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I love helping others. I may be young & to be honest I have NOT experienced everything there is to experience, but nonetheless I am a good listener. I am creative & intelligent, so I can hopefully give you some helpful advice. =]
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you know how you can make homemade face masks? well whats a kind you can make for dry skin and/or acne?
thanks
Dry Skin - Banana Supreme Facial Mask
The Ingredients
2 medium bananas
* honey optional
The Instructions
Mash bananas with a fork...dont over mash or it will be too runny. Add honey* if desired. Smooth over skin, let sit for 10 minutes, rinse off with cool water.
okay stright to the point! im 14/f
my brother has done some pretty bad things to me! he hasnt all the way raped me! but done enough to bother me and it depress me! i also have a bad home life with like my dad.. i've talk to a close teacher about it. he got me to talk to the conslor..which made me talk to the school social worker! i hated tlaking to her! i told my teacher who i was close with that i didnt want to ever talk to her again! he promised me he wouldnt make me do anything i didnt want to! well the other day i was updating him because he told me to when ever i needed to! i told him i rather not have him tell the conslor so i wouldnt have to talk to the socail woker! he sad he wouldnt! but he ended up tellin anyways!.. so then i had to sit in a room with the social worker again!! after he told i made me feel so bad.. ike i dont want to hate him! he was the only one i could trust! so after school i went up to him and said why did you tell! he said he had to! so i looked at him and walked away1 he didnt bother to say anything else!
and now im confused. now i dont know if i can trust him or if he even cares about this! please someone what do i do now???
i don't think you should be mad that your counsler told. he CARES about YOU, and he is doing what he thinks is best. you may not want him to tell the social worker & you may not want to talk to the social worker, but how else are you going to solver your problem at home? think of it this way...would you rather have your brother doing bad things to you, or would you rather have educated adults who care about you trying to help you? i don't mean to sound harsh, but i think you are lucky that these people are willing to help you, and i think you shold let them.
ok well last summer i didnt wear any bikinis because im fat and this summer i really want to wear one i want to be preety and look good in the summer and not worry about what people think of me in a bathing suit. i do 250 crunches a day, run a mile, lift 6.6 pound weights on each arm. will i lose about 50 pounds by the summer if i do this everyday. also i have been eating healthier and slower. if you have any other workout ideas for my arms, legs, butt and stomach. mostly my butt because i dont know what to do for that? and do walking up stairs help? and if yes what do they help, butt or thighs?
i am not sure if you will loose 50 pounds because i don't know anything about your height or weight to begin with. however, i can tell you that unless you are extremely overweight, it is probably not safe to try & loose 50 pounds. if you are exercising that much that is a great way to loose weight, but you need to eat healthy as well. you should limit the sweets you eat, & try to have 3 meals a day, and healthy snacks like fruit, carrots, or things like low fat granola bars, 100 calorie packs (they are healthy cookies that are really good!), and anything else that is not high in calories. i am not a doctor, so you may want to talk to a doctor, because i gaurantee you they can tell you exactly how to get to a healthy weight. i hope i helped and if you can make your question more specific, or if you have any other questions, i would love to help you out, so just let me know!
hey, so my boyfriend and i are getting together on valentines day and i told him i was planning it. im baking a cake, and i was planning on makein dinner. what are some good main course/side course meals that i could cook, anything creative to help the night? thanks!
i would go with pasta & a nice sauce. you could have salad and bread too.
or chicken is always good. you can have vegetables (brocclie, carrots, string beans, etc.) and rice.
I have a neighbor he is 16 and i am a girl who is 13 I really like him but there is an age differece now when your older it doesn't really matter how old you are but we hang out swim play bball football all that he came to all me softball games and everything the thing is he goes to a different skool than I do and there are really pretty girls there and everything and I don't know if he likes me or not he is nice has a great personality and can always make me laugh but the age difference keeps bothering me plus we are really good friends and if I tell him that I like him it mite screw up our frienship please help me!!!!!!!!!!
to tell you the truth, although that's not a big age difference, it is actually illegal. you are under the age of consent & he could be arrested for being with you. i would wait until YOU are 16 (or whatever the age of consent is where you live) and then date him, if you still like him. if not, at least stay friends, he sounds like a great guy!
