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In love with a girl & don't know what to do
My problem is that I'm like head over heals(in love :-P ) in a girl in my classe and I don't know what to do, and I don't know what to do beacuse of a few reasons
*She is a really good friend of my & I'm afreid that if I tell her it could kill our friendship
*She is curentlly dating someone
please help me....
what should I do?????
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Ok, here's what to do.
Do NOT try to turn her away from her boyfriend, win her over, or badmouth her boyfriend. It would make you look like an asshole, she would be very angry and so would her boyfriend. That alone could end the friendship, and you definitely don't want that.
Don't tell her that you like her while she's in a relationship. You know that it would be futile, because she most likely doesn't like you back in the same way right now.
After she and her boyfriend break up, wait a while. If you tell her too soon, then she might think that you are being insensitive to the break-up.
If some event happens that when you tell her that you like her, and she likes you back, you guys can start dating. You can do all the things that a boyfriend and girlfriend do together, but don't offically call it "dating." That way, if you guys break up, it will be less awkward and you could go back to being friends again.
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I think you should ask her if shes really happy with the guy shes with, it could be close to the end of their relationship (most teenage relationships dont last long)! or just sit her down and tell her you need to talk to her about something that could make or break your relationship with her. tell her that she has to promise you no matter what that you will stay friends, or at least can become friends again after awhile. I think you just need to tell her, its so important at your age to be a little risky with your feelings or else when you get older you'll be too afraid! The chances you take now have less consequences than when you get older! good luck and tell me how it goes, whether you tell her or not!
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Well since she is in a relationship I don't think you should tell her for many reasons.
1) You will most likely ruin the relationship shes in because her boyfriend might get jealous, mad ect. If that happens she most likely wont be too fond of you.
2) Your friendship will become extrememly akward
In my opinion I think you should just wait untill things are over with them and be her shoulder to cry on. When the time is right flirt with her, don't scare her away.
Hope I helped =)
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This is probably not what you want to hear but...
I really think that you should just keep your love to yourself.
I mean if you tell her your relationship will just be awkward, and on top of that she has a significant other so it probably wouldn't go over too well with her or her significant other.
So hun, I am sorry but under those circumstances I really think you should just keep your love inside, and try and move on...
Well, I hope everything turns out ok, if you need anything drop it in my inbox.
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