hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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so a couple years ago i was on the slimfast diet i was exercising too much and wounded up in the hospital for not eating enough. now, im back on the diet because i wanna loose a couple of pounds for hawaii. right now, im not losing the weight but i thinknits cause im doing weights and such. although, if i ndont exercise for one day and i eat a piece of chocolate i find my day being ruined and i consistley eat. what can i do to stop this?? am i not eating enough? i weigh 138 and im 5'9 i wanna be 130. although i do have a lot of muscle. let me know what is going on? is my binging and eating disorder comng back?! thanks ill rate goood!! (link)
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hey i think your starting to bindge and consistley eating because you feel guilty that you ate unhealthy and didnt exercise it off. you shouldnt feel guilty about eating unhealthy and punish yoruself for it because that will lead you straight back to your eating disorder.
so why dont when you start to bindge and eat, try and distract yourself by going for a walk, walk the dog, even walk with friends. at these times when you go to bindge you just need to keep yourself occupied so you dont think about food and you wont bindge.
your probably putting on muscle and that would prob be why your not losing any weight, why dont you try to tone your muscle instead of building muscle and use smaller weights.
hope i helped xx
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i have 3weeks - a month
to loose 10 lbs!
I gained 17 lbs, in the last 2 weeks , so i want to loose around 10.
PLEASE HELP!
I had jr high graduation coming up , and class trip!!
I need to fit into things!
My dress is to tight now , and it was alot of money and my mom said she isnt going to buy another one , and we cant return it .
Plus i need to be seen in a bathing suit.
Please help, what are good diets, and things to do when i am bored.
oxox !
PS . I need responses, quick! (link)
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hey you dint need to go on any fab diet to loose weight all you have to do is eat healthy and excercise an hour or two a day.
you just need to eat less. dont stop eating though, just watch how much you eat, and when you exercise make sure you get your heart pumping and you start to swet cos if you dont you wont lose weight.
good luck. xx
ps dont stress over it.
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So I'm doing a project for school.. and we have to write a children's book.
My story is about 2 kids who go to a safari/zoo and they see all these cool animals that are different colors (ex. purple elephants). My only problem is .. I don't know how to end it. There wasn't a problem that needed to be resolved or anything. so anyone got any ideas for my story? (link)
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there could be a reason why the animals are funny colours and thats what the kids find out at the end, maybe because they have there pajamas on lol you know when horses have there pajamas on, just make it something silly and fun that little kids will like and it will be good. lol hope i helped xx
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Im ready to just give up.
Nothing ever seems to work for me.
Im a failure when it comes to guys, im a jelous person and i get angry so much. im not happy i feel like im having sucidal thoughts..
is ther anyone that can help me (link)
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hey theres always someone there willing to help you weather you can see that or not, you just got to ask for help. talk to someone anyone like a friend or parent, i know it will be hard to talk to the people your close to about this because you dont want to let them down or dissapoint them but you need to before it gets worse. a counceler is your best option... you might not want to talk to one but they can help you to sort out why your feeling this way and once you talk to someone about it you will feel so much better. i have been through this before so i know what your going through, im here if you need to talk. but dont be afraid to ask for help because everyone needs help once and a while and it will get worse if you keep it bottled up. hope i have help xx
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what does friends with benefits mean? (link)
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hey its two people who can have sex and so stuff sexual stuff together without any strings attatched and there not going out, it is just a bit of fun...
xxsal
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f/13 so i like this guy who is my firends brother(hes a year younger than me) and he found out that i like him and told his sister( my friend) that he found out but then nothing happened between us. but when ever i go over he is always like teasing me and stuff like tipping my chair over and he dosent do that to my twin sister who also comes over when i go over. and now im confused on what i should do/ if he likes me or not. (link)
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if he is paying more attention to you now then before he knew you liked him then i think hes interested... time to flirt... it cant do any harm. besides just see what happens xx
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okay well when i talk to people
they are always like i smoke
now where i live it doesnt mean
cigarets. so what are they talking
about when they say smoke? (link)
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its probably pot
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People see me as a shy, quiet girl. That's my personality... but I want to change. I want to be one of those girls who can be really loud. But I don't know how to be loud and change my personality. Any helpful advice would be appriciated (link)
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hey you shouldnt care what people think of you just do what makes you happy, cos your far better off trust me. if you want to be more loud then just say whats on your mined dont hold back... never be afraid of telling people your opion, and try to talk more to everyone dont just sand there silent in a convosation involve yourself cos your trying to show everybody your loud bubbly side so you might as well just be yourself. hope i helped. xxsalxx
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hi,
so this week my school has off
& both of my parents work
so i am at home doing nothing really
its boring &
i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what
to do at home since I can't drive yet .
