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there is this kid in my grade that likes me, the only problem is that he is a total geek and i don't even like him as a friend (not because he is a geek though, because he is annoying)
Now he told everyone that he IS stalking me and that he likes me!
what should i do without hurting his feelings?
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Okay, I can't guarantee that anything you tell him to get him to stop 'stalking' you won't hurt his feelings. He obviously likes you, he even admitted to it. I think you should just go up to him and in a polite voice say " I'm sorry, but I don't like you, I like someone else *even if you don't* .. and don't take this offensively, but if you want someone to like you back, don't stalk them! " .. something like that. Make sure you're serious when you say it, and if he continues you should be able to make your own decision about whether to be rude or not. hope i helped
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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Sort of. This is that kind of idea that I think could go either way, like a debate or something. Personally, I say yes, you can be suicidal, without having ever attempted suicide. Being suicidal simply means "likely to attempt suicide", so I guess that is pretty much self-explanatory. If someone you know said they are suicidal or something along the lines of that, you need to get them help and FAST! hope i helped.
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Hey everyone!
I'm trying to lose a few pounds and maybe an inch off my stomach or just tighten it up. I was just wondering if doing 100 crunches a day, drinking water or flavored water with no calories,carbs etc..and running at least a mile each day will show results within 20 days or so. I would really appreciate any feedback. Thanks guys! (link)
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That's a great start to begin losing some weight. Running is EXTREMELY good for your legs. And crunches are great for your stomach, so that's a pretty good plan. You might want to slowly increase the amount of crunches you do daily if you feel the need to, but don't do too many. On top of what you are planning to do/already doing, you need to watch what you eat. Limit the amount of sugary, fatty, and greasy or oily foods you consume if you don't already. Hope i helped
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this might be long,
At a recent school dance i danced with this really cute boy. That whole night i totally obsessed over him and couldnt stop thinking about him. After the dance i went online and talked to my friend hailey and told her i felt something for him. We talked about it and said "i have no chance hes way out of my league. ill probably never talk to him again" and then the next day at school at lunch hailey came up to me and said " i talked to shane" and i was like "whhattt!?" and she says " i asked him what he thought about you looks wise and he said veerry good" i was really happy about it. I started to get to know him for about a month and when the next dance came he asked me out. We started going out but i felt really weird...not so much the first couple of days. He would come over my house and we watched movies and stuff (and thats it) . then the next weekend he came over again and watched a movie and i got so fed up with having him around and the next day i dumped him. Well to get to the point. I like guys that i cant have. Once they start to like me i totally change and dont feel anything for them. I just want someones oppinion about it. I keep dumping totally sweet boys that girls at my school are dying to get their hands on for no reason!
sorry if it was long
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Wow, I think that you just get a little impatient or something with the fact that once you have a boyfriend, you can't exactly 'like like' other guys, if you know what I mean. I think that next time you get a boyfriend and get that weird feeling, just plan to go to the movies or mall or something so that you get to hang out with him and stuff. Eventually everything should work out. That probably wasn't too much of a help but you can i/m me anytime at xobubblegum25xo. hope i helped
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my mom and her fiance have just decided that they would like to move in together B4 they get married. (which is sometime at the end of this year.) the lease on our apartment is up at the end of may, and my mom wants us (me, her and my lil' bro) to move in with them (him and his two kids). she says that she doesn't want to renew our lease on our house, b/c at the end of the year she would have to buy out of it b/c she will have to break the lease. his house is not big enough for all six of us to live in, so they have been doing some house hunting in his neighborhood. i have two problems with this:
#1. i am not comfortable with moving in with them right now. i don't really know hime or his kids that well.
#2. i don't want to move to his neighborhood, b/c then i would have to change school districts and leave all of my friends behind.
i have went to dinner with him and his kids. (his daughter is the same age as me.) and we try to do something "together" every weekend or every other weekend, but i feel like this is still not enough to make me comfortable with them. how do i tell my mom how i feel w/o hurting her feelings? i know that she deserves someone in her life that makes her happy, but at the same time i think i should have a say-so too. how do i convince her not to move? (link)
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You're right, your mom DOES deserve someone to put happiness in her life, but you should have some sort of say in it. I think you should just tell her exactly how you feel, but that maybe once you can get more comfortable with him AND his kids, you'll feel better about it. Tell her that you love the fact that she's found someone to love, but that you wish you could become more comfortable with "his part" of the family before moving in. And maybe throw in that if they do decide to get a house together, that it be in your school district so that you don't lose your friends. Make sure you're polite about it and stuff, and hopefully she will understand! hope i helped
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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out
Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude
It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.
