kay well, my (old) best friend was a guy his name was ryan.. he liked me..but he loved his ex girlfriend victorea (they were going out for a year on and off) me and him were soo close.. i liked him too.. but he is going back out with victoera. me and her are not friends AT ALL, she told ryan he cant hang out with me,But he still does but he tells people he hates me,and when i ask him he said brb to me (online) and idk who to belivie my other friends or ryan. but anyway i really really wanna be his friend is there a way maybe i can say something to him that can make us friends again? or tell him i love him or some thing?? please help
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I wouldnt tell him that you love him, just because of the way he is handling the whole situation of yall be friends, he would only use that against you. Evidentally his girlfriend knows that he use to like you as more than a friend,and she is scared that he will like you if he hangs out w/you...Just talk to him about it and if the rumors keep goin that he says he hates you more than likely hes just sayin that because he dont want his girlfriend to think hes interested in you. If he cant tell his girlfriend that he wants to be friends with you and her respect that and he wont be friends with you move on to someone else, there are better friends than that.
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(16 female) The problem is I have this boyfriend, whom I care about a lot but I dont really love him like he loves me. He thinks everything in our relationship is perfect but its not. We really have problems. Well, its more of i have problems with our relationship that i really need to work through. Recently, I realized that i don't want be with him any longer, but i don't know how to break up with him. I don't want to hurt him or break his heart but either way i do it i will. I just need someone to tell me a way to break up with him without me breaking his heart too badly and him never speaking to me again. And if there is a way to do this, please give me the courage to go through with it. I am soooo scared it makes no sense. I am terrified of hurting him. Pleeeeseee Heeeeelp
Relax, there are going to be plenty of relationships for both you and him. Theres no easy way to tell a person that really likes you that you dont feel the same. But it has to be done, because you cant just drag him around with you pretended to like him when you really dont. Talk with him in person face to face alone. And tell him that you know he how much he likes you and that you just dont feel the same. Theres no way to sugar coat the fact that you just dont like him that way, its okay dont feel guilty, it happens everyday. People have to learn to accept heartbreak, he might not like you anymore , or want to speak to you afterwards, but one day he will get over it and realize that there was something else waiting for him. Dont be scared sometimes theres no other way to do things without hurting peoples feelings.
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Hey! Ok, I have to give a speech in 2 weeks about the Great Wall of China. We're studying China and you got a list of things you could make your speech about and I picked the Great Wall. You were allowed to have a partner, but only one of my friends is in my class, and she's friends with another girl, so they're partners. I have to give a speech by myself, and I'm so terrified. I've never liked speeches. It's so hard and I always forget what I'm supposed to say, even if I've rehearsed it a thousand times! And to make things worse, it has to be a MINIMUM of 5 minutes. I'm so scared and don't know what to do. Does anyone have any tips on not being scared? And any good ways to memorize a good speech? And also, any good sites about the Great Wall would be appreciated. Thanks so much!
Fear is just something that everyone had, wether its something small or something big everyone fears something, and you fearing to give a speech is a really common one.But fear is part life, you just have to confront and overcome it. Get up there in front the people you have to give the speech to and forget about being scared. Figure out why your scared, Think about it, when you were little you were prolly scared of the boogeyman or something, or maybe you thought there was monsters,but now you look back and you think "what a chicken i was" monsters arent real. Well one day when your like 25 theres gonna be worse fears than performing a speech, just realize that its not a big deal, if you mess up or you forget a word just keep going, Whats it really gonna matter in a couple years you'll have a new fear just accept that theres thing you have to do that your scared to do. But when it comes down to it most of us are scared to get up and voice our opinion or give a speech in front of people just because were scared of what others will think. Maybe this doesnt make any sense but it doesnt really have to, the point is just do your speech and dont think about it so much. You'll do just fine.
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The problem is I have this boyfriend, who i care about a lot.. but.. i think he im starting to not like him like that anymore.. there are some problems.. like he wont talk to me or anything!! hes like the shyest person in the world when hes around me and i hate it!! cause when hes with other people hes like crazy.. how can i make a break up... so we can still be friends or at least talk to eachother..??
Well I dont think breaking up with him is really the right thing to do, but if you dont like him anymore it is the right thing to do. But I think the problem is you dont want to be his girlfriend because hes boring and is way to shy around you and is fun around his friends. But if you knew how he felt,its prolly like his first real girlfriend and he doesnt know how to act around her..like wether to hold your hand, give you a goodbye kiss, stuff like that. Girls mature a lot quicker give the boy some time, he'll come around if hes interested in you, maybe you should try and break his shyness.
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ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!!
Well first your friend should keep his virginity, because its something a lot of us dont have. But talk to him and try and convince him that he should wait until the right person comes along. But if you cant convince him go ahead and do it with him, I guess it would be better to do it with a friend than a complete stranger. But in the end he'll wish he had waited, even tho he might not admit it, he will regret it. But a lot of people regret their first time,just because they realize it got them no where.