T H A N K S ! (link)
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hey just chill and relax you could invite some of your friends over for a movie day with dvds and popcorn, or you and your friends could go to the movies or go shopping (catch bus). you could be creative and paint or something, or bake thats always a time killer and its yum... i always bake cokies lol. or you could just chill and relax and put music up really loud while you clean or do some chors that way it will make it fun.
hope these helped xxsally
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hmm, where to start? Well, im a 13 year old girl. Everyone thinks that im this perfect girl, with a smile on her face everyday. But, on the inside i want to cry. No one knows that im feeling the way I am. I am so fake, that that makes me upset. Im like a prep. But, once I get home, I go upstairs and just cry. I dont know why this happens, or why im even crying. It might be because my friends are mad at me? That i got in trouble with the law recently and am going through that? That my parents dont trust me? That im failing school? hmm, im not sure. But I know the outcome is very upsetting. I cry myself to sleep, i've tried to cut but stopped. How though, im getting addicted to snapping hairbands on my wrist. And, ive wrapped my scarf around my neck tring to choke myself. No, i havent talked to anyone about this, I want to, but I just cant. The only person I thought about going to was my school counselor. but, i think that its because I dont want anyone to know whats happening on the inside.
I really am not sure what to do, but I need advice as soon as possible.
Thanks. (link)
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hey ive felt like this before... you know everyone thinking your a happy person but deep down you feel the opposite and noone notices. so i no wat your goin through. you should talk to your school counselor since you cant talk to anyone in your family... and you deffinatley need to talk to someone about this. it will be really hard at first but you need to talk to someone before it gets worse, and after youv talked to someone you'll feel so much better trust me.
keep your head up gorgeous!
hope i helped xxx sally
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Hey, umm well i really want to be intimate with this guy and i dont know how to make time for i can actually get intimate with him. but do you think he would mind if i tell him to do things the way i want it....and well like he told me that he wasnt a virgen and i was actaully turned on. and well after that i just really want to be with him even more which was really strange. but how do i know that all he wont mind me having sex wiht my clothes on?
i really want to lose my virgenity to him.
some one help
and how do i tell him that i want him to do stuff with me?
i have all these uncontrolabe urges for him is it normal?
but i can bearly look him in his eye it one of my weaknesss i want to let me say like this "fck" him badly.
omg im so confused
ive told him i wanted him to play with me. but idk i never go any where with him. (link)
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hey when your being intermat with him just tell him... in a whisper, a note anyway just to get the msg across to him so he knows where you stand. it is most likey that if he hasnt tried to do anything with you yet then he doesnt want to hurt you and just tell him you wat you want he'll understand.
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So there is this guy. He is really nice and funny and he is in a lot of my classes. He is in plays, musicals and he is really good at writing poetry. I always thought he was gay. He acts like a little girl too so I thought he must be gay. I am not trying to be mean I am just wondering. Because he got his ear pierced in the left ear and that is the one that means you are straight. What do you think about this? I don't want to ask him because that would be rude. He also made a joke about a gay person being gay. I was like what? My friends are not to sure of it either and one of them likes him and she didn't know if he was gay or not. Do you think he is? (link)
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hey i have a friend like this any w think hes gay... but he is bi so yeah thats another reason.
But just because hes in musicals, plays and he writes poetry doesnt mean he is gay... he could just be a really sesnseitive guy, and he might act gay but even that doesnt mean that hes gay. but he could be and the only way your gunna find out is if someone asks him. hope i helped xxx
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im really stressed out
just alot of stuff has been going on lately and its really eating at me, i can't shake it off.
valentines day and my birthday are coming up and i really want to be in a great mood for my boyfriend and friends but i feel horrible and moody. how can i help boost my mood and energy and get rid of this stress QUICK? (link)
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hey i think you need some time for yourself to relax and forget about everything. you sound so stressed and it seems you havent had some time for yourself. you need some "you" time to just chill and relax... like take a walk by yourself, have a hot bath with bubbles candles, go some where that you like, just do some thing by yourself that makes you happy but not with anyone bcos you need time to yourself and just relax by doing this you should release all your stress.
