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wuts prude. sorry i sound like an idiot. just curious! (link)
A bad name a person is given who is inexperienced in sexual activities.


How can I get music from my playlists in windows media player into my iTunes library? (link)
Export.


whats a prude? is it a bad thing? (link)
A bad name for a person who is not inexperienced with sexual activities. Its bad!!!


ok so I have these 2 friends....We r really close but just like anyone sometimes i just get tired of being with them.....well first off they had planned to go bowlin....i hadnt heard that we were going for sure all day so another friend of mine called and since i had not heard from them i made other plans....next.....we had planned to go see some free concert and the day of the concert i had softball practice and didnt' really like the guy that was singing...so i didn't go and the whole time they were gone they called me tryin to rub it in that i didnt' go and tryed to make me wish i was there....when all i thought was nothin cause i didn't wanna go.....Then the next day they said something about going to see fireworks...but when they called me I was at my sister's fixin to get in the tannin bed and i wasn't ready.....So that night i went with my sis and her family somewhere else ot see fireworks... Was I wrong for not doing that stuff with them? Should I feel bad about it? cause as fo rite now i really dont' feel bad about it cause i did what i wanted ot do and went where i wanted to go .....
please help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Well if you were probably right to get away from your friends a litttle bit becasue you don't want to lose them because you wanted to do other stuff and were a little sick of them.


Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ? (link)
Get him some help from any counselers you can even rehab..Hope I helped.


hey, i wanted to get a job at walmart after i turn 15 in december.. does anyone know what age they start hiring at?

thanks a bunch
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They hire at the age of 16.Hope I helped.


ok does anyone know a good song that is about break ups? or to dance to? (link)
We belong together by Mariah Carey.Hope I helped.


so it's july 4, and we're not even going to watch fireworks! (am i the only one here?) and i don't have anything to do today! and it'll be so boring, any suggestions on what to do on a boring day? (link)
Go to bored.com. I'm serious this is a really good website filled up with activities.I hoped I helped.


my boyfriend i havent seen for a week and a day and i havent talked to in three days! im constantly talking and thinking about him! i miss him like CRAZY!!!!! ive been calling his house for the past 2 days but hes not answering! his friend said he was in new york but doesnt know when hes going to be back. why wouldnt he tell me that? and i just miss him sooooooooooo bad! i love him and i want to see or at least talk to him! how can i get over this since i dont know when ill be able to talk/see him again!? (link)
Well you can focus on other things like your friends and activities.I hoped I helped.


I have a boyfriend and hes nice but when we go to the movies like with him me and my friends he doesnt talk to them or at least say hi all he does in concentrate on me and my friends absolutely hate him for that. whenever i mention his name my friends will be like eww i hate him so much or they will tell every 1 that hes gay! Yah i think it is mean to not talk to my friends cause they are my best friends but hes not there for my friends hes there for me! But i dnt noe how to make my friends understand and to make them like him. Thanks (link)
Well you can talk to your boyfriend and ask him to maybe pay a little more attention to your friends and if that doesn't work than talk to your friends and maybe tell them about your boyfriend and why hes ignoring them and hows he's feeling.I hoped I helped.


I'm girl thats 14 and going into 9th grade, but I'm dating a guy thats almost 17 and going into 11th grade. A couple days ago he told me that before he met me, he made out with pretty much all his friends that are girls, and he misses that because he doesn't see me everyday so hes tempted to do things with them. He asked me if it would be ok if he did stuff with them. and still did things with me too, in other words, have friends with bennefits instead of a relationship. I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was over. Now hes asking me to take him back, and I know I shouldnt but deep down I really want to be with him. what do I do!? (link)
Talk to him and if he says he'll stop doing stuff with his other friends then you should definitly take him back. I hope I helped!!


I absolutely hate my hair. I have thick light brown hair with blonde highlights. When i say thick.. i mean really thick. I have anywhere from 5-10 minutes in the morning to do my hair. Besides the everyday ponytail... what can i do to my hair? I am taking coloring, cutting, and styling ideas. (link)
Well you can get a perm so your hair stays curly even after you get out of the hsower and your hair drys. You can also have the hair stylist cut some o the thickness off in the back of your hair. Thats what i had done to mine because my hiar is really thick too!!! I hope I helped.


okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!! (link)
well there are people who help out kids like your friend. They just sort of lift the spirits in you. I've seen this happened because my friend was depressed and she told me about this woman who just made her feel good again. I hope I helped.


Hey Hot Stuff. I love you. =] Your amazing.

Love always, yous knows whos. =D (link)
hey hot stuff ur amazing too i heart you sooo much!!!


I think my parents are gonna get a divorce? What do i stop or help to prevent that?
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Get your parents and talk about this and if that doesn't happen maybe the divorce was meant to be but don't let it make u sad or mad. Find a bright side.


this year i have lost alot of friends for things that are confusing me. 1) i lost 2 frinds because of the way i eat (i put ketchup on chick'n) and because they said i talked alot about my family.
2) i lost a friend because her friend walked all over me and she never did anything to stop her/because she keept secrets from me about cutting herself but told everyone else and mad them promise not to tell me even though i was her best friend(at least thats what she said) 3) i lost 2 friends because of something someone else did! they blamed me even though i appologized for what happened. isnt that alot of friends to lose in such a sort period of time? what am i doing that is driving away all my friends? should i change myself? please help!!! ill tell u everything that happened!! (link)
You shouldn't change yourself for other people. Maybe you just find the wrong kind of friends. My advice is just wait for a new friend to come along. I've lost my fair share of friends and it sucks. I hope i helped.


i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else

plz help/ill rate (link)
Well maybe it was going well because you liked the idea of having a boyfriend and not really likeing him as much as you would with someone else. My advice is go for another week and then see if you want to brake it off. If you do then let him down easily. I hoped I helped


I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better (link)
Well a cat smells better than a dog, but get a boy cat. Trust me its better.


Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should co-ordinate my dresser? It has a mirror, and three medium size drawers [in a column]. I have a lot of products and make up and stuff, yet I also have a lot of clutter and hats and jewelry I dont need. I dont really know how to organise my stuff, and I'm just wondering how everyone else does it for some inspiration. The three drawers could be used for more useful things yet they are filled with junk. I dont know what to put on the dresser, and what to put in the drawers. Also, would it be a good idea to buy a shelf of some sorts?

Thanks. (link)
Well first you could throw some of the stuff away. Then you can buy cute boxes to put things in and maybe have someone who is a good organizer help you? hope i helped


I am 5'3 and weigh 110 pounds. What will 3 shots of 40% alcohol do to me? (link)
Well depend on how your body can take it, but i think it would do some damage.




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