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In about 2 weeks I am going to a weeding with my boyfriend. I am wearing a black cute dress and pink heels and a pink choke necklace and a pink purse. I want to wear my hair cute though. I was just goin got wear it half up and half down and curl it and put little so called "Wisskers"in the front and wear some makeup and cute hoop earings.
Does this sound okay today girls?
And guys is this nice? or too weird?
My boyfriend is going to be in the weeding so he will be wearing a suit and bowtie so this isnt dressed up too fancy.
My boyfriends 15/m
I am a 13/f

--Thx-- (link)
I think that will be adorable. With the right shade of pink fo rthe correct occasion you'll look awsome.
Have fun.
Karazi Kenzee


This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love. (link)
I think that will work. After you say "I don't think we should go out because I like you" then you could say "and your a really nice boy but I don't like you in that way and I don't think it will work out ect.
Karazi Kenzee


I have muscular legs.. but not like huge but like nice and i'm working on my arms but they are fine.. the only thing i don't like is my tummy fat and my fat cheeks... everyone in my family has chubby cheeks... but is there anyway for me to slim down around my waist and loose some fat in my cheeks

~I rate high (link)
Do sit ups and crunches and i think your cheeks will slim down with your waist.
Karazi Kenzee


Ever since I was in first grade my mother made me take piano, which I hated so I dropped it in the 5th grade. Since the third grade, I have taken viola, and I am so-so about it, (I'm in seventh grade) because I have played it for so long I don't want to let it go. My mother wants me to quit strings and take chorus next year, because she thinks I have potential there, but I don't want to do that because I feel like I let too many things I could have been good at go. I recently gave my mother a deal- let me start guitar lessons, and then I will totally drop strings and take chorus next year. My mother refused, and I think she did that because she thinks I can't be committed to anything, even though I love guitar to death and I would truly love it instead of being so-so about it like strings. Guitar is just such a lovely instrument that I would be so extremely happy to learn to play it. I love chorus too, but I don't want to make my mother think I'm not committed by jumping out of strings. What can I do? How can I prove I'm worthy of guitar and that I'm actually committed to it? (link)
tell your mother that if you drop strings for chorus it's no different then droping strings for chorus and guitar.
Karazi Kenzee


Hey Kenzie It's brina! lol. I found the lyrics to that song we always sing!
In the middle of the night
I go walking in my sleep
>From the mountains of faith
To a river so deep
I must be looking for something
Something scared I lost
But the river is wide
And it's too hard to cross

And even though I know the river is wide
I walk down every evening and I stand on the shore
And try to cross to the opposite side
So I can finally find out what I've been looking for

In the middle of the night
I go walking in my sleep
Through the valley of fear
To a river so deep
And I've been searching for something
Taken out of my soul
Something I would never lose
Something somebody stole

I don't know why I go walking at night
But now I'm tired and I don't want to walk anymore
I hope it doesn't take the rest of my life
Until I find what it is that I've been looking for

In the middle of the night
I go walking in my sleep
Through the jungle of doubt
To a river so deep
I know I'm searching for something
Something so undefined
That it can only be seen
By the eyes of a blind
In the middle of the night

I'm not sure about a life after this
God knows I've never been a spiritual man
Baptized by the fire, I wade into the river
That runs to the promized land

In the middle of the night
I go walking in my sleep
Through the desert of truth
To a river so deep
We all end in the ocean
We all start in the streams
We're carried along
By the river of dreams
In the middle of the night


lol talk to ya later girlie. (link)
Thats cool now if we could just get the tune...
Karazi Kenzee


Hey um... Me and My boyfriend were all okay until one night me and him made out and see before we were boyfriend girlfriend we were like brother and sister (We had a brother sister relationship)
So once that night we made out and I asked him about what he had thought and he said, "I feel as if I am kissing my sister so I was like ok!" So we took it slow and then anthor night he came over we kissed like twice and he still says I feel like his sister then come to find out he says I am almost starting to feel like his girlfriend what should I do see him or Not??? I'll Rate just leave sum answers
Mwauh Taryn (link)
Just take it slow and eventually you will start to feel more bf and gf than sis' and bro, it stinks but feelings like that can't be controlled but they'll go away eventually. i hope i helped.
Karazi Kenzee


How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? (link)
24 and married.
Karazi Kenzee


I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice. (link)
Tell her that it's ok and say firmly but nicely she isn't a divorced child. Tell her that if her parents got a divorce then imagin how it would be if they didn't. They got a divorce so they don't love each other as much and it's for the best. I don't know her parents but I'm sure they might have try marrage councling and stuff and junk but at the end of all that then since they got a divorce it's better. If they had try'd to keep it together even after they might have got councling then they could have always been at each others throts and sy to your friend at like the end or something You'll be happier this way I'm sure of it.
I hope I helped.
Karazi Kenzee


i have 2 questions The first one is for prom i think most people get like long dresses and stuff but im not sure is itok to get like a knee- ancle length one ?
and 2 of my good friends already got pink dresses ..thers some pink dresses i realli like but now im thinkin i should get a different color cuz i dont want all of us to have pink dresses...so what do u think? (link)
I think it's ok to get any dress you like just don't go like too over the top punk or anything. Also you can get what ever dress you want it's not like NOBODY has ANY of the same tastes.
Karazi Kenzee


