Heyy my name is Alisha i'm 13 and i'm only in the 8th grade but I'm always the one people come to for advice becuase usually i know the solution so don't be afraid to ask away. Anyway um i love to play hockey, soccer, and baseball so i'm atchletic but when i'm alone in my room singing and acting is my love. Acting is so much fun to me and i have a lot of friends that enjoy it too. I enjoy acting but singing is something I'm really good at and something i would love to do for the rest of my life. Alos i'm very out going and i can get along with almost everyone. I think that's all you really need to know unless you want to know more just IM me or message me
Gender: Female
Location: rhode island
Occupation: baby sitting
Age: 13
AIM: alishaaa x3
Member Since: May 13, 2005
Answers: 62
Last Update: August 20, 2007
Visitors: 3855
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heyy ii really need someone to help me in this situation. please i rate high =) ..
ok well my boyfriend and i have gone out like once or twice b4 and were going out as of now again and the first 2 times i broke up wit him for the same reasons being 1) he acts all different around me and its like its not the person that i actually like in him 2) he choses like his friends over me for example we`ll be talking on the phone and hes like ''my friends calling i gotta go love yah bye'' *hangs up* its like yeah i love yah 2 .. talking to the dial tone. and im just soo stuck.. i mean 2day he came over and ofcorse he just had to bring over one of his friends.. and this is one of the problems tha way he acts when hes around his friends compared to me.. and like his friend wanted him & i to make out and stuff and thats just not something that my bf would do right away in a relationship and stuff so he started acting like lets do it type of thing when thats really not like him.. idk and like he tells me im beautiful like only when his friends are around i mean is he just trying to get something from me, im soo confused. do i believe him or not? .. and im always tempted to break up wit him but the past 2 times i broke uhp wit him i regreted it .. and soo yeah im really just stuck..and i just wanna move on in life.. i dont know what to do .. anyone have any sugguestions between break up or just like any other ideas? please help!! (link)
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hey, dont worry about it i know where youre comming from a lot of girls have this problems cause so many guys do this. Some of them always bring friends for sercurity cause there woont be a dull moment or akward silences if his friend is there, and also him acting different around you then he does when hes with his friends almost every guy in the world does that but mostly they do that because they don't want there friends making fun of him or teasing him for saying your beautiful or something and he probably just wants to be one of the guys and not be different than his friends.. and yea i know he shouldn't care about his friends if he really loves you but thats just hows guys minds work i hope it helped
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ok i want to make a photo album online. but i tried picturetrails and it only let me put 36 pictures and i was wondering if there aere any other site that will let me put like 50 pictures on it and let me put music on it too. not phototbucket. thanks! (link)
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hey i had the same problem with the picturetrail but go to webshots.com and u can have up to as many photes as you want for free and all you have to do is sign up
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alriight well i have this best friend, hes a guy, im a girl. we've been best friend for a pretty long time. i guess you could say were not your ordinary guy and girl friendship. we sit with each other at lunch, we call each other alot, we hang out every other weekend or so, we tell each other everything, etc. Well, yeah you know how i said i sit with him at lunch. well we whisper, like mostly whenever we talk we whisper, just because, we dont know why. well anyway i sit next to him and were always whispering and stuff. and the one day i was tired and i was resting my head and he put his arms around me and started shaking me.. then the one day they tried to stick pizza in my face and they know i dont like eating lunch, so i tried to like get up from the table but his shoulder was in the way so i ended up throwing myself over his shoulder and i just laid there and then i got off.. and then he was like, im not feelin to good and i was like.. ew throw up that way and hes like, ill be fine let me use your arm as a pillow, and he layed on my arm but then he got up like 10 seconds later.. alriight so i guess my question is, are we really flirting? my friend keeps saying that we would be really sweet together and even my teacher think were going out.. because this one time my math and science teacher were talking and he was whispering to me and he said something weird so i straightened up and looked at him with a suprised face and slapped him lightly on the shoulder and he started laughing and pulled me back down so he could finish and i looked over at my teachers and my science teacher looked at us all weird and my math teacher said something to her and she was like, "aw".. it was really weird.. well anyway are we really flirting?
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awww omg u guys are deffiantly flirting oh my god your guys sound so cute together, but yes he sounds like he really does like you more then a friend i know from experience me and my friend ( who is now my boyfriend) were just like you guys, but keep flirting with him and just act the same aroudn him and maybe if he's not to shy he`ll make the move and ask you if you like him too.
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What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s! (link)
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just talk about what you usually would say like if you were wiht your friends, and if theres a silence at any point just say something really random, cause random words always lead to a few topics, also smile a lot and if u look at him and he goes "what" just shake ur head smile and say nothing, try nto to gossip in case he doesnt like that but most importantly be yourself ! dont act any different around him then you would around your freinds.
hope it helped
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okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!! (link)
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duh deffiantly sleep over your friends house.. but don't make it obvious or drop any hints to your mom make sure she doesnt know, but if you want to go then you deffinatly have to sleep over it's the only way to hide it.
