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ok well tonight me and a close friend got into a fight. well you see we were talking on the internet and he started saying all this shit. and it was really pissing me off. and he lied to me to about his friends not being at his house. and now i dont want to talk to him cuz of something he said that really made me bad. and now hes all like well im sry its just that i was caught up in the moment and everything. and that hes there if he wants to talk. but i dont want to talk to him. cuz he said somethings that really pissed me off....what should i do?!?!..i have always forgiven him and been friends with him...and now its like...hes always or just wants to piss me off....help....
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I think its time that you took a break, its obvious that you have been spending too much time togethere. Just try taking a break for a while, it will do you both some good. If what he said really hurt you that badly, then you shouldn't have a friend like that. He can't just get caught up in the moment every once in a while, he should understand that it will hurt you. Don't let people walk all over you. Make them understand how much they hurt your feelings. Eventhough sometimes you think they know, they really have no idea. =(
anna
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Okay you have to show him whos boss and that would be YOU! Don't be friends with him if he gets an enjoyment out of pissing you off! Let him prove to you that he is worthy to be your friend!
-Katie
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ok..he was probably trying to act superior in front of his friends, you know? all guys are like that, they are show offs around their friends, dont worry its happened to me 2, and if he really got u that ticked off, let him know! be like, wut u said really got me mad and stuff, so if ur gonna continue with that crap idk if im gonna treat you the same. good luck and i hope i helped.
me
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i think its like one of those "youve always been there and fogiven me before, so lets see how far i can push you cuz i know you will forgive me". if it comes down to it, talk to him, and tell him how you feel, and it doesnt matter if he was caught in the moment or not, because he still shouldnt be trashing you like that, especially online. its like seriously, grow some ballz and if you get caught in the moment again, say it to my face, and then lets see what happens.
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I think you should forgive him this one last time because I think he was really caught up in the moment. Just tell him that what he said to you hurt you a little bit and maybe he will stop. Spend less time with him and then he'll get the point that he hurt you. I hope I helped and let me know what happens okay? :)
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Eh for crying out loud... forgive already. Anger just isn't worth the energy. Sooner you firgive, sooner you forget.
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I think that maybe he really WAS caught up the fight but you have to let him know that he can't keep doing that to you and you're not going to fall for it next time. I think you should forgive him but stay distant from him ..more than you usally have for just a few days or so just so he gets the picture that he hurt you and then he might realize that he shouldn't do it again.
hope i helped:) good luck:)
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