im a laid back chic, that a lot of people come to when they need help, or if they just need someone to talk to .. im easy to talk to .. and i try to keep my friends .. and i will let them make a mistakes to a certain point .. but i love giving advice .. im the type of person that has been in a lot of peoples shoes, and if i havent, then i can try to put myself into their shoes .. *
Website: myspace
E-mail: bbygrl15211@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: boston, ma
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: bbygrl15211
Yahoo: babygrl175211@yahoo.com
MSN: bbygrl15211@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 18, 2004
Answers: 63
Last Update: February 4, 2006
Visitors: 4975
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Mental health
View All
Favorite Columnists
xomegaroni
xOViLLYxO
|
| |
|
ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!! (link)
| |
shoot her in da face.
|
i asked you this:okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me...
you answered : he probably likes you, but also likes his girl friend too, but you need to tell him and explain to him that until he breaks up with his girl, then you cant do anything with him
i already told him that if he wants me to do antyhing with him he has to brake up with her and he said he would and hasn't yet and i have talked to him about it and all he says is why dose everything have to be about her? and i answer umm maybe b/e ur going out with her...so do you have any furture advice? (link)
| |
ok, you need to explaint o him that you are not a whore, and that if he can do this to this other girl, that if you two ever went out, what would stop him from going to some other girl, and maybe he will actually cheat on you.
|
|
Whats the chance of a condom breaking? (link)
| |
tehre is a very low risk because they go through several tests, adn if they can go through those tests without breaking, i think that theyd be able to go through one more
|
|
my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?! (link)
| |
what are you? stupid? how could you not tell that he was playing with you? yeah i can be a ditz but i can tell when someones playing me, like seriously.
|
|
okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do (link)
| |
dont compare any guy to your ex boyfriend. make a list of pros and cons about your ex. it usually helps. and even if you dont love these new guys, just go out with them anyways, because you never know.
|
|
Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do. (link)
| |
come back to new york with a shot gun.
|
hey i wrote on here b4 about my momz b/f with hep c and how i hate him and everything..well, the follow up on that is that today she just informed me that were moving in with him in a few weekz!! i have to change school and go thru the whole shit..shez trying to bribe me to move in...and i dono wut tah do!! plz i need help fast!!
siNcEreLy,stUck (link)
| |
threaten to kill yourself, and if that doesnt work, move in with your dad. if you're under 18, go to the cops and say that your mothers boyfriend has been touching you inapropriately and is making sexual advances. make sure you're story is always the same, that way it is verifiable. if possible get a friend to go along with it.
|
|
okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me... (link)
| |
he probably likes you, but also likes his girl friend too, but you need to tell him and explain to him that until he breaks up with his girl, then you cant do anything with him
|
|
When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening? (link)
|
for best results to make sure she doesnt get pregnant, have her take 3 percocets, 2 vicodins, 2 OC's, and make sure she drinks a LOT of hard liquer...believe me you wont have a problem with pregnancy
or morning after pills
|
ok... Me and my Ex-boyfriend Drew Broke up a while ago and he said he still liked me kinda and now he is going out with one of my old friends. I really want to still be friends with him and he is going to my school and I have lunch and homerome i think with him. But his girlfriend is going to another school! There is no way I can deal with that pressure... So I guess I am kinda askin 2 ?'s. How do I get my feeling out of the way? and how do I get him to be able to be my friend? Thanks! :( :)
.:*Erika*:. (link)
| |
it is possible for you two to still be friends. jsut explain to him how you feel, adn that you do still want to be friends with him.
|
A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
thanks! (link)
| |
just stand up for her. if you hear people snickering about it in the hallways, just be like "you dont know her, and atleast she is strong enough and brave enough to come to school everyday and want to do something with her life"
|
|
Wow, usually I give advice, not get it. Oh well. Lately, in the mornings, I've been getting really bad charly-horses, in my mid-calves. You know what a charly horse is, right? Yeah, it's like a major muscle cramp, and it hurts RELALY bad. They last for like a minute and a half, and I can rub my leg and it feels better, but I don't know. Is there any excersises or anything I can do to help that? (link)
| |
i get that sometimes in the morning... just like flex your foot or straighten your foot and it usually goes away.
|
When I am embarrased or telling a slight fib, (or maybe a bigger fib hehe) I blush! My face turns all red! For example, if someone says "Do you like Josh" and I say "no" (When really I mean yes) I blush, and you can tell I'm lying because I blush! Or when I embarrass myself, like say I fall, but try to make it seem like it didn't bothe me. You can always tell it bothers me b/c I blush! Blushing is soooo embarrasing!! Any tips on how to stop the blushing? (Or is it not possible?)