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I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =( (link)
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there isnt anything wrong with you, it always hurts for the first few times, but if you really wanna go swimming and you cant use a tampon just do wat i did.. get a clean pad and stick it to ur bathingsuit cause your period stops when its in water and then when you get out of the ater just go and change ur pad again and youll be fine
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ok well i have this friend i like him, n i think he likes me but i asked him n he dont answer me..any advice?
thankzz (link)
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i totally understand where your comming from. The same happened to me and my friend and well we got pretty far but lets not get into that story. anyway all you have to do is take him somewhere quiet where no one can interupt you or anything sit him down or go for a walk and just talk to him.. tell him that you really like him and that youve been waiting and you just wanna know his answer on wether he likes you or not.
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Ok I dont know how this happened but I am skinny with HUGE boobs! I'm not kidding all the guys go up to me and just stare I feel to uncompterble (sp) I wanted to get a boob reduction, but my mom wont let me! What should I do please please Help! (link)
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ohh dont eveen worry about that boys will eb boys but if your that self-concious about it thne wear like bigger shirts and it wont show as much or a smaller bra will push them down to a smaller size or if your young you'll grow into them but dont be so self-concious about it you should be comfortable with how you are.
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People say opposites attract, do people who are alot alike attract just as well? (link)
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yes of course. oppisites and alieks can attrack it really doesnt mean anything. people could be different and still like eahcother and they could be a like and like eachother the same way.
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i really like this guy, but he said i need to talk to him more... what are some ideas to talk to him about.. like on the ohone.. i honeslty think we've coverd every topic!! but any ideas would be great!! thanks in advance!! (link)
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think of anything random or you could ask himt o play the random game when you run out of topics (its when you each keep thinking of some random word and see who has the weirdest ones) or you could mention stuff about your friends or our family. Or you could do what i do and pretend you hurt yourself and that always leads to another topic or a few stories about hurting youself.
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How do I get people at school to see the real me? Everybody judges me except for my friends. I love listening to hip hop and rap and people are give me a weird look when I tell them I just got the new 50 cent CD or whatever. They also drop there jaws when I cuss. They say, "Wow..I never knew you cussed! I thought that was against your religion or something!" Just because I'm a christian doesn't mean I try to be perfect or anything...I am just like everybody else. And people also think that I am really reserved and I'm not AT ALL! I'm very gregarious and open..at least when I'm around my friends. They see the real me but most people just judge me. What can I do so that people won't be so judgemental? I was thinking that maybe it would help if I was a little more talkative at school w/ people who aren't necessarily my friends so people can see my other side. It just really pisses me off when people judge me this way! (link)
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well you shouldn't pay attnetion to what other poeple say but i know what you mean people thought i was weird and i had problems but they got over it and saw the real when. But you just have to do something outragoeus but be youself and dont always be quiet you gotta be talkative and really social and everyone has to know about you. dont worry it'll work out great
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I'm going to a swim meet to see my friend swim (I won't be swimming) and I want to wear some nice makeup that doesn't look too overdone but is nice and flirty. What colors should I wear, and what kind of makeup should I wear? (link)
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well it depends on the color of your hair for a flirty style.
blonde- black eyeliner&mascara.. n depending on the color of your outfit you could do a light touch of eye shadow matching the color of your outfit or just put sparkles above your eyes and also a clear shiny lipgloss.
brunette- same on the eyes except for the eyeshadow if you want to wear eyeshadow make sure its only a shiny or sparkley one and for lip gloss try a pink shiny one.
red- deffiantly the mascara but then eyeliner is a hard descision it depends on your face structure wether it would look ok or not and dont use eyeshadow just put glitter above your eyes and for lipgloss i would go with a clear lipgloss.
another color- just mix it up !
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oK, SORRY FOR THE LENGTH...ok well i was talking to my friend online(he is a guy lets call him Tod) and he was saying that him and his friend(lets call him Ben) called my house to see if i wanted to come over, but i wasn't there so i couldn't. And when i was talking with him online he said that they had drinks(we are all 14 by the way) and they wanted me to come over to have more fun, and when i asked what type of fun it was they said, "A girl and guys getting wasted not caring what they are doing, like any base" So i just went along with it and then they said next time i should come. I mean i want to come and i want to hang out with them, bc they are my really good friends, but i dont know what will happen if i drink...any advice?!!! I RATE HIGH FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!!
please i need advice.
thx (link)
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well if you want to drink to be with them then hey drink but pretend your drinking alot but really only take little sips and you wont get drunk and dont have more then 4 bottles. But if you really don't wanna drink then hey just dont go !! if theyre gonna pressure you into drinking then theyre so not worth it.
