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14/f. jonathon, my best guy friend, has been acting like a jerk to me the past few weeks. i got mad about it, and we kind of stayed away from each other for a few days. he and i were really close before then and told each other everything. as soon as jonathon and i quit talking for awhile, sarah, my other best friend, started hanging around him and he apparently "replaced" me with her in the sense that he began to tell her everything and stuff (his "depressing" life story and the big part that i played in it). so last night jonathon and i resolved our issues, and he told me that there's no excuse for the way he's been treating me, but the only reason that he's been weird is that he has a major crush on me and kind of doesn't know how to act around me right now because he likes me but doesn't want to scare me off (we had talked about not dating anybody until high school, so even if we like each other we kind of vowed to just stay friends). so now things are kind of how they used to be (after we were "cool" again, he asked me to this big banquet for next year as friends and i said okay). now i'm hoping that things are going to be just the way they were before. but, i'm worried that he's replaced me with sarah as somebody to talk to. do y'all think that i'm overreacting? by the way, i don't like him in that way, he's just my best friend. do you think that maybe he started hanging around sarah more to make me jealous or something? (link)
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Well he proboly felt that sarah was someone that he could talk to and not feel wierd around, because he doesnt like her so shes just the talking part. However he hasnt replaced you dont worry, guys wont just randomly change their feelings about their friends, especially since he said he didnt have a good reason for being wierd. He proboly still likes you, and wont be changing his feelings any time soon, but dont worry because friends that like eachother, or friends like you guys, where only one likes the other, can stay friends even under the circumstances! ive been through the same thing, we're still fiends and i love him like a brother now, an he knew i liked him but we stayed friends, and even got closer because of it! dont worry, your not replaced, and itll all be ok!
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i know this isnt fashion or style, but what are good concealers(not foundation)that covers acne well?
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i like the kinds from victoria secret, they cover everything nicely!
btw u shouldnt cover acne, it makes it worse! try seeing a dermatologist, and make sure you wash off the make up at night to let your skin breath! good luck!
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haha sorry guys! this is soo random! but who ever is good with movies needs to help me! its been stuck in my head all day - this clip from a movie that iv seen. its this blonde girl- i cant remember the actress- sneaking out of her window tip toeing across her roof to get to her boyfriend. i remember her climbing down a tree to meet him and then he was trying to kiss her. but shes hard to get. haha this is so random and i feel like really stupid asking this!
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its from hot chick! rachel leigh cook is the actress, and that guy from boy meets world is the boyfriend. dont feel stupid lol i do it all the time!
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i just am sick of not having any tru friends and best friends. im really sick of it. i try so hard to have best friends when all they do is turn their backs on me. i dont know what im doing wrong. i invite ppl all the time places and nobody even wants to hang with me im giving up i have like no true friends and i dont know what to do..in my opinion.. im prolly the sweetest person. i dont talk much about ppl. so i dont know what im doing wrong. how do i get a best friend. this is killing me. i need more friends tho. well wahtever advice anybody has for me please tell me and i hope i explained well.
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ok well i think that your problem is proboly that your looking for a best friend, what you need to do first is just look for a friend. once you find a friend that you and whoever it is talk regularly and enjoy eachothers company, then invite them over to hangout, or watch a movie, or something. DONT PRESSURE THEM INTO A SLEEPOVER!!! the reason i say that is because just friends dont sleepover right away. once you and the person go over to eachothers house regularly or hangout regularly, then you can ask them if they want to sleep over. DONT ASK THEM TO GO PLACES! you dont want them to feel like their being forced into something soo dont ask them on trips until at least a year into the relationship. and by trips i dont mean mall, movies, etc. by the way you cant just choose someone to be your best friend, its just something thats meant to be, like fate. my best friend and i met the summer before 6th grade. we didnt become best friends til 7th, and then we took our frist trip together that year to bahamas. shes like my twin soul, we complete eachother, and i dont mean creepy, we're not lesbiens, but shes like my sister. let the relationship develop and dont rush or push, just let it come naturally! good luck, and dont worry everyone has at least 1 best friend out there, you just have to find them.
