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Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?

maybe hes nervous ... like a wuss to touch u... u should put ur hand down his pants... tease him and show him ur not nervous... and if him being nervous is the case den he'll think well if she can do it so can i =] i mean dats if u want him to touch u.. lol i wouldnt mind ;]

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hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him??

whoa! u totally have to tell him! just come to him with the truth and if he decides not to have anythin to do with it then hes an immature asshole who stuck his tampon in the wrong hole! okay lemme stop .. u needa confront him grl!

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See my friend (who ewveryone is tryin to hook me up with) is blonde hair blue eyes, is into drawing, art, japanese animation, and dresses like me, i mean not gurl pants and clothes but like the arm band necklace and all, and he is the same age and on the other side i am a brunette, brown eyes, and i love all the things he does. Im just wondering if I should dye my hair all the way blonde, and get blue contacts, because Im stupid and like no offense but like ive always loved blondes and wanted to be one, fav color blue, but im not shur if he would like it. Should I change?

if u wanna change cuz U WANT TO then sure go ahead bt dont do it cuz u think he'll like u more!

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Okay, school is really stressful, DUH!! But this year I've decided no more bad grades for me and I'm starting off fresh this year. I'm going to get good grades, thats my goal. But I don't have the energy or excitement or whatever you want to call it to do my homework and sometimes even school work. I'm very organized. I just want to get good grades. Any ideas? I'm graduating in like almost 2 years. I want to make it the best.

make ur homework assignments fun! like get a study group or something u gotta succeed in school! lmao okay im not dr.phil...

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Hello, everybody. I'm sorry if this is a bit long. Just for info, I'm 24 and female, so I'm not a slut or anything for having sex. Anyway, my husband recently told me he used to pay prostitutes to have sex with him a few years back (he's five years older then me.) I was disgusted. Mu husband, who has pleasured me with oral sex and beyong NUMEROUS times, has had sex with several women who he barely knew. I need some advice on how to handle this. Is he going to still be fertile? Because I DO want to have kids. - Marcia

wow... ur like way older than me bt what i would do is get him checked out by a doctor cuz u dont kno wut kinda stuff hes got... goin on.. down .. south bt yeah i would get him checked cuz he might b carryin somethin contagious which could cause him to not be fertile so u should do dat! nd im really sorry to hear dat i would b just as disgusted ...prostitution = * barf bag *

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Ok whenever me and my boyfriend makeout he rubs me(with clothes on) and i dont know what i should do to him (when we're making out and he's rubing me). please help!!!

rub his penis! with his clothes on then slowly build ur way into his pants... unzippin em makin him think bout wuts gon happen next! u gotta tease him grl! work it !

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Im a really big guy. Im 7 feet tall, im 450lbs. My questions is, why is it that girls just want to be friends with me. They dont want to think about anything more than a friendship. I thought girls didnt care as much for looks as guys. Big guys need loving too.

because they are shallow and all they care about are looks... =/ im sorry idk what else to say!

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theres this guy named zack and hez 1 yr olda than me so my parents hav no probs wit him. Ne wayz, we went out once but we both agreed to break up because we had just met eachotha the day he asked me out. Well, now i like him A LOT again but he already has another gf. But i still realli like him and i think that if he knew he might tell me he likes me too, but im too afraid to tell him cuz he'z a jock and if he dont like me he'll tell everyone and ill feel stupid. What should i do?? ThnKs in return.. xo' Jess

u have to talk to him about it dont be scared i mean u dont wanna live ur life always thinkin wut could happened u nawmean just tell him!

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I have started my period and, everytime one of my friends start we all tell each other....BUT, im sordive embarressed to tell them should I tell them or not?

SIGNED,
kRISSY

if ur uncomfortable tellin them then dont if u are comfy then sure go ahead !