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i am a 13/f. i need indepandance. i want to be able to go places. to peirce my belly button. to go to rated r movies. not to have to sneak out to see my boyfreind. dye my hair purple. own a housekey.
i cut my hair, and it looks okay, but my mom didnt see it yet. i am so grounded tommorow. i have like no freedom in my house. my mom reads my emails and my books! she doesnt let me go to peoples houses unless she knows them. doesn't want me to pluck my eyebrows like i do. sh wants me to let them be natural!?:/ doesnt want me to have a bf. (she would flip if she knew the truth)my mom is like a watchdog. i gotta do something. talking to her or my dad doesnt work. my mom is in charge of the family, and in my face. what should i do to gain her trust and rights that a teenager should have?
-thanks
-xoxo olga (link)
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olga,
if your mom is really treating you like your 5 just simply proove to her that you are responsible and get her to learn that your 13 and you should have more independence. Also sit your dad down and talk to him about it and tell him that your mom is going crazy ! and that you have no privacy whatsoever and your getting older and should be trusted more and ask him if he would talk to your mom and if that doesnt work theres only one thing left to do yell at your mom straight forward
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I'm haveing a sweet 15th also known as quincenera similar to a sweet 16. Well I'm going to have one in about 4 months and I really need help on organization tips and things I need to do. I already have the place where its going to be at but from their I need so much help because I get confused and my mom isn't much help except her and my dad are paying for everything but I need to choose everything.So if someone has a site i can goto or give me tips on setting this up that will be nicely apprecited thanks on advance!
*sorry for mispelled words and so on. (link)
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i know just what you mean about not knowing what to do but first you could find a few friends to help you with it and also think of things that you like or things your interested in to get you started and mkae a list of them that'll get you started with what you would wanna decorate with or what music and stuff to play.
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hello everyone im a 13 year old female and i weight 81 pounds that may seem small but its normal for my family for example my mom weighs 109 she weighs less then most of my friends but anways im joing east lynn pop wanrer cheerleading and since this is my 1st year doing it im on c squad with the 5th graders and some of them weigh 65-70 pounds and i need to weigh that to be a flyer and since i was a flyer last time for my school i would like to be a flyer again i only drink water or diet coke which have no calories and i dont eat anything that is 120 calories or more im also actice i do cheerleading for my school and dance 3 days a week and also track when its in season i also do work out tapes daily i want to loose at least 11 pounds so i will be 70 pounds i also use my moms work out machines sometimes too i run around the block too im going to start jump roping too i even keep a chart too with the date day calories and weight on it i also dont eat breakfast either so does anyone know how to loose weight besides those things ill rate high if you tell me anything but what i said or join a gym or weight watchers or another diet thing like that p.s sorry for the longess but thanks for reading it i apprecaite it (link)
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this may sound weird but if you only drink water and only eat 5 helpings or fruits and vegtables for a week stright then it1ll speed up your matablilsim which will help you liek digest food faster making you lose weight
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Hey, I have this guy friend, and I found out yesterday that he likes me. I thought about It, and I guess I've known for a while, I've just denied it, but the more I think about it, the more I like him too. I don't know what I should do considering I'll see him tomorrow because we're both in band @ school and so we're gonna be marching in a parade. I don't know how I should react when I see him. He knows I know he likes me, but I don't think he knows I like him back. I want to give him the message, but I don't know how because i don't want to come off desperate or like i'm making fun of him. The way our friendship works is we always bug each other, and we always make-fun of each other just playin around, so... can you please help me? I'm SO confused. (I'm 14, and a girl.)
Luv ya bunches and I'll rate high if you help.
Confused Songwriter (link)
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i knwo exactly what your feeling it jsut recently happened to me n my best friend and were 13 but what you have to do is get him and some friends to go out one night and then just take him aside and go for a walk it's the perfect time to tell him how you really feel and believe me it`ll be a magical night for you from that moment on.. but up until that night eveyrday before it just act like your normal self around him and drop a few hints that you like him
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So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole. (link)
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my suggestion is just ignore her n hang out with your other friends n soon they will all begin to ignore her to and eventually she realize how shes acting and if that doesnt work then simply just yell at her and make sure she listens
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i'm dating this guy right now and he's my first real relationship so i've never kissed before and i'm not sure if i know how or not what if i totally screw up if or when we kiss or something? how can i make sure that i don't? because the person has kissed other people before so he probably knows what he's doing but like what if i drool on him or something????
--paranoid (link)
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paranoid,
dont worry about the drooling part just make sure ur lips are locked tight, but make sure he makes the first move and follow him its not as hard as it seems n really u dotn have to learn it actaully comes naturaly n youll relaize that during your first kiss
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what happens if you really like someone and u think they like you too but they wont admit it and all they ever wanna talk about is getting the good stuff and its not like i dont wanna give it to him its just that im afraid if i give it to him he wont wanna talk to me anymore what if thats the only reason he pretends to like me (link)
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if this guy is only using you to get soemthing then hes just in general a plain asshole. If you can't tell if hes just using you then do something, kiss him or something like that n get touchy but dont get on your knees or anything if you know what i mean and if he starts acting different after that then don't go any further cuz he might be using you let him make the moves from there
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