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Is it weird for girls to ask guys out?
Which do guys prefer?
Any opinion is appreciated.

it isnt weird; & most of the time yes girl ask the guys out; it depends on him,

i hope i helped
-xoxo.

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does anyone have the lyrics for the song "tears and time" by andy griggs? ive googled them and looked all over but i cant find them anywhere

the best answer for this would have to be google.com (:

it helps me; try it!

hope i helped
-xoxo C_loveee.

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I have trouble talking to this girl that I really like, I havent been that good at talking to gils anyway, but I really like her what should I do?

P.S... I'm 15 years old

hey :]

you should really just talk to her.
im mean wht could happen?

nothing trust me, TALK TO HER SILLY

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hey so theres this guy... and we went out for like a week. hes indian but hes pretty good looking. but anyways we both kindaa like each other and were wicked good friends. however i feel bad because if he asks me out, i would say no... and this sounds really mean but it might be because of his looks.

like i thought to myself, if he wasnt indian and he was amazingly good looking then i would probably go out with him. i swear im not racist!! is this really bad??!

14/f

not bad at all im like that too ith black boys
there really cute id never date on though

so your not in the wrong.

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I really want "crushcrushcrush" from Paramore on my myspace but on Paramore's myspace I don't see anywhere to add a song to my page. Am I just blind? Lol, Someone please help?

type this in - p a r a m o r e
just copy and past it :)

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I feel like I want to cry, and I don't know why..?


This was the best weekend ever, I spent friday and saturday with my boyfriend, and I just want to cry..


It was the bestest weekend ever


why do I feel like this?

Feeling like you want to cry for no reason.
ive felt like that the past week my self

just cry you will feel sooo much better

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it only sometimes works
like the bars are usually red but my internet connection is up
how can i fix this?

EASY delete it from your computer and download bearshare :)

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well ive only talked to him twice once was when i asked him to hand me my pencil and the second time was when i had an issue with my EX and he is sort of involved but like sometimes i go and say hi to some of my friends which are also his when he is around so i say hi to my friends and like lets say i didnt say hi to him he looks at me blushing he looks like he is gonna say arent you gonna say hi to me but i guess he is shy and i dont say hi cuz im shy well and sometimes i catch him looking at me DO YOU THINK THERE IS A CHANCE HE LIKES ME?

he could like you it seems like he does.

TALK TO HIM SILLYY!
dont let it pass you by.

trust me nothing will go wrong. ;)

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Theres this kid on my bus that I've never spoken to before. I want to but I wouldnt even know what to say. He seems like a cool person but I'm not even sure if he's noticed me. I came across his myspace and I don't know if I should add him. I mean, do you think it'll be weird to add someone you've never spoken to. He'll probably think like: "Why is this girl adding me?" So.. I don't know what to do. :[

Hi :]

Hehe; Just Talk To him trust me what could go wrong maybe sit by him smile or jut be like wuts up out going type trust me.

then once you talk to him go add him
thats what i did.

btw if you need something to say to him let me know

hope i helped

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I had the same screen name since the 5ht grade and i want to change it. But i have no ideas. My name is Jasmine. If you have any ideas please share them.

Jazzyx3
JazzyPooh
Jazzing It Babby Or Jazzing It bby

Do you want it to do with your name?

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Well i went to a football game, and then like i was really cold so this kid that i like gave me his hoodie, but then he was with these two girls, and he just like walked away from them and i gave him a mean look, and he gave me a hug and told me not to be mad at him. I meant to say he walked away from those girls, and came over to me and smiled at me, but i gave him a dirty look..., he also texts me a lot to, and if i dont answer right away, hes like are you there, i hope your not mad at me, or i hope i wasnt being mean or something, because if i was im really really really sorry. and then when he says he can only text for 5 more minutes, we end up talking for an hour, and before he would have to stop texting me when he had to eat, but now when we talk and im like whats up, and hes like i gtg eat in a little while, and then he starts talking to me, and then in the middle of the conversation im like so when do you have to eat, and he always says i already did, but he never did that before. also, if i say oh haha im stupid or something, he always says no your not, and we always get in this joking argument about whos stupider, and stuff. whenever i see him at school he usually smiles, and then he blushes, and a lot of the time he gives me a hug, so does he like me?.


heyy girl hey;
first off awh
yes he likes you but dint go all crazy just keep your cool and flirt alot :D

