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My boyfriend tells me that he can't go take me places to do stuff because he is strapped on cash... hes "strapped on cash" but i find like 5 new porn videos and a new 15 dollar porn magazine.. and he tells me he can't do take me out to do stuff cuz he doesn't have money. He thinks im overreacting when i get pissed... what do you think? isn't there something wrong here?
I'd be asking him why can't you be those models or something.. Isn't it obvious he shouldn't need new porn videos he has a girlfriend... I'd be pissed. You should tell him "If your so straped to cash and can't take me anywhere nice where the hell did these come from??" and see what he says.. He shouldn't need those, it discusting and I would be hurt knowing he's not happy with me.
Punch him in the face or something lol because your not overreacting.. he's addicted!
-Katie
I would prefer Christians who are strong in their faith to answer this one, particularly those who have gone through what I am experiencing now.I was raised by a Christian mother who puts her faith completely in Jesus. I never doubted God and was saved at the age of twelve at VBS. I was baptized at 15. Since the day I was saved, four years ago, I've prayed to God every morning, night, and whenever else I felt like it. I read my Bible every morning and night and have almost finished it. I attend church every Sunday and do a Bible study with my family every night. I also attended a small Devotion before school every day for three years. I was certain that I had a personal relationship with Jesus. Then, one night recently, I started thinking. I was just laying in bed and all of the sudden, a wave of doubt hit me. I started questioning everything, including my belief in Jesus. I've prayed and cried so much about these things that I've made myself sick over worrying about them. I've been reading the Gospel again and again trying to find solid evidence. Then, I started wondering if everything in the Bible was real. Please, someone help ease my mind. I want to reccommit myself to Jesus, but first I need to put to rest all of these doubts and rekindle my faith. How can I do this?
You shouldn't need evidence that Jesus is real. Everyone doubts something sometimes.. and because Jesus has been a huge part of your life for years you doubted it first. I would still do all the things you do, and ask him why your doubting him. It could just be a test..
-Katie
how is weed bad for you?
becides it gets you high and messing wiht ur mind
and health??
like my mom said smokeing pot [[dunno how much]] is equvlent to 10 cigrets??
thanks!
srry for spelling errors!!!
It kills your brain! And say you do it and drive your putting other people in danger.. About the 10 ciggerretes and smoking pot deffinetly dont match at all, Im sorry but your mother doesnt knowhat she's talking about,
Truly pot just kills your brain and doent let you think straight, and the only reason its illegal is because the goverment cant tax a weed.
k, i tan outside rather than at a salon
so since its the summer, how do i get the perfect tan? what oil or lotion do i use, which do you prefer and how long should i stay out there?
also, how long do i do my back and front for?
You need to keep yourself in the sun and out of the shadows. And you realy can't have a perfect tan without equal sun light to both sides of your body, so flipping yourself every half in hour maybe from your back to stomach should give you and equal tan line.
hi
im bra size 32A
and all the bras that are 32A in womans and juniors department have to much padding in them.
i cant buy bras from the kids scention cause they only go up to 32A but thier really tight arround the prat that goes arround me.
i want bras that dont overpad, cause you can tell a diffrence when i wear sportsbras and cuped. and i dont want to look fake.
and please dont say just to only wear sports bras, cause i only wear them to sleep or exersize, and im not comftrable wearing them arround cause i dont like how they make my breasts look. =/
umm any ideas?
Well maybe in Walmart but im 14 and still in A and I go to like JC Penny or Fashion Bugg. They should have bra in the Women section that fit you comfortable and aren't baggy or anything. My friend has the same problem, only she has really big ones so she can't find big enought ones so I brought her to Fashion Bug and she's still wearing the saem bra because it fits her perfectly.
It's just a tought but maybe other stores have other ranges of bra sizes.
ok...im 13 and so is my friend..but she has some..well..problems..heres how it goes..a few weeks ago i saw my best friend that i hadn't seen in 3 years..she ended up staying the night at my house a whole week two weeks later..she told me everything that happened since we had last seen eachother..she told me that she used to cut herself and had an eating disorder and she still did it once and a while..im worried that she might end up harming herself..she told me she had it under control but i dont beleive her..she said that it was addictive and i dont know what to do..i told her that i wouldnt tell no body so im not going to..so please dont tell me to tell someone..if you could send me some websites for her to look at or something like that it would be a LOT of help...or even give me a few things i could say to her..i plan on telling her how i feel next time i see her..but i need something more..help!
