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why does everyone love her?


Question Posted Monday February 4 2008, 11:13 pm

okay so my absolute BEST friend lets call her lola. Is kinda getting me mad

EVERY BOY IN THE WORLD IS IN LOVE WITH HER!!
and it just gets me so sad :[
cause no one ever liked me. =\ besides in 5th grade, and i am now in 8th.

she is SOO pretty, skinny and funny
and i just wish i could be like her.
i want boys to like me too =\ but they never will.

and i just met this kid and i was starting to like him. then i introduce them and he asks her out and she said yes ( she didnt know i liked him )
its like whats wrong with me?
why can she get EVERY guy?
i wish i could be just like that.
but i never will =\
help ?


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chickchat17 answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 4:56 pm:
I know what you mean, I have a lot of friends like that and it hurts. It would probably be best if you told her you like that boy, and tell her if something like this happens again. It is true you can never be har, but you can be something better: you. focus on your own strengths, talents, and beauty and guys will like you for you. I know it's hard, but you have to stop comparing yourself to her (i'm willing to bet sometimes she's envious of you)

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M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 2:16 pm:
aww i'm really sorry.
but don't let this get you down,
i'm sure you're amazing, you just have to start believing that.
start believing in yourself and not letting the small things get you down.
i know it kind of sounds stupid but trust me eventually everything will work out just fine.
just give it some time (;

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sally91 answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 1:53 am:
hey ive felt like this before and i know it sux, you just got to be yourself and try not to let it bother you cos things will come your way, somethings are worth waiting for.

you need to like yourself before anyone will like you. dont be shy or hold back just say whats on your mind and everyone will love you. Just be yourself thats all that really matters.

you just have to keep positive and a guy will come along dont worry. but dont wait for this to happen cos it will only get you down.
just have fun :) and dont worry. hope i helped xxxx sal

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cox3milner answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 1:23 am:
well firstly, you can't let someone else like you if you don't like yourself. you need to be more confident and strong. have faith that a guy will soon come your way and be interested in you. you need to be more outgoing maybe, and relax. the guy for you will come along. :)

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