i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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14/f
Ok so I have a crush on this guy. He goes to my church and I see him like twice a week. We are friends and he will talk to me alot. He asked if he could sit by me this last week and of course I said yeah. He is so cool and cute, haha. But yeah I really don't know what I should do. He goes to a private school and I know everyone there, its not very big. So I'm really confused. He walks with me sometimes and will talk to me alot. So what should I do? Here is another thing. I'm a quiet person, I mean I'm not waaay shy but I'm in that range. So the only times I talk to him is when he talks to me. I have never started it...maybe once. But I have to be with my friends and in a good mood and all hyper and stuff. So then I have the courage to talk to him. Weird, but yeah. How do I talk to him and is there anything else you can give me? Thanks so much! (link)
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14 i remember those days i feel your pain its really hard having the courage to speak to a boy you obviously really likes .all you need is confident and a postive attitude you can do it your lucky that he made the first move of even speaking to you so its much easier talk about school or church smile head up high keep telling yourself you can do it .try not lookin at his eyes look ove his head cause looking deeply in his eyes can be a little scary at first .good luck remember confidence goes a long way
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im 14/f.okay so last sunday i gave my bf a bj. and we were texting last night and my parents were pissing me off and i told him and he was calling them names because he knows how mean they are to me. well mom took my phone away and read all the texts and the one about me giving him a bj and shes soo pissed. so on our way home we stop at his house and he had already told his mom what was going on and she said i was no longer allowed at his house because his mom lets us go up to his room alone, and thats wen i gave him the bj.
we were leaving and i could tell he had been crying, and ive never seen him cry in the 3 years ive known him. well he reached out to hug me and mom said no and told me to go he was like please but she woudlnt let me give him a hug.
then she kept my phone so now i cant talk to him or see him till monday!! and its thanksgiving and idk wat to do.
ive been crying all day and mom yells at me if i cry because she says im not hurt in any way. i tried telling her it was my life but she says its not my life till im 18 and i cant make the decision to do stuff like that now.
i dont know what to do about all of this...i need to talk to him it cant wait till monday. but ma wont let me and shes pissing me offf.
i dont know what to say to her, or what to tell my bf on monday...
she said he can still come over here, but if hes here we have to sit in the living room and he can like only put his arm around me no kissing or nething.
what can i say to her?
or to him on monday?? idk if hes mad at me or what, he'll probably blame himself even though its not all his fault...
what do i do?? (link)
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im 17 years old i know it probably sounds like im lecturing you i might even sound like your mom right know i have to say that i agree with her your really young to be giving guys bj's you might think its nothing now but you will regret it later your mom is only acting like that b/c shes trying to protect her daughter its b/c she cares she doesnt want you to end up with something or pregnant at 14 .boys will be boys they will say anthing or put on an act to get what they want but always listen to your mom even though you disagree with her.doesnt matter how long you've knowned him trust noone besides your family your lucky that your mom is even going to let you see him at all after what you did try to understand your moms point of view if you had a daughter and you fount out she was doing that at that age how would you react.good luck be good.
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my ex and i had dated for over a year a few years ago and then we dated other people on and off until july. we started dating and we were both really happy but i starting noticing that he was becoming more distant and so i talked to him about it many times. so we're both in highschool, same grade..all that jazz.
so it was almost four months and we started getting really tense, so i feared the worse.
then a week before four months he says he cant decide if he's happier with or without me..
so i wait all day, i went into school late, skipped lunch because i was scared to cry infront of him and i had been crying all morning.
so i went the rest of the day without crying and finally at one i broke down in his arms and i felt bad. so we talked a little bit in person but we started texting and he still couldnt decide so at like eleven that night i broke up with him hoping he'd be happier without me.. not so much
its been almost two weeks, and its not getting any easier. he said that if i was the same i was in the summer then he would date me again (happy, go lucky, enjoyable me) but i dont know how to be like that anymore.. any advice helps. thanks soo muchh!
happy thanksgiving. (link)
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his a very confused young man that doesnt know what he wants and its not you so dont beat yourself about it.some people come in our lifes just to teach us a lesson maybe its time for him to go .i hope your not planning on stayin around playing that on and off game .its hard getting over people but the sooner the better protect yourself dont let him play those little games with you and change yourself for noone.good luck
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When me and my boyfriend are sitting down, we hold hands. Well i love holding hands with him, its just something he does that weirds me out! he like holds my hand and he puts our hands on his knee and slowly moves our hands towards his crotch! i dont know if he is purposley doing it or not! does anyone know what i am talking about??? or what his intentions are?? oh gosh.
Thank you verrryy much!! :D
p.s. any answers will help (link)
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if it bothers you definitely speak about it lack of communication will affect you guys ask him why and does he know his doing it and tell him you dont feel comfortable when he does that.
