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Tonight I am going to the movies with four of my freinds. One of them is a girl, my best freind, and the otehr three are guys. The one guy, lets call him Tim, has been freaking me out. He's always liek I dreamed about you last night and we were hooking up and going out. And I'm thinking of you, I love you xo. And like, I bet you are good at hooking up. And I jsut don't like it. So tonight I am worried he will try and sit next to me and like try to make a move. There will be other girls there who I'm not exactly freinds with. What should I do? Ignore him? Or what? (link)
easy just dont sit next to him...like go standing near one of ur friends and wait till you go in then let her sit next to you and if he still trys and ends up sitting next to you make an excuse like "umm i don like sitting here" then switch with someone and make it perfectly clear like 100% tht u dont like him and if he brings up that dream crap start laughing and go "thats funny id never see that happening" and if he still persisits yell at him and be like "dude go away!!" haha good luck! laterz


Hey can someone tell me what's the song that comes after the "stop!"

watch this vid:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXKM3JUNvqw&search=buttons%2C%20pussycat%20dolls (link)
hahahahhahaha..umm alot of songs have "stop".omg tht was the worst describion i seen my whhole entire life...


my daughter is 27 years old and she has never cared about me. how do i do love my husband when it is not there..
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love doesnt fly away from anyone it doesnt magically disapper somethin must have happened tht made your reltionship go down...mabey you guys are having a roady relationship but if your husband still loves you then think about what made you love him in the first place...some guy is using you and you have love right infront of you..and dont say your daughter never cared about you thats what my mom says about us and its not true tal to her and give her time have you ever done anything to hurt you daughter? Listen please no daughter WILL EVER HATE THEIR MOTHER and for no reason espacially...please dont let this man use you...ive seen it happen to much to people i love...it ends up badly...youll end up hurt so will your husband and most importantly your own daughter spicin up your relationship with your husband belive me love is something great please dont waste it


i am a 45 year old woman and i have been with my husband for 10 years and married 3 of the 10. i have not been in love with my husband for a long time ( almost a year) and i meat a man that i am falling for but he told me last night that we are fuck buddies but i wantto know how i can get him to fall in love with me (link)
okay...omg...first of all your 45 years old you should kno when ur being used..how can you go so low? what about ur kids? do you even love them ? think about them stop being SO SELLFISH if you think this wont effect them then i know your children better then you do...your a sad excuse for a mom and a sad excuse for a wife...the man is telling you that your his sex buddy..hmmm what does tht mean oh yeah he must defiantly be in love with you OR he thinks your easy and decide "shes old and saggy but i havent got some for a while" tell the man if he wanted a slut to go find a hooker ok because you shouldnt be treated like one..your not in love with him you want some action in your life ..go back to your husband and spice up your relation ship and cry about what your doing i hope you relize tht its wrong


Okay, I was at a party and my friend Sara was acting like a slut. She was wearing really short shorts and flirting with everyone (until her boyfriend got there) all the guys were all over her and she was showing off. And, she flirts with the guy I like. What should I do it annoys me so much, and I need to win the guy I like so he won't start to like Sara. (link)
ok i know how feel the same things happening to me now and my friend also has a boyfriend ...these kind of girls dontcare if having a boyfriend she will do something because if she did care she wouldnt be flirting with all these guys 1 and second of all she thinks shes hot and all she might have an affair and she on her boyfriend to me basically flirting menas cheating your friend sounds like a whore (no offence) so they usually do get the guys so you go win him over quickly...but..dont sound needy like you need him sometimes guys like girls they have to work for be speacial and let him work for you those kind of relationships usually last long...also my friend has a boyfriend and shes flirting with the guy i like ...and i think because shes acting all slutty thats why he came to me because i talked to him and i was funny and all and we got close but i let HIM call me and i let him talk to me so i dont looks needy so hed work ...so you should do the same talk to him get close and when you feel like your getting him let him come to you =) lol sorry its long but i hope i helped byez


i have this boyfriend, right, so our relationship is going really good, excecpt the fact that whenever hes around his friends, he doesnt pay any attention to me and acts like a total jerk. but then when were together alone he treats me like a princess . whats ronge with this picture.. helpp ! (link)
you should talk to him about that and not all guys are like that my brother had his girlfriend and when hes around his friends with her he treats her the same (most imp thing to him) even once i guy spelled her name wrong online and like he threatned to hurt him so not all guys are like that but your guy obviously is just trying to showoff and try to act like hes the boss in the relationship talk to him fast before he thinks your ok with it and keeps doin it...byez


so i'll start by telling you a bit about myself.