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i'm about to have a bath and wash my hair, can you help? every time i wash my hair, i use pantene pro-vo, then i blow dry it, and it's really frizzy, even when i use all the frizz ease products on it. how can i stop the frizz? is there any particular way to wash my hair, or how to rinse it easily after putting in shampoo/conditioner? when i've got out of the bath, what should i do to my hair? i have stuff like gel spray, mousse, frizz ease, heat protection spray, hair straighteners, hair spray and stuff like that, but i'm not sure what to use and in what order, because i really need to stop the frizz tomorrow, i get really fluffy/flyaway hair and i'm getting teased because of it =(
I got frizzy hair too, Im not sure how bad yours is compared to mine, but I feel that my hair is pretty dang frizzy. Any ways number one way to keep your hair from frizzing up so much is to stop blowing drying it (unless you really have to) Let your hair drying naturally because your hair has natural oils in it that help your hair to not be dry, dull, and flaky, but when you blow dry your hair it also blow drys your scalp drying all that excess oil out of your hair that your body produces. When you are letting your hair air dry be sure to comb it (NOT BRUSH IT) because brushing breaks your hair off really bad when its wet. When its completely dry put a little frizz ease around your scalp or wherever you frizzyness is. Then comb it one good time and if you want straighten your hair to make it smooth. If this dont help your hair, than maybe you have a lot of dead ends and should have your hair trimmed at least 4 inches to make the hair grow back healthier. Who knows, wanna ask me something else feel free.
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i have always been the girl to get her period REALLY heavy, like changing a super tampon every 2 hours and ive always been on schedual to the day! but this time i was 2 WEEKS late AND i cant even fill the littlest tampon. is this normal? please dont reply by saying its disgusting b/c i really need help! i rate good advice!
Im not real sure how old you are, but from the first time you start your period it may or may not be regular, but it can change from its regular ways to another way anytime it gets ready, something may be causing your body to be late on having your period, such as, stress, too much excersize, or changing your eating habits. Sometimes when your egg ovulates during the month its just not enough to make your period very heavy. Theres a very rare chance that something is wrong, your body is just changing, get use to it, it will probably happen more than once.
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my boyfriend and I have been dating for quiet awhile now.. (1/2 a year) and now he's thinking i don't like him anymore, when he's the one who shows a lack of interest in me.. what do i do? i'm so oblivious to the situation. I really cannot lose him, he means way too much to me... I'm not the perfect girlfriend, i do have my flaws as everyone does, but i never knew i had one of showing no interest.. help
The truth hurts but if you know your interested in him and you really do show interest in him, hes probably just getting bored with yall relationship and is starting to realize he doesnt want to be caught up in something serious. So he blames you in order to look for a way out. Dump him if he thinks you dont like him, he should believe you when you say you do like him. Hes being immature, let him go if he keeps acting this way, you can do better, and you can deal without him.
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I like a guy in my grade but there are few problems. First, all my friends hate him. And then he is about a foot shorter than me. And then of course, the popular girls of my grade are laways flirting with him, though I doubt any of them would actually date him. I sit next to him in one class, but I can't ever talk to him. It would be awkward for me to ask him out because I'm not sure if he likes me because he's always trying to impress his friends who don't like me, but when they aren't around he's nice to me. How should i approach him?
Dont just walk up to him and ask him out or anything, if you dont even talk to him you should do that first, just find a conversation with him, if hes around his friends and he acts stupid or immature just ignore him because you can do better. But more than likely him tryin to impress his friends, hes just tryin to get you to notice him. Just talk with him, find out if hes interested in you, you'll never know until you try.
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Theres this boy that I used to like and he didn't even know what I looked like. Recently, I said hi to him in the halls and now he knows what I look like. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty and he said yes. We have been talking online everyday for a long time and we feel we know each other pretty well. We don't know each other well enough in person, which I'm going to try to accomplish soon. I had a friend talk to him and he was saying that I wasn't the right type of girl for him, all though when he described to me the girls he likes, it sounded so much like me it was scary. He says I would be a better friend, like I am now, then a girlfriend. I really want to change his mind! Maybe if he gets to know me in person, he would! What can I do? I know we are perfect for each other, and his friends and my friends know it too. I have started developing feelings for him again, but he doesn't know and if I tell him, i'm afraid he'll reject me. Help!
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Well first dont let your friends ask him what he thinks of you or anything, just go up to him take your chances yourself and get to know him in person, let him see the real you. Because the internet is so much differnt than in person, it doesnt really let a person see how your personality is. It just leaves them guessing at who you really are. If you like this guy talk to him in person, dont push the idea of going out with him tho, just let him come to that conclusion, he'll tell you if he likes you, trust me. Give it time, if you decide to talk to him in person.
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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.
I got brown eyes too, and if you wanna make your eyes noticeable, wear a light pink or purple, a pink or purple that is pretty not horrifying tho.