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How do I eat a girl out and have her enjoy it enough to orgasm? (link)
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play with the clittious in circular motion with your tongue suck on a sligthly im sure it will make her go crazy good luck.
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My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me! (link)
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your going through a really hard time in your life they say that hardest times only make you stronger. you sound like a caring and a positive person everything will be just fine .It was her choice im sure she has her own reason too but I believe that you can make it and move on you just have to allow yourself to move on let the past be the best its natural to miss someone that meant so much to you but just know that shes watching over you now and would want the best for you.now its in your hands to save yourself .i dont know if you believe in god or whats your religioun or whatever path you follow im a catholic i believe in praying god causes he always helps me through my toughest moments in life .keep your head up and good luck.
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i heard they think about it a lot, how much would that be? like a number range? (link)
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well ive heared that guys thinks about sex at least every 5 to 10 mins.
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f/15
Okay so I'm dating this guy, We've been dating for about 2 months. We go over each others houses at least 2 or 3 times a week and we always do something on weekends. We have a really nice relationship and I know pretty much everything about him. When we're over each others houses all we do is cuddle and sometimes I make him do kiddie stuffs with me :D But yeah, I really want to kiss him. Ha. I haven't kissed anyone before, obviously and neither has he. When we cuddle is the worst of all, because I never get enough courage to do so, and I know he's not going to make the first move. So, like how do I? What should I do?
Thankies :) (link)
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how cute:)
well all i can say is to be confident suprise him without him knowing hug him and kiss his upper lip softly then the bottom no teeth just suck on them slightly take one step at a time dont french kiss him just yet. dont rush to do anything else your not comfortable to do wish you the best of luck with your first kiss.
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I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo? (link)
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Ive been there sucks ..
My advice to you is to laugh at there jokes and make fun of yourself before they do act like they dont upset you walk around with your head up high.if there really starting to get to you dont give them the pleasure of seeing you mad laugh and walk away with your head up high. if that doesnt work have a serious talk with your mom and dad tell them what annoys you and how there affecting you goog luck.
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I have a bad problem with my temper- specifically towards my mom. She doesn't trust me because of some trouble I got into over a year ago. I've worked hard to stay squeaky clean since, but I understand why she could still have doubts.
Still, it drives me crazy. She asks me so many questions about my personal life that I get flustered and can't even think of the truth. When I ask her for my privacy, she gets angry. Eventually, we both end up very, very mad. We've tried talking it out but it hasn't worked- my dad tried helping and that failed too. I don't want to hate my mom, but at this point I get so annoyed with her endless questions and suspicions that I avoid all contact with her. What should I do? (link)
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well everybody experiences that cause i'm sure i did thats how parents are i dont want to lecture you but your going to realize that shes doing those things cause she cares.she wants to know if your going to make a mistake or if your in trouble so she can help you.i dont know how old you are but as you get older it should get better.as for now i would avoid any conversation with her till everybody cools off.always let her know everything is fine just say the word if you feel an arguement is coming leave or start doing something else to get your mind off of things cause yelling will not help only makes it worst and it makes you look guilty.best of luck
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Seventeen.Female//bestfriend is Nineteen.Male
okay so ive known my bestfriend since i was born. Like literally he's been around that long. Now he's only been my bestfriend for like 2 years but he's always been here for me. Well, him and his ex girlfriend broke up like a month and a half ago and ive been helping him through it, which has been going good for him and whatever. Well he's recently started seeing this one girl who he seems to really be into. well im extremely happy for him because he's no longer depressed and whatever. Well this is where it gets tricky. He flips out on his ex-girlfriend all the time cause he thinks shes going to find someone else, well he's finding someone else so its not fair for her. Another thing, me and him just recently began fighting a lot over the dumbest things in the world. Well now he is refusing to talk to me, and ignores me when he's at my house which is retardedd. Well this girl he's recently trying to get with, is a big time partier and a druggie, well he doesn't like that stuff in a relationship and i know she is for a fact. And i think if i tell him he wont believe me and he'll think im jealous and not wanna talk to me for even longer. Us not talking is killing me because he's the only person i can trust. And if he doesn't find out the truth about this girl, i know he's going to end up getting hurt and i wont sit around and watch him get hurt again. He's too good to get hurt and he's been hurt too much already. I don't know what to do =/ Should i tell him about this girl? I dont knoww, any input on any of this. Anything would be absolutely amazing. Thank youuu. (link)
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it seems to me that he cares more about the past then the future i think his trying to use the new girl just to get over his ex he probably know about how the new girl is but needs someone to care about him.as for you i would tell him anyways tell him you dont want him to get hurt and your just trying to help but i think he might come around his going through some hard times in his life he wants to feel love so remind him that he is .good luck
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The other day he got very upset with me over a message he saw in my inbox from an ex bf. We got in the biggest fight about it and I had never even seen the message. He looked at it before I could and blew up about it.