edit: i am SO sorry, i may be wrong, it may be okay to date him, just not to have sex with him. i didn't mean to misinform you. also it maybe legal if he is less then 4 years apart from you even though you are under the age of consent. (if he was 17 then it would be illegal because you are underage & he is 4 years apart). so it is probably fine to date him...i wouldn't have sex with him though, even if it is legal because you are a little young & you wouldn't want to regret it later on). GOOD LUCK~ SORRY ABOUT MY BAD INFO ABOVE!
i am in 7th grade and i have a friend who i have known even before skool we were always the best of friends but then she moved to a different skool and well we have hip hop together with some other of myfriends and when i am there she never even says a word to me and it really hurts she has always been a good girl and now she is just so caught up in her looks and she she hangs out wit and boys and all my other friends think this to and i dono if i should be angr wit her and all that ir if i should just forget about it cause when i see her and she doesn't even reallt notices me it jind of hurts my feelings please help
i think that you should talk to her about it. if you would rather not do it to her face, talk to her online, send her an e-mail, or slip her a note at dance. you should tell her you miss hanging out with her, and ask her if there is a reason she hasn't seemed very interested in talking to you recently. tell her you know she has a new school & new friends, but that doesn't mean she can't have her old friends too. if this doesn't work, you need to know that sometimes friends just grow apart - it's sad, but at least you had a great friendship you will always treasure. but i would try talking to her first, before deciding the friendship is over. hope this helps!
can someone give me ideas for sns about the o.c. or adam brody?
rate 5s for anything
thank so much
OCutie 111 (or other numbers
Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox
i get mine waxed...it hurts for a tiny second then it's fine. it's better then tweezing because it only hurts for a second, unlike tweezing you need to pull out each individual hair, so it hurts over & over. anyways, have them waxed, then a few times a week you can pluck the ones that start to grow back to keep them clean. this works for me! hope i helped.
Do you know how early or late in age you can get dislexia?
and what are some signs that come with it becides words getting scrambled?
got this from this website:
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00224.html
Signs and symptoms
Dyslexia can be difficult to recognize before your child enters school, but some early clues may indicate a problem. If your young child begins talking late, adds new words slowly and has difficulty rhyming, he or she may be at increased risk of dyslexia.
Once your child is in school, signs and symptoms of dyslexia may become more apparent, including:
The inability to recognize words and letters on a printed page
A reading ability level well below the expected level for the age of your child
Children with dyslexia commonly have problems processing and understanding what they hear. They may have difficulty comprehending rapid instructions, following more than one command at a time or remembering the sequence of things. Reversals of letters (b for d) and a reversal of words (saw for was) are typical among children who have dyslexia. Reversals are common for children age 6 and younger who don't have dyslexia. But with dyslexia, the reversals persist.
Children with dyslexia may also try to read from right to left, may fail to see (and occasionally to hear) similarities and differences in letters and words, may not recognize the spacing that organizes letters into separate words, and may be unable to sound out the pronunciation of an unfamiliar word.
okay so i have really bad knees from playing sports and ive had 3 knee surgeries to date..( 2 on my right and 1 on my left) and i cannot seem to get rid of the scars... i hate these scars and they are so ugly any ideas on how to get rid of them?
mucho love
they make special creme you can by at the drugstore or supermarket for healing scars.
try one of these:
*Scar Solution Silicone Scar Sheets
by Neosporin
*Skin Care for Scars
by Mederma
*Scar Relief Gel
by Walgreens (or whatever drugstore/supermarkets name)
*Scar Zone Topical Scar Diminishing Cream with SPF 15
by Sudden Change
there are a ton more if you go to the store! hope i helped & good luck. oh yea i think a doctor once also told me not to expose your scars to the sun with out wearing suntan lotion, or they won't heal as quickly! good luck!
so i tried out for my first musical, actually my first anything, and i found out from some people that i was not a good singer at all. i think it was cause i was really nervous but i mostly think its just cause i dont sing good.well i always wnated to get a careerer in acting and theater like that. i just want advice/ your opinions about if i could still pursue my dream to be famous in theater even if i do sing horribly. because that same friend told me that i was amazing at acting. thanks!
i am an awful singer as well...but i have been acting for 6 years and believe me you don't need to know how to sing. obviously if you want to star in musicals having a good voice is necessary, but there are also plays. in my school we have one act plays every year - no singing, only acting, and i won the award for best actress out of 75 kids. so yes, you can be an actress/actor even if you can't sing...just do dramas, not musicals! good luck!