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so i'm in 9th grade and i'm 14. i really like this guy and we'll just call him...timmy.lol. ok, well, i've liked timmy pretty much since the begining of the skewl year. well, he found out that i like him cause my friend sorta told him (its a really long story..) well, he told her that he doesn't like me that much, but he would probably like me more if he knew me more. and his friend and my friend just told me to talk to him and have a convo w/ him. btw i have 3 classes with him and a lunch if that helps. well, at the start of the year, i didn't talk to him a whole bunch, but this past week i've been talking to him quite a bit. but there is a prob. he is going to ask this other girl out. so i'm really pissed cause right when i start talking to him, he gets a gf. i'm just like wth?? and i'm the type of person who belives everything happens for a reason and there are signs for like everything. so is this like a sign that we aren't supposed to go out?? everyone who knows i like him thinks that we would look cute together cause like the bodytypes, dark hair and dark eyes. i think we would be really cute to but i just don't know how to make it happen. see, i'm really shy around guys, but i've been trying to start to talk to them more, which i actually have been making some progress the last couple of weeks. but i just need some help! what do i do??? everyone thinks that timmy and his "gf" won't last very long and i don't eaither just cause they are nothing alike and she is a HUGE flirt, but i just don't know. help please!!!

Hey girl hey :]
okay well i'm the same way so dont trip'
- thay might last a week if shes a huge flirt if that mabe even shorter then a week, )i'm not trying to bumm you) but if she really likes him, she might stop being suchs a flirt for him but, dont let that stop you!! what id do is id talk to hi even though there dateing; not like go behind her back and stuff just when your at lunch talk to him -ABOUT ANYTHING-
some good stuff HEY.. timmy :)
sit down and be like whats up.. or how is your day going so far!? TIMMMMY lol that always works i'm pretty sure something will pop in your head, but anyways if you keep talking to hima nd go out of your way just to talk to him, he will start to see that you Still like him and just because he has a new girl friend doesnt mean your gonna stop likeing him and if you to talk alot he might even like you more then his girl friend if he does get to know you then DUH why not you to will hit it off :) just talk to him as much as you can dont be shy because its gonna be worth it all my love;;

talk-- easyest thing you can do to show you still care and like himm; hope o helped :)

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why do young teens ask for costumes that are sexy, yet not slutty?

aren't all the sexy costumes.. towards the slutty side anyway ? isn't it inappropriate to wear to school and to go trick or treating?

- :) Hey
I'm A Female 14
Last Year I Went As A Foot Ball player :D
and my guy friends went as cheerleaders
this year im gonna be a gangsta :D
make it like cute but funny

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16/f (sophomore)

NOTE:: if you dont feel like reading me vent for a paragraph skip down to the question

mk so this past month in school ive been trying to make new friends, but it hasnt worked AT ALL. i want to have friends that will laugh at my jokes at the right times, also friends that arent too clingy..or friends that will talk to me when things are serious. i know in my heart that im not shy, im actually majorly outgoing with EVERYBODY. for example, on my school sports team everytime i try to talk to someone i feel like im being snubbed..and i feel so worn down because of it and it makes me feel as if its my fault for being too sensitive. they are all nice people too. thought it would be EASIER to make friends when i got on a sports team but apparently not! :((

right now i feel stuck and i feel like crying/pulling my hair out in frustration because i really wanted to make fun friends this year but it's mid october and i have no idea why ive made not one good friend!!! =[[[ sighh i feel like crying. honestly. ive been in this school district for 8 years and even though i am crazy outgoing and i join lots of clubs and im smart and i have interests and im on sports teams i have not made more than 10 good friends. like what the fuckkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY ME???

sorry that was super long haha. its just my way of venting! anyway my real question is..if someone i want to be friends with makes me feel kinda intimidated should i stop trying or keep trying to talk to them even though im afraid of talking too much?

thanks.

Okay yeah im going thru the same thing right now becuase i just moved eveyone seems stuck up to me because thay act like there the best and stuff yeah i know how you feel i only have about 6 friends down here and i dont hang out with them that much pretty much once a week if that and weekends i sit home doing nothing :(

anyways
just be like HEY :)
and whats your name and start talking to them
and stuff thats what always works for me;;
trust me you will make friends
at school while your doing w/e your doing talk to people eveeyday you see that person talk to them as much as you can be like whats up
and talk be like what did you do this week?
and after awhile you guys will get close
i hang with nothing but guys becuase girls have to much drama and the guys im with have girlfriends and friends that are girls like me and we hang out try talking to the guys
hope i helped!
and no one hates you

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the most embarassing thing ever happened in school today. i got my period in school, not soo bad it happens to lots of girls. but its worse. i was wearing a SKIRT and I had a heavy flow and there was blood on the chair when i got up....i can't even believe that happened because i dont know how im EVER going to live that down. the kids in my school are so mean/immature, it's ridiculous. i'm a junior in high school, by the way. i know people are going to talk and make fun of me...what do i do?! has this ever happened to anyone else :[

