hey my names christina from katy
and i love to help people ,, i will tell you things tht i would do if i was in that situation .. you dont have to take my advice and if you do , i hope i helped you out .. ♥christina
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How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?? what are the signs of him wanting a kiss? (link)
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well if he moves in close sits next to u and if he flirts and plays around alot =]
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So I have this friend, who I've known since 6th grade, well she got a bf 4 months ago and its a long distance relationship. Well she's always texting me sayin things like, " I think he's cheating on me" because of some stupid comments he left on myspace. Or she says, "what if he doesn't like me when he sees me in person?" I tell her he will cuz she's beautiful but she feels fat and ugly. So what do I say to her? Cuz it gets annoying after a while. Thanks anyways. (link)
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honey everyone is insecure
but friends always tell each other everything
just be honest and say something like
hey dont worry about it i think he will love you but dont make a big deal about it and i dont want you to get mad at me for saying this but i think its affecting our friendship cuz i dont feel like were as close as we were.. something like that youll think of somethink good luck ♥christina
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my friend ryan committed suicide about two weeks ago and i just can't get over it. just seeing him in that casket made me sick to my stomach and burst into tears. it's so wrong to see a 15 year old in a casket.. it's just wrong. everything reminds me of him cuz he was the coolest person in the world. plz tell me how to overcome this or help me to be at peace with his death. i miss him so much (link)
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first of all im very sorry for your loss.i myself know what its like to lose someone very important. all i can say sweety is it takes time
alot of it my grandfather was basically everything to me he died over 7 years ago and to this day i miss him soo much . but just think hes in a better place now and he wants you to be happy..pray for him every night .. it will get better i promise..=] hope i was help ♥christina
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ok so today i hungout with the guy i like
im not normally a shy person
but when i like you i totally am!
and of course thats how i was today.
i brought my friend with me cause i new it would be silence if it was me and him. we hung out at the mall
went to some stores
walked around and then went to the movies
and saw a movie. so im glad we did that so that way i didnt have to talk. but like everything was so awkward and i felt bad cause it must of been awkward for him as much at it was for me
and now im at home and i feel like the biggest idiot for not being myself and i seriously dont know what to do. i was being myslef with what i said but me being me is fun and outgoing and always talking but when im around the guy i like im like a totally different person and i HATE it!
anything i can do to like not make him think im this big loser. like i need to talk to him
cause he didnt respond back to my text and that hurts more too cause i feel like he doesnt want to talk to me agian..
ahh it sounds like im over reacting but seriously just help me.
(dont say anything mean eiether(: ) (link)
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honey dont worry we all go through that stage.
everyone has people they trust and they get hurt and then learn how much of themselves they can give.tell him the truth ,that you are shy and he will understand.. i mean you woulndt want to not be your self for ever then dive into a relationship and the guy thinks your acomplete diffrent person. and id he dosent like you for you than he dosent know what hes missing ;D
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i was with this guy once, bob and we did some stuff, and when he fingered me, it hurt, really bad. like i cried for an hour after. and i dont know if it's because i had a bad time then, but my almost boyfriend and me did stuff last night, he fingered me and it felt good, but nothing really happened besides it feeling good, nothing earth shattering like everyone always talks about .. i dont know if there's something wrong with me, or how to handle it. i feel like im gonna make him mad causenothing happens. (link)
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girl same thing happens all the time
its natural guys really dont want to hear that you didnt feel anything because it hurts their egos.
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I have this weird heart condition called P.O.T.S its where my blood of my body puddles in my ankles.
Also I cant drink caffineee.
I cant walk around for too long or I will faint.
My doctor said that it will last for 2 years or so. This year I missed like 3 months if you add it all up I bet. A lot of my friends dont understand whats when I dont feel good and I never feel like explaining it to people. I hate it when people feel bad for me, I feel so little. I just want something that I can say to my friends that would help them understand I dont feel good. Please please pleaseee help! (link)
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tell your friends its a serious problem and tell them how u feel about it thats what friends are for =]]
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so I have this great guy. I love him to death and he makes me feel SO special. and we argue about whos more special all the time. but the thing is... I really don't feel special.. he makes me feel that way but I still feel like he is so much better than me. how can he possibly like me??? like if he is staring at me I feel uncomfortable if I have like zits or something... and I just feel like he can do so much better than me, bu the makes me feel like im the person for him and that im incredible and I just dissagree, I don't think Im beautiful and I don't think im that wonderfull.... what should I do?? why do I feel this way [ hes the only guy ive ever felt this way with ] (link)
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a lot of girls find that one guy they feel that way because of. the reason you feel that way is because u like him soo much. let him tell you your beautiful cuz he means it and everyone is great in theyre own way ,, who knows maybe he feels the same way.. ♥christina