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My boyfriend drinks. That I dont care about. Just as long as he is responsible. Well he goes out with a friend of ours and drink this his friend's freinds. It really kind of bothers me because they are girls. I have talked to him about it, and he has reassured me that he won't do anything to threaten us as a couple. But our mutual friend, whom he drinks with, says that he can't control himself. But, This friend is known to tell lies. What should I do? I don't trust the girls he drinks with. I trust him. They drink like 2-3 times a week. (link)
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ok well drinking is a serous problem, its really bad for your mental and physical health! i think that you should sit him down and tell him that:
1. you trust him, just not the people he drinks with
2. he drinks too much, maybe 1-2 times a week but 2-3 is too much, try to convince him to drink at home, or with you, that way at least you can help him if he does get out of control, nd hes with you not the other girls
3. tell him to limit the drinking and try to go out with other friends that you trust more with him
4. dont yell, stay calm, and make sure that he understands that your doing this because you care about him and his well-being
Good luck!
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i really wanna have a electric quittare and i also have enough money and everything but my parents dont want me to have one! can any1 give me tips how to convince them? i'll rate 5 for good advice :-)
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it might help if you knew how to spell GUITAR (lol srry)! but anyways, try telling them that music and the arts is a fading eduacation in schools, it is very important for children, teens, and adults to be connected with music and art! it develops ones mind and heart in ways that schools cant. tell them that being musically inclined will help you in so many ways, it reduces stress, it takes out your emotions, and keeps you off the streets/ parties and puts you under their watchful eye, while you learn and develop as a person! thats a good argument to start with, how them how important it is to you, and they should give in, also show them that you dedicated to learning and would take it very serously!
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How do I prove to my girlfriend that I like her more? Everytime I say I do, she says "Prove it." So i'm out to find a way tp prove it. (link)
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actions speak louder than words, is what your girlfriend is saying, girls dont just want you to say you like them alot, they want romantic gestures, aka flowers, choclate, dancing with her (and not freak dancing i mean slow dancing, when nobody is around). my suggestion is you get the movie the notebook, and watch it, get some advice from it, and you could even watch it with your girlfriend, every girl LOVES that movie, and just about every girl cries, and you would make a nice shoulder to cry on, get my drift? good luck and remember the cheesier the better, the more romantic and overdone the BETTER!!!!
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What's the difference beetween a thong, g-string, v-string, and a string bikini? Then what's the difference beetween regular briefs and bikini underwear? (link)
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thong, g-string, and v-string are all things, some just are trashier than others. a string bikini, is when the material that would usually cover your hips, is like a string soo its like a thong on your hip (haha). the difference between regular briefs and bikini underwear, in that regular briefs come up higher on your stomach than bikini, bikini tend to be lowraisers. hope i helped!
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I recently lost my old computer to a virus with all my itunes music on it.
i still have my ipod with all the music.
is there anyway i can download itunes again then transfer the songs back to itunes from my ipod? (link)
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that happened to me, call the store or email then about your problem, and they can send it to you on your new computor! its fast, but be careful because they told me they wouldnt do it again!
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this isnt really advice... but does anyone know a good song by the all american rejects, the beatles, beck, coldplay, the cure, dave matthews band, death cab for cutie, franz ferdinand, Guster, hellogoodbye, Jack johnson, the magic numbers, no ddoubt, The Red Hot Chili peppers, the smiths, the strokes, weezer, or Zox that have really good lyrics that could explain my love for someone in my profile? i'm a girl if that helps. (link)
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yes there are tons but my favorite is by hellogoodbye (it was on the realworld i think)
"Oh, It Is Love":
Oh, it is love
From the first time I set my eyes up on yours
Thinking oh, is it love?
Oh dear
It's been hardly a moment
And you are already missed
There is still a bit of your skin
That I'm yet to have kissed
Oh say please do not go
When you know you know that i must
Oh say I love you so
You know you know you can trust
We'll be holding hands once again
All our broken plans I will mend
I will hold you tight so you know
It is love from the first
Time I set my hand into yours
Thinking Oh is it love?