hope this helps xxx sal
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should i ask a guy to marry me? becuase I'm so in love with him so bad, we been together for 3 year, i want get married, but should i ask him or wait? (link)
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hey if you truely love him then ask him to marry you. dont wait. xxsal
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would you go out with someone who is going to graduate at the end of may. he's a year ahead of me and im scared that i'll get too attached. would you forget the risk and take the fall? (link)
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hey lifes all about taking risks i say go for it. cos if you dnt u might regret it. xx sal
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well, let me start by saying that i've never actually made myself throw up. but i have stuck objects down my throat to make myself gag. after i eat have a tendency to feel sick. in order to make myself feel better, i have to do this to myself. i would feel better if i would actually throw up- but no matter what i can't seem to actually get myself to puke. which is probably a good thing.. hah. anyhow.. about how abnormal is this process? should i do something about it? (i am not fat. i am 5''3 and 106 lbs.) (link)
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hey this is what happens at the begining of an eating disorder. and you should do something about it before it gets seriouse cos it can get raelly bad.
it might not be anything about you thinking that your fat but it can turn into that and you it can become an obsession... i have been through this before so i know what your going through.
you need should seek help before or incase it gets worse. maybe talk to someone or even a school counciller. hope i helped. xx sal
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okay so my absolute BEST friend lets call her lola. Is kinda getting me mad
EVERY BOY IN THE WORLD IS IN LOVE WITH HER!!
and it just gets me so sad :[
cause no one ever liked me. =\ besides in 5th grade, and i am now in 8th.
she is SOO pretty, skinny and funny
and i just wish i could be like her.
i want boys to like me too =\ but they never will.
and i just met this kid and i was starting to like him. then i introduce them and he asks her out and she said yes ( she didnt know i liked him )
its like whats wrong with me?
why can she get EVERY guy?
i wish i could be just like that.
but i never will =\
help ? (link)
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hey ive felt like this before and i know it sux, you just got to be yourself and try not to let it bother you cos things will come your way, somethings are worth waiting for.
you need to like yourself before anyone will like you. dont be shy or hold back just say whats on your mind and everyone will love you. Just be yourself thats all that really matters.
you just have to keep positive and a guy will come along dont worry. but dont wait for this to happen cos it will only get you down.
just have fun :) and dont worry. hope i helped xxxx sal
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14/f
i slept over my family friends house (girl, my age) and we were watching a movie with her brother (2 years older). she fell asleep and me and her brother were watching. and then he was kissing my neck, and we then started making out. then it kind of got carried away and we went into the basement, and he wanted to go really far but i just let him feel me up. i dont like him at all.. but my question is, should i tell my family friend, because that would completely change our relationship and awkward between me and him, and i want to avoid it..
youre first reaction is probably going to say to tell her, but try putting yourself in my position.. its really hard. thanks in advance (link)
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hey... well i think you know that you need to tell her what happened i mean you said it yourself. But you have to think about who it is going to effect and how everyone will react i mean sure they'll get over it eventually but you still need to consiter them.
if you and your friends brother arent going to take it any further and it was a one time thing then there might not be any point telling anybody cos what people dont know wont hurt them right.
but if it is going to become something more then your better off telling your friend.
i know you said you dont like your friends brother but he could like you so you should talk about it with him first to hear what he has to say and how he feels before making uo your mind wether to tell your friend or not.
hope i helped you xxx sal
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My ex recently came back into my life, and she was my first and only true love. We have been spending a lot of time together as well. She has a boyfriend of 4 years and he is the complete opposite of me. He doesn't treat her like she should be treated all the time. Yesterday she decided that he was the better choice. He doesn't go to school, he doesn't have a job, and he has no plan to do any of these things. Am I wrong in saying that I am the better choice?? (link)
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hey you might be the better choice and even if you know that its not like you can do anything about it. its her choice who she dates.
so the only thing you can do is move on even though it is hard you need to make yourself happy.
xxx
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Sometimes I wish I could just always say what's on my mind. Most of everything in my thoughts that I wish I would say is all...mean. I do say alot of things but the stuff still in my head is worse than the stuff I say out loud. And I often get called a bitch for what I do say. I'm not sure what's going on, I wasn't always like this. Weird?? (link)
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hey you cant help what you think even i do that some times... but everyone is in tilted to their own oppion and you just think it more then saying it so its not weird lots of people would do that cos they dont want to be mean. its like what they say if you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all. its not weird at all.
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