Hey guys,
I'm 14 yrs old and I'm in 8th grade. I havn't exactly got my own life figured out but I'm pretty good at givin other people advice. So please give me your questions!!!!
Favorite Bands- AC/DC, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Evanessance, Nickelback, Breaking Benjamin, Janis Joplin,(pretty much ALL classic rock)
favorite food- LASAGNA!!!!! (i'm not crazy i swear.......:P)
favorite quotes- just becasue i'm smiling doesn't mean i'm happy......In a world full of cheerios why not be a fruit loop?.....I was uncool before uncool was cool
so......geez thats all i can think of now sry if all that is crap 2 u. I'll work on it later. Much luv!
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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!! (link)
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Teenage guys are total butt heads. Dont listen to what they say. You have a totally normal boob size for your age. They probably are just shallow, or maybe they like you? They probably make fun of you cause they are always looking at your boobs lol I can totally relate to this. You just gotta let it roll of your sholders. When they say this to you just say"Why do you care? Its not like its my fault or anything I dont control what size boobs I have if you didnt know that. And you know what pamala anderson's boob arent real so get that fantasy out of ur head!"
hope i helped xoxo
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Right. This could be a bit long.
For the last few days/weeks, I have been thinking about having a baby. Me and my boyfriend are very happy and it definatly looks like we will be together for a long time. He has mentioned before bout kids and stuff. but I always said to him that I would but not yet. I am only 17 years old and I have got a 2 year course at collage coming up. also i dont know if he would actually want a kid yet.
but I have been thinking and I would really love to have a kid.
Can someone please help me change my mind because I know I'm to young to have a kid and I probly wouldn't be able to cope. Even though I'm pretty sure my mum would help me out if I did have a child.
Please help me change my mind because I really want a kid but I am only 17.
Any advise would be brilliant.
Thanks
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You have the rest of your life for a kid! Dont you want to be free of that responsability untill you are married and 100% sure both you and this man want a baby? I mean just because you think you will be together with this guy for a long time, doesn't mean you will. You are only 17, things change very fast. You aren't even graduated from high school yet! All I'm saying is, you gotta live before you have a kid. Do your own thing.
You need a good paying job, and a husband to support you when you have a baby. It is extremely expensive, you gotta pay for food, diapers, child care, baby clothes, medical care. Think of everything that will happen!!!
You also need to think of the baby, will you be able to give it a good life? A good home? Be a good mother? If you cant give that baby the best life possible then you are not read for this baby. And what if you and your boyfriend break up? You will be on your own and the baby will not have a father to look up to.
You will also not be able to attented the rest of highschool or college if you have a baby. It is NOT possible at all to do this. You must believe me.
Also do you really think your parents will be supportive of you having a baby at 17? They will only support you because you probably will not be able to support yourself.
I hope I helped change your mind because you are right you are way to young, and not ready at all.
I hope you make the right decision xoxo
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ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such? (link)
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Well at that moment you decided you didn't want to. And I agree with you, for your first time making out with this guy(I'm assuming) that was going way to far. Plus you are only 14, I am the same age you age, and I know hormones are flying and stuff, but thats a big step up from just making out. In the end its a personal decision to take that step. If you aren't comfrotable with it then he should not care. And if he likes you, he wont care. He's just a horny teen age boy, they all are honey lol hope I helped xoxo
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Guys, my dog is an inside puppy, hes about 10 weeks old, and we leave him outside sometimes, like when we have to leave, and when he was out there today, he found out how to open one of the ant poison things, AND ate everything in it!!!!
Does anybody know fi thats strong enough to kill him?! PLEASE HELP ME
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you must see your vet IMMEDIATLY! Poison of any kind can kill your dog. If it kills ants, then it is highly possible it could kill your dog, or make him very very sick. Please go see your vet NOW! I hope your puppy is ok. xoxo
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So there's this girl I like from school. We are totally close, like almost best friends and a little while back we would be passing each others notes in class and I told her I liked her and she sadi she liked me back! I was so happy.
So then we would secretly hold hands and just keep passing notes. And she invited me over to see a movie and we totally cuddled together while watching it. After that I was thinking we should go out...but I never told her .So then the hand holding continued until summer break.
