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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..

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Scared 15-f

weeellll tell her to dump the Ass and if she doesnt listen then tell her you LOVe her with all your heart but you cant be around her when she;s around him! xox Ari -HOPE I HELPED!!

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okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)

AHHH lo, taht;s embaressing.. but wtvr i TOTALLy knew about the race thing haha lol tahnx ALL of yu.. im giving everyone who helps a 5..lol xoxoxox

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Well, I have this bf.. and i like him sooo much and i know he likes me too, but.. hes still in that "prude stage" so we arent really gettin anywhere fast.. if ya know what i mean. And im one of those girls who likes attention and i cant stand that i dont really get that from him.. and i dont know what to do or how to tell him..?? please help! :/

tell him everything taht you just told us..lol except for the opart that you think he;s going the the "prude stage" lol xox Ari - HOPE I HELPED!!

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Does anyone know if I can I have more than one Iguana in my house?

~Nokomis~

lolz uhmmm you can have TONs.. if you can take care of them xD xox Ari -HOPE I HELPED!!

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i have been on and off with this boy lets call him bob 4 da past 3 or 4 years, and over the years we have fallen inlove. we used to not go to the same school and we had a great relationship until i moved away. wen i moved back i started going to his school and once again we started dating. there has been alot of drama and we have broken up alot of times but we are still inlove. we have both dated defferent people but we still always go back to eachother. i just started dating this new guy lets call him billy. well billy an i dated once b 4 but i dumped him to get back with bob. well just a few nights ago bob tryed 2 get with me but i said no, even though i like billy i love bob, but i just donr want to do thid 2 billy again. last time billy's sister(1 of my best friends) got really mad at me and we didnt talk 4 almost a month! so i dont know what to do...some one please help! i know this is long but i promis i will rate!

well im not saying you should give up on Bob buuuuut Billy probably REALLy likes you and you shouldnt break uo with him yet, if you STILL love bob in a few weeks or so then go back to him because you shouldnt go out with someone just for what otehr people think..its YOUR life

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Ok, There is this one guy that I know and I've known that he has liked me for a while. The day I was finally going to say yea I found out that he had a girlfriend now. And I didn't really care. I still talk to him and everything and I can tell that he still really likes me. He always says how awesome I am and everything, and I don't know what to do. Because he is like flirting with me but he has a girlfriend. What do you think I should do? Help soon plz

whatever you do DONT go out with him...because trust me when a guy cheats on you it HURTS! so think about how the girl will feel... xox Ari
-HOPE i HELPEDDDD!

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im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do

well if that's your only excuse for not doing it then go ahead! lol dont worry about not doing it right he'll probably feel good teaching you!! hehe sorry lol good luck and hope i helped!! xox Ari.. BTW:: DONT let him PRESSURE you!!!

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Hi!
Okay, I have babysat before many times but it is always for the same people and i want to start getting more people to know about me...
I dont live in a little town where everyone knows everyone, i live in a big city and i dont even really know my neighbors...so i can i get it out there that i am an exprienced babysitter and i am 16 and i have a car so i dont need rides...
If anyone can help in any way, please let me know!
Thanks!

put tons of flyers out and go to the park!!! start playing with the little kids and talking to the parents (if you wnat go with friends) and most likely the parents will; ask if you babysit!!! lol dont ask i've tried!! LOL good luck and i hope i helped!! xox Ari

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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long!

well maybe you should just tell him how you feel! lol it'll be fine and if not tht whats the worst that could happen!? lol good luck and hope i helped!! xox Ari

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I have this friend that has a boyfriend for about 2 years..and he is 18 and was in 10 grade, but then he dropped out. He doesnt have a steady job and has a ton of car problems. He is really good to her, but she is hurt because she is not sure what to do. Should she break up with him and see what happens or stay with him? If she breaks up with him, she is not aloud to go back out with him again. What should she do?

tell her not to break up with him because then she'll probably regret it.. it's not his fault that he is having "car problems" and all that crap, if she really likes\loves him then she should stay with him and see what happens... hope i helped! xox Ari

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I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.

well ull probably just tone up.. i mean yeh ull loose wait if you dont EAT and play ddr max lol ne ways hope i helped! xox Ari

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my mom is a alchoholic and has been in california for re-hab for 4 weeks.. how can i handle this..?

well you should just really try to comfort her but dont over-due it bcuz u have a life too.. sorry and good luck! xox Ari

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My dog urinates on my mothers pillow every few weeks I have no idea why. Can you give me any ideas why? Thanks. (PS- we have no other pets)

he doesnt like your mom very much.
-Ariella

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I complain a LOT. And half the time I do it without meaning to...and it's starting to annoy me, let alone the people around me. Any tips on how I can stop complaining, or at least reduce the amount of complaining I do?
I whinge about all sorts of things, from the weather to homework to the fact that I'm tired/hungry/bored...whatever. It sucks, I feel like I don't have a good word to say about anything any more...I want to be positive again, but how?

you seem depressed. im not kidding i ahve a friend and i used to be REALLy close to her and i STILL love her but everytime we're aroumnd she yells at me for forgeting to call her back and how she is ugly ajnd that she hates her life and everything around her sucks! so i just flat out told her taht she needs to get some help (not in a mean way. but only bcuz i love her) or she needs to think posotivley!!! lol hope i helped xox Ari

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

sure ,why not?..try something new! xox Ari

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Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf

break up with him NOW! lol sorry but this guy seems like a really big jerk and you seriously DONt need to be hurt again just drop him and find someone knew and someone who will treat you right! hope i helped xox Ari

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hi, sometimes im selfish..okay, im always selfish. for example if i get an awesome necklace/shirt/pants/earrings/cd/anything::when peoeple ask me where i got them from i never want to tell!! i dont want people coping off me a iguess but it happens so much! and even the stuff i make, okay well i made a necklace out of a guitar pick and then everyone did the same things...etc. it makes me mad! also when i do homework im the same way, i hate when poeple copy me! and my friend, she copies my essays and uses like the same things i do and i take a long time thinking of them, just like a simple sentence. im christian and i know i shouldnt be like this, but i dont know why i am! how can i cure my selfishness??! i wanna be a better person, help me please~~~~!!!!!!!

just try thinking about how u would like someone to help you when you need help . sorry i probably didnt help at all lol bye!! xox Ari

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how do u get a guyy top leave u alone???

you say ....."leave me alone"

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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

i would slap his ass! haha jk just talk to him about it but dont be stupid. you HAVE to ground him..you are the parent !!! lol sorry but that's just WRONG!.. hehe hope i helped x3 Ari

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i bought this libgloss thing... and well it's labeled TEN as the brand... does that mean it stays on for 10 hours???
plz help! i rate high!

haha! lol i think its just the brand name.! xox Ari

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