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my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it?

Maybe you should write her a letter and just tell her that it hurts to see her making fun of people that are bigger than her since she has NO idea how it feels, and if she considers you a friend or considers your feelings she will keep her comments to herself. Let me know how it all goes x0Sabina0x

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Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..

Signed..14 year old bi guy

ok...I dont think telling your parents would be the best idea in this situation. And if you wanna have sex with the same sex that is your descision...But make sure you are ready for this. If you were to tell your parents Im sure they would freak out. Tell them in a few years if you are still bi, cuz your 14 and they will most likely say your too young and dont know what your talking about so wait a few years to tell them. Hope I helped, let m know how it goes.

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Hey, does anyone know what stores have Hello Kitty stuff?

SanRio...

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is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?

Yea its perfectly fine.

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Ok i'm 15/f in 9th grade.
I'm in both of the advanced levels of classes here at my school and when it comes to friends vs. homework, i chose friends...

How can i stop myself from doing this? b/c my parents say i can go, so what do i do? i go

I need help b/c idont want to fail!

tell your parents not to let u go unless ur homework is done.

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Alright there is these two guys... the first one is the one I lost my virginity to and I really care for him.. The second one I haven't done anything with him except hold hands....except when I hold his hand I can't stop thinking about my the first guy and Im not a player or a slut or anything but what should I do and do you think I still have feelings for the first guy

I think its just that your afraid to let go...thats the case with alot of girls...ya know? I mean you may think you still have feelings and Im sure you do but you shouldnt let him get in the way of maybe having some feelings for this guy u hold hands with.

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ok, here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old dude. i know it sounds silly and stupid as hell but i think i've managed to fall in love with a girl in canada. i'm from the states and we've never met in person before but i'm absolutely crazy about her. i don't know whether or not i should pursue this at all or if it's just a lost cause. i'm not even sure she feels the same, but i have my hints. i know it sounds like such a pathetic/loser scenario but i think i'm mature enough to tell that this girl isn't just any other girl. any input would be nice.

ok...IM me and Ill give u my answer cuz I dont want to type it here...

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I'm having my 16th b-day party tomorrow, and I have no idea what to do for games. There'll be about 8 people there. Does anyone have any ideas for games for bored high-school students? Lol, thanks!

7-minutes in heaven is always fun...

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I have been having this problem for quite sometime. I am a cutter. And i can't really stop. I have been going to counseling and I had been taken off antidepressants. My mood hasnt gotten any better, it feels alittle worse. Parents are no help, my dad thinks that I am doing this for attention and he yelled and screamed at me saying that I am faking everything and its just a waste of money to keep the counseling going. So now, I am not in that anymore. I feel terrible, worse possibly. And my freind who I have known since the second grade is going through problems, she is cutting herself and trying to kill herself. I have been trying to give her advice but, how do I give advice to someone who is doing the same things as me? I need some major help and someone to talk to.

Hey,
I know where you are coming from...Well I dun really wanna talk about that kinda stuff on here so IM me k? We'll talk there.

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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate

well if your supposid friends are calling u those names they arnt ur friends at all!!!

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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!!

No its doesnt...Im me and I will explain a lil somethin to ya

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i have a huge zit in between my eyes....is there anything i can do or put on it to make it go away really quick?!?!...like in a day?!?!...thanks so much!!!

Not really

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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do?

Im not answering my own question...lol

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I wanna get my nose pierced, i haven't asked my mom yet, but when i was 14 she said i could get it done at 15 and im 16 now. so she'll def. say yes. we're not allowed piercings you can see, besides your ears.. but there are a few kids in my school that have their noses pierced, because their like dating the principals sons and stuff, i don't think that should be allowed, its like their getting special treatment or something, right?

that shouldnt be alowwed id do it and then if they say something bring t to someone really big's attention the the head of the school board...trust me ull get a fair treatmen...hope i helped let me know hwo thigns go...

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i have little acne break outs from time to time, and i was wondering if any one knew anything over the counter to use to get rid of it and some of the scars from it? i will rate 5's~!

Nothing really works these days lol....just watch the greasy foods and wash your face about 3 times a day with really good soap.

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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!

Hun,
that does not make u lesbian...IM me sometime I have a question...

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I love having sleep overs they are so much fun but sometimes I wish that I could have them where i live and not feel nervous becuase i live in an apartment. No one has ever said anything bad about living in an apartment but where i live thei rare very few and everyone i know lives in a house well most people do. I get embarresed when people come over becuase i kno they think that im poor and everything and they dont expect it becuase i always buy expensive and really nice stuff pluss clothes because my mom has more money to give me than when we used to live in a house . Should i be ashamed of this?

No you shouldnt be ashamed of it at all...Apartments are hella tight...and HELLA expensive so if u can live inone and still get nice clothes u got it pretty good...you have nothing to worry about.

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this is kinda long but i seriously need help...my bf of 4 months now who i really love and things are going GREAT...well his ex is trying to talk to me now. she IMed me this morning and said hey you dont know me but i know derek, how are things going with him? and then we just started talking....she said he broke her heart and she loved him and he was her first kiss and all this shit. and she said he told her he loved her too. and shes like yea we hung out all summer..does he ever mention me? becuse it was a crazy summer! and shes asking me to talk to derek ( my boyfriend, her ex) and asking him to just be friends with her. because they dont talk at all now. shes really nice..but i KNOW she still has feelings for him...shes saying how she just wants to be his friend now and if i could please talk to him for her but im afraid if i do...shell try to take him away from me...what do i do about this? im getting really jealous and i told her i would talk to him abuot her and stuff..im trying not to be that jealous overprrotective girlfriend...HELP

♥ JaDe

ok I know how you feel...all my bf's that i ever have, have had exes like that...Just dont do it...Tell her that your not comfortable with them being friends...and ur not gonna do it...IM me sometime and ill help u more with that...

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

You can do it however you are comfortable...there is just one thing you absolutly can not do...and that is have his best friend or one of his friends do it...you can or one of ur friends but none of his...but if u want to do a note that works good too

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