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im amanda. im 16 && if you ask me a question ill kinda help you. i wont be bitchy, unless youre bitchy first, so ya.
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ok well my dentist told me i will need braces for my lower teeth. and my mom promised she will get me invisilign i know its a bit expensive but i dont wanna wear braces.and now my mom said she isnt sure if she can aford invislign.and i dont wanna wear braces in high school.waht should i do? (link)
well if your mom cant afford it theres not much you can do..and haveing braces on your bottom teeth is a lot less noticable that top braces. but if you really want invisalign you could offer to help pay for them..thats the only thing i can think of, sorry if im not much help.and dont feel bad if you have to get regulr ones, i know a lot of people who have braces in highschool. good luck!!


i need help on what to wear i got 3 tops and i cant choice.. i am goin to the mall to see a close friend that i havent seen but i need help with a top..
1)http://photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/?action=view¤t=2f5f8131.jpg

2) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg

3) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg

i am planin to wear blue jeans and pink and black shoes. my hair will be striaght but i dont know if i will wear a hat that has the inatails of my first and last name on it and it is black and red... should wear a hat or not?? and whcih top should i wear??? (link)
dont wear a hat..but if you wear the pink n black shoes id go for the green tank. but i like the pinkish tank the best...and if you wear that id wear some like white flip flops or something!
have fun && goodluck!


hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX (link)
well...rigt now the 3 year age gap is a big deal because yall are at diffent stages of your life, you have different priorities and all that stuff. also since guys mature slower than girls, it might be a problem. but whatever you decide to do, good luck!


i kno a "gleam in someone's eye" means it's a sperm, but how can a sperm be a gleam in someone's eye? (link)
a "gleam in someone's eye" is just a saying. it has nothing to do with sperm. a "gleam in someones eye" means you can see that theyre really happy


is it possible to become pregnant in this situation:
a guy touches his.. thing, and gets that "pre-cum" or whatever on his hand/fingers. then he fingers a girl, a few minutes later, with the same hand as before.
please only answer if you actually know what you're talking about. (link)
the chances are VERY low...pretty much impossible. you never know though, but i think its safe to say you wont get pregnant. just be more careful next time, good luck!


is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?
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you could try mystic tanning, it works really well and doesnt take long!


Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
you need to get tested for stds and to see if your pregnant. but it also could've been something else...like you had a cut and it got irritated while you were having sex and started to bleed...or something else. but if you do have an std you need to make sure you tell him. and if he does leave you..you'll be okay. it'll be hard but youll make it.

good luck and be safe!!


I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist? (link)
no this wouldnt scare guys, a lot of people are into that kinky kinda stuff lol. but...umm its also probably because youre usually very strong willed, you might want a change, to be dominated. a lot of guys are actully turned on by this kind of thing. its kind of hard to explain. if you have other questions leave some in my inbox.


if u gave a guy head, and they didnt cum could you still get a STD or aids? (link)
unfortunatly yes, but you cant get HIV/AIDS.if youre worried you should get tested... good luck!


I have a job interview in a few days, and I am deathly afraid to go. I am a very reserved person who has never been too social in school. I am uncomfortable around people I don't know because I never have anything to say to them. I have been this way my entire life, and I am way too old to be acting like this still. Is there anything I can do to get over this feeling and to be more relaxed when I am in situations such as this? (link)
no you arent to old to be acting like this...a lot of people are shy. but they'll ask you questions so just try and concentrate on the questions youre asked.

there are also a lot of questions that most interviewers ask...like "why do you want this job?" "why would this be a good job for you?" "what are your strengths and weaknesses?" so you could think of some other questions they might ask and kind of practice your answers so youre more comfortable. I know that sounds weird, but it helps. also just try to relax.

good luck!!!


i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!


What should i do!

signed,
brittany (link)
theres not much you can do...but just try and be there for her and talk to her. try and find out if shes talked to an adult...if not encourage her to..or tell an adult you trust.

by the way..you seem like great friend, and shes lucky you care! good luck sweetie!


wat are the words to the andy milonakis theme song??
~thanx a bunch~
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i got peas on my head but dont cll me a pea head, bees on my head but dont call me a bee head, bruce lees on my head but dont call me a lee head. now excuse me i gotta get my tree fed.(i think theres a part here i dont know) pancake on my face makes me extra happy, i like shampoo bottles that sit on my lappy. this is my show you cant tell me what to do when life gives me lemons i make beef stew. well now i gotta rock it, i put bologna in my left pocket, smear some cream cheese in my gold locket...then its like..this is my show im andy milonakis, this is my show im shmandy shmilinshmokas, this is my show im andy milonakis.

its something like that lol


how do you know if you have an std without getting tested (link)
some stds have sypmtoms..but most dont, so the best way to find out is to get tested.


i have like horrible sleeping problems...like sometimes i dont even fall asleep till almost 3 in the morning. does anyone have any like tips or something to help me fall asleep?


thanks ♥ (link)
try asking your doctor for sleeping pills or just try taking tylenol pm or something like that. good luck!


wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad

whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad

when we fight, i am given all the blame

if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad

if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me

hes needy, and he knows it!

if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad

but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad

i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.

im always made to feel bad. (link)
thats not a good relationship. you shouldnt be responsible for everything in your relationship. i personally think you should dump him, because you deserve better. ive been in the same situation as you so i know how you feel...i hope everything goes good!


What are some safe, free music downloading sites? Is limewire good? But what other ones are good out there? thanks! (link)
limewire is really good...ive never had problems with it.


is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back? (link)
theres nothing wrong with shaving there...as long as you do it a lot cause otherwise it gets stubble and thats gross


Hey Everyone, Whats up?

You Know Jessica Simpson's new "Dessert line" Of beauty probucts? I was wondering, Can you Really eat them? Or Not? I read the back of a Bottle to see the ingredients and I really couldn't tell. Anyone Know?

(Are they worth the price?)


-SLeK-


(If it matters, I'll rate and leave feedback!) (link)
yeah you can really eat them. but i wouldn't like directly eat them out of the bottle...its more for like licking off. it actually tastes really good too.and i think theyre worth the price. =]


ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!! (link)
if you dont know for sure if youre ready or not, then you probably arent ready.


hey...i'm thinking of getting my cartilage peirced does anyone know if it hurts and how badly? and also like whats thing like if its in a certain ear your gay and if its in the other you aren't..? (link)
it doesnt hurt at all, i have mine peirced twice. i have my left done, but the lady said that with the cartilige it doesnt mean anything. you should get it on the side you dont sleep on as often. after m you get it done, it might be a little sensative. but just make sure you clean it, and keep your earring in cause it closes easily. goodluck




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