I do get messages from the ex every now and then but I don't even read them, I automatically delete them. He claims that he only got on to do something I asked him to do. But, thing is, I asked him to do said thing MONTHS ago so I know that is not the reason he signed on my account.
So right now, I am in idk land wondering what to do about this whole situation. If it helps anything, im 18, him 19. (link)
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his very insecure dont let it get to you couples always fight well he makes it clear that he doesnt trust you none and that could really affects you guys .let him calm down and explain things to him but other than that theres really nothing you can do his gonna have to get over it.
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my boyfriend and i had sex with a condom...but when we were done he cummed into the condom and then pulled out. the condom slipped off and it got stuck to me. when he pulled the condom off none of the sperm was in the condom...
could i become pregnant?...where could the sperm have gone? (link)
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honestly there could be a high possibility maybe it fell on the bed or something but you've got to be more careful if you dont want to get pregnant like before my boyfriend comes he always takes the condom off and cum.good luck
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I'm considering leaving a note or something for the dude I like. What are some ways to not have him suspect its you? I want to keep it going for a little while before I actually tell him.
16/f
Thanks (link)
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its easy if you guys go to the same school you can put poems in his locker .
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16/f
I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend about a week ago. We used a condom, and I'm pretty sure the condom had spermicide on it. He also pulled out before anything happened just to be safe. I am going on the pill for any future intercourse, but I just wanted to know if I had any legitimate reason to be worried. I don't believe I came in contact with any of his precum or anything. My period is due in a week - a week and a half. (link)
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wow, way to go ..
im confident that your not pregnant dont worry and if your period doesnt come on the right date your fine because having sex the first time can change your cycle good luck.
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I am a girl and I have guyish short hair and I cannot do anything to it because I don't really know what products to buy so if someone could explain me some hair things to do and what products to buy I would love you forever. (I really wanna make my hair into a mohawk kind of.) (link)
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use gel and barretts..
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So i'm a 17 year old girl. nothing special. but since july ish i've been having this feeling of being alone. i can't talk to my best friend about it because he's always like "i'm here for you" even though he goes to college and i'm still in high school, and he really doesn't understand what i mean. i mean alone, like, i feel like i don't belong anywhere. i'm single so i don't have a bf to talk to, my ex best friend and i are in a fight because we're not always on the same page, and she's so touchy about everything i say. i feel like all my friends are moving on with their lives, while i'm still stuck here not knowing what to do with myself. i want something new in life but i can't seem to find it. i haven't been to a doctor because i don't have one and i know i might have anxiety. my mom had depression so i don't know if that's rubbed off on me or not, but i keep getting this recurring feeling of being disconnected from the world. i've tried doing things to stay away from people, like read and go to the library during school, but nothing feels right anymore. am i mental or is there an explanation for this?? (link)
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everybody will go threw depression but its up to you to try to bring yourself up if you can spend more time with friends try to smile more.give yourself time if its still the same for the next two month see a doctor.try to talk to a female in your life that you feel like you can trust speaking about your problems in person can help you get it off your chest . trying to be alone all by yourself is only going to make it worst talk to people or people you've never spoken too you never know try new things make new friends.take pen and paper write all your best qualities down when ever you feeling alone or down read them out loud.you will get threw this wish you the best of luck.
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im 15 and basically i was at a party , and we were drinking .. a lot . i've never been so drunk in my entire life . there was this guy there , only a year older that i'd never met before and we were on the couch and out of no where , seriously , he starts making out with me (worst kisser btw, ugh) and then eventually we stopped but then he kept pulling my hand to his fuckin crotch and wouldn't stop so to shut him up i did what he wanted, and that eventually ended up with a blow job. and by morning EVERYONE at the party knew. so humiliating, and of course you have the rumours and shit.. i was just wondering how i can get rid of the embarassment? its been MONTHS now and i still feel like a hoe :(.. oh ima girl btw :P (link)
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immature kids with there little rumors ,all i can say is keep your head up and dont make the same mistake twice people are always going to talk so fuck them .it is embarassing but if you kearned form it and ignore all the stupid people its gona be over soon.good luck
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I am a 29yo single male who has never had a girlfriend in his life. It makes me sad to see everyone else with their gf, and then there's me. There are times when I am feeling so alone and depressed. I don't know what the point of living is anymore. Seems like there's nothing left in life to look foward to except for. (link)
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well,you need to try to meet new people if your shy well your gonna have to break that habit go out more dont be shy to talk to girls go to parties try to be physically fit if your not get a new hair cut try neww stuff.
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So my boyfriend want to take me on my first date on thursday, and wants me to choose what to do...
i have no idea lol
help me!!!
me 18, him 20
thanksss! (link)
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dinner and a movie can help you guys connect...
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