Now I live in a small town and she lives in the city so its kind of hard for me to go there so we didnt really get to see each other. So just recently I went to a party and a bunnch of people were there. And she was there too and so was a guy named Brandon. Now I heard stories of them getting "married" as a joke but when I got there she was totally flirting with him and barely noticed me the whole time. Turn out i'm old news and she has a crush on him.
Now obviously i'm jealous but...what happened? I know we weren't going out but...we were getting there. So should I still hang out with her alot? Or will that be just awkward.
Very confused,
Greenlalablue (link)
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Well you guys weren't going out, but you were close. Although moving onto another guy isn't wrong, it wasn't very nice of her. But she still has the right to have a crush on someone else.
First thing I think you should do is get the 411 on these two, are they dating, does she like him, does he like her, stuff like that. You can probably find this out from the same people who joked about them "getting married"
If they are going out, then there isn't anything you can do about it. But if they aren't going out, then steal her back!
Tell her how you feel, and she if she feels the same way. Hold hands, flirt with her, whatever helps you get her back. I hope this works out for you, you seem like a nice guy.
xoxo
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I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore. In fact, I feel that its time that we ended our relationship. There seems to be a catch, however. We haven't seen each other much this summer, but we do talk on the phone almost every night. I don't know if its appropriate to end the relationship now, or wait a couple of weeks until school starts and we see each other every day again. What should I do? Wait it out, or say whats on my mind? (link)
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I had this same problem and I decided that it was only hurting him and me to stay in the relationship. You should say how you feel, so both you and this boy can find someone more suited for them. It might be hard to do, but my philosophy is, you have to do it sooner or later, unless u wanna end up married to this guy. That usually makes me want to end it as soon as possible. It is very common to fall out of love, it happens all the time. It might be hard, but dont feel guilty you have the right to change your mind. Hope I helped sweetie, much luv xoxo
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ok well everytime i get in the shower like 30 of my hairs fall out and its so disgusting i dont no what its from
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this is completely normal. It happens to me to. Its just dead hair that naturally falls out. Its like animals shedding their fur. (kinda gross comparison but its along the same lines)
hope i helped
-marsbars
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My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg
I'll rate 5s for all answers. (link)
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i have no clue what people are saying! Your friend is so pretty, I wish I could look like her lol. I mean im not a girl and im not a lesbo or anything, but my oppinion as a girl she is really pretty.
-marsbars
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Well, I'm not sure how to put this. But I am extremely sensitive. I can't really take jokes around my parents but I'm great around my friends. I cry for like, everything, and I don't know how to stop.. is there something wrong with me?
I rate 5's for good advice. (link)
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hey,
there isn't anything wrong with you. I think all teenagers go through this at one point or another. Its just all of your hormones raging through your body, its makes us incredibly emotional. Just let your feelings out, or find a way to vent or something. Like me, I am an athlete so I go running whenever I'm feeling sensetive or emotional. Find something that helps you, like writing in a journal or listening to music you can relate to. I hope this helps
-marsbars
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okay well me and this kid really like eachother like we were talking online last night like all night & it was like really cute cause he kept like telling me how much he likes me crap and i really really like him too. yeah sounds great but last time we liked eachother like nothing happened we just stayed friend. like i really wanna go out with him but like i never ask guys out. i think its sooo weird and like creepy. haha but like i dont know what to do to like get him to ask me out like what to say or what cause ive basically told him that i want to be with him and he said he was like in love with me so please help just like tell me what to do so he like gets the hint and asks me outt haha ill rate highh (link)
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Well maybe he isn't allowed to date. have you asked him? This exact thing happened w/me and I found out the reason he didn't ask me out is because he wasn't allowed to date. So clear things up with him on that. If he still doesn't ask you I think maybe you could ask him. It would'nt technically be "asking him out" you could just do it like this"so you like me right? and I like you, so....do you wanna go 2 a movie or something?" and I dont know maybe that would work? much love xoxoxox
marsbars
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What are the best places to put on eyeliner ( like top of your eye, the little ledge on the bottom etc.) and what are the best kinds to use? (link)
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I put it on the top and the bottom. I agree with the one person below me who said use MAC. Its really good and its only like 13$ which isn't too incredibly expensive. It goes on really smoothly which is nice. hope i helped bye bye
marsbars
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Ok I was wondering how to write out the bibliography for a science fair project. If you have any websites please include them. Dont say to google it because thats what ive been doing the past hour! (link)
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A really great website for a bibliography is www.easybib.com. I 100% garuntee it will work. PROMISE! ok bye bye
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Hey its the girl who cant go out till i am 18. my names katie and my columnist log on is : dory16
I would also like to talk so please visit my column, cause i couldn't find your e-mail address. Have you ever had to sneak out to a date? (link)
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Hey,
I have once before. For some reason(at least for me) parents seem to be able 2 sence when your lieng! Its crazy! The way i would do it is tell you parents you are going 2 the movies with sum girl friends(which you are....kinda) then when you get to the movies you meet the boy there. Your friends can go hang sumwhere else while you two go on your date. This works good if your friends are willing to go with you. Hope this helps.