Heyy;
well fist off im sorry that happend'
and 2th those girls and boys that make fun of you are gay! and thay need a life if thats all thay have to do is make fun of you then really tell them to buy a life on ebay there really cheap!
and;; nothing like that has ever happend to be but id act like nothing happend and maybe no one seen it!soo just dont worry about it and if people talk like girsl and stuff and thay say it to are face just be like "OH YEAH ACT LIKE YOUR ALL PERFECT AND SOMETHING EMBARASSING NEVER HAPPEND TO YOU" and if she goes to talk just be like "SAY IT FOR SOMEONE WHO CARES!" and smile :)
if it bothers you dont let anyone know it does and it will die down know one will talk about if thay know it isnt bothering you;;

hope i helped!

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on myspace this one girl has thing on her myspace that says "dont chase them,replace them." in black letters. does any one know where she got that? its like perfect for me. soo thanks

google it
photobucket.com
tinypic.com
or copy it and past it on your profile :]
or if its a thingy that can be saved
right click and press save backrounds as..
and it will be saved to your computer and then go to tinypic.com and upload it and get the first code

and put it on your mspace :]]
hope i helped need more ifo about message me

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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " be WITH me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? he(my crush) said he(my crushes friend)he knows what im capable of. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

Whoaa;;
i didnt really get half of that but i wanna help you! so it sounds like he likes you (your crush)
sounds like he likes you but he doesnt want to hurt his best friend and it seems like his best friend is makeing him feel bad about likeing you! because of what you said it seems to me he does!
well maybe you should just talk to both of them
tell the boy who likes you how you feel not in a mean way though just be like look i like but not like you as in dateing wase your really great friend and i'm so sorry but thats all i feel for you as my best friend/friend im really sorry; dont be madd at me!! and hug him thats what i would do then talk to your crush!! just ask him how he really feels about you.. truthful tell him not to lie about it you wont get badd! and if he doesnt like you.. i know your going to be hurt and it will/might take time to get over but you will find someone else trust me girl;
message me on myspace when you find out!
www.myspace.com/crashbbycrash if you have one!
thats my contests one though haha!
hope i helped! ;]]
best luck to you!

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I'm 15f and I feel like everyone hates me. My brother came home today and said that my friends or my ex-friends wanted him to hang out with them. They never call me and they think I'm annoying. What is up with that? I'm not a bad person. why do people choose other people over me? All the time, too. It's so confusing. I just want people to like me for me. i don't want to be like my brother. He's all emo. I'm just normal and fun. He's just something else.

Hey (:
Look i went thru everything your going thru;
and it sucks you feel sad alot
and you just want to cry you feel like your not
good either?
what i did is i didnt let that kinda stuff get to me; because if you do then you will always be hurt and you dont wanna hurt 24/7 trust me'
my friends would always pick my other friends over me ANYDAY even my best friends;
then one day i just got so fed up with there crap
that when thay asked me to hang out with then
i didnt' and i made NEW friends that Love to hang out with me and there happy about hanging with me'
i was 13 and stuff then im 14 now, and after a while with not hanging out with my oldies thay called me alot and seen me at school with my new friends and seen thay where no longer on my top 8 and stuff and thay where like why dont you call us no more are you mad? and i was like nahh just act like you dont care and you dont have time for them anymore thay will come back to you and want you (: truth is thay will miss and want to hang with you'

i hope everything works out for the best and if thay dont come back THERES MORE FRIENDS IN THIS WOLRD ((:

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im goin on a date tonight to dinner and i really want him to kiss me, what hints can i give?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

umm well i havent ever been kissed so i'm not so sure'
just talk alot!
umm show some hints like its okay to kiss you'

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i want to be a cheerleader so bad! i've wanted to be one ever since 5th grade and now im in 9th. theres tryouts again in march, what can i do and what do i have to learn to be a cheerleader?
please give me full details. thankss so much! :]

ugh cheerleading (:
i love it and im sure you will also
comeing for this i have cheerleaded for about two years now and its never to late to sign up!
okay so if your trying out for high school cheerleading to make jv you need and backhandspring! if your small or little like something like that you might fly thats easy;
for srs you will need a tuck or a round off back handsprings maybe about 4 of thoses!

for CHEERLEADING Not for a school then all you need is nothing you will make the team everyone makes the team just try out and thay will place you where you need to be and everything will be great! first time is going to be scaryy;; but you will fly by it! and you deff will love it--

hope i helped!

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