I'm a fifteen year old female. I used to go out with this kid, Jake. He and I always had fun, but I thought he cheated on me, so I broke up with him. He told me he didn't, but I didn't believe him. I finally asked the girl I though he cheated with, and she was really surprised that I would think that. So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. I got an email from him saying sorry for making me think that, and that he still really liked me. I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too! What should I do? (link)
Say your sorry that you thought that and were so mean to him and ask him if he would may be like to get back together.
Good luck
Karazi Kenzee


this guy i dated for a week broke up with me on the next monday. i really like him but im not sure if he likes me back. my ex best friend told him that i was cheating on him but it wasnt true. i relly love this guy and everytime i see or hear something that reminds me of him i start to cry. now he might be going out with my friend karalyn. my friend symone told him that i hated him but it wasnt true she was only kidding but he took it seriosly and is angry with me once again. please kenzie i really need someone to ell me how to deal with this. thx bye I am 14 and i am a female (link)
Talk to Symone and tell her to please not to joke like that. Tell your ex best friend tomyob and not to tell youy boy friend stuff shes THINKS is true and to clear it up with you first and ask her why she said that. If you can get you boy friend to talk to you then tell him that you never cheated on him and tell him Symone was just kidding. If he won't talk to you or doesen't believe yoou ask Symone to vouch for you (if he doesen't believe you) or ask Symone or one of your friends to talk to him (if he won't talk to you)I hope my advice helps
Good luck
Karazi Kenzee


14/f
I hate my legs. They are freckled and ugly. And to make things worse, they are hairy. I hate shaving; it takes too long, I cut myself, I get bored, and hair grows so fast you have to do it every 2 days or more! At my school, and lots of places, it is "gross" for girls to have hairy legs. It's so unfair! How can I rid my legs of hair without shaving? (Not Nair because I'm allergic.) Please help. (link)
You could use any thing any typ eof soap and then stratch it off with your finger nails or not sure but try using a toothbrush or something.
Karazi Kenzee


Hey, i'm a 15 year old black girl and at my high school if your a certain color, you are expected to like certain things and listen to a certain type of music.Well i'm not like that i listen to "other" music.And when i say other music i mean stuff liken green day and maroon5 and stuff like that.Also some of the stuff that my caucasion friends talk about i can identify with and some of the more preppy clothes they wear i like.i'm afraid to tell my friends this because i am afriad of their reactions.what should i do? (link)
Tell your friends your likes and dislikes and if they don't like you for you then their probably not very good friends.
Karazi Kenzee


Me and my girlfriend had been goin out for a while but then the other day she broke up with me i asked her why and i found out she wasnt goin outr wit this other guy already. Please tell me what to do!
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Don't go out with her ever again and give her the icy cold shoulder.
Karazi Kenzee


Okay there was this one kid that said he liked me. he'd alwyas say he loves me too, but i thought he had a girlfriend.. One day at my friend's house he tried to kiss me and i said no i cant do this.. he asked why and i said because your going out with amy..he said, no im not dont worry about it. About a month later his Girlfriend found out about what happened and he told her that I CAME ONTO HIM! She wants to beat me up for something i did not do and she thinks that I am lying about all this.. what can i doo!? (link)
Talk to this boy and say your giorl friend wants to beat me up because You lied to me so clear this up b4 I get beat up and dif you don't then I will beat you up. You don't actually have to beat himb up just when he asks you why you didn't beat him up just come up with a good come back
Or if you can't think o fone you could say I don't want to make you any uglier than you already are which may be QUITE hard.
Good luck.
Karazi Kenzee


ok i know im really skinny, but i cant help it! i eat like a fucking dinosour and i still weigh only 70 pounds at 13! i was wasndering if there is ANYTHING for me to get guys to like me. i think that im to skinny and thats why guys dont like me, but i do like guys and not a single one is interested in me! i think im pretty all but my weight, i have white strieght teeth, blonde hair, no pimples and i have big green eyes, but what the hell is with my weight? i mean is that why guys show no interest?!?! please help me. people who give me nice answers i rate 5s! (link)
Eat alot of carbs andalot of fatty foods maybe try to eat like unhealthy.
Karazi Kenzee


i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help (link)
If he really loves you then he won't care and if yor hands get clamy then put chalk dust on them.
Karazi Kenzee


ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 2 mounths. well a couple days ago i found out that about a day after we were going out he made out w/ my best friend(brigitte) at my other friends house(austin). well b4 i knew this my bf and i were at a party and we made out and stuff and it made my friend(brigitte) that had madeout w/ him a couple weeks b4 really mad at me and i had no clue wut was going on! and so i found out wut had happened and i was mad too for a while but i got over it but my other freind kinda hasnt and she is like my best friend!!!!! i dont kno wut to do... dump my boyfriend or dump my best freind? HELP! (link)
I think yor bf souds like a 2 timer. So talk to brigitte and tell her that you guys were makin' out because you guys are an item. Ask her why she and him were makin' out. Depending on what she says he might be a 2 timer. So may be have your friend plan a date with him and you plan to show up and sit right next to them maybe tell her to like makeout with him when you sit down and this guy won't know what hit him.
Good luck.
Karazi Kenzee


one of my friends has a really bad stomach ache on her right side of her stomach and she said it just comes and goes does anyone know what it is. (link)
It might be her appendex though i think thats on the left side or if she's gotten her period then hat could be it.
Karazi Kenzee


Just out of curiosity, is there like something wrong with me?: I hate to be touched. It bugs the hell out of me. Like, I dont even let my boyfriend just hit my arm when we talk. It bothers me! Is there anything wrong? (link)
No theres nothing wrong with you i think you have this "diease" (for lack of better words) that you don't like that or it could just be your pesonality.
Karazi Kenzee




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