i am 15 f. i don't want to sound arrogant but yes, i am popular which is why i don't get what is going on. I am vasrity cheerleader as a sophmore and have no trouble w/ guys and have alot of girl friends. so this is my question...

i got into a figth with this girl and it got bad, but girls are catty. she tried to ruin my reputation, but i ruined her life =] i got her kicked off of class vice president and her friends hate her. but to be fair, she really deserved it im not kidding. she posted pictures of me that were like edited and crap to make it look like i was naked, like photocopying my head onto the pic or w/e. and posted it on alot of the lockers. idk why she did it, shes just jealous b/c im dating her ex bf. seems to me like SHES the sociopath not me...

so after this i got in trouble, the school sent me to a therapist to talk about why i act the way i do. he diagnosed me a sociopath. But um... sociopaths are psycho anti-socials and im the center of attention. Im not a freak, i love shopping and guys and they say just b/c im a little decieving and like it my way, makes me a sociopath???

can somebody please explain to me how a popular varsity cheerleader can be a sociopath because i am way not antisocial. (link)
FYI bitch i really dont care if you had to give your teacher a lapdance to get straight as ok i dont give a fuck and not losers have to work for their problems people that are responisble get what they want by working for it and if you had takin your head outta ur ass for a minute youd understand what i mean you whore .in my school me and my friends are the ones who rule the school and girls like you are at the bottom...so try movin around a bit...


well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM" (link)
Honestly...being funny is always the best way! i found that because im realf funny people are always hanging with me! but not be funny like when u see someone you start making fun of them and let other people put you down thats dumb i mean funny like joke around..also start parties have sleep overs and always be the one that invites the coolest people so then everyone would wanna go stop running after people let them come to you if u have any more questions just write me k..laters(btw im 14)


im a blond guy and i once learned that girls dont like blonds what should i do with my hair? my hair is short and i am male i rate high (link)
phhh would really change yourself for a girl?! oh c'mon its not like shes gonna look at you and be like "oh wait he has blonde hair sorry" noones like that thats one and second of all you should never change yourself even if its the smallest thing for anyone else...unless you yourself dont like it
byes


hi my name is julie and this guy at my school grabs my ass every once in a while. do u think that is ok? he is kinda hott!!! do u think that is a sign of him liking me? cause i actually kinda like it when he does that is it ok or is that harrassment even though i like it?
julie (link)
Ok,well noone really asked what your pretty name was..and second of all why are you letting this boy take advantage of you OMG i hate it when girls act like such sluts it makes the rest of us look bad ok if it was me i wouldve wacked that kid not laughed about it and ask how much i should like it!! If you show him its ok and show hime Your easy then hell get worse....so later on if it does get worse and you show him you like him doing what he does and you get raped and at the end cry about it asking what you did wrong remeber the first time he grabbed your ass and you didnt do ahit about it....


KEEP IN MIND THIS IN TEXAS. my girl ("wiwi") got kicked out the house by her momma than she change her mind all of a sudden. "wiwi" was kind of happy for her momma kicking her out the house because she has been CHILD ABUSE by her for a long period of time to the point the family had to get counciling, social worker, and a check up on momma. last year wiwi got beaten up by her momma to were she had a sissor. she got beaten up so bad and it left her in not so good conditions. this year it starting to begin so she wants to stay out the house. she's 17 and 6 months year old. my question is that if her momma were to kick out the house and she left can the law do any thing to wiwi? is it true that once u are 17 and 6 months year old the police can't force u back home is your decion from than on (once momma kicked her out)? is there any law that can help her out not to return home? NOW KEEP IN MIND THIS IS IN TEXAS. how can i help her??? (link)
Ok, well first of all im sure the last thing your friend wants is for her mom to be in jail...but she does need help...she old enough now to make her own descion she can stay with a friend and remeber shed probably be goin away for collage soon...her mom might be crazy and a horriable mom but i dont think the daughter wants her in jail even though thats were the mom HAS to be...maybe her mom is going through some kind of trauma thats she cant take out so she takes it out on her children if thats the case then let your friend find help as soon as possible she shouldnt have to be goin through this hses just a kid...hope i help later


