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Would you?


Question Posted Monday February 4 2008, 5:49 pm

would you go out with someone who is going to graduate at the end of may. he's a year ahead of me and im scared that i'll get too attached. would you forget the risk and take the fall?

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M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 2:29 pm:
i seriously think you should take a chance.
be with him. and if you get attached, maybe he will too.
who knows what could happen,
which is kind of scary, but could be an amazing thing (:

good luck.

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ASAPcamille answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:55 am:
Go for it! Don't be scared of the risk.
Everything in life is a risk- even walking outside of your front door of your house.
Don't wait, go out with him!

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sally91 answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 2:18 am:
hey lifes all about taking risks i say go for it. cos if you dnt u might regret it. xx sal

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Brandi_S answered Monday February 4 2008, 11:49 pm:
Listen- sometimes you have to take a lot of risks in this life. Sometimes its your heart you are putting on the line. (With every relationship, you are risking your heart.)
Sometimes its the risks you chose not to take that you later in life kick yourself in the can thinking "What if..."
The way I see it, its one thing to be afraid of life, but its another to be afraid to live it.

ygs-29/f

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junebug93 answered Monday February 4 2008, 8:55 pm:
The thing that sometimes messes people up with relationships is they're scared to get in there, scared of this thing or that thing. It could be anything: grades, social class, race, whatever. Sometimes the "reason" is valid, sometimes not, a lot of the time you'll have to decide.

Generally I've found that limiting yourself, telling yourself you can only like certain guys rarely works. If the only thing "wrong" with a future relationship with this guy is that he's graduating in several months, I'd say go for it. Liking someone and denying those feelings rarely works well (though I don't want to completely generalize here: if he's going to harm you're safety that is an exception). Live for today and worry about the graduation when it comes.

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laynemayhem answered Monday February 4 2008, 8:32 pm:
well, this is just me, (and i hate taking risks) but i wouldnt do it.

but it all depends on what you wanna do. do you wanna take the risk? if you know you do, then DO IT!!!

take care :)

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Sima answered Monday February 4 2008, 8:12 pm:
Take your chances. You don't know when you'll see him again, so why not just try it out? However, it all depends on how 'attached' you get [like you stated]. If you are one that gets attached easily [based on past experiences], know that there will be other guys. If you don't get attached easily, then just go for it.

You didn't really state your past experiences. I would have been able to judge based off of that.

Best of luck.

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