You ask for help, then restrec some of the options. If you truly want to hel your friend, you need to tell someone. As hard as it may seen ask a parent, teacher, guidance coinseler.. anything about cutting and how to treat it. Dont mention names.. just voice it.
so we went out a year ago and recently started talking again, he replies to a bunch of my myspace bulletins and ims me on msn all the time. he recently called me to walk around with him at warped tour, but then backed out, and when i saw him at warped tour he invited me to walk with him but i walked away, and when i saw him again there he stared at me and spit water at me and threw a condom at me (jerk) and then when i ran into him a 3rd time at warped he wanted me to walk with him again but i said no again, and he was supposed to talk to some other chick and i asked him if they were going out and he said i dont know and my friend told me that was because he didnt want to tell me the real answer, and ive asked him where we stand before, but that was after him and a serious gf broke up, so he was still upset over that, and like he asks me to chill, but he always just wants to have sex, even though i always tell him no not unless its with a bf.. so i dont know, what should i do. does he like me and if so, how do i find out, and if he doesnt, how do i get him to lol
*please dont tell me hes no good for you blah blah blah, believe me, i know, save the speech, i get it from everyone else, and dont bother wasting your energy and time replying with an answer that will probably just waste my time and upset me*
REALLY REALLY BIG MiXED SIGNALS!!!
Well im sorry but truly you can do better and i didnt want to waste my time putting my opinion into the madder. Think darling.. he threw a condom at you is that telling u he likes u??Im sorry this isnt what u wanna hearbut its honesty and im sure people have told u the truth because hello.. he may just act like that about his friend to impress them but alone, would be all nice.
Thats not someone you want.
I have a sony cybershot digital camera. A few months ago, my flash stopped working correctly, but it was only every so often, so I didn't worry about it. Now, my camera flash messes up 99 percent of the time. I cannot take pictures indoors. The flash flashes, but it only flashes once or only one bulb flashes, I can't tell which it is. When this happens, the picture turns out really dark, darker than when I don't use flash. Once in awhile, the flash will flash too brightly, and the whole picture will be white. It almost never flashes like it's supposed to.
What is wrong with my camera? Is there anything I can do to fix it. It's really important that I have the camera working this week.
Creepy.. i have the same camrea and same problem.. well just call up wal-mart or something and ask them to look at it for you.
i just recently got braces and ive always heard stories and seen stuff on tv about how hard and the things that happen when kissing with braces.
does it really hurt the other person and hard?
or is that just made up?
mainly, can i kiss with braces?
Yes. Yes.
I know Tv drama everything up.. don't worry you deff can kiss and can enjoy it: )wink wink..
ok here it goes i am 15/f and well i think i could be pregnant i don't know for sure but i have no clue what i would do if i found out for sure that is all i think about lately but what would i do my family well we already have family problems the way it is right now and a baby would just ruin my family and i wouldn't be able to go to school where i go now because i couldn't dare listen to what people have to say about it i don't know what to do and how to cope with it um lets see if i was pregnant abortion is out of the question and adoption would be way to hard to do maybe i should just take a pregnancy test but i don't know how to get one without anyone asking questions
It's just like tampons or pads, no one cares. Pregnancy tests are the safest way to find out your guna have a baby and if people say anything to be like It was for my Mom.. And just see if your pregnante. IFyou are tell your parents and have the discuss anything that you could do. If your not than don't have sex again! Your 15 and not a virgin if you were worried what people said you wouldnt of had sex with anyone? Do you atlest know who the Daddy Is??
Quote- It's easier to change a condom than a diaper.
REMEMEBER THAT!
16/f
What's the best way to ask my mom if I can go on birth control ? It's not because I have sex, but because my cramps unbarable. I brought it up to her once before, and she said I was to young & how my older sister didn't go on it until she was 18. Any ideas on how to bring it up to her and/or how to get her to say yes ? Anything helps. Thanks :)
Talk to her privatley and just ask. Don't dance around the question cuz my mom hates that. And if she brings up how ur sister got on it when she was 18 be like well im not her.. and that your doing it because your cramps suck and ask for her to st up an apointment to see a doctor. My mom insisted i start it when I was 12 why no idea but its a really big commitment so be straight forward and see waht she says
when the sailor scouts transform.. um they change clothes so what do all the other people around them see when they transform? some giant light or like they are spinning around naked till they wear their outfits? O_O i've always wondered about that
its probably just like a drama factor about it. they probably just change but in the show it shows them spinning to be cool
i was always really close to my aunt,she was like a 2nd mother to me.she was older tho,she was my great aunt.me & her were best friends all my life,i loved her more than anything.but about last october,i found out that she was really really sick,and that she had been for a long time,but they didnt tell me because they didnt think i could handle it.they sed she wouldnt live much longer.she died close to christmas and it ruined my christmas.i bauled my eyes out,and sometimes i still do.i was pale & depressed all the time.well im getting over it,but i miss her so much.i cant get her voice or our memories out of my head.i cant get over this,i miss her.i start crying whenever i think of her.i swear she was an angel,and still is.what can i do to help myself not get so upset.i just miss her so so much.
the last time i saw her,she was so skinny & sickly looking,she looked like an alien,i couldnt handle it.and i dont forgive myself,i was selfish.i couldnt handle seeing her like that,so i left her when she needed me the most.i need her now,i need her so much.i dont know what to do.i miss her,i need her.sometimes,i know shes with me,i can feel it,but its not the same.she was my only true friend ever.what can i do to forgive myself & nto get so upset.
sorry it was long,thanks.