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So I have a boyfriend that I have been with for over 3 months.4 months on the 9th.And since about the first week or 2 of our relationship of dating, he's fingered me.Seems like everytime we get together, he wants to do that.No matter where we are.It's not that it's all that bad, But I don't want it all the time you know.Sometimes I just wanna hold him or kiss him or whatever.Or he even likes to you know, feel me up and whatever.It's not that I don't like it, it's just kind of over whelming you know?And yes I still am a virgin, But he's not.It's not that I don't want to, it's just I think it's too early in the relationship to consider losing it.And I don't think I'm ready quite yet.I know he wants it, But he's not forcing it or anything.Anyways, everytime I try something new with him, it seems like he expects it more if that makes sense.Recently he's been really wanting a BJ,But I've been hesistant and so far I've done it twice to him, But only because I'm returning the favor and satisfying him.I don't want to bore him you know?He's older so he's more experienced and what not , but I don't know.Sometimes I feel like I'm not up to his level anymore.Maybe I'm way over my head.I mean we don't fight.I tend to whine sometimes , But it's nothing serious.I'm just curious , should I worry or change something.I don't know if I doing anything wrong or whatever.Is it too soon to think I might be in love.I can't stop thinking about him, I always want to be with him or talk to him and always concerned to what he's doing and if he's okay.I just want him to be happy as well as myself.I always put people before myself.I really don't want to lose him though...any inputs? (link)
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sweety if it makes you uncomfortable tell
him .. a relationship without trust is not a relationship at all ..and you were friends before so it should be easy to talk to him even more.. if he doesnt respect that then he isnt worth it ..every girl deserves a guy who will treat her right..and its natural to want to be with him and talk to him becuse hes your bf. just remember in order to love someone you must love yourself first & in order to receive respect you must demand it good luck ♥christina
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there's this kid that i met over the summer. hes a friend of a friend's ex boyfriend. lol. anyway whenever we see each other he hugs me and tells me i look nice even if i look crappy. i want to get to know him better. the most we've ever talked was over myspace and the conversations are pretty much "hey whats up?" "nm you?" "nm just got back from work." "thats cool". im going to get his screen name tomarrow for aim but i dont know what i should say. i dont want to be to aggressive and play 20 questions.
---what are some good questions that are going to really tell me what kind of person he is? (link)
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the trick is there never really is questions
just talk to him as a friend and guys admire that
so he will talk to you as a friend and go from there
=]
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I have two younger brothers (10 and 14) and me (16) and today me and my mother were talking about how old we're all getting and how fast we're growing up and she said "well not fast enough" and i asked what she meant and she said, "as long as you guys are this young i cant leave your father" and she completely broke down and started crying and said "I cant take it any longer" and i said "just leave him now" but she refuses to do anything until we're all married and on our own, but i hate this because i havnt noticed until now how miserable she is, my dad keeps telling her she's worthless and treating her like crap and telling her we're bad children and its all her fault - she's a bad mother (when she's really not!!) And the thing is he's been treating her like this for about 6 years, (we call it "the daily burst out" everyday my dad has to use her as a verbal punchbag for atleast 1 hour before he can go out and pretend to be happy, its like his way of getting all the anger out so he can live a normal life... he had a pretty messed up childhood) I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. i cant mak myself grow up any quicker!! or my brothers.. and i feel bad telling my mom to leave him like this. and she wont anyways. WHAT DO I DO??? (link)
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well your mom is deffinatley going through a bad tim ei know becuz im kinda goin through thte same now.. your mom is doing it because she cares about you and dosent want you to be without a father and/or she needs to find a way to support yall.. make sure your mom knows how you feel and make sure she knows you love her ..
good luck ..
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How do i exactly play hard to get? But i still dont want him to think that i dont like him anymore. cause then he might think i lost total interest. :] Thanks (link)
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you have to flurt with him
ex: if he asks to hang out dont make it seem too obvious tht you want to hangout
say uhmm.. im busy i hv something planned but maybe we can hangout and do somthing friday or something like that ..
goodluck
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Okay there is this guy in my class and I really like him... as a friend and I would like him as a boyfriend and he likes me too but I don't really want to go out with him.
I know that could be confusing but please help
thnx (link)
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well this is complicated but try getting closer to him as friends and maybe you will like him more enough to want him as a bf.. if not then maybe you are better off as really good friends
goodluck christina
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OK, well, plain and simple-I've had the worse gas ever these last 3 days. I don't know why. They're those hot, smelly farts. I'm really afraid to go to school. I can't go out to get anything, so are there any suggestions to make this gas go away!?!?!
Hah thanks. (link)
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drink alot of water and eat healthier just not beans k? lol good luck!!
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I have a serious problem with talking to guys. I always get awkward and then we just don't say anything and I just sit there.
Theres not much I know I can talk about, like I normally gossip with my friends, but do guys gossip?
So yea what can I talk about? (link)
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ok i have this problem too ,,,
i have problems opening up to them but
just go up to them and talk about anything dont talk about somethin u know will weird them out but guys love girls who can talk about anything..
i had to learn the hard way .. when i was with a guy [david] i never found something to talk about and he broke up with me because 'we got distant'but honestly i couldnt ever hang out so i didnt exactly know how to open up to him ,and i know now that i should have talked more about anything and everything,, cuz trust is everything.. just make sur you can trust them..
goodluck
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So there is this guy named zack that really likes my best friend jordan but he is sorta a creep and she likes his step brother. My friends including Zack and Jordan and Jordan was sitting beside my friend Scott and Scott went to go to the washroom and Zack moved over to sit beside Jordan, Jordan was creeped out already because of the movie alone but then Zack put his hand on Jordans and she screamed. But she doesn't know what to do about it can you please help.
THNX (link)
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tell jordan to tell zach how she feels about him
and she dosent want anything more than that. i dotn think it will be a good idea for jordan to go out with his step brother cause it would cause problems but i am sure that she could find a guy better than that
good luck ,christina
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