Dear, its been hardly three days
And I'm longing to feel your embrace
There are several days
Until I can see your sweet face
Wouldn't it be nice to be older and married with me
Oh say wouldn't you like to know right now that we'll be
Someday holding hands in the end
All our lovely plans will have been
I will kiss you soft so you know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking Oh is it love?
Your heart may long for love that is more near
So when i'm gone these words will be here
To ease every fear
And dry up every tear
And make it very clear
I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I set my lips against yours
Thinking Oh is it love?
Oh it is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking Oh is it love?
I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I set my lips onto yours
Thinking Oh is it love?
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does putting a spoon in the freezer and letting it stay there for a little while then putting it on a hickey make the hickey go away faster? I heard the blood moves from the surface because of the cold spoon. Does it really work? (link)
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i heard that too, id try it! if that doesnt work, concealer should cover it up pretty good! good luck with that!
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Okay, theres this kid. Lets call him JAR, now jar really likes me; a lot. And well, I don't really like him. But the thing is that he would pay someone $10 for my phone number or beat up anyone that said something mean to me. He offered to buy me a new phone .. and got my chocolates, and a bear and calls me ALL the time.
Okay, now my boyfriend. Lets call him AREO(don't ask) now, areo never says things like that. I've gotten chocolates before, and cute little love notes from him like "From the first time I saw you .." kind of notes. He just doesn't give me a lot of stuff. But does that mean he doesn't care? I mean, he loves to skate he's out skating most of the time and he doesn't have a cell. So sometimes its hard for him to call.
Thats the thing. Who likes me more? Theres a 99% chance that I'm not going to go out with JAR, but I feel bad for him. For all I know his room could have my face all over it. He really likes me. But so does AREO. Nobody really likes JAR. So it would be kind of embarrassing to go out with him, and I don't want to. I like AREO, but sometimes I have my doubts of him.
ugghhh, help? (link)
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ok well, heres your problem:
1. your thinking of pity-dating someone, which is worse than telling them no!
2. your being a bit of a golddigger the way you feel material objects is what shows a mans affection!
3. your actually considering dumping your boyfriend because hes not very open with liking you!
now, think of it this way, stalker or real man? now i hope i didnt affend you, i was just trying to show you that guys dont show their feelings willingly and openly unless their either really sensitive or they want somehthing from you! i beleive that this JAR is a bit obsessed, and that you should NOT want to even consider dating him! AREO likes you, i mean duh hes dating you, guys tend to hide their feelings, he obviously likes you more! this JAR guy is proboly just a little crazy and desperate, i mean you said it yourself that nobody likes him, so basically he wants a little something from you! dont think, follow your heart, AREO likes you better! good luck, and i hope that you werent affended by anything i said!
PS: in the furture dont turn someone down, based on their social status!
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is it normal to feel like you don't belong in your family cauze thatz how i feel but is it normal (link)
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everyone feels out of place in their family at times! its completly normal, especially if your a teenager! dont worry about it, everyone is different, and your family shoudl accept you for who you are, no matter what! good luck, and dont worry!
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How do you get a guys (that you like) email? without being to obvious that you like him. Oh and i work with this guy. Thanx in advance (link)
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i got the guys i like email, cell, and sn all from just talking about hw *hehe*! just pretend you need to send him something important and be like ohh can i just email it to you that way i dont have to print it or that way you can keep it! it'll work, it worked for me, just keep it casual act like it doesnt even phase you, and its totally natural to exchange emails! good luck!
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Hey.
My name is Gabriella and i'm 15 and i'm dating someone named Chad who is 16. I sorta have this problem with him. You see... hes always talking about himself and bragging.. and then hes always saying how all these girls are pretty and hasent told me that once....hes going to 2 proms... 1 with his best friend who is a model and is his x girlfriend and one with someone i dont know who... and he was practically rubbing it in my face... hes always hugging all these girls... and he called me three other girls names and then hes friends with all girls... and if i have a picture of myself and he thinks it looks bad hes like ugh that pic is horriable... i mean i like the honesty but he could be nice about it. and hes always trying to change things like how i take pictures and it makes me insane!! and i just dont know what to do... because i like him still... even tho hes like that. HELP PLEASE AND THANK YOU!
