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Sometimes in the day I feel like water or pee is leaking out of my vagina
Is this normal? and even sometimes I get stains in my underwear. (link)
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Have you had your period yet? It's discharge. From your period. Either wear a tampon or pad because I'm sure its going to come soon.
hope this helped.
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what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!
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Follow your heart. Who can you see yourself lasting with? Who can you see yourself being more comfortable around? Who have you known longer and who wont judge you? Who makes you feel special just by talking to you and listening to you...
things like that.
I hope I helped, I tried as much as I can since I dont know any of you.
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Hi. I am usually the one to give advice..but anyway. I have acne all over my forehead and some on my cheeks. I've tried a bunch of products but none of them seem to work. I've gone to a dermatologist and they prescribed some facial pads for my acne. It reduced the acne on my cheeks alot but not my head. Any product suggestions that will help with my acne on my forehead? Not too pricey please. Also if you can specify where I can buy a product you reccoment that would be great.
Thanks.
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PROACTIVe =)!
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hey i think i might be starting to question my sexualty...every time i hang around my good friends that i have no my whole life i just want to jump on them and start making out with them. Its a really big urge and i have no idea how to control it. I have always dreamed of being married (to a man!!) and having 3 kids!! i want to be a straight women but whenever i get with girls i get really nervous and just get butterflyies in my stomache....what should i do?
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Maybe you are bisexual. There is nothing wrong with that. Yes, you can still get married to a man. But with anyone, it takes a while to get to know them before you fall in love or anything. And if you really dont want to be bisexual or are bothered by being bisexual then just see more guys then girls.
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well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
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Poem. Girls LOVE poems. Make sure it comes from the heart, even if it doesnt rhyme.
I really hope I helped.
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is it bad that i am an independant person.. when ever i get a boyfriend i dotn like it when he spends any money on me because i dont like it when girls use guys to buy them shit. but anyways my best friend is makin a big deal about it and my boyfriend doesnt like the idea. he thinks i dont like him when i dont let him buy me anything.. can someone please either help me change my point of view on this?? or do you think it is a good or bad that i am independant?? thanks (link)
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Just let him buy you some things if he insists you know? It isnt going to hurt, and it doesnt mean you're using him. Buy him a little something in return if you feel bad or if you want to get him something to. I mean I'm not saying spend a lot of money on him. Also, you dont have to let him buy all the time. Just let him sometimes. Maybe its just his way of showing he cares, but at the same time let him know how much you appreciate it and how much you'd be just as happy without it.
hope i helped.
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Im 16 years old, i weigh 110 lbs, and im 5'6, im not fat or anything but i would love to tone my body before school starts, that is, i have ten days and i need some really good exercises, and how advice on how often i should do them!
thanks :)
signed,
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PILATES!! =)
or go to the gym and get a membership. really hope I helped.
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Is magic real? Can you really hypnotize people? I saw this thing on tv where this guy made this girl float..sounds totally not real but if you saw it you would probably believe it. But anyways, is it actually real? (link)
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Depends. You can brainwash and hypnotize people. Its not really magic its just how focused you make them.
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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
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It's not really a problem. I mean it sucks big time but it's up to you two if you want to make it work.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months and we've only seen eachother once or twice a week (if we were lucky). We were both in 9th grade when we started dating and we didnt go to the same schools so it was kind of hard to get rides seeing how we lived a bit of a distance away. Now he's away at summer camp for two months which also sucks. But Im going to his school next year anyways so thats good. =)
But yeah.. If you want to make it work with her, make sure you see her as much as you can, and you can talk to her on the phone and AIM too and what not. I hope it works out =)
Good Luck.
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hey i just got my upper ear (cartilege ?) periced a few days ago. the question i had is its still hurting and its very swollen is this normail?? if so how long will it last. i have the bactin spray and its not infected or anything its just healing i guess. is there anything i can do to make the swelling go down and to ease the pain??? thanks (link)
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I heard it's normal to hurt a few days after but I dont know much about it. (although I want to get the same done to my ear).. but getting your cartildge pierced I heard is much more sensetive then getting your earlobes pierced.
Since its not infected, I'm sure its normal. All you can really do is use the spray or some rubbing alcohol, make sure you clean the earring daily and if it gets infected make sure you tell someone. (parent, doctor, etc.)