So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty?? (link)
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Okay, in my opinion, I don't think you should change yourself JUST to get noticed. Also, I'm sure that you are pretty to someone out there. If people don't accept you for who you are, then don't bother with them or tell them how you feel or something. If you want to try something to make yourself look a little more put together or something, use make-up (eyeliner,eyeshadow,mascara,concealer/foundation,ect. if you don't already). Just don't try too hard, because then people might think of you worse (no offense!) Also, everybody has their own opinion about literally TONS of things, so I'm sure not everyone thinks you're not pretty, trust me. hope i helped, if you need more advice my sn is xobubblegum25xo
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Ok well Brett i/med me...my boyfriend and he said will you kiss me i dont no if it was a joke or if he was serious..i dont no what to say to him....help me!?
PLEASE Help,
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Okay, I think you're saying Brett is your boyfriend. You don't exactly have to SAY anything to him about it, unless he brings it up and you want to say something about it. I think you should plan a date, like go to the movies or something, and when you feel the time is right, or if he comes towards you and you're okay with it or something, then go for it (just kiss him i mean). If that doesn't sound like good or appropriate advice for you to use or try, then don't use it. Also, if you're just simply not ready to kiss him, then talk to him about it and tell him that you want to wait awhile, and if he doesn't accept that then, in my opinion, he's not really worth it. once again, if that doesn't seem like good advice, don't use it. hope i helped!
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Does anyone know like any websites that you can go to to get like makeup tips and not google or anything cause i have tried!!thnx tonzzz
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You can really go to any magazine website, like cosmogirl.com .. seventeen.com and i think girlslife.com might have some. Also, if you have AOL, the have teen message boards about make-up and stuff. A lot of magazines have make-up hints/tips/ideas, too. hope i helped
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hi, im 16/f i have this friend who has a bf and everything is different now that she has one, we have been fighting so much, we went 2 months with out talking, i was fine with it b/c i didnt have to put up with all of her bull shit, all she ever talked about was her bf, and if not that then just everything about her, and if i tryed to talk about like a guy i liked she'd get mad at me bc "im selfish" and we hardley ever talked about me or my problems, it was always about her. at first it didnt bug me, but then it got to be too mch so i called her on it and she got so mad at me and called me selfish, so thats why we stoped talking those couple months, now were talkign again, and it's worse then ever i can hardly stand her. sould i call her on it again, or just leave things the way they are? plz some one help me!! thanks (link)
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Okay, you're friend is being arrogant .. sort of. I think you should call her and talk to her about it and tell her that you've seen a major change in her personality AND attitude since she and her boyfriend have been together and if she wants to keep your friendship then change her attitude/personality, and if she doesn't just let her go. If she denies that she has changed, tell her to look back on the last few months (or years). And really, if she's giving you this much of a hard time, being VERY obsessive, and not caring at all about you or your problems, just let her go, or at least take a break for a while. hope i helped
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well im 13 and i have had my period since the begining of sixth grade. But i have two problems one i try to wear tampons but they really hurt and i dont know what to do. Two in the past 2 months i have had my period alot like every 2weeks i dont know if its just the flow of it changing and stuff or do you know if somethin could be wrong?
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Okay, problem one first. When you've tried to wear tampons, have you tried the lowest absorbensy? That is probably best to start out with if it hurts. Problem two. If you have your period about every 2 weeks, it could be normal, or there could be a problem. Since you're only 13 right now and you've only had it since the beginning of 6th grade, it could be that you're just irregular and your body still has to get used to it. That advice probably wasn't what you needed, so if you need more/different advice .. just ask me and I might be able to give you more advice, or you can ask your mom or your doctor. Hope I helped!
