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i need to know now i will see my crush tomorrow


Question Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 8:35 pm

ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " be WITH me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? he(my crush) said he(my crushes friend)he knows what im capable of. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

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Melody answered Friday October 12 2007, 1:39 pm:
I think you most certainly go to the football game. You can't let a boy run your life to the point that you don't do things you want for fear of him being somewhere/doing something. Don't go because he's going to be there, go because you frigging want to.

If he makes the choice or acts as if he wants to talk to you, by all means talk to him. If he doesn't, don't let it bother you. And if it secretly does, don't let him know it. Have fun- You may like him, but you don't have to be miserable if he doesn't like you back.

Dress comfortably. Don't try to hard to impress, because it will end up blowing up in your face. Dress nice. A little makeup, something cute with your hair, but where something that isn't too "showy" or "flashy"

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iiL0VEY0U answered Friday October 12 2007, 11:58 am:
Whoaa;;
i didnt really get half of that but i wanna help you! so it sounds like he likes you (your crush)
sounds like he likes you but he doesnt want to hurt his best friend and it seems like his best friend is makeing him feel bad about likeing you! because of what you said it seems to me he does!
well maybe you should just talk to both of them
tell the boy who likes you how you feel not in a mean way though just be like look i like but not like you as in dateing wase your really great friend and i'm so sorry but thats all i feel for you as my best friend/friend im really sorry; dont be madd at me!! and hug him thats what i would do then talk to your crush!! just ask him how he really feels about you.. truthful tell him not to lie about it you wont get badd! and if he doesnt like you.. i know your going to be hurt and it will/might take time to get over but you will find someone else trust me girl;
message me on myspace when you find out!
www.myspace.com/crashbbycrash if you have one!
thats my contests one though haha!
hope i helped! ;]]
best luck to you!

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