Good Luck.
hope I helped =)
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i have a big problem... i sweat A LOT!!! well, not an exceptional amount its just whenever im doing sports or like at a school dance where its really hot and stuff i sweat like on my back A LOT and then you can see it through my shirt which is really embarrasing.. and im jw wut i shuld do!! i mean i dont want a guy to ask me to dance and im sweating like so bad my shirt is all wet- thats just gross!!! (link)
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Usually if you sweat a lot it means you dont have a lot of fluids in your system. Just from now on if you want a soda try drinking water instead for a few weeks, see if there's a change.
Also, gatorade has like.. electrolites which actually preserves the perspiration in your body and prevents dehydration. (causing you to also sweat less)
So in school just bring a water bottle around everyday or some gatorade.
Really hope I helped.
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i'm a 15 year old girl who is friends w/ this guy whose turning 16 in a week. i dont know him that well, but he invited me 2 his party. what should i get him? (i can spend like $30) (link)
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If he likes sports get him anything related to sports.
Or if he has a favorite TV show or something get him a DVD series, or a movie or gift certificates to his favorite music or clothes stores.
Anything like that.
Hope I helped.
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does any one know the code for kelly clackson's song because of you. but the code for myspace not xanga or live journal!! thnx (link)
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www.hotcodez.com (probably the best sit)
www.musicvideocodes.com
www.musicfeet.com
www.urbinmx.com
Try some of those. Hope they help. =)!
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Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
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Talk to him. If he tried to kiss you he obviously is interested. DONT COME ON TO HIM RIGHT AWAY, you know? Just have a normal conversation with him and if you want you can bring in that time when you almost kissed when you both are alone or something because maybe he still does like you and he's wondering the same thing. Just be friendly and show him you can be a nice and caring person.
Also, I didnt get my first kiss til Freshman year so dont feel a rush to have a boyfriend. It feels great when its a person you care about a lot.
Good Luck.
gessyka
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does anyone know how to release a troubled soul? Recently i have been feeling like an outsider twith my friends. I feel like my friends have to be too serious around me and i feel like i cant relate to them and i feel like a total outsider. i feel like there is something worng with me.i can hardly ever laugh anymore. i think i'm going into a depression.maybe i'm gonna die soon so i can be released from my torubled soul. Plz help i dunno wut i'm gonna do but the thing is i'm very sane and wont kill myself. But i am tired of life. I am tired of everything and i dont know what is wrong with me. Plz help. (link)
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I know exactly what you mean. And I'm totally not suicidal. I've been through that phase before though where I've thought about it though. It's just something you have to deal with. I mean being a teenager growing up it's going to happen where you just get SICK of everytyhing. All the freaking drama.
Sometimes it feels like even one of your good friends, if they talk to you about they're life you just cant help but get annoyed right? That's why I stay home in my room all the time except for with hanging out with my boyfriend or something. (Because with him it feels like everything makes sense.) and its okay to hang out with him but on my part, it isnt helping to shut myself off from everyone else just because Im annoyed by them you know? Because it will pass.
Even if you have to trail off and make new friends. I mean DONT FORGET ABOUT YOUR OTHERS, but still.. some group who is safe and fun and random and who you can relate to and is just drama-free for the most part.
I dont know it really also depends what kind of person you are and your friends are. I dont know what a normal conversation for you and your friends would be, but I really hope I helped.
Although things seem like too much and sometimes its just get hard to get out of bed, just remember everybody goes through this.
But.. if you honestly think you may be depressed. You can talk to your parents about this. Dont feel embarassed. Believe it or not its completely normal and it doesnt mean you have problems... it just means your feelings are bulding up and you dont exactly know how to deal with them.
Also, try talking to your friends. If they care about you they'll listen. Just tell them exactly what you said in the question. They'll understand and they could probably give you much better advice.
Good Luck
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I have looked around a bit myself for the following question, and I will only take serious answers.
I would like to ask for links to text documents regarding revelation, and all the signs pointing to the return of Christ, and the end of the world, so to speak. I need info on the Anti-Christ. Some people believe he is already born. Some believed it was Hitler. Some believe G. W. Bush. I want opinions on this also.
For example When Israel becomes a state of its own, after that generation passes, Christ will return.
This is not exact quote....Obviously. However I need info of this nature. This is one of those signs. I need as much text and documents as I can possibly get.
Second, I need as many opinions from every perspective as possible. I.E. Atheists (I don't want "God doesn't exist. Don't worry about it.") I want reasons and such as to why you don't think it exists. All Beliefs are wanted here.