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okay there is this guy i like but he is in 11th grade and im in 9th and he sits at my lunch table n all of a sudden like a few months ago he just stated to sit next to me and stuff and flirt kinda and ive had ppl at my table come up 2 me and say i think you 2 should go out. But hes also a big partier if u kno what i mean n ive heard stories about him that arnt too good like hes always partying n stuff like that. And i know that he used to smoke but he swears he hasnt for like 6 months and says that he is quitting so thats good i guess... right? but he rly is a nice kid dont get me wrong there and plus hes madd funny. and i had a friend ask him who he liked and he said no1 at our lunch table right now but possibly in the future. And im rly confused... should i like this kid?
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I can't decide for you if you should like this guy or not. But I can tell you that the best thing to do is let your heart decide, and follow. If you feel the urge to be around him, hang out, talk a lot and such, then yes, go for it! If you feel as though your family or friends would not be happy with you for going out with a guy who is 2 years older than you, parties a lot, and used to smoke, then maybe you should think twice. Your friends and family are forever, guys are just temporary until you find the right one. So I guess you should just think of it that way and hopefully you will make the right choice. What that choice would be, I don't know. I wish you the best of luck. Hope I helped!
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hey does anyone kno if sharpie(permenent marker) is bad for your nails??
this has nothing to do with it but whats the best way to get a guy who goes to a diffrent school and you like never see and talk on the phone with to like you because like i flirt better in person so... plz help (link)
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I'm not exactly sure if sharpie is bad for your nails, but I know it's not the best thing to use if you're trying to paint them .. just go get nail polish if that's what you're trying to do.
And for the whole getting to see a guy that goes to another school thing, I think you should make plans with him on a weekend or night or something .. like go to the mall or to the movies. Just remember to be yourself, look your best, and most of all FLIRT! Hope I helped!
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I'm 20 years old, and going out with this guy this Friday. He's a little bit shy, but I know he's really nice and funny and smart, and I really like him. However, I kinda want the realationship to get a bit more serious. Any tips on how to break the ice?
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Okay, I'm going to try to help you to the best of my ability, but if this doesn't seem like the right advice, then don't use it. Just remember, this is coming from a teenager's point of view! I think you should just act normal, be yourself. Simply show him that you like him for who he is (hopefully you do). If he doesn't seem to loosen up, suggest that you get together sometime and watch a comedy movie, romantic or not, at one of your houses. Once again, just be yourself and act freely, just not too immature, and he will probably loosen up and eventually be more fun to be around! Hope I helped!
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for my b-day i got thes iron-on rhinestones, where you can put them on denim, and they come in shapes and words, like stars and circles, and words like 'hot', 'sweet' and 'sexy', or you can make your own designs. i have two questions. 1. would they look better on a jean jacket, or jeans, and 2. what other designs would be a good idea? (link)
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I think they would look really cute on jeans. If your jeans have a design on the back pockets, then it might look cute if you decorated the design with them. That's along the lines of what my friend did to her hollister jeans, and it ended up looking REALLY cute! Also, you could decorate the top front of your jeans, like where your thighs would be. I've seen stores do that to some of their denim for decoration, and I think it looks really cute! As for the 'hot', 'sweet', and 'sexy' ones, I think it would look cute if you ironed them onto a fabric binder, if at all possible. Hope I helped! Happy crafting! (haha just kidding)
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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges? (link)
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Hmm .. at tryouts just try to imagine them in their underwear. Hah, just kidding! But you can try that if you want. Okay, back to being serious. I think you should just simply pretend the judges aren't there. Be yourself while you're cheering and don't TRY to make everything perfect. When I tried out for soccer I tried to do everything perfectly and I only screwed up more. Just cheer like there's nobody watching you, and hopefully you will do fine. I wish you the best of luck! Hope I helped!