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ook . me and this guy have been off and on rellie sice 6th grade but like went out for a couple weeks brokeup stayed broken up for about a 5 months and did the same routine till like recent in 8th grade . [its not like we didnt date other people] but recently we went out and like rellie not for a couple of weeks but a couple of months. and then we brokeup because we got into a fite and then madeup and have sort of been together ever since but recently hes been asking me out again n i want to go out with him but like i enjoy the way we are now . liek kissing all the time and hangingout everysingle day but he wants more . i relie dont want more than that becase hes differnt when we go out . i telll him that and he doesnt understand. hes been dipping[chewing tabacco] smokeing and takieng steriods and i dont rellie like it n hes been haveign roid rages at me and i like him but i dont know what to do .
Well sounds to me hes not worth dating, not when you can do way better than him! Dipping is absolutely disgusting, steroids are what people use when they dont have enough confidence in their self, so they need something to boost their confidence. Personally I dont think he is worth 10 cent just let him go, if you dont want to go out with him and he wants to, evidentally you already know better. Just tell him that you dont like him like that anymore, and that what yall had in the past isnt there anymore, and that he needs to get himself together and quit being stupid. Just go for someone better and new.
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hey everyone i was just wondering, because this guy liked me before and now he doesn't. he says i'm boring. i think he only liked me before was because he didn't know me, now he kinda does and doesn't like you. how do i get him to want me/like me? he knows i like him and he told me he doesn't like me like that, but we could do stuff. i want for him to regret not asking me out. how do i do that? thanks in ad advance! i rate good. any tips are good!
First dont worry bout getting with him hes a loser if he wont get to know you better. But if you wanna make him wish he had ask'd you out, just be fun, always be smiling, hang out with your friends and just have a good time, and be sure to find a cutie whos interested in you. Just do crazy lil things that make him notice you, but dont make a fool of yourself..lol..Im sure you wont tho.
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ok I finally met this kid who ive been talking to on the internet.. and im so confused with the way I feel about him. Its like I couldnt decide whether I liked him or not. Im basically preppy girl, and hes a punk rock (dude) kind of guy. Hes so different than the guys I hang around, and I cant decide if its good or bad. I know him and my guy friends wouldnt get along, and I dont know what to do or how to feel. I'm so confused. Any help?.. I rate :-)
Dont worry about what your friends will think, it doesnt matter if they accept him. If you like the way he is and you think there might be something there between you and him go for it. Dont let your differences seperate you.
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I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??
If you got a talent and you know it dont set around and wait for someone to push you to it. Get out there and try, what do you have to lose? And if getting nervous is one of the problems, work your way up to singing in front of people, try singing in front a few close friends until your comfortable, then let your boyfriend or someone that you really like let join the audience, then your mom and dad. People who will just listen to you sing your heart out, before you know it you'll conquer the nervousness. And if that dont work just picture all of them in their underwear (lime green) underwear ! Then maybe you can go for the big times.. like American Idol..who knows. I've never heard you but if you got it go for it.
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i think someone might have feelings for me that might be more than friends but i dont wanna ask her yet cause i dont really know how but maybe she will understand when she reads this
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i dont have feeling for you really as more than a friend, so just keep it as friends
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my fingernails are pretty long...but VERY thin! everytime i go to do something they either break or bend easy! i want hard findernails and not for them to bend as easy anymore...does anyone know how i can do this?
Buy some fingernail polish.. (Sally Henson) hardenin polish it will prolly help. Or see someone who does nails and ask them what they would do.
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ok im 16 and my bf is 19......he was a pub. safety off. at the local mall and a girl he worked wit asked him out and he said no because he had a girlfriend (mind you she is his age) so my bf got fired and now that he dont work there evrytime i go to the mall shes always on my ass...and just friday she almost threw me out of the mall because i raised my voice to a girl who was talkin shit bout me........is there a possibility i can get her fired?....and will it get my bf in trouble for datin a 16yr old?
Sounds to me like the girl is just a jealous B*t*h who is mad because your boyfriend turned her down. So now shes just tryin to get you in trouble, shes being immature, Just avoid her as much as possible.
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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?
I've never even heard of a cutlery, but I have an idea of what it is, personally i would just eat with my hands because chicken is chicken...But in a fancy restuarant I would prolly use those cutlery utensils provided that way you wont look retarded in front of people who are really classy because a lot of classy people eat in those type of fancy restuarant.. But as long as you eat it I dont really see the difference.
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ok i know this is really random and sounds stupid, but whenever my mom eats, she doesn't eat with her mouth closed. this really bothers me because it looks and sounds really disgusting, but none of my other family members seem to notice. how can i tell her, politely, that i think it's disgusting and she should stop (because she does it in public too!)
Dont embarrass her, talk to her when your not around anyone so she will understand, tell her you cant stand it when she chews with her mouth open, and that its not very good table manners, tell her not to get mad at you first.
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