Is it underweight for a 5"2 13-year-old girl to be 87 lbs?
according to your BMI that is extremely underweight. it's not healthy at all. to get your BMI (body mass index) go to this site:
http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm
your BMI is 15.4 and normal weight is about 18.5 – 24.9
so 87 pounds is not only a little underweight, but VERY underweight & it may be dangerous. please talk to an adult & a doctor about this, you don't want to endanger your life! good luck!
they always say that your grades don't matter in 9th grade...is that true? i am very worried about an exam tomorrow...could it be the difference between harvard and virginia tech? lol
yes, all of your grades in high school matter...they all contribute to your GPA (grade point average). however, 1 exam is not going to make or break your chances of getting into the school of your choice! just work hard and you'll be fine!
My 15-year-old niece is having a birthday soonish and I'd like to get her a present. She likes reading so I figured a book would be good. What's a book that is of literary quality that a 15-year-old would like, but does not contain any sex or swear words (her mom wouldn't let her read it then)? And don't say the Princess Diaries series, I think she has all those already.
The Clique - by Lisi Harrison
All American Girl - by Meg Cabot
Anyone know some songs or quotes about death? And not inspirational quotes or lyrics, just about missing them and still wanting them here. Thanks
JOSH GROBAN - To Where You Are
PUFF DADDY & FAITH EVANS - I'll Be Missing You
does anyone have any ideas what to do tonite?! i had plans to hang out with the guy i like but of course those didnt work out. Now me and my friends want to do something but they dont know what so they depend on me to figure it out. the mall closes at 6 and the movies would be kinda boring and we want to be outta the house. any ideas?! I rate 5's!!! Thanks soo much!
go out to dinner (you should probably call ahead, it will be busy!) then maybe get ice cream. then u can go home & hang out together, or if you really don't want to go home, the movies might not be so bad, but deff. go out to dinner!
bored.. someone tell me what to do....
there is nothing to do...
:(
www.bored.com
i have this grandma SHE is a total neat freak and sometimes just plain wierd she will not let me watch pg13 movies even though im 15 so when my mom buys me one we have to keep it a secret. when im with her all day i juat cant wait to get away . i still love her though. and after christmas me my mo and her are going to tenneessee for 10 and when my mom drives she pretends there is a fack brake petal and pushes her foot down. now tell me how will i stand her for 10 days straight? i RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!!
well first off i don't think you should bother hiding your movies from your grandmother - you & your mother need to calmly explain to her that it's not her decision on what you watch, she is not your mother. so if anyone, your mom should decide that. tell her you lover her, but explain to her that sometimes you need her to calm down (tell her the foot brake thing bothers you). do this very calmy & be nice to her though, she is your grandmother & she won't be here forever so don't be mean!
Today my friend is having some people over..3 girls including her and 1 guy. We are all 15/16. Anyway, we were going to be drinking so we were all spending the night. Thing is, my parents know I like the guy and don't want him to spend the night. (my dad figured once I said he was "hanging out" for a while...he said "well, I just don't want him sleeping there") I'm not planning on staying sober late enough that i could call and say he doesn't have a ride. I really don't wanna get caught drinking either... it's pretty much the first time I do anything bad. all the other parents are ok with it...how do I break it to my dad gently and still be able to go? it's in 3 hours... I NEED YOU GUYS URGENTLY! please & thanks.
do you know anyone a little older who is responsible & can ocme & pick him up later? perhaps there is a junior or senior in your school you may be friendly with that will be sober can come & get him.
hi!!! i really like this guy, we used to be together her but i dont think it meant anything cause hes with alot of girls,i havent seen him in ages.. but now "MY BEST FRIEND" is going to be with him- she does now i like him and rubs it in my face, i dont want to tell her cause i know she wont care,one of the girls show him a picture of me on there phone... and he said "she hasnt changed at all" and i dont want him to see me because i AM fat i weigh 12 stone at age 13,so i want to lose weight before i see him ps hes really good lookin... Thanks X.x.x.xx...,
what is your question? you didn't really ask one!