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I am 17 and a female. I am a jumior in colleage and is stoked for the christmas holiday! I love to have friends and i love to help people so everyone give me a chance and write to me and i believe everyone will enjoy, if not then your loss.
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I'm so worried about my boyfriend.
I'm totally inlove with him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm so sure it's meant to be.
Not too long ago he stopped taking his anit-depressants and informed me that he doesn't feel he needs them now that he has me, and he does seem so much happier than he was before... but I'm worried about him, like... one shouldn't just STOP taking their meds without consulting a doctor first... right?
What should I do/say???
HELPPP!!!!
You should tell him how you feel about it and just talk it out, but also keep in mind that he is his own person and he will do what he wants or feels its ok to do. If he is doing good than their should be no worry but if there is worry then just talk to him
i'm always getting teased by my guyfriends for being "flat". i'm not FLAT, really. i'm just...small. i'm 17 years old, 5'6" tall, weigh around 110-112 lbs, and i'm still a 34-36B. i want to know if there is anything i could do to make my boobs develope quicker; any foods, exercises, etc?
thanks.
gaining weight can cause your breasts to get bigger but that is if you want to gain weight. You could also go to a near by victoria secrets and get yourself some of those boomerang bra's which are suppose to give you two sizes up from where you are at. But please no surgery because you should love what god gave you and not worry what your guy friends say because there will be that speacial guy that comes around and will love them and you for who you are.
Okay, this will come out very unorganized. But to start this off, I'm fifteen and I'm a girl. I have a friend who is very sweet, funny, patient, and well just a great guy. He's been my best friend for years now and I wanted to tell him that I've had a huge crush on him since we first met. I spend a lot of my time talking to him! I'll block out the world when I'm talking to him because he actually see's me for me and not just as a pretty face. I'm not concieded or anything, I know I'm pretty and what-not, but I don't care what people think of me. My friend is a good listener and is very calm when I'm freaking out. I think he likes me too but I can't tell. He always hugs me and holds my hand even when I don't ask him to or initiate it. I do have a boyfriend but I like my friend more then him. What should I do?
You are only 15 and i would say go for it, if you like the guy more than your boyfriend than what is the problem. the worse thing that could happen is him telling you if the two of you could just stay friends and well i would take the offer instead of nothing at all. But, But..... i feel that he will love to hear that you are interested in him.....sounds like he is too.
17/f I know most teen girls go through some form of eating disorder but my friend took it to extremes. She only eats once a day if that. And all it is is salads. Her hair is falling out, she is pale, and her mood seems more depressed/ lacks life. I keep telling her to stop but she won't. Her mom doesn't even seem to care she works slot and is never around.
being a friend and being there for her is the best thing to do. All you can really do is let her know how you feel about her condition and be support. Talk to your parents and guidience counsuler for advice. But dont tell her what to do because she will just run and make the two of you grow mmore apart. just watch over her, even if it does hurt you, she is her own person and it is her body therefore, she will do what she wants.
whats the difference between love and lust?? what do i have..like when me and my guy chill we ussually get intamte we dont go out or anything its just always in his car doing you kno.. we have been together for 2 years and ome months and never did we do anything fun and when i do mention to go out he doesnt like that idea because were keeping are relationship on the downlow for now and i dont even know its so confusing? can somebody help me out with this.. id appreciate it thanks
sry honey but it sounds to me that this is lust. if all you two do is have sex then that is not a real realationship. love is when to people are excited to share it with their friends and family. Love is when your man does take you out to show you a good time and how much he apprciates you. and vice versa. but if he is dening you all of that then sry to say but, it is not real and will continue not to be real if you go on like this.