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When my Uncle died of cancer, I thought of blaming god for everything he promised to do than never did. He looked so horrible I couldn't bare look at him. Over time I mean I stell think about him and I miss him so much but you just cant say I dont miss you. It doesnt work that way i know ive tried. Remember all the moments that meant soo much before she looked like a completely diffrent person and don't be sad, she would want you to remember her exactly like that. Like your best friend, not someone who looked like an **alien**. Im not saying you'll ever forget her, but just think it was her time to go. Now god has her doing things that are so important He needed her. Remember all the good times, some of the bad that brought you closer and how at this very moment shes looking down on you..
Im sorry about your lose I know how it feels to lose someone and not be able to do anything but watch them get worse. Blamming yourself wont help, blamming god wont, or her. Remember her to the best of her name and I know and you know she will never be far away.
is there going to be another harry potter? he didnt even fight that mean guy, the old guy did .
there are seven books and movies there are going to be two movies more than the order of the phenixx. abd the last books coming out the 21st
I'm 15, turning 16 soon. I weigh 115 and im 5'5". When ever my dad sees me he always makes a suggestion like, you shouldn't eat that, you're just getting fatter and fatter. And if i ask for money for new jeans, he says, we'll stop gaining weight so you can fit back into them. I wear a size 0, and i'm growing, what does he expect? How am i suppose to cope with this? It's been bothering me so much lately. My sister, whose 20, is like anorexic skinny. She's my height but doesn't even reach 100 pounds. And my dad always compares me to her. What am i suppose to do?!
Tell you Dad to shut it! Be like well im not her now am I and im a growing girl who needs new cloths becaue im growning out of them and I dont think you in any posstion to call me fat Ill eat what I want when I want.(you sisters name) is 20 and anerxic do you really want meto be like that???
my friend and i were at his house with all my other friends but then he told them to go away so that he could dye my hair. i was really wet when i first got there so he lent me a t shirt and boxers to wear. so when they got out of the house we were alond in his room and he kinda started feeling me and put his hands on my waist. he was all over me and even tried to finger me. he was lifting up my shirt but then i was like what are you doing?? you have a girlfriend!!!! so it kinda ended there but i dont know what to do because i really like him. the thing is maybe he doesnt like me but just wants to do stuff with me. ugh what do i do??
Tell your friend what happened, and be like I told him no and he stoped. Im soo sorry. And tell him that were friends nothing more.
okay if you havent read about Eric than theres not enough time, we got ina fight, I told him i loved him and left, and he wouldnt stop calling or anything now he's here!! ahh what do i say to him? Im in really cute pair of jeans though, so thats all good but what do i say to him?? I mean we got ina fight over his X when I was trying to make him feel better and omgg he's in his bathrob!Wow his mom wasnt lieing..(im 14 so hes 14 too) Oh My God. umm okay umm hard to say i just minimized this and he started talking to me telling me that it isnt far that im being treated like this and that he loves me and he just kissed me. he's taking his rob off at the moment so please hurry!!!!!
Okay this is my question..
more info on the fight of me and eric
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My mouse just gave birth but shes eating the babies. What should I do?
Well when i viste the puppies I have to wash my hnad really good with this special soap or the mom will reject them and somethimes eat them. Well I'd clean them becuase they could smell you or anything on them and that might be why the mom is attacking.
Hopw I helped
ok well basically.. like a week ago i broke up with my boyfriend. for lots of reasons.. i wont name them all (but some of them were kinda mean). and so then i was a bitch to him.. dont ask me why.. i still liked him i just was trying to push him away for some reason b/c my friends didnt like him & stuff. so now i feel like basically hates me but i still like him a lot like i feel like i cant live without him.. we had been going out for like a year and so now idk what to do b/c i think he likes this other girl. and like i said sorry like a million times and he accepted my apology & stuff but now idk what to do b/c i feel like i dont have a chance anymore b/c of how i treated him and i know its all my fault but is there anything else i can do?
It is your fault you broke up with him. I know this is something you don't wanna hear but its true. If you liked him as much as you explain you do which I don't doubt that you don't but you would not of cared that your friend don't like him. And if there true friends they would be able to see how much you care for him.
to make an impact on your sorry to him-
Tell him you made a mistake.. and that you can't picture any happiness without him and that you hope he can exept this apoligy because you mean it with all your heart and that you were a fool to listen to anything\anyone besides your heart..
AND maybe cry a lil.. lol
hope i helped
i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything?
it could it could make it easier to read but i think you just didnt give him what he wanted to hear so thas why he gave you a 3.