From what I have gathered, the Bible states after all signs are completed, Christ will return, and people get into Heaven, and the likes of this nature. The anti-Christ will be born. Do his 7 year business. Things will fall apart. Hell will be on earth, and so on. Most of the signs are done, and the end is near. What do you all think about this? I want as detailed answers as I can possibly get. I myself think the end could very well be soon. If you want to talk with me on this outside of advicenators, you can do so. Ask for my aim, or check my column. Solaris.
I did not go into too much detail, and I apologise. I want all of you to think about it really hard before you answer. Also...try to make the answers organized, and spelled correctly. Its easier on the eyes.
Thank you.
Solaris A.K.A. DemonDrummer21
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Okay..
I personally dont know too much about this stuff.. but I'll try my best.
I've heard that there was a prediction there was going to be a Pope who had a very long reign (the one who just passed away).. and then after that Pope there was going to be one with a fairly short reign. (The current Pope and, seeing how he is old now I can see how that may be true).
And then, it is said that the anti-christ will follow the current Pope's reign.
I dont know though. I heard during that time there will be a war between heaven and hell. To see those who are truly faithful to God. Those from hell will try to get people to go to their side (or so i've heard), and those who endure whatever they need to to proove they're faith in God will be let into heaven. .. I dont know for sure though.
And me, I've always thought I believed in God. Always. Hasnt been a time I havent. I have to admit though, lately I've questioned it. Just the process of life being like one huge game. I just dont get it sometimes and its hard to grasp the concept and PURPOSE of life sometimes. I dont even know how to explain it. I do believe in God, although there are always going to be those times I question it. I'm not an athiest.. I'm just still trying to figure out what I believe exactly. I have morality and all that, but personally, I'm indecisive and I'll have my nights where I pray and other nights where I think its useless (which I know isnt right, but still just a feeling I cant shake off)
I think God exists... just hard to know if he listens all the time. But then again I hear everyone has a plan. If this is making any sense at all.
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Hey, I'm going to blockbuster soon with my mom and everytime I go I can never find anything I want to watch. I'm a girl, and I like chick flicks, what can I say. Romantic Comedies are usually my style, but I feel like I've watched them allll. Can anyone reccomend any good movies, they can be older or recent..doesn't matter. Thanks, and PLEASE DON'T SAY 'THE NOTEBOOK'. Haha. (link)
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OMG I KNOW A GOOD ONE.. THE NOTEBOO-- kidding.
=)
Umm heres another typical one but..
"A Walk To Remember"
also..
"Notting Hill"
"The Wedding Singer" (BEST MOVIE EVER)
"The Empire Records"
"Serendipity"
"Big" (not really romantic all the way but theres SOME in it.. its with Tom Hanks.. so hilarious)
ermm.. im drawing a minf blank. If I have any more I'll add them later =)
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HI i have excima and I kinda got rid of it except their are these white areas on the other sides of my elbows and knees and i was wondering if anyone can tell me how to get rid of it fast. This is a big emergency! Can you tell me from experience or if your really sure it will work! (link)
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Theres no full-on cure for excima but theres this medicine called Elidel that decreases it. I dont know if you've ever seen it but its the commercial with the lil small dude with glasses who flies around in a cape.. and why am I telling you this anyways. lol
Yeah but try that. Either that or go to a dermatologist and see if there are any other treatments.
AND DONT SCRATCH. I get that on my arms sometimes. Also, it could be from soap or lotion you use if any, so try switching it and see if that helps.
Really hope I helped.
Good Luck.
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theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices (link)
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Tell her honestly how you feel. Be sensetive about it, because you're a good person for not wanting to break her heart. Tell her you have a girlfriend, but also get to know her. Dont totally ignore her. I'm not saying flirt but it wouldnt hurt to become friends with her. Even if you both dont hang out together outside of school, talking to her IN school would make her feel a lot better. (even if she knows you dont like her the same way)
If anything it would hurt her more that you didnt take the initiative to try to get to know her.
Good Luck.
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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
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Wait until you KNOW you're in love. Honestly, wait. I'm in love with my boyfriend and we TALKED about sex and both came to the conclusion we're not ready for it. SO WAIT please. There are SO many consequences... and when you're older I'm sure you'd regret it. Regret not waiting for the right person.
And if you're not ready. Tell him. If he pressures you, that's totally illegal so tell someone and stay away from him. You need to tell him your honest feelings. This is your virginity we're talking about here. Once it'a taken you cannot get it back.. ever.
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