strong and it can fry your hair easy so dont dye your hair and then streak it wait a little wile first
so as most of you know i WAS in a relationship with a abusive guy and i told him that i want to break up with him..and he brok two of my ribs...and gave me a cuncution...:-(
but on the flip side hes goin to juvey!! and i realized (thanks to ALL of u!!!!!) that he was an a** hole. plain and simple..and all i get are threatining letters/phone calls..but what i am afraid of is his friends. his friends stick by him 100%..and my house got TP (toilet paperd) and lilke a dead rat was on my door step (says my mom) and like i got threating letters in my locker saying "bitch if u tell ill kill you" or "we know you told hoe, were ganna do what jake did" (jake rapped me.)
so PLZ help!!!!
ok you need to tell the police what is going on that is so totaly wrong of them they do not need to be doning that stuff next time you geta letter show the police and if you still have the other ones show thoughs to. i hope i helped
Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).
Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.
Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.
So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).
Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.
Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again.
well you should tell your parents because if you are best friends with her your parents must no her pretty well you should talk to your mom and dad or who ever you live with and they should call aj and coreys mom and dad because they should not have done that. that is sexual abuse so talk to your parents and if you dont and her parents hit her agian call your local child abuse hot line right away and if aj and corey bother her agian call the police.i hope your friend finds some help. (trina)
ok i am 13 female and i am very mature for my age. i mean mentally and physically. when it comes to actually having sex i dont want to do it but i love to masturbate. i was wondering how do i control my "needs" to masturbate? if i was to get caught i would be in sooooo much trouble. so please help me contain my urges.
thanks in advance. i rate high for good answers.
how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)?
ok i really wanted to answer your question in my opinion there is a lot of guys and girls out there and there is always some1 really special for you i would say being a virgian when you are married is the biggest gift you can give your husband or wife it is somthing only they have of yours because did you no legaly everything belongs to your parents untill you are 18 and to me the only thing that i have of my own is my virginity it is mine to keep or give away when ever i want but when its gone its gone forever i hope i helped answer your question.