Signed,
Bashful (link)
| |
just take deep breaths, and relax. when you blush it says that something is on your mind. just stay calm and breathe.
|
|
I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?! (link)
| |
no, you are still straight because they are the opposite sex. it is because they are not asshole like straight guys. tehy actually care abotu what you think, and they care about your opinion.
|
ok well tonight me and a close friend got into a fight. well you see we were talking on the internet and he started saying all this shit. and it was really pissing me off. and he lied to me to about his friends not being at his house. and now i dont want to talk to him cuz of something he said that really made me bad. and now hes all like well im sry its just that i was caught up in the moment and everything. and that hes there if he wants to talk. but i dont want to talk to him. cuz he said somethings that really pissed me off....what should i do?!?!..i have always forgiven him and been friends with him...and now its like...hes always or just wants to piss me off....help....
P.S.i rate good (link)
| |
i think its like one of those "youve always been there and fogiven me before, so lets see how far i can push you cuz i know you will forgive me". if it comes down to it, talk to him, and tell him how you feel, and it doesnt matter if he was caught in the moment or not, because he still shouldnt be trashing you like that, especially online. its like seriously, grow some ballz and if you get caught in the moment again, say it to my face, and then lets see what happens.
|
ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16 (link)
| |
ok, ben, he cheated on you, and he does have the potentiality to do it again. think about it, you could be the one to get knocked up next, and the guy who you are currently seeing, can also impregnate you, and then you could be carrying his child, and the 22 year old, could also rape you.
|
|
Heyeveryone, i really need some help!! ok, well, i did something stupid about a month ago..i talked to some guy online and gave him my picture..and i have a boyfriend that i really love. I guess why i talked to that guy was because he asked me about my boyfriend. And my boyfriend is moving to oregon and so i kinda opened up and talked to that guy about my b/f. now, my b/f found that convo and was really scared about our relationship. He said he trusted me 100% but now, he says only like 50%. Im so0o upset i've told him i'll never do that again..but he dont believe me..he's in oregon and we are doing long dist. How can i make him trust me more?! I really love him with all my heart and I want to make it work out. Any advice on my situation?! PLEASE HELP!!! ~manda~ (link)
| |
just tell him how you feel. tell him that you were really stressed out, and that you had no intention in ever meeting up with that other guy. try to tell him that you made a mistake, and so does everyone else, but you were not going to cheat on your boyfriend, and you will do whatever it takes to try and make it up to him.
|
|
My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the whole summer. We don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like to but I'm worried he's cheating. He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore. He used to be a 'player' and cheat on his ex girlfriends. He told me he changed and it's different now with me. Can I trust someone like that? Is it true... once a cheater, always a cheater? (link)
| |
the saying can be true at times. but it is rare for someone who used to cheat to change over night. i used to be a cheater, but then i found my curent boyfriend and i changed my ways for good. so there is the possibility that he has changed. next time when you see him, just ask him for an honest answer and look him in the eyes and be like "Honestly, Are you still cheating?, i just want to know the truth" and thats how i always got the truth out of my exboyfriends who were cheating...
|
|
so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah (link)
| |
if you feel that living with your mom is making you utterly sad and/or depressed, then i think that you should move in with your grandmother.
|
|
Hey im 14 years old and i dont really know good tips on doing makeup. Anyone know anything?? Give me some tips. Love yahz ~ xoxx (link)
| |
dont go heavy with it. use a oil free foundation ((preferebly NOT covergirl ->they suck
|
|