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This might be long but I really need help. So I went out with this guy , we'll call him Chuck. Chuck and I went out for about 6 months he was the first boy I really loved. However , Chuck was this big popular "jock" and all my friends were mad at me for going out with him because they liked him ! Silly right? So Chuck and I broke up beacuse of these silly girls. GUESS WHAT? CHUCK WENT OUT WITH ONE OF THOUGHS GIRLS FOR 5 MONTHS ! Yeah... so whatever. They broke up about 2 weeks ago and I've been notciing I really miss Chuck. Chuck talks to me a lot... online and he calls me and we flirt a lot. I think he likes me and I might be falling for him . But this is the situation the girl he just broke up with is one of my very best friends. So i shoudlnt hook back up with Chuck beacuse that wouldnt be fair to her right? Shes pretty upset. However... HE WAS MINE FIRST ! I need some serious help. thanks
I don't think that you should go out with him again knowing that it will hurt your friend. But I do think that you should tell him you like him alot but that you would much rather be friends that way you can keep being his friend and won't have to worry about hurting your friend.
hi, i'm trying to find some school fundraising ideas for my freshman class in high schoo. Let me know if you have any ideas that you've tried, or know to work. Thanks
You could have a danceathon,Car Wash, and or BBQ's. I can't think of anymore but I hope that I helped.
i had sex with a girl 7 mounths ago, we had sex like 10 time in a row,like every day, after we left each other for while and after few days i came to know from some one that she used to have had sex with few other guys too, i am scared please tell me that is it a couse of HIV or any other illness, but i wanna tell you that i use condom each time,but she suck my penic she took off my condom every time, please guide me what should i do,??
I think that you should get tested to see if you have a HIV or anything like that because is she sleep around with other guys you never know what she could have gotten and gave it to you. So instead of just worry about it do something about it and get tested and in the meanwhile you shouldn't have sex for a while to be on the safe side because if you do have a disease you don't want to pass it on do you? Well I hope that I helped.
I used to work at Walmart, until yesterday when I got fired for stealing $50 out of the cash register, to buy a present for my boyfriend for his birthday.
I loved my job more then anything, like it didn't even feel like a job, just because I had so many friends there, and going there was actually fun. I have to pay them back the money & stuff, so I'm not worried about anything happening, because we've already discussed it.
But it's really hard to get over. My parents are so disapointed in me, because my mom told me when I started the job, "Never to steal, you'll ALWAYS get caught." Obviously I didn't listen to her advice, but I just don't know what to say to them anymore, I know it's going to take time. But what can I do to gain their trust back? I get good grades in school, I'm always doing good things for other people, this just happened to be something bad that occured and I got caught.
Please help, I'd really appreciate it.
16/female.
Thanks.
Why don't you just try to convince them that this was just a one time thing and that you won't ever do it again because you will know what will happen the next time and that the next time you won't be so lucky with your parents and that is why you won't do it again.
my sister stole about 50 dollars of mine before she went to college like 2 days ago and i just found out about it today..my parents think she is the perfect child and that i am the screw up..how do i prove she did it? && get them to believe me?
Need more information is this the first time she did it? Does she ever steal from your parents?
Ok, so My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me 3 months ago because he said first it was because I was possesive and then he said he just wanted to be single. Well two weeks later he started dating a girl who was 15 and he is 17 and she lives 3 hours away. Well, they broke up a few days ago and NOW he is dating a girl from my school. It just hurt me so bad to find out that he found ANOTHER person and Im still by myself. I hate going to school because I don't want to see them together. I havent talked to him since we broke up and when he sees me at school he literally puts his head down and darts to the other side of the hall. I feel like I will never find anyone else. Things just get better for him and suck for me.
What you should do is keep a positive attitude and see if there is anything that you are interested in doing. If you are interested in a club or sport I think that you should consider joining that way you mind won't be on your ex boyfriend anymore and who knows maybe sometime in the future you might meet someone new. But since you are not ready for that maybe you consider doing one of those things to keep you mind occupied on something else that might help you.
hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess
Tell him you care about him and you would like to be around him all the time if you could. But you also have friends too and so does he and every once in a while there is nothing wrong with wanting to spend some time with your friend and give each other space. If you don't spend any time with your friends then they will start to question you just like your boyfriend does. I hope that I helped but if not you can stop by my column.
Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!
You are only fourteen years old I think that is a little young to be having sex. But since you have yes there is a chance that you can be pregnant. What you should do is wait until you are suppose to get your next period and see if you get it if not you should get one of those home pregnance test. In the meantime if you feel nauseated in the morning that is not a good sign cause that is one sign of being pregnant. I hope that I helped but if not you can drop by my column.
Here is my problem my dad and I are kind of a like but that isn't always a good thing. We are always arguing about some thing or another. We try to be nice to each other but that doesn't last long. Does anyone else have this kind of problem with your parents? If so what is your advice.
Hmm... sounds like were in the same position cause we share the same dad. Hi!
I'm so screwed. I haven't missed my period yet, I'm due for it Friday, but my friend is bringing me a pregnancy test tomorrow. I had sex without a condom, and my boyfriend pulled out but I'm still paranoid about it, and yes I know I have a good reason to be.
Anyways...I'm going to take a pregnancy test Saturday. I think I will be with my boyfriend when I do it. What I want to know is how do I tell my parents and what should I do? I'm so scared right now I'm crying...my parents have always known me as their good little girl that never did anything wrong. I feel like dying.
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What you should do is wait a week from when you had sex if you don't get your period within that time then get a pregnancy test. It takes about a week to find out if you are pregnant. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
hey, umm i have problems concentrating on work. its really weird though. At school, i can concentrate fine, but at home i can never concentrate on studying or homework or projects etc. do i have ADHD (or whatever its called) or is it just that i get distracted easily? i rate 5's/ danielle x0x0x
I know it might be had to concentrate at home cause there are alot of distractions that can happen. What I think is you should try to find a quiet room in your house and if that is not possible there is always the library. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?
I think what you should do is just wait until the 1st and see if you get your period but if not then you should diffiently get one of those pregnancy tests. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
okay this is kind of embarassing, and it may seem like i`m worrying over nothing .. but i need help in figuring this out.
All my life i`ve been scared of being alone with guys for some reason.. and ive always had this HUGE fear of getting raped by guys and stuff...like i get petrified if i have to be alone in a car with a man i don't know.. and im also terrified of getting locked into rooms which is also kind of weird..
another thing, when i was ELEVEN years old, i had a girl doctor, and all she did was stick her hands up my shirt for a physical, and i mean it was no big deal, but i started BALLING MY EYES OUT, saying "you didnt ask me first!" and stuff, and i mean i could understand myself just getting a little pissed, but i was crying and everything, and i felt so violated and used, and i dont know why because it wasnt a big deal at all!
I`ve always questioned myself like if i was raped or touched in my past somehow.. but it never added up ,i mean my mom wouldnt ever do that, and my dad is AWESOME and he`s really protective so it wasnt him, and i have no siblings...so i just brushed it off...its so weird though like i have this weird obsessive feeling inside me that something happened to me as a kid, which is why i react to things the way i do now..
Well, recently my dad said to me "Did anything weird to you happend when you were at Montessory Pre-school ?" and i said "I dont remember, why?" and he said "Because a long time ago on the news when you were 4 we had to take you out of that school, they closed it because something weird was going on there..like someone was doing sexual things to the kids" and when he said that i just thought to myself "holy shit, i wonder if thats why im like this.. i wonder if that happened to me" but i just asked him "well what else happened" and he said "they dont really know, they just closed and the woman went out of town.. something weird was going on in there though, and they all of a sudden closed"
So.. I was just thinking to myself.. is there a possiblity that maybe i was one of the kids who got touched in weird ways? and even though i dont remember it..could it still be affecting my life now? like if something like that happens to you as a child.. can you conciously feel it sort-of even if you dont remember it?
please help me, i feel so confused.
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My friend is turning 16 next week and she just found out that shes pregnant.. her boy friend isnt tlaking to her right now and she thinks hes an asshole now. Her mom kinda has a feeling that she is btu doesnt exactly know. Shes coming over in a couple hours and i have no clue what to do how do i comfort her what do i do? please help...