Okay, so I'm 15 and for all my life I've been really really thin. I'm also short so that's why I don;t weigh too much. Well over the summer, I was weighed and measured and I was 4'11" and 93 pounds. Well I also have a REALLY fast metabolism and I don't exactly eat too healthy. I've noticed lately that my thighs and stomach are starting to get bigger than I want them to be. Can someone tell me some good excercise techniques and good diets to keep me skinny? I could really use the help! (link)
well i was also over weight before and im not the diet kinda person what i did was i played lots of sports mainly soccer..you run alot so you get more thirsty then hungry...if you keep playing more sports and try like only two meals a day like only breakfast and dinner belive me youll lose wait in no time...hope i helped later


I have this Friend and she told me this secret about her haveing sex, and well being the good friend that I am I didnt tell any one, but the other person she told told the whole school and now the whole school thinks that its me and now they all like hate me. I dont know what to do she keeps blameing it on me and it wasnt me. What should I do tell the other person to confess, let it be, or talk the friend about it. I am so confused please help me.





sincerelly,
LostAtThought77 (link)
ok well you go up to this friend and tell her what really happened and then go and start shit with that other girl and make her pay for what she did and what the hell brung the school into this woukdnt they know who started the rumurs those idiots dont they know who tells them rumurs what the hell and if your friend still doesnt belive you then she not a real friend and tell her next time she feels like a constipated horny lil bitch dont let her come up to you and tell you so....laterz


Well ... me and my bf have been together for sometime now. Actually about 4 months. The thing is though it seems longer. When we're apart for like just the weekend, i feel like i shouldn't miss him the way I do. I'm trying to figure out if I should be falling for him as hard as i am. Don't get me wrong I love him to death and i want to be w/ him for as long as we can last. I just feel like we might be rushing into stuff way to fast. He's who i lost my virginity to and i wanted to with him. But was it too soon? I need help, is 4 months okay to be thinking I couldn't live w/o my baby? Or am i just wayyy to attached? Plus Im only 15 w/ a 16 yr old bf. (link)
HEY HEY tht person who answered above is kinda right and wrong at the same time...well first this is my sisters advicenators acc...well iam here bro..anyways iam in love with this girl like you are with your bf...i want to be with her forever and such..it doesnt matter if your rushing into fast...i mean look at me and her,we been together for only 2 month and we're so close..that worries me sometimes but its love and real love feels like this...dont distant urself from him..talk to him about it..tell him exactly how you feel and such..trust me..this is love so you cant distance urself from him or think ur moving to ffast...love is like a reflex,you cant stop ur reflex nor see when and how it will spawn...let me kno wht i said help you in anyway so i can feel reassured as well :P bye


My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 5 months now. We used to be very sexually active, but then decided to stop because of the possible trouble we could get into. Ever since then it's kind of been boring for us. The last thing I want is for him to loose interest in me. Does anyone have any fun things that me and him can go out and do? BTW: My parents aren't really cool with 'alone one on one dates', which makes it twenty times harder. If you have anything we can do at his or my house that'd be great.