3 to 4 months and this is what happend this month on the first of december i got my period all normal for the first two days but then it got light then really dark colored and then stoped so obviously i got worried i took a pregnancy test on that thursday it came negative but i was still woried so i took another one on tuesday. that came negative. so im hoping im not or am i taking the test to early my boyfriend almost cums in me al the tiem and we have sex about 3 to 4 times a week at least. is it my birth control or me.?
ok i om on the pill and i can tell you that you should not freak b/c your still new to the pill. your body is still trying to adjust to it. Plus your doctor should have told you that once you start taking the pill the ie will lessen you menstrual cycle, so don;t wry but keep watch.
ok well theres a girl who works at the ski center i go to. out of the blue she randomley gives me her number and this cute smile, i had no idea she thought of me in anyway other than i go snowboarding there everyweek and she worked on reception.
well to be honest im only 18 and iv had... a very very short relationship with a girl and before her its been 7 years before any ones shown interest in me. how do i get things started? iv asked what shes in to, she loves motorcross and thank god i know something about that so i could ask her a few things. but now the msn conversations are getting a little mundane if im honest we both want to talk to eachother and get to know eachother but its coming to "umm yeah so im still bored :/" iv asked about hobbies, her job, the people im freinds with who she works with, and a couple of other things. i want to start a conversation or at least get a few good questions going to spark one... i want to get to know her because shes been showing interest more and more and i dont want to seem like an uncaring ass.
you'v not failed me before i look forward to your answer's
i will submit feedback as allways. thanks
I know where u are coming from b/c i am in a relationship that we tend to run out of things to talk about, so man, you just have to really think randomly. ask her about her childhood, or longest relationship and tell her you bet that you can out last that one. What is something she wishes to do before she dies or what is something she has never told anyone. stuff like that i promise more will pop up in your head on the way.
I am a 14 year old mother.
Please do not judge me, i am judged enough.
I am still in school and planning on finnishing.
My story is, my friends father raped me, obviously he did not know what the word protection ment, and knocked me up. He is in prison, my parents grief every day, and people stare like they think they are God and its judgment day. It is very hard, i couldnt give the baby up, i just didnt have it in me. I am 7months and huge. I am scared, i have watched tons of videos on wat is most likely going to happen to me when the twins arrive. Yes, i said twins. One boy and one girl. My mother has called adoption agencies and etc, but i have turned them all down, truly i want to keep my children, granted the father is an asswhole. When i feel them kicking to the sound of my voice it rips me apart to think i would give them up. ANY ADVICE??!
sweety, it is all right. it is not the end of the world, but i have to say that you will have a hand full to deal with in the future. Twins are a lot of stress and babies need love, constant love and watched. I am very proud that you did not have an abortion. I wouldn't be able to give up my babies either so i know you can be strong and ask your parents and friends that you have and i am sure at least one will be willing to help and support you. Have faith and pray that jesus will bless you and your two little ones and everything will be just fine.
so i just got together with this one guy and things are great
our whole school things we are the cutest couple
and we agreed to be together for the remainder of highschool
(cause we've been friends since 4th grade and we're juniors in hs now)
but i can't help but think about some of the other guys in my school
and how things will never work out with them cause i have a bf
like.. i don't know i'm so confused
If u havr been friends with this guy for so long then it natural for the friendship to turn into something more that friendship. But if you are still thinkin about not being tied down and thinkin about other guys than it might be better that the two of u stay friends. If it doesn't work out it will be ok, if he was a good friend and wants to remain a good friend then he will accept that he is not the right guy and move on. The right guy will come. You are still a long way from being old.
For the past three years I have been best friends with a girl my age. We've really had no problems before this, but lately things have started going the wrong way. Because of the school we go to, we no longer have any classes together, or lunch. I've seen her only five times outside of school since the beginning of the year.
At our Halloween dance, she waited up for me, and we walked there together and hung out for the first twenty minutes. But after a while, a friend of her's named Kylie (They share several classes together) came over. Kylie came and went, but after an hour at the dance, Emily (my best friend) ditched me and started hanging out with Kylie. Every so often she would come back to talk to my other friends, but every time that I tried to start a conversation, she would say, "Yeah..." and then ignore me.