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your better than that, trust me i was in a relationship like that, and you may like him alot but its not worth the suffering! dump him and find someone who deserves you, if you read what you wrote it sounds like you boyfriend is going to be a abusive husband and that he seems to think hes some sorta "player", well good luck, and it will all be ok, just get out while you still can!
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Everyone keeps saying for really dry hair you should use olive oil to make it soft and smooth again. Well I did... now it wont come out. lol My hair is an oily mess! I've washed it 7 times already and it's still as oilly as before. HELP!!!! (link)
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you are supposed to rub it into your scalp not take a bath in it or dunk your head in it. your supposed to use only a little directly to your scalp. my suggestion is shampoo it 5 times, dont condition it, then in the morning wash it normally and it should be good by then! dont worry my sister does that to her hair, next time only do it to your scalp and your supposed to leave it in over night or at least for 6 hours, that proboly why it isnt coming out easily, plus the fact its oil and you use water to rinse your hair, and well oil and water dont mix! good luck ttyl
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My problem is that I'm like head over heals(in love :-P ) in a girl in my classe and I don't know what to do, and I don't know what to do beacuse of a few reasons
*She is a really good friend of my & I'm afreid that if I tell her it could kill our friendship
*She is curentlly dating someone
please help me....
what should I do????? (link)
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I think you should ask her if shes really happy with the guy shes with, it could be close to the end of their relationship (most teenage relationships dont last long)! or just sit her down and tell her you need to talk to her about something that could make or break your relationship with her. tell her that she has to promise you no matter what that you will stay friends, or at least can become friends again after awhile. I think you just need to tell her, its so important at your age to be a little risky with your feelings or else when you get older you'll be too afraid! The chances you take now have less consequences than when you get older! good luck and tell me how it goes, whether you tell her or not!
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What kind of job can a 14 year old girl get?
I am almost 14 and need a job badly. My parents barely have enough money to pay the bills. I want to help them out. Please no babysitting. [if this helps i live in PA] (link)
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You can becomea dishwasher at a restaurant, that about it 14 year olds arent really allowed, legally, to have real job! good luck and its really nice of you to do this for your family, i hope it all works out!
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okayy... so my little cusion.lost her best friend .. this boy liked loved her for 8 months.
and my cusion secretly love/loved him too.but he thought she didnt love him.so he would beat him self up and stuff.then he started going out with my cusion's best friend so forget about my cusion.
and it worked.he says he got over her.
they dont talk any more.
now my cuz relizes she really loves him.
shes terribly heartbroken.
if that made any sence.
any way.
shes at my house right now.
crying x345354
i feel bad.
i'm cheering her up.
but not so good.
because i've never really been heartbroken.
or inlove.
so does anyone have ANY advice about how she can
like get him back or something.
haha.
or like have them talk again?
p.s
they were with eachother last night because they were hanging out with other people too and stuff.
and she just wanted to talk to him but he was being mean to her and then thatt night
she went on aim
and he broke her heart even more
by telling her that he doesnt miss them being best friends.and mean stuffff!
ahh please please help.
btw you can tell im a good listener by that
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i think what your cousin needs to do is go get her man! she needs to be persistent, and not take no for an answer, have her call him and tell him that he's a dumb if he cant see that she loves him and wants her best friend back! Tell her to tell him that she didnt see it before, and she misses him and she knows he misses her (because he obviously does, no friendship that disappears isnt missed!)! Good luck and dont worry hearts always mend themselves with time!
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hey,
i would like to know...
do you know any sites that give you songs?like old ones such as -- were is the love,by black eyed peas,
sunshine(it goes "i can call you my baby boy,you can call me your baby gurl maybe we could send some time,i could be your sunshine)
i'll rate high!!
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www.pcplanets.com its good and has alotta videos!
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