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Am I making progress?
15/f
I really like this guy and he is in my group for a class project. Yesterday, we had to get in our groups and most of our group was goofing off and not listening to what we were supposed to be doing. So him and I were basically the only ones working on the assignment.
Before any of this happened, I was so shy and I would never talk to him. I'd look at him but i'd never actually talk to him. Well I don't know what happened but suddenly I felt like my normal self when I was talking to him.
Is that normal to feel that way? because I thought you were supposed to be nervous when you're around the person you like but during that time period I felt normal.
Oh and if you have any advice on what to do after that so I can be his friend and possibly more than friend? I've only had 1 boyfriend and that lasted for 5 days and we never kissed. Help me please
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I feel that way too when I talk to the girl I like. I normally feel all nervous when I talk to her without having a reason to. When I do work in school with her, I feel I have a reason to talk and I am not nervous. WELL ANYWAYS, I'll try and answer your question. Try and talk to him a lot when your doing your work if that is the time you feel most comfortable talking to him. During the conversation, ask him for his AIM account or an online chat name so you can talk to him, and you'll have a reason because you want to talk about the project. I feel that might be a good way to get to know him. After the project, continue to talk to him. There are possibly better answers than this, but I think I would have the guts to do this. Actually, now that I think about it, I gotta try this sometime when the girl I like and I are doing a project that includes both of our work...
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Welllllllll
since you feel normal around him, that's really good. that means you guys (or at least you) hit it off really well. future friendship is a go.
now, talking to him more and stuff might be tricky. dont think too much about it or it'll be really hard for you. just keep an open mind (like: he doesn't know you, so don't worry about messing up)
maybe next time you work together, talk to him more. ask him how life is or whatever. casual talk, ya know? that's the easiest way to talk to someone.
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well seeing that you found it easy to talk to him seems like a good sign, sometimes its better to be comfortable when you talk to someone you like, its a good sign so dont worry, and if you do see him just talk, say hi, hows your week been? anything interesting?....if when he talks to you or sees you if theres a smile on his face that would mean he probably hopefully likes you too, or likes talking to you....just makesure you find ways to talk to him so you could get to know him aswell, and then decide do u still really really like him, or was it a just an attraction thing?...anyway, take care hope i helped or made sense.......good luck sweety xx
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