Then, we went to a movie last Friday, we sat in the back talking, and she mentioned that we should hang out on Sunday. I agreed and she promised to call me Sunday morning to set up the where and when we should hang out. On Sunday, she never called. At noon I got on Facebook and she IM'd me. She said, "Hey." So I answered, "Hello," And then she promptly told me that Kylie had stayed the night at her house the night before and that they were going to hang out all day, never apologizing to me for canceling our plans.
Kylie has been a growing problem since the beginning of the year. Not only is she starting to take Emily away from me, but she already turned my friend, Sami, and my other friend, Kiersten, against me. Whenever I try to be friendly with her, however, she always ignores me.
Now I'm resentful towards Kylie for stealing my best friend and other friends away from me. I know that I need to tell Emily about what's going on, but I'm not sure how. Please, tell me what you think about what's going on. I would really appreciate it.
i have had someone who likes to steal friends from me but girl you have got to be strong and not let it bother you. First i would go and confront your long toim bff. Ask her what is her deal, why is she not wanting to hang and if she just shrus off like nothing has changed. Then girl, tell her to take a hike with her brand new friends and that you do not need them. You are your own individual. There are more people out there that would love to be your friend, i promise. But just go have a talk with her. And you could also go talk to kylie and ask her does she relize that she is stealing your friends and if she is sincere than she will apologize and talk it out but if she lets you know that yea she is stealing your friends then you will know it and you can just tell her to screw herself and keave and let it be and move on.
i really want to read a lot of new releases, ut y=my library doesnt have a lot of selection. I also don't have a lot of extra money to buy books since its the holidays. So I need websites to read new FULL books online please.
thanks.
Barnes n Noble is real cheap. Just go to the website, www.BarnesnNoble.com and search what books you want. I love that website. Plus if it is possible ask for christmas for a nook. A nook is a liitle electronic book browser. You type in what kind of book u want and it can be delivered to your house and the price is below ten dollars. mostly in the range of five dollars!
Listen i am pre outgoing but with people i know..but like i can be really shy to whats the best thing fer me to do i am not the kind of person that looks like someone to talk to yah have to get to know me first? help?
ok, what i do is i give the person a reaon to talk to me. simple gestures can help big time. If you see a real hottie on the other side of a room then what i would do is i would walk by and find something that is neat about the person and comment oon it like: "hey i like your shoes, where did you get them?" and then ask them their name and just go for a full blown conversation. same with girls it is all about interset.
I haven't seen my girlfriend in 6 months. I didn't realize how long 6 months was. she isn't doing bad, I mean she misses me, but her happiness outweighs her loneliness. Me on the other hand, I've never felt this lonely before. I love this girl. but its gotten to the point where when I think about her I cant conjure up any happy thoughts. it just feels empty. I feel so far away from her right now, emotionally and mentally. am i just being negative? It used to be fine. when i would start to feel lonely i would just think about holding her in my arms and it would ease the pain. now I feel nothing. I see her in two weeks. I SHOULD be excited but Im more nervous about it. I'm scared we spent too much time apart and now its too late. I'm scared that when I see her in two weeks and hold her, I wont feel the same way. I don't want this to happen. she made me so extremely happy only a few months ago. I want to be excited about her again. I want holding her hand to be different from holding any other girl's hand. how it used to be. I want my love back. I've talked to her about it and we aren't gonna wait this long to see each other again. not ever. but I'm scared there wont be a next time. I'm afraid that I've lost what I had and I can't get it back. I just miss her.
It is common that two people who are together and cannot see each other tend to lose interest with one another. You and her are going about your daily lives. The longer the two of you are apart the more and more it gets easier to forget and move on without feeling guilt. If you want to regain the feelings you once had for her than before she comes sit down and write to yourself adn to her ten things you love/like about that person and ask her to do the same. If that doesn't help than do something with her that you wouldn't normally do to bring back the spark. Talking is also always good. She how she feels. What a girl thinks is always and should always be important. If you still cannot seem to shake the feeling of nothing when you think of her than I believe it is time to move on.