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everyone tells me im a slut...even tho im not at all just because i wear slutty clothes...how can i make them stop

umm ur not a slut if u wear slutty clothes bt if u wear slutty clothes and act like a slut in those slutty clothes then yes u are a slut bt u shouldnt care bout wut der think... if u look good in those " slutty clothes " then der just jealous! shit i kno i got some " slutty clothes " dam if they thikn u a slut imagine wut they would think if they met me * gasp * lmao bt really dont worry bout it

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Hi its Krissy again... Im affraid of going to school when im on my period cause im affraid ill stink or something how can I prevent that?


Thanks a lot, KRISSY

ahha okay well idk if ur gonna stink bt i kno i dont... umm why dont u just stay clean and change ur tampon/pad alot and buy feminine deodorant i have that it smells good lmao bt umm grl u gon have to go to school .. i mean how u gon miss a week of school juss cuz of ur period i mean cmon! ull b fine

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home-comign is in less than a hour and im goin with my friend..bob..my friend..sue..told me that bob wasnt gettin me a mum..so my mom got me one..well bobs friend..mike..wuz like wut bout bob? and bob isnt home so i can find out if hes getin me one..i would feel so embarassed if i got there,wearing my moms mum and bobs got one for me..what should i do?should i wear the one my mom gave me? or jus think hes gettin me one?

... whats a mum

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Im a seventh grader and i need a new hair up do. Im kinda afraid what other people will think i mean like i wear phat farms, other people do to, but its because i want to. I know i shouldnt care, but im not really used to having it up. I did at the st patricks fair and i did in 5th grade, but i havent once this year and last year, but my friends reallie want me to and i said i will but i never do. I said ill do skirts, and i did, but the up do is what im afraid of. Even though i want to do it. help?

what in the world omgosh grl do wat u wanna do dont do wut other people are doing and us huldnt care bout wut ppl think! bt a cute updo would b like a messy one with lil strands coming out trust me der adorkable bt dam grl u shouldnt care wut mutha fuckas think!

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okay well today in sports studyhall i was sittin down next to this kid lets call him *CHRIS* well CHRIS and I were talkin n then he was lookin at my cellphone n i have verizon so u can change wut u want it to say n mine use to say lets call me *ASHLEY* and so it use to say ASHLEY loves you and then CHRIS changed it to say ASHLEY IS HOTT and i was lke um k then i had to go get someone from a teachers room and then i came bak n CHRIS goes i put my number in ur phone book i was like umm ok..but the problem is i dont like him and hes been going out w. a friend of mine and she happens to be on my soccer team too and they have been goin out for like a year..so my question is y wud he do that?

i rate all 5's tnxs

well maybe he likes u.. guys do irrelevant stuff like that all the time... dont know why bt im pretty sure he likes u and if u need to be positive maybe u need to talk to him about also inform ur frend bout wut had happened bcuz she needsa know! hoped i helped exoh exoh- niina

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Ok, I'm a 10th grader who really has a life I like.There are a couple of things I don't like, and one of them is how much my friends worry about me. Last year, midyear, they started to freak out about me, and almost every day they'd ask what I did the night before. They were scared I was cutting, I wasn't. Now, this year, they are still after me about it, and some of them think I"m suicidal (no, I'm not depressed, though I sometimes act like it), and not only are my school friends thinking this way, so are my friends who dont' attend my school, and a bunch of my dance friends think this too! Is there any way I can convince them that I'm fine? It's making me crazy, and I've got enough to stress about right now.
thanks!

talk to them about it! and u say u seem to be acting depressed all the time.. cheer up with a smile u dont wanna look too glum! u need to talk to them more about it ... hope i helped

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y r my questions always being deleted..sometimes i rele need help or advice and i cant get any cuz my things are deleted constantly..im just trying to do the same thing everyone elses is..get advice

i dont kno i think thats rude! bt whatever u need advice on u can always hit me up - niina