Thank You. (link)
well your relation ship isnt based on sex is it? so what did you guys used to do before you started having it? You can watch movies...and cuddle up or talk about things like the craziest thing youve ever done ....or what was your worst kiss or your funniest dare ...comeon i shouldnt be making conversations for you to talk to you bf with just be kool together because if having sex is the thing that keeps you to together then mabey you arent ment to be...say if i helped laterz


I failed my matric 3 times,I want to attend at technical college but not sure of which course to do. My major subject are Maths and Geography. Please advice me. (link)
umm...well i really dono anything about collage you see im still 14 so i really wouldnt know im sorry but il ask someone and if they kno ill tell yeah right away ok laterz


Hey, I'm a 13 year old girl & my birthday is comming up really soon. My boyfriend wants to know what I want.. but I can't possibly think of anything, because I already have him. If you could give me some ideas that a 13 year old going on 14 would want. I'm into sports but I'm also girly. If you could give me ideas it would be greatly appreciated. I'll rate you! Thanks lots♥ (link)
i cant belive your asking us what you want...oh by the way if he asks just say nothing like i do...and how can someone play sports and be girly girl thats wrong!!!


im 14/f and i want to get a job but i dont know any. i tried looking it up on the internet but i didnt get anything ill rate 5! and leave good comments! thanks so much! (link)
im also 14/f...and well i help around the house alot so i dont get much either i only get 100bucks monthly which sucks but trying to debate with parents wont go anywhere so i guess you can either tell your parents you want a raise in your allownce ..or babysit...which is totally boring...i would never shovel snow lol but you can if u want ...mabey you can help neighbors around their houses or something ...whatever laterz


Ive known this kid for a while lets call him joe. Me and joe have been on and off friends for 3 years now. He really means a lot to me. But he doesnt really know. Were in highschool now and he has a lot more friends now that dont like me so he doesnt like to talk to me when theyre around. My friend just recently told him i liked him like more than a friend. So now he knows and its weird when we talk now. Last summer he sent me pictures of his dick so he said i owed him so about a week ago he made me send him pictures too. He really liked them but hes still not going along with the whole more than friends thing. We almost hooked up a few times but someone else always comes in the way. I really like joe and ive tried getting over him but i cant forget about him. And its christmas break and he told me that we would hang out but he never did ask me. I asked him a few times but he always said he couldnt for some reson. I dont know what to do. I cant forget about him, i think about him all day. Help please? sorry its so long. (link)
ok...you got used by the way....did you read your own letter???look at it and tell me if you think hes worth it?come on why do you ask questions like this when you can awnser them for yourself...if someone had asked u this question what would you have said?he knew you liked so he showed a pick of his...so u can show him a pic of w/e you did i really dont wanna know..you sold yourself short you showed him that he can use you easily you should have been strong and said "fuck off perv" i wouldve ....he doesnt wanna talk to you because hes around his friends...what does that show you...not a good bf or a friend who cares about this asshole ok forget about him hes not worth it try going for someone new...and with this guy..try to show more self respect with you and your body dont go showing everyone what you look like ok victoria had a secret and so should you...say if i helped ok?laterz


Hi there
iv gotten myself in quite a bind. Iv never been so confused before..well here it goes.
Im 16 years old and live in toronto, now i have this family friend whom iv known for 10-12 years, we recently became reaquainted in May; since than wev talked alot, wev seen eachother at various occassions, at these occasions we always hang out or dance together...he says sweet things to me, and hes just a great guy.
Just after christmas he asked me to go see a movie with him, he said him his sister and her bf were going to see a movie and he wanted to knw if i wanted to come, (i accpeted of course) so he came and picked me up and we all ended up spliting up and we had a great time. So than we went to the same new years party together, at this new years party his family seemed very intrested in me;like always smiling at me etc. He asked me to dance a few times and we did,but at one point i was dancing with another guy and he was staring alot, but we overall had a blast together (i also ended up taking him home). Wev talked a bit after that. Hes a great guy but the only problem is hes 20, and he goes to skool in london (which is about 2.5 hours away). so i guess im in denial! like why wud he be intrested in me?! but i like him soo much and i just dont wanna make a fool out of myself and i dont wanna get hurt! so does he like me? is he intrested? wat shud i do?
HELP!!!! (link)
well it does seem he likesyou im kinda positive ...and what about the distance between u guys 2.5 hours is freakin good my friend is in egypt and her bf is in america and they liked eachother and still do ...now theyre in love...and the age might be kinda weird well to me but as long as your ok with it who cares ...go for it dont let these good slip away...later




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