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hi my name is julie and this guy at my school grabs my ass every once in a while. do u think that is ok? he is kinda hott!!! do u think that is a sign of him liking me? cause i actually kinda like it when he does that is it ok or is that harrassment even though i like it?
julie
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A sign of him liking you? I think it's a sign of him being a pervert. Personally, I wouldn't ever allow it. I figure you like it or you don't. I don't see how there could be an inbetween. I would even say that if you're here questioning his motives, then you aren't that fond of it either. Have you told this guy to cut the crap? Perhaps you should give it a try, and see how you feel about him afterwards.
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If yu like it then I guess let him do it but. I dont think he actualy like likes yu. Last year I would have thought the guy liked me if he grabbed my ass but now I know that they are grabbing it because they have a physical and sexual attraction to you but nothing else. If there was something else he would respect you and not do that.
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I know when you're young it can be exciting to have guys paying attention to you physically, but the truth is that even if you "kinda like it" you need to act "schocked and appalled". You see this lets him know you have confidence and respect yourself and your body and guys are attracted to confidence so he will actually end up likin you more. If you don't- he will think you are this unconfident girl he can take advantage of and he will flirt with you for his kicks, not because he actually respects or "likes" you.
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Ok,well noone really asked what your pretty name was..and second of all why are you letting this boy take advantage of you OMG i hate it when girls act like such sluts it makes the rest of us look bad ok if it was me i wouldve wacked that kid not laughed about it and ask how much i should like it!! If you show him its ok and show hime Your easy then hell get worse....so later on if it does get worse and you show him you like him doing what he does and you get raped and at the end cry about it asking what you did wrong remeber the first time he grabbed your ass and you didnt do ahit about it....
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its up to you if its ok or not. either way it's kidna considered harrassment. only to a certain extent though. he might just be flirting with you, but it is deff a possibility that he likes you!
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