When she comes over just be there for her. Talk about her options. Then talk about how she will tell her mom. When she does you should be there so that way you see what her moms reaction is. If it's bad just take your friend out of the house for a while so that her mom can came down. Then have your friend call her mom to see if she has calmed down yet and if she is willing to talk to her about it without getting upset. I hope that I helped but you never know what will happen in situations like that. You can visit me at my column.
I'm having a few of my close friends over tomorrow, about ten or so of them. They will be staying all day, but the thing is, I don't have any ideas whatsoever on what to do. It will be raining all day so we can't really walk anywhere and no one is really bringing money to go to the movies. I have a lot of movies in the house, but they are all horror movies, which my friends aren't into. Suggestions on what to do will be appreciated. If it helps, I am seventeen (although the people who are coming aren't all the same age) and both guys and girls will attend.
How about you rent a couple of movies the ones that you know your friends will like. When you get back you can make pop corn. Give each other a make over if you want, a manacure, and a panicure. That way it gives you guys something to do. After if you can't think of anything else to do why don't you make some pranks calls. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
ok, well theres this guy and i just met him at the beginning of the school year. we are really good friends and he has a girl friend. he's always flirting with me and i know we are just play flirting but would these kind of be REAL flirting too? today in social studies we were watching a movie (he sits behind me) and he was playing w/my hair... then my hands were cold so he "held my hand" b/c his were warm... he wanted me to move my seat in Math so i could sit next to him... but other times it seems like he's ignoring me completely... (not when his g/f around but he does when she is too) like regular times...
That's a tough question. He is probably doing it to try and make his girlfriends jealous since he doesn't mind doing those things when she is around. I hope that I helped you can visit me at my column.
okay so this boy likes me and i like him and we have a lot in common but hes in a different group of people than i am in...this is my last year in the same state as him and i really want be at least friends with him....i think i really like hm because not just becuase of his looks lol. he seems nervous ..but what do you think i should do ...go up to him?
I think that you should start talking to him a little a day. Everyday you see him you should say either"hi" and "hello". Then when you are use to saying that then you can say a little more. If he is in a sport or club you can start asking him about it or them. Hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
i really want to go because i haven't gone before but i have no date and no guys wanna dance with me so i'm a loner..i can't ask anyone to go with me..i'd probably be rejected..if i do go, i will feel sad during the slow dances and shy with the fast dances..all my friends go there to dance and hang out..i can't just hang out..everyone has a date except for me..i'm sad and im confused..i don't know what to do..:( people make fun of me..esp. the guys
You really need to ask yourself if you really want to go and if you do you should go with you friends that way you have some people to talk to,you won't be alone, and you won't be the only one that doesn't have a date. As far as people making fun of you you would think that your friends would do something to stand up for you so you wouldn't have to take it don't you think. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
There's this girl that i've liked for a long time, but ive never talked to her - whenever I see her (once a week) she's with her friend. I really want to talk to her but there's never a time when she's alone. I need to know if I should to talk to her when her friend is around or if I should keep waiting for when she's alone and I want to know what I should say to her. We're 13 by the way.
You could either try talking to her when her friends around or you should try to get her phone number so that way you can talk to her when her friends isn't around. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
ok well this guy. bob* i really like for some odd reason and i dont know why i just like him. but i never really talked to him. he is the greatest thing i swear well kinda. anyways my friend joe* was like i will just ask him to homecoming for you and i said no. and he was like ok whatever. then the next day my friend told me he said no to homecoming. and bob* said no because he only liked me as a friend thats all. and now i don't know if i should call him and talk to him about it. I am kinda a shy person when it comes around the guy i like. but what should i do?? HELP!!! I am 14 he is 14. I am a female. he is a male. Plus bob* always looks at me at lunch and in pe.
* names have been changed
He probably just said no to homecoming because your friend asked him instead of you cause guys like it when the girl herself asks them out not having their friends do it. Since your friend did it he thinks that you are scared to ask him and that you don't want to be more then friends. From now on if you want to ask a guy out you should do it yourself if you want them to say yes. I know this might sound kind of mean but there isn't any other way to say it sorry if I hurt your feelings. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.