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I have a few interviews
I have a job interview in a few days, and I am deathly afraid to go. I am a very reserved person who has never been too social in school. I am uncomfortable around people I don't know because I never have anything to say to them. I have been this way my entire life, and I am way too old to be acting like this still. Is there anything I can do to get over this feeling and to be more relaxed when I am in situations such as this?
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I used to be that way. In fact, at my first job interview, they kept telling me not to be so nervous. I still do get nervous at job interviews, but I try not to let it show as much. A few days before your interview, have a friend or family member practice with you. Have them ask you some questions that you may be asked during the interview, and practice how you'll answer. Before you go into the interview, take deep breaths and try to remind yourself that while it would be great to get this job, if you don't, it's not the end of the world and that there will always be other jobs you can apply for. Even though that job may seem super important to you, it always helps me to tell myself that. Ask yourself why you're so nervous, then think of all the skills you have that will make you a great candidate for that job. If it's possible, do some research on the company you're being interviewed for so that you'll have more knowledge about it and the position you're being interviewed for. Most companies love it when you have some knowledge about the company as opposed to just coming in and waiting for them to tell you about it.
Get a good night's sleep the night before the interview, and eat a good, filling meal before you go. It's also a good idea to avoid coffee, soda, or anything with caffeine so you won't be too jittery. Try to get to the interview with plenty of time to spare so you'll have time to collect yourself and your thoughts. When you get to the interview, smile, introduce yourself, and shake hands with the interviewer. Remember that it's normal to be nervous, but there's really nothing to be nervous about. You'll do fine. Just be yourself and be confident in yourself.
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There are a few strategies that might help you. First, you could think of someone you really admire - an outgoing, confident, and assured person. This could be a friend, family member, or even someone famous.
Figure out what qualities they have and how they show them, and then go into the interview imaginging that you have these skills and traits. Eye contact, good body language, and appearing comfortable with yourself are key.
Another option is to write out questions you might imagine the interviewer might ask you, and prepare answers. Give the written questions to a friend, and have them ask you. This allows you to practice your answers outloud.
Finally, think about why you applied for this job. You obviously have knowledge or abilities relating to it, or you wouldn't have applied. Concentrate on these talents, and focus on how you can express them to an interviewer. It sounds hokey, but repeating something like 'I am capable and confident' in your head while waiting for the interview to start can also help.
Best of luck.
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try to just act normal and concentrait, you'll get used to it when you meet the people
what the person below me said *or above haha the first to answer the question* they will ask questions like that, so think of answers on the way going there why you want the job and stuff. but dont say "because i need the money" because they will think "this one is only working for money. were not taking her" thats what happened to my sisters friend. say liike "i have always dreamed of becoming ____ and i wannt to follow my dreams footsteps" my sisters friends said that and they accepted her.. soo say something like that
hope i helped
Maddy
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no you arent to old to be acting like this...a lot of people are shy. but they'll ask you questions so just try and concentrate on the questions youre asked.
there are also a lot of questions that most interviewers ask...like "why do you want this job?" "why would this be a good job for you?" "what are your strengths and weaknesses?" so you could think of some other questions they might ask and kind of practice your answers so youre more comfortable. I know that sounds weird, but it helps. also just try to relax.
good luck!!!
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