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Temper problems
I have a bad problem with my temper- specifically towards my mom. She doesn't trust me because of some trouble I got into over a year ago. I've worked hard to stay squeaky clean since, but I understand why she could still have doubts.
Still, it drives me crazy. She asks me so many questions about my personal life that I get flustered and can't even think of the truth. When I ask her for my privacy, she gets angry. Eventually, we both end up very, very mad. We've tried talking it out but it hasn't worked- my dad tried helping and that failed too. I don't want to hate my mom, but at this point I get so annoyed with her endless questions and suspicions that I avoid all contact with her. What should I do?
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well everybody experiences that cause i'm sure i did thats how parents are i dont want to lecture you but your going to realize that shes doing those things cause she cares.she wants to know if your going to make a mistake or if your in trouble so she can help you.i dont know how old you are but as you get older it should get better.as for now i would avoid any conversation with her till everybody cools off.always let her know everything is fine just say the word if you feel an arguement is coming leave or start doing something else to get your mind off of things cause yelling will not help only makes it worst and it makes you look guilty.best of luck
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You should give it some time. This can't be fixed in a day and I totally understand that's it's soooo very hard. But some parents don't understand that teenagers and kids both need privacy and that's just a part of life.
Don't avoid her but try your hardest to stay calm. I know what you mean when you try and make something better after you did something your parents didn't like. My parents still bring up stuff too.
But let her know how it makes you feel when she constantly bothers you about it. It's in the past and there's nothing you can do to make it go away so she's going to have to get past it.
:) i wish you good luck, kid.
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