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Hey...okay well this may be a lil long but I'm really looking for a detailed answer. I really liked this totally hot guy Tyler. Everyone told me after a while that he had a "crush" on me and he was really interested in getting to know me better! So he ended up asking me to homecoming and everything went just as planned. We went to the dinner, to the dance, the whole 10 yards! We even kissed! BUT....after that things only got worse. We had really never talked THAT much b/c we're both shy but we still talked at least a lil. Well after homecoming I never saw him much anymore and he never really made an effort to talk to me when he did see me! Well eventually I found out he started going out w/ another girl who's homeschooled. I confronted him and told him I knew and it was no big deal. Well he wrote me a letter (which he NEVER does) and told me how sorry he was. I wrote back and told him not to feel bad. I pretend like I wasn't hurt and like I just didnt care. I also made it very clear I wanted to be friends! Even so he still didn't make the effort to talk to me....and I really do want to hang out b/c if something goes wrong w/ his g/f then maybe we can hook up and if not....I still wanna be his friend. How do I handel the situation so he doesn't think I want him. Do I ignore him and act like I did 5 mins before I knew he exsisted or do I just make an effort and talk to him. Someone help that has been in the situation before and "got the guy!" Even guys opinions would be nice. Thanks!









u need to make an effort and talk to him! tell him how u feel bout it now if i was u id tellh im that its kinda wrong for him to just pop up out of nowhere with a gf after yall had gone to hoemcoming nd kissed nd everything .. bt dass just me... do not keep it boiled up in side of u u need to confront him about it and i mean totally just how u feel let all ur emotions loose its the best thing to do! hope i helped

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ok well my homecoming is this saturday and well like 2 weeks ago this boy whose a sophomore asked me (im a freshman) to be his date for homecoming and i sed yes cuz i used to like him soo much but ever since after that i kinda got the hint that he liked me but now i really dont want to go with him nemore like it seems to me that i dnt like him at all nemore i jus wanna get away from him and he already bought the tickets.... well i was wonderin how do i tell him how i feel without hurting his feelings? like how do i tell him that i dnt want to go with him to homecoming?? its been botherin me almost every day now and i really need to tell him that i dont want to go with him cuz also i think it would b more fun to by myself... soo can ne1 help me??!! thanx soo much xoxo!

just talk to him about it its not that hard and if u feel bad then i dont blame u bt its better if u tell him the truth and pay him back for the ticket or something bt u needa tell him or ull go nuts!

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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship!

u cant make urself seem desperate! and dats what ur doing maybe hes afraid of commitment bt u cant just keep naggin on him! let him come to u .. maybe he really likes u too just wont admit it bt u needa stop with the stalking type of stuff ur saying

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I know this is long, but PLEASE READ! I need help! Thanks you very much!

Hello, I'm a 14 year old girl, Freshman. Last Saturday I went to the Homecoming dance and I danced with this guy... lets call him John, 14. (I knew nothing about him!) We had a great time and he asked me out... I said yes...
Well I went back to school and everyone found out! All the other guys that like me (who are my friends) seemed mad and sad at me. One of of my friends... Dan... asked me to go with him to the dance a few weeks ago, but I didn't because a lot of other guys asked...
I felt bad today because I figured out... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8... or so guys liked me all together... I feel so bad... everyone seems mad at me... and I cryed today at lunch in front of all those guys... (they tried to cheer me up)
Also today... one of the guys... Tim... gave me a letter saying he loved me and he cried because I was going out with someone else and I felt so embarrassed... and sad... also Dan told me he loved me yesterday trying to get me back... he wants me back....... (he said, "Will I ever get a chance to go out with you?).... that also made me cry....

I have no idea what to do... Tim wants me to break up with John and Dan wants me, but I'm going to the movies this weekend with John (maybe) and I was planning on kissing him.....

PLEASE someone help me... I'm so confused...

well you should do wat ur heart tells u to do if u really like this john guy go for him and talk to the other guys about it! i hope u had fun at ur homecoming cuz i kno did *im 14 nd im a freshman also* ! so dont break up with john just bcuz of the pressure thats going around u if u really like him u shuld stay with him bt talk to the other guys and just keep it on a frend type of level with them! dont ever let someone tell u who to dump..

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