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I want to be louder
People see me as a shy, quiet girl. That's my personality... but I want to change. I want to be one of those girls who can be really loud. But I don't know how to be loud and change my personality. Any helpful advice would be appriciated
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Honestly? I don't think you should change yourself. I don't think you really can 'change your personality'. Let it happen naturally, if that makes any sense?
I used to be like you, in middle school. I was the quiet girl who never really said anything, the one who had friends, but didn't really fit in well with them. But then in high school, I met a new group of friends and they really helped bring me out of my shell.
If you're still in middle school, you'll change in high school. A wise person once said, "You change more in the 4 years of high school, than you do your entire life." I think that's honestly true.
If you're in high school, try making new friends. I'm not saying you have to dump the friends you have now, because you don't. I think it's just a matter of feeling comfortable around them, and ultimately, comfortable with yourself. So find people that you're comfortable opening up to, and gradually, I think you'll bcome more open, and not afraid to be louder.
I hope this makes sense =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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get out the dark and show the world the other side of u
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hey you shouldnt care what people think of you just do what makes you happy, cos your far better off trust me. if you want to be more loud then just say whats on your mined dont hold back... never be afraid of telling people your opion, and try to talk more to everyone dont just sand there silent in a convosation involve yourself cos your trying to show everybody your loud bubbly side so you might as well just be yourself. hope i helped. xxsalxx
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