marsbars
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I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say? (link)
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Hey,
I have the exact same problem as you. I'm 14 and i'm not allowed to date, or even talk to guys on IM or have guy friends. I don't know why my parents are so strict. I know this is bad but my advice......just try and sneak. I know you might get caught but just tell the guy ur going out with that your not allowed 2 b so he should keep it on the down low. Hope this helps. Please write me and we can talk more about this. much luv, i feel your pain
marsbars
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okay i want to wear eyeliner and like i look good in it and i know how to put it on my bottom eyelid but how do i put it on the top? i cant figure it out and like i put it on the little like thing that sorta suctions to your eye and since its like near my eye it comes off quick. what do i need for long lasting easy to put on oh and give me your sn so you can explain better cus im like sped and no one here is from new bedford mass? is anyone? (link)
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Ok here's how I do it, I hope this makes sence. To put in on the top, pull the outside corner of you eye(the one farthest from your nose) pull horazontally away from your nose. Your eye lid shoulb b close and like I don't know longer or like streched out. Now hold it in this position and put the eye liner on as close to your eye lashes as possible. Put your lid back to its regular position and c how it looks. Make it darker or lighter depending on how u think it looks. Hope this helps just leave one in my inbox if you need more help. much luv xoxoxo
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I'm 13/f and the boy i'm writing about is in my Lit class.
He sits behind me and constantly pokes me and squeezes my shoulder! It's really annoying and I've told him to quit it...but he persists and says "Come on you have sexy shoulders!!" The thing is...i used to like him, but i don't anymore. Does he like me or is he just being annoying. I've seen he does this to other girls...but he never squeezes their shoulders!!
1.Does he like me?
2.HOw can I get him to stop harassing me?! (link)
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Ya he might like you. Its a strange thing sum guys do, when they like you they are mean to you. One way I can think to get him to stop it to be like"what is your problem? Do you like me or something?" after this he will probably be embarassed and won't do it anymore. Hope this helps much luv xoxoxo
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does anyone know of any good ways to get better at sight reading? i'm really bad at playing runs [going up or down a scale]. i think it might be because i can't read music as fast as its supposed to be played. does anyone have any advice. thanks (link)
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if you practice site reading you will become better at it. I play clarinet in my school band and when we go 2 festival(like a band competition) we do site reading. About a month before my director starts giving us music 2 site read. So only advice i have 4 u is practice makes perfect lol sry i know thats lame
much luv, marsbars
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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed (link)
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hey,
I was SOOOO worried that I wouldn't get my period. But then one day unexpectedly it just happend. There is a really really really small chance you could get pregnant but I think you should go 4 the sex cause you probably wont get pregnant. hope this helps
much luv,
marsbars
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i'm 13/f and i know its too early for me to have sex. but sumtimes i get rele horny and i get fantasies about me and a guy or occasionally a friend not minding masturbating with me. i'm not a lezbian and i kno that this doesn't make me lesbian but i dunno wut to do. i'm not very farmiliar with masturbation and i kinda want to but i'm also kinda scared. anyone have any tips? (link)
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hey,
I feel the same way as you do! Its really good 2 know that sumone is like me. I'm a 14/f. Could you send me the info you get about this? please please please!
much luv,
marsbars
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okay i am 14/f in case it matters
okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.
i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(
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hey,
first of all I would like to start off by saying that it was not your fault u had sex with them, u said they forced you. You shouldn't be ashamed to tell someone. But I'm not in your shoes. I can totally understand why you are nervouse telling someone, i would be to. but I think the only way to solve this is to tell your parents or grandparents. See what they say. I hope this helps, i'm sry for what happend to you. Talk 2 me ne time!
much luv,
marsbars
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