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ok this is what happend, during spring break (2 days ago) me, my friend, my sis, my dad and mom went to las vegas. While we were there we saw kids from our schools baseball team there (we were going crazy) .. and my friend likes 4 guys total and there happend to be 2 of the guys that she liked there..then my dad told me to say hi to them so i did..i went up to them and started talking..then later that night 1 of the guys m friend had liked asked me for my # so i gave it to him. Then while we were walkin up and down the strip my friend was trying to tell him all the bad things about me so that he wouldnt like me anymore (i guess that didnt work).. then when me and him went to get some subway my friend was talking to my sis and my sis said that my friend was saying that its not fair that he likes me and that she liked him first and blah blah blah.. but whenever i got to know him i started liking him ALOT and we madeout that night too (it seemed like she didnt care that much), but thats the only guy i like (and shes obbsessed with 3 other guys too). So when we were driving home she was saying that whenever we get back to school shes going to try and impress him (cuz that night she looked like a piece of cr*p).. then i had no idea what i was going to do so i called him up and starting telling him everything. Then he said not to worry cuz im the 1 he kissed that night and not her .. but i know shes going to get mad cuz hes going to ask me out whenever he comes back from las vegas. I just dont know what to do right now... (link)
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Okay, although your friend doesn't find it fair that you sort-of-but-not-really stole from her, it's okay. She's got 3 other guys and the rest of the single guys at your school to choose from! Yeah, so it wasn't the nicest thing for you to do, but it's okay. I think you should just stay with liking this guy, you can't control your heart. Just try to be polite to your friend and help her get a boyfriend, then you both can be happy! Hope I helped! Just remember to follow your heart!
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hey i wanna talk to this kid i like, and im pretty sure he already knows i like him, but i dont want to make it obvious if he doesnt, which im like 99% sure he does like i said but anyway i dont know how to start talking to him, i mean used to talk alot but now im scared to talk to him, i mean i dont know what to say, other then, "hey whats up" and crap. (link)
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Wow, is that a long sentence or what?! lol, try saying it all in one breath! Okay, back to your question. I think you should face your fears and start a conversation with him, beginning with the "hey whats up" and stuff. Then, ask him what sports he likes to play, where he hangs out, what his hobbies are, etc. If you find out where he hangs out, then you can accidently-on-purpose run into him at that place! He will then think you're possibly into the same stuff as he is. Just make sure you don't "run into him" accidently-on-purpose too many times, because that could result in him thinking your a total stalker or something and then he won't even THINK about liking you (sorry if that sounded harsh!) Well that should work, and be sure to be flirty, and wear a simple fragrance if possible! Hope i helped!
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ok me and my ex were together for 8 months...my longest relationship. it got to the point where i could totally be myself and everything with him. our last month was aweful. he didnt call me as much, people said he was cheating on me. but whenever i asked him he said he would never do that. anyways, we broke up at the begining on this month. since then, ive gotten a new bf. ive known him for two years and a ton of girls like him and hes really popular and he really likes me. he talks about me ALL the time and hes a great bf. but lately ive been missing my ex so much it makes me cry. i wasnt really that sad after the break up (i broke up with him)...but now its hitting me. we still talk though..he said he has a new gf they got together yesertday and he asked if i wanted to double date!!!!!!! i was like wtf...that would kill me seeing him with another girl..but i just said yea anyways. well hes coming over sunday to get his stuff he left here before we broke up..i miss him so much...and when he signed off last nite he sed he loves me and he always will...im so confused...help..
i dont want him back...but then again i do...i just hate seeing him with someone else. :( (link)
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Hmm ... wow, it's a really bad feeling when you start to miss an ex. It's perfectly okay, though, even if you do have a boyfriend. You've probably been missing your ex because it just sunk in that he really wasn't YOURS anymore. It's a really great thing that you two still talk though. I really can't come up with an idea as to why he might say he loves you and always will though. Maybe you were his first TRUE love, and we all know that our first true love stays in our heart forever and always. Or maybe he's beginning to like you again. Either way, I think you should go through with the double date, and try to make the best of it. Hope i helped, tell me how everything goes!
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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz? (link)
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Okay, listen. Yeah, this is an absolutely HORRIBLE situation, and I'll do my best to try and help you. First of all, even if you aren't very religious, you need to pray to the Lord and ask him to help you through this, as well as anyone else who cares about your boyfriend. Ask the Lord to save your boyfriend and let him live, if it is in his will (God's Will). Sorry if I sound like a church-a-holic. There's nothing really you can do, besides hope, be there for his family and friends, and pray. I wish you the best of luck and if you need someone to talk to my s/n is xobubblegum25xo. Hope I helped!
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Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course. (link)
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Okay, this is sort of complicated. I know what its like to get really shy around a guy. It's really hard, but you have to talk to him. I think you should start a conversation with him in person, despite the things people say. If you can't do it in person, then maybe you should talk to him online, on the phone, or even write him a note. You really have to face your fears, you can handle it. You won't get anywhere in life if you don